We used to be active multiple times per day and now he wont touch me. Everything else is fine we still sleep together and talk all the time but as for the bedroom? He wont even do a playful smack in the kitchen anymore... I hope this isnt the beginning of the end...

Has anyone ever been in this situation, and then both realised they didn't want anyone else after fking around?

Or...please tell me your probably gut wrenching, self sabotaging experience.

The guys online I am just not attracted to....halp

I work in procurement, so vetting reliability and follow-through is second nature. I use AccioWork at work to audit vendor communications, and that mindset has spilled over into dating. I notice consistency, follow-through, and communication patterns early on to avoid red flags.

Friends say I'm overanalyzing and being too "business-like" about dating, urging me to relax. But I've been hurt before by unreliable partners, so this feels like self-protection.

Is it unreasonable to bring professional screening habits into early dating? Am I being too cautious, or is this just smart? Curious to hear from others who balance logic and romance in their 30s+