I made a lesbian acrylic canvas painting for you all! 🤍

Ah pearl, the raging gay birb mom. (Art by @discount-supervillian on Tumblr)

hello all. i’m ren (23f)……. so long story short my partner, a mutual friend, and i have been looking for more gaming friends. i figured what better way to make them then to try and reach out.
i created a very rough draft server. the only other members currently are my partner (25tf) and their best friend( 23tf).

we play many games including
rivals
fortnite
overwatch
warframe
the finals
DBD
helldivers
deadlock
ect.

if you are at all interested send me a pm and or just reply to this post.

here’s to making friendships ? <3

Hi! I'm a 26 year old Black woman from New York who's realized it's time to meet more people outside of work. I'm open to friendships first, but if something naturally grows into a relationship with another woman, I'm open to that too. I'm definitely not looking for hookups. I'm looking for people who actually want to build long term connections.

A little about me: I'm an introvert who loves deep conversations more than small talk. I can spend hours talking about psychology, movies, life, business ideas, random "what if" questions, or why people do the things they do. I love horror, romantic comedies, thrillers, action movies, filmmaking, screenwriting, acting, music, video games, boxing, motorcycles (I'm still learning about them), and honestly learning about almost anything. I also have a pretty dark sense of humor, so don't be surprised if I laugh at something that probably shouldn't be funny. Even if we don't have the same hobbies, I'd love to hear someone passionately talk about theirs. You never know what you'll end up loving.

My biggest dream is to build a creative life. I want to write films, act, create games, make music, start businesses, and hopefully leave something meaningful behind. I love ambitious people, but I also admire kindness, emotional intelligence, curiosity, and people who genuinely care about others. I'm the kind of person who gets excited talking about someone's dreams just as much as my own.

I'll be honest. I sometimes feel like an outsider, even within the LGBTQIA+ community. It seems like everyone already has their group, everyone looks amazing, and everyone knows where they belong. Meanwhile, I'm just over here trying to find my people. If you've ever felt that way too, maybe we'll understand each other.

A random fun fact about me is that I used to know the entire ASL alphabet, but I forgot most of it because I never had anyone to practice with. I'd really love to relearn sign language someday, so if that's something you're interested in too, that's definitely a bonus.

Age doesn't matter much to me as long as you're 18+, respectful, and emotionally mature. Whether you're looking for a new friend, someone to grab coffee with, explore the city, binge horror movies, check out museums, go for long walks, talk about life, or just send each other random memes at 2 a.m., I'd love to meet genuine people.

If any of this sounds like someone you'd get along with, send me a message. Tell me about yourself, what you're passionate about, what you're working toward, or even the most random fact you know. I'd much rather start with a real conversation than just "hey."

Here's to finding good people. 😊

I love lesbians

Need advice

Alright my parents are incredibly homophobic but I love them and couldn’t bare to lose them . I never want them to leave my life and they really are good .(except for the whole being homophobic…) Eventually I know they’ll get suspicious of the fact I am still single later in life and if I do begin dating someone and we live together they’ll be suspicious of that as well . I’m curious to know if anyone’s in the same boat as me . I know this is stupid but I’m just going to tell them we’re roommates for a while . I don’t know and don’t have any clue what to do as i am getting to the age where they’re like why have you not had a boyfriend yet ? I told them I’m focusing on my studies but what happens once I’m done?? I guess I’ll just saying I’m focused on my job 🤷🏻‍♀️

Not the most like, romantic love song, but it's very fun and fast. If anyone has any recommendations for songs like this one they would be greatly appreciated.

https://www.q-hall.com/

Link to the website. Looking at their description they are a queer owned business and Lesbian bar that includes women's sports located in Asheville NC. They are trying to open around August/September

Donation page:

Hey y’all, Hoping to make some more wlw friends in Winnipeg! Tough when we’re all cozy at home by 8pm. Preferably not a bar/club environment, any suggestions or upcoming events? I already go to pottery classes.. lol

WE DID IT LADS

Does anyone know how to get their hair like this?? I have the haircut but I suck at styling it because I have wavyish hair but it be going the opposite of what I want T_T

What are the lesbians and other sapphic women doing this weekend in Cherry Grove or other parts of Fire Island? I’m here with my pals and we are looking for fun stuff for us to do!

Hey all, just wanted to let you know I’ve been adding some more recent titles to the free lesbian tv and film website I created, if you want to check it out in its latest form. Please let me know if any entries it is missing as well and I’ll get onto it :)
https://shedesire.com

I came across a group for late in life lesbians and it said for 30+. I feel so old rn, I turn 30 this year and didn’t realize I was late into my life 😭 (I’m assuming they mean in general, not just coming out because I did that as a teen). I thought it was going to be for like 60+.

Supporting my home team in a country that isn't mine... RIP.

I do not stand for Fifa. At all. Fuck FIFA and everything they stand for.

I do stand for all the pints I have purchased for small businesses/bars though.

I love the sport. I love the game. Hate capitalism. I will not fall victim to capitalism. I will always find ways to enjoy the things I love despite the capitalist overlords.

Spain vs Argentina is gonna be INSANE though. Will probably give more small businesses more.. business (beers) though 😅 🍺🍺🍺🍺

Clearing the mod queue and I'm still losing brain cells for the greater good lmao. I opened this at 9:30pm and its now... 12:30. Its apparently extremely easy to get sucked into a time warp here. I have indeed reached the limit of my brainpower and I need to just try and clear some stuff out. If a comment was removed for seemingly "no reason" it's probably myself just trying to eradicate the backlog. Lots of the queue were from long removed threads. Reddit for some reason doesn't have a way to clear that, despite the post no longer existing. Very cool. 🙄

Moving forward, any comments that are reported will be able to be dealt with easier and hopefully quickly.

I'm also making my way through the ban appeals. After reviewing them individually, I've reduced some permanent bans to temporary bans where I felt that was the more proportionate outcome.

I've spent a lot of time asking myself one question: "Is this person trying to exclude trans lesbians, or are they expressing themselves badly and not understanding the impact?" Those aren't always the same thing. Not everyone who says something exclusionary or hurtful is acting in bad faith or deliberately trying to spread TERF rhetoric. Sometimes people word things poorly, misunderstand the purpose of an inclusive community, or genuinely don't realize how their comments come across.

My job isn't to punish people for making mistakes. It's to enforce the rules while being as fair and consistent as I can. That means some permanent bans have stayed permanent because there was a clear pattern of exclusionary rhetoric or bad faith participation, while others have been reduced because, after taking another look, I believed there was room for someone to learn from the situation and participate within the community rules going forward.

That being said, this isn't a free pass. Anyone whose ban has been reduced will be on a very short leash. Future exclusionary rhetoric, bad faith participation, or behaviour that makes trans members feel unwelcome will very likely result in a permanent ban without another appeal. I'm willing to give people the opportunity to learn from a mistake, but I'm not willing to compromise on keeping this community inclusive and welcoming for all lesbians, including trans lesbians.

And just to be crystal clear: actual TERF rhetoric still isn't welcome here. Giving someone a second chance because I believe they may have expressed themselves poorly is not the same as tolerating transphobia. Those are two very different things.

On that note, Goodnight you beautiful, raging lesbians <3