Hi there!
Do you love deep conversations that wander from philosophy to fandoms to what makes people tick? Do you light up at the thought of being both playful and purposeful in your relationship?
Then read on.
Before I get into the fun stuff, a few dealbreakers:
🚭 Smoking: I can’t stand the smell.
👶 Kids: I do not want them, and I had a vasectomy to ensure I won't have them.
🐾 Pets: I have a pitbull mix named Tony who I’m trying to help be less afraid of people.
🏋️ Fitness: I hit the gym 3–5 times a week. I’d like a partner who’s also active and values taking care of herself.
🚗 Distance: I don’t currently drive (though I’m working on it), so being reasonably local is ideal.
🔫 Guns: I’m a responsible gun owner, and that’s not changing.
My name's Chris. I’m currently unemployed, but I'm working on getting a game studio off the ground. I own my condo, cook most nights, (try to) lift regularly, fence on weekends, and spend a frankly ridiculous amount of time walking Tony (7+ miles a day, easy).
I’m looking for a long-term relationship. I want to find my one-and-done. Someone I can build blanket forts with, blast classical music in the kitchen with, and overall just live a great childfree life with.
So what does a long-term relationship look like to me? Like vines on a trellis - that is to say: growth, together, with one partner acting as the rock, but still growing in turn together. I’m happiest around someone who’s driven to improve herself, whether that’s physically, mentally or emotionally. I’m always chasing my next goal and I want to help you chase yours too.
If you’re the kind of woman who loves to cook (or perch on the counter in something cute while I do), enjoys exploring museums and aquariums, and finds comfort in old-fashioned affection blended with modern equality, we’ll probably get along wonderfully.
If this sounds like the kind of life and love you’ve been craving, send me a message. Tell me your favorite first date idea or the last museum you visited.
P.S. I'm kinky, as well, and would want to inject kink into the relationship we end up developing.