r/ForeverAloneDating Jul 04 '25

Rules Announcement Comment karma requirement has been increased

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As you may have noticed, we've had a sharp increase in bot activity the past few days. We've banned over 50 bots in the last couple of days alone. These bots are posting everywhere, not just here, and steal other users posts. Reddit eventually bans most of them, but not fast enough.

Therefore, we will be temporarily increasing the comment karma requirement to 100. We realise that people who create new accounts or struggle making karma will be affected by this, but this is important for the safety of the subreddit and it's users. We may lower this later or it may stay permanent.

We also appreciate those who submit reports as it helps us out a lot. If you spot any bots, or people trying to subtly advertise NSFW content, then be sure to report them, but this comment karma requirement increase should get rid of the majority of them.


r/ForeverAloneDating Apr 10 '25

Rules Announcement Chat is replacing DMs.

66 Upvotes

While the change doesn't officially take place until June, the change is already occurring, and has been since March. This means we had to change the comment automod leaves on every post. Now instead of linking to the DM system, which is being phased out, it will link to the author's profile. From there, simply hit "Start Chat" to send them a message. If the link doesn't work or you run into any problems, send us a report in modmail.

For more information: https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/34720093903764-Enhancing-Messaging-on-Reddit-A-simpler-faster-and-easier-way-to-communicate


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

F4M 21F [f4m]

19 Upvotes

Ready to date, but keeping it strictly genuine. I like art, style, and good design, and I'd love to find someone on that same wavelength for thoughtful conversations and cool moments.
Note: Serious connections only & under 27.
If that sounds like you, let’s skip the surface-level small talk and see if we click.


r/ForeverAloneDating 48m ago

F4A 27 [F4A] I am looking for my soulmate

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Hi everyone I am 27 Mexican Female looking for my true soulmate. Im looking for a warm compassionate loving person who is interested in making each other's lives better. I need you. I know you are out there. Please reach out to me. I have looked long and hard for you. I enjoy music, movies, and chit chatting on the phone


r/ForeverAloneDating 12h ago

F4M 26F from Europe (f4m) - Looking the real thing

50 Upvotes

Hey everyone. I’m a 26 years old woman looking for a genuine connection which could lead to a serious relationship. I’m struggling to find someone nearby and decided to try my luck here.

About myself

I’m from Europe and I’m okay with long distance if the goal will be to close the distance.

Personality: My personality type is INFP. I’m shy, reserved, caring, loyal, sensitive, open-minded and imaginative. I love chatting for many hours and sharing ideas. I’m not very sociable but I enjoy to go out and explore new places. I like to have some time alone since I’m an introverted. My negative characteristics are being anxious and prone to depression but I try my best to handle it.

Hobbies: I love going for walks, do my nails, hanging out with friends, watch movies, listening to music, traveling, candle making and collecting mugs and plushies. Regarding music taste, I listen almost everything especially R&B and 2000’s/2010’s pop. I love to learn about other cultures, my favourite trip ever was India last March.

Physical appearance: I’m the Mediterranean type. Dark long hair, naturally way but sometimes I like to keep it straight. Almond shaped, small and brown eyes. Tan skin. Slim. I have a nose ring. No tattoos. My height is 5’3 (161cm). I wear modest clothes.

Religion and spiritual beliefs: I was raised Catholic but I consider myself more spiritual than religious. I believe in God and I pray and like to practice meditation sometimes. I like to learn about other religions. My way to be closer to God is to spend time in nature or writing.

Career and education: I have a master’s degree in Marketing Management. Currently working as a Social Media Manager and looking for a full-time job. I have experience in customer service too. I speak Portuguese and English fluently. I’m learning French as my third language.

Other important things to know: I don’t eat red meat. I don’t drink alcohol. I don’t smoke or do any kind of drugs. I’m neurodivergent (dyscalculia and dyspraxia).

What I expect from you?

I’m looking for someone kind, consistent and loyal. I want a healthy, monogamous and loving relationship.
• You should be at least 5’7
• You must want something serious
• You should be hard-working and provide for our family
• No racism or violence
• Clear communication and real efforts


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

F4M 47 [F4M] #Michigan #USA I don't care how you get here, just get here if you can

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Hi there! I am 47, white, no kids, divorced, currently living in Michigan. I am 5'6, 170lbs, dyed brown shoulder length hair (originally blonde), green eyes. I get compliments on my eyes and smile mostly.

I have a lot of interests and hobbies: Bowling, the beach, camping, hiking, fishing, reading, museums, casinos, documentaries, history, travel, golf, disc golf, foodie, breweries, parks, card games, board games, not into playing video games but love watching others play and cheering them on!, pool, darts, music, concerts and festivals and watching sports (mostly NFL and college football) but also like watching baseball and basketball in person.

I'm looking with intention. I want to talk with someone with intention of moving off this app, to texting, calling, videos, and if it turns into more, with the expectation of me relocating. I'm looking for someone willing to put in that effort.

I apologize for my bluntness. I like to be open and honest.

I thought maybe I could just get my red flags and dealbreakers for some out of the way.

I have debilitating anxiety sometimes and I have a tendency to over think. Like, beat it to death then beat it some more type over thinking.

I am a social drinker and smoker. Sometimes for my anxiety and insomnia, I will smoke weed or take gummies.

I am not a size 2. While I am on a weight loss journey and have lost 55lbs since March, with still about 20 more, I will never be rail thin. Its just not how I'm built I also don't think I'm hideous either. Every lid has a pot, right?

Speaking of smiles: About 6 months after my divorce, I went downtown to have dinner and drinks with some friends. As I was walking back to my car alone (I know! I will never do this again!) I was assaulted by 3 guys. They beat me so bad I had broken ribs, broken clavicle, broken facial bones, broken jaw, fractured eye socket and burst ear drum. Other things too, that i don't want to go into. I have no visible scars from the assault, but many mental ones. I'm also, 4 years later, reminded daily of what happened because due to my burst ear drum, I lost most of my hearing in my right ear and they also couldn't save my top teeth (my bottom are fine) so I'm now forced to wear an upper denture. You can't tell by looking at or talking to me.

I wanted to give you my biggest red flags so you can make a more informed decision on whether to respond or not. I really hope they don't scare you away but wanted to be honest.

You: white, single, between the ages of 35 and 60. I'm an actual real person looking for real things and responses will not be given on one word dms or people that don't put in effort. Be emotionally available. I won't talk to a wall. Be serious. No games. Please don't waste my time. I like consistent chats and I like to be pursued. A man that is comfortable with himself to let his intentions be known.

I am very much looking forward to making a connection!


r/ForeverAloneDating 14h ago

F4M 28 [f4m] #Online - Searching for a genuine connection and more?

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Hii I'm searching for genuine chats with someone around my age (~26-33) and potentially more down the line if there's a vibe :) I'm from southeast asia, long black hair, brown eyes, people say I'm cute? Maybe it's for you to decide (open to sharing pics later on!!).

I'm an introvert but do quite well in social situations (fake extrovert?) and love connecting with people from around the world. I like art/painting, rock/indie music, writing, creating things, staying active, travelling, cooking. I have a background in psychology/neuroscience and have lived in many countries.

I'm naturally drawn to extroverts because I think it balances with my own nature - someone who is empathetic, witty, and kind (Introverts are more than welcome of course though haha), ambitious, creative in their own way, fit, open-minded.

((In the spirit of transparency, in the past I have been more drawn to wasians or white men (sorry, I guess I fit the stereotype..)). But feel free to text anyway if you think we could connect!

I don't mind texting initially but I would prefer calls/voicenotes down the line, as I think you can get to know someone more that way.

Thanks for reading and text me 'peanut' and your favourite song you're listening to rn just so I know you've read the whole thing. Please don't just say 'hi', make it a bit interesting ;) please only text if you can put some effort in, I’ll match your energy forsure.

I hope you have a wonderful day :)

- M


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 28 M4F looking for my sweetheart

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Hey I dont usually do this kind of thing... Im looking for a girl who is looking to make me theirs while also being treated like a princess... I would love to find someone who gets as attached as I do. I would love to find someone who wants someone to listen about the issues they are going through.

I promise Im very good at that. If you are not doing the best then I will listen and I will try my best to get you to smile or if the situation isnt right I will be the one person who is there for you through the hardest of times.

If youre trapped in a darkness like I am... please let me light your way. Its difficult going through life alone and Its just hard nowadays.

Ldr is fine but I want to find someone who actually wants to move through life with someone.


r/ForeverAloneDating 8h ago

F4M 25 [F4M] Colombia // Open to International Connections ✨

6 Upvotes

Hi 🌼

Nice to meet you!

A bit about me: I’d describe myself as someone who values depth, consistency, and emotional presence over quick sparks.

I’m not close off to meaningful connections that bring something more. Big fan of romanticism and stability in all life senses.

In my day-to-day, I spend time drawing, taking care of my health (home workouts, healthy diet), big fan of enjoining a really good cup of capuccino or hot chocolate on my daily routine. I appreciate people who have their own world, but are open to sharing it.

I’m looking to meet someone 29+ who is emotionally aware, communicates clearly, and knows what they want (or is at least honest about where they are). I’m open to long-distance that becomes a more in person relationship over time. I’d like getting to know someone from different parts of the world (except people located in the US or Canada - personal preference).

Looking forward to expand my horizons I’m also grounded to a more solid and stable concept of a real relationship. Not in a rush, but I do value intention. If you’re someone who can hold a conversation, is curious about life, and shows up consistently, we can start from there.

Another curiosity about me, I’m allergic to cat’s fur since a kid, if you have a puffy companion we might not be a good fit 🌻

Tell me something you’ve been genuinely enjoying lately if you think we might be a good match✨


r/ForeverAloneDating 21m ago

M4F 31 [M4F] Norway. Looking for you

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Hey!

I’m a 31 year old guy living in Oslo looking to my lifelong best friend and partner in crime in Norway or online around Europe because matching time zones is honestly underrated. Other places are okay too, just a bit less preferred. Long distance relationship is also okay, especially in Europe as I've went through it before and if the feelings are great, moving isn't a problem.

I'm on the middle between an introvert or an extrovert, but maybe just slightly leaning on the introvert side. I enjoy my hobbies of learning about history, aviation, being passionate about tech, getting into photography just now, hiking, gaming, fantasy, getting more into staying active and enjoying great food around the world.

You're right I didn't out traveling there on the list. I don't think it's a hobby really, but I love to travel and have a big bucket list to cross off🏝️🏔️

People and friends often describe me as a funny guy with impeccable dry humor, who's also attentive, is great with gifts (my love language), always positive and always lightening the mood.

I honestly miss deep and good conversations, so that's a trait I'm looking for, basically a best friend for life who I can talk about anything and who I can be the biggest support person for your growth. I'm a sucker for character development movies so personal growth for me and others is important and I'll always be moving mountains to help out.

If you're curious about me, reach out, I'm a great texter😉

And if you do reach out, one important question I have for you is what meal would you request me to cook for you?😉


r/ForeverAloneDating 32m ago

M4F 34 [M4F] # Los Angeles, California - You Might Be My Favorite Bad Decision

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"Hello There!" — General Kenobi

Are you here for attention, to pass the time, a distraction from life, or are you actually hoping to find your person?For me, I'm probably somewhere around 4 out of 5.

I'm naturally curious and ask a lot of questions, so if you enjoy talking about your interests, passions, random thoughts, or facts, I'm all ears.

I love conversations that flow naturally—easy, fun, and a little flirty. If that's your kind of vibe, we're already off to a good start.

While I can be a little reserved, once I'm comfortable I can talk for hours about life, random nonsense, weird hypotheticals, or whatever deep topic decides to show up at 2 AM. I've always imagined talking to someone late at night in a dark room, with nothing but the sound of our voices and laughter. We can go as far as the most unhinged stuff. Give me your best dark humor!

I'm an adventurer at heart. I love late-night drives, music blasting, the empty streets, city lights , and finding a lookout spot overlooking everything. Plus some urban exploring.

I go to the gym about 5x a week (3x weights, 2x cardio & core). I recently started hiking more; if you know any good hiking spots in the LA area, I'd love recommendations. I also walk my dog twice a day. Its his walks so I let the little guy lead the way while he checks his daily sniffmail.

I've been getting leaner and stronger. Ive seen the subtle improvements/changes. I didnt do this sooner but i started taking more before/ after pic. One thing ive realized that besides being healthy, fit, and strong, other reasons I work out is to see what my genes are capable.

Am I a nerd for being into video games, anime, manga, and light novels? I enjoy reading a good book. One niche hiche hobby I have is collecting specific trinkets and I have a metal detector. I havent found treasure yet but who knows its might be you. Im looking into magnetic fishing too :)

So that's me—chill, curious, sarcastic, and a sucker for banter. Come say Hi! Best case, we exchange a few messages and share a laugh. Worst case, we try to figure out what to have for breakfast.

PS: I get the feeling something is still missing, but at the risk of making this longer than it should be or "long-winded," I propose a challenge: How about you tell me what's something I should have added or expect to find but didnt. Let's see if you actually read this.

Oh...I remember now.

Character Build:

Height: ?'??

Ethnicity: ???-?????

Body Type : ???? - ????????

Hair Type: ????

Bonus:

Music-wise, I've had these on repeat lately:

•Djo — End Of Beginning

•Sombr — Back to Being Friends

•Vicente Fernández — Estos Celos

•C.C.R - Fortunate Son

•The Stranglers — Golden Brown (Slow + Reverb)

•Jaden ft. Kid Cudi — On My Own

•Lola Young — Messy

•Clean Bandit - Rather Be

•Gigi Perez - Sailor Song

•Future - Mask Off

•Dj Shadow - Six Days

•Ice Cube - You Know How We Do (best song to cruise)

•Leave Her Johnny - AC4 Black Flag Sea Shantie

•Rolling Stones - Paint It Black ( great workout song)

2nd Bonus

•Favorite color: Phthalo Green

•Favorite reptile: Jackson's Chameleon

•Favorite marine animal: Mantis Shrimp

•Favorite Beetle: Japanese Rhinoceros Beetle

Voicenote

https://voca.ro/14kF75iPyR4Z

https://voca.ro/1m5Ubi5CbuoR

Btw if you didnt know - Bungee Gum possesses the properties of both rubber and gum.


r/ForeverAloneDating 57m ago

M4F 25 [m4f] Canada/anywhere - looking for relationship

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Hey everyone!

I’m hoping to meet someone around my age who’s open to building something genuine. I think the best relationships start as friendships and grow naturally if the connection is there—ultimately I am looking for something real, not just casual chatting.

About me:

-Open-minded, grounded, a little nerdy (I can go from deep life talks to random trivia way too fast)

-Straightforward, with a “golden retriever” personality—loyal, a bit goofy, and I’ll hype you up for no reason

-Dark sense of humor, but I know when to turn it off

-Big on meaningful conversations (the kind that randomly happen at 2AM)

-My love languages are quality time, acts of service, and words of affirmation. If you’re into personality stuff: Capricorn + ISTJ.

-I’m into movies/shows, music (pop and edm), trying new food spots, and exploring new places—whether that’s a spontaneous drive or just finding a new café.

I appreciate thoughtful messages—tell me about you, what you’re looking for, and something you’re passionate about. Effort stands out.

If this resonates, send a message and let’s see where it goes.


r/ForeverAloneDating 8h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Turkey/Anywhere - Artsy Melancholic Soul and His Relationship CV

3 Upvotes

Here is my CV for this relationship position:

About me I’m 28, 185cm (6'1"), and I take pride in living a honest life. You’ll usually find me lifting heavy in the gym (deadlifts are my therapy) or working on my game development projects as a 2D/3D Generalist Artist. I’m a "do-it-yourself" guy: I cook, I repair, I restore, and I’m even my own barber. I have a signature style, you’ll rarely see me without my suspenders.

I’m a big fan of the Dark Souls series and its aesthetics. My world revolves around my 7-year-old cat, who I named after a Dark Souls boss. While I’m currently deep in the "grind" of my career, I’m looking for someone who can help me balance that pace and share in the downtime.

I’m a direct, honest, and loyal person, and I’m looking for the same. I’m not interested in casual flings or "situationships." I believe that real, long-lasting connections are built slowly and intentionally. I hold the firm belief that a person's relationship history matters for men and women equally. Because of this, I’m not looking for someone who treats intimacy as something casual; I prefer to let trust and intimacy grow naturally over time. If you are looking for someone to rush into things with, I’m probably not the one.

I’m looking for a partner who is calm, empathetic, and truly values presence. I’m someone who listens more than I talk, and I treat my partner as my absolute priority. I have my own circle of friends, but I’m looking for that special someone who wants to share their life with me as I share mine with them. I don’t believe in sarcasm or games; I believe in clear, open, and sincere communication.

A few practical things:

  • The Cat: He is my world, so you must be a cat lover (and allergy-free).
  • Communication: I value meaningful, consistent communication. I'm not a fan of short, delayed texts, I make time for those who make time for me.
  • Trust: I am loyal to a fault and I expect the same. I’m not comfortable with the "close male friend" dynamic in private settings.
  • Future: I’m building my career now, but I do plan to relocate to another country eventually but not right now.

r/ForeverAloneDating 8h ago

F4M 19 [F4M] LondonUK/The world Dating Doomsday, This december in the backrow of a dimly lit cinema near you

3 Upvotes

I'm cute, you're stable. I'm fun and depressed, you tolerate fun and are kind to saddos. I can dominate stupid activities like pub quizzes and karaoke, you can dominate the real world and things that matter. I can be brought to your parents and they will think wow how did he pull such a cutie but she's a bit weird, you can be brought to my parents and they will think hmmm he is old and ugly but will bring great blessings to our family. I'm good at wearing cool outfits, devouring new foods and swallowing exotic drinks while travelling, you are good at planning and booking and reading maps. I'm good at distractedly watching movies while writing poems or dressing up in funny clothes, you are good at paying attention and explaining the plot to me if I have missed it or which character is which.
Just a girl seeking a guy. Want real world dates not online, I'm trapped in hellhole London, I can be flown out to you for the most amazing date ever if you really want. Talk to me, tell me about yourself.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] #Pennsylvania / #Online - Looking for clingy partner!

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My name's Benjamin, I'm 26 years old, 5'10 with blue eyes and long hair that goes down to my mid back. Here are some photos of me.

I consider myself a guy who's pretty in touch with his feminine side. I'm a hopeless romantic at heart. I want to meet that one person I can dedicate myself to and live the rest of my life with. I feel strongly that your partner should also double as your best friend. I am also very clingy. If I'm being honest, I don't like the idea of intentional dating. I'd love nothing more than to actually become friends with someone first, and anything more later. Also, making posts like these is out of character for me, but I figure I'll get nowhere if I don't put myself out there.

Hmm what else... well, in general I'd say I am a pretty reserved person. I typically don't go out of my way to meet new people. But if I know you, then I'm a complete open book and will talk about just anything. I don't get uncomfortable by hanging out with someone and having there be long silence. I honestly appreciate when you can just exist in the same place as someone, maybe even doing your own thing but keeping each other company.

For my day job, I work as a church office assistant. (I'm not a religious person, it's just a job to me. At home, I spread my time between a couple different passion projects, with a focus on creating my own video game. I really love game development, I honestly find the culmination of so many different artforms fascinating. Seeing writing, art, music, programming all coming together into a single product is so cool and I absolutely adore it. I try to be a jack of all trades, but I mostly just do programming on my game. My dream and lifelong ambition is to release my game in a finished state, and open up a game studio some day.

Some media I’m into:
• Music Artists: Ginger Root, jomm, Casey Lee Williams, Caitlyn Myers/Nerissa Ravencroft, Caleb Hyles, Jonathan Young, Annapantsu, Amalee, Lollia, LilyPichu, DEMONDICE/Mori Calliope, Palmy Chiller, OR30, The Living Tombstone, CielA
• Cozy games (Stardew Valley, Minecraft, Toontown, Wizard101, anything Nintendo)
• Non-cozy games (Dead by Daylight, Overwatch, Sea of Thieves, Visual Novels)
• Shows: Black Mirror, Severance, Squid Game, Breaking Bad, Better Call Saul, Pluribus, Doctor Who, Re:Zero. I don't watch reality TV consistently but I'm always down to watch some lol.

I love baking, writing letters to friends, playing visual novels, watching anime, traveling... but I don't know if I can exactly call them hobbies. I'm someone that tends to pick up lots of interests only for them to fall off quickly. I don't think I've baked anything in like two years, but maybe some day I'll get back into it lol.

Anywho, if you feel like this post resonates with you then please feel free to shoot me a DM with a bit about yourself. Thanks!


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F M24 looking for female partner for online dating

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M24. Big fan of high-stakes stories like JJK, Cyberpunk, and Kagurabachi. On weekends, you will find me playing open-world PC games or driving off on a spontaneous day trip with zero plans. I am a great listener, have great energy, and love seeing where the night takes us. Looking for something casual first—but if we click, I am open to a long-term adventure. Tell me your favourite anime or your go-to road trip snack!


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] - New England, USA - Giving this another shot

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Hello!

I'm a 31 year old man from the United States. My hobbies include working on tech projects, writing fiction, playing video games, and most recently e-biking. Because I work freelance, I have a lot of free time to spend on these interests. I'm constantly looking for new experiences, new music, and new things in general to enjoy, so please do share your favorite music and games with me.

I'm looking to connect with a woman who knows what she wants and has good communication skills. I have a lot of free time on my hands, meaning I'll have plenty of time to spend chatting and getting to know you. I would love to spend it with someone who is open-minded, has a positive outlook on life and is looking for a meaningful relationship. It would be especially nice if you share similar interests and have a similarly free schedule.

It's worth mentioning that I have a physical disability and while it doesn't define me, it is a part of me. I'm looking for someone who is comfortable with this fact and willing to accept me for who I am. I believe that a strong connection and mutual understanding are much more important than any physical differences. I am open to dating others who are also disabled, but this is by no means a requirement.

I believe in being a safe space for my partner, someone they can trust and rely on. I'm a problem solver at heart and I would always rather discuss things than argue. I'm looking for someone who shares this mindset and is willing to communicate openly and honestly. Someone who is kind, understanding, and empathetic. I'm not the type of person who can leave a problem unfixed; I prefer to talk things out and find solutions rather than let things lie.

One of my favorite things is learning about new people. I love to try to see the world from other people's perspectives- So please do share yours with me.

Important side notes:

-Interested in anyone 25-35 or so, but this is flexible

-I am STRICTLY CHILDFREE.

-Strictly Monogamous. Nonreligious, but not bothered by it/supportive of those who are.

-I do not drink (ever) or do any hard drugs. I smoke weed maybe once a year if that. Nonjudgemental on drinking (within reason) but I am not interested in hard drug users.

-I only speak English, unfortunately!

If you're interested in learning more about me, please send me a message or chat. Let's see where this journey takes us.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 42 [M4F] Philly - Type 1 Diabetic looking for same

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This may seem kind of specific, but I think it would be nice if I were to find another type 1 diabetic to date. We could count carbs and treat lows together. We would already have something in common, we wouldn't have to worry about each other and just let them be.

Other than being diabetic, I'm a network engineer that needs an excuse to spend more time having fun. I like going to Ocean City and AC, but it would be nice if I had someone to go with. I don't play video games a whole lot anymore, but I am kind of obsessed with NES Zelda 1 randomizer. MAGA need not apply.

I'm white, 5' 8", 180lbs, but losing weight due to my excessive walking.

It would be nice if you were close to Philly, but I would consider traveling within a couple hours for the right person.


r/ForeverAloneDating 10h ago

F4A 20 [f4a] #uk #Europe - Looking for something real

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I’m sick of dating apps so I thought this may be worth a shot.

I’m only looking for someone in the UK ideally, but I’m open to the entirety of Europe. I’d describe myself as fairly introverted and I do tend to gravitate towards those who are similar but this isn’t a requirement at all. I’m also looking for a serious relationship.

Appearance wise I’m 5’6, I have light brown hair, blue eyes and I’m an average weight. My interests include video games, reading, tv shows, travelling, walking in nature and history.

I do not have any preferences looks wise. I just want someone who can communicate well, has similar interests, is respectful. Just someone who generally has a personality I feel matches with mine well. I do end up having a preference for the nerdier types of people but it’s not a necessity.

I’m not sure what else to say here I am not great at intros.


r/ForeverAloneDating 10h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] UK, Germany, Europe - Looking for a romantic connection to swap songs and playlists with

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Hii! 25M from the UK here, I thought I'd try my luck here and see if I can find anyone who might be looking for the same kinda thing!

Just to fill in a few of the blanks about myself quickly: I work as a software engineer, my biggest hobbies are music (mostly playing guitar, and please feel free to spam me with playlists/songs you like!), I do quite enjoy nice walks out in the countryside, late night drives, and a little gaming if I get the time. I've also been told I'm fairly laid back, and kinda nerdy with an easy sense of humour. Physically I'm 6 foot tall, with blonde hair and blue eyes, I'm also happy to swap pictures to help get familiar with each other. I know this is quite brief but if there's anything else you do wanna know about me feel free to ask 🤗

I'm ideally looking for someone who is also looking for some sort of connection if that's not too much of a cliche haha, I would say I'm largely more attracted to personality than appearance. It would be nice if you were also from the UK, but I do have a potential move to Germany in the near future too - either way it would be nice to actually meet up sometime! :) I don't have any particular age in mind, but the closer to my age you are I'm sure it'll be easier to get along.

Thank you for reading, I'm happy to talk on any platform later but feel free to shoot me a message here whenever first!


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 27M Looking for something that grows slowly into forever.

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Hi!

I never imagined I'd be writing a post like this, but here I am, hoping that maybe the right person will come across it.

I'm a pediatrics resident from India. I spend most of my days and nights in the hospital taking care of children, which means my life can get very hectic. There are long duties, sleepless nights, emergency calls, and days when I don't even realize how quickly time has passed. If I ever reply late, it is almost never because I'm not interested. It's usually because a tiny patient needed me more at that moment. I hope to meet someone who can understand that part of my life and be patient with it. I may not always be available, but when I am, you'll have my full attention.

I'm an introvert, so I don't open up to people very quickly. I usually need time to feel comfortable, but once I do, I love having long conversations about almost anything. I enjoy anime, reading manga, listening to music, reading books whenever I can, and learning about different cultures and people's lives. I genuinely enjoy hearing someone's thoughts, dreams, and even the small, ordinary moments from their day.

I'm not here for casual dating or short-term excitement. I'm here because I'd like to find one person to build something meaningful with. Someone who can become my best friend before anything else. I believe the strongest relationships grow slowly, through trust, honesty, kindness, and choosing each other every day.

I'm not looking for perfection because none of us are perfect. I simply hope to meet someone who is kind, emotionally mature, communicates honestly, and believes that relationships are built with patience and effort. Someone who understands that life won't always be easy, but still wants to face it together.

One thing you should know about me is that I naturally care a lot about the people who are important to me. I'll probably remind you to eat on time, drink enough water, and take care of yourself. Ironically, I'll probably need someone to remind me to do the same because residency has a funny habit of making doctors forget they're human too. If you're willing to be my accountability buddy for meals, water, and sleep, you'll already have my appreciation.

I also have to admit that I'm a big fan of simple moments. I'd choose a quiet evening together, random conversations, comfortable silence, sharing music, watching anime, or just cuddling after a long day over anything fancy. Brownie points if you're a cuddle person too.

I don't expect us to fall in love overnight. I'd much rather become friends first, learn about each other, make each other laugh, support each other through difficult days, and let things grow naturally without rushing them.

If any part of this made you smile or made you think, "Maybe I'd like to know this person," then I'd genuinely love to hear from you.

Maybe this little Reddit post will end up becoming our favorite "How did you two meet?" story someday.


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4A 22 [M4A] Florida/ Online - I’m just another guy looking for love are you the one?

1 Upvotes

HIII I don't normally do this kind of thing but I'm not having any luck irl so why not try reddit anyways some basic info about me let's see 22 I live in Florida I'm a pretty nerdy guy tbh I love science and d&d and lotrs and video games and basically everything quote on quote nerdy I also have a lot of hobbies the the ones I do the most are reading, gaming, Drawing, movies and tv, playing d&d, voice acting, singing, writing, Cooking/baking bread, photography, and building Legos basically anything to fill my time my friend say that I'm a basically the father friend whatever that means lol 😅 anyways I'm sure that if you have made it this far you probably want to know what I'm looking for and honestly as long as you're around my age nice share at least a few of my interest your it I would prefer for us to be close but I'm okay with long distance as long as it doesn't stay long distance and if you made it to the end of this long post please dm I would love to hear from you thank you so much for reading this I hope you have a great day if I don't hear from you


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

M4F 26M from Europe - looking for a seriuos relationship

2 Upvotes

Hello everyone, I figured it couldn't hurt to try posting here. If you want to change something in your life, you have to take action, right?

A little about me: I’m a strong introvert, but not shy. I like spending time alone or with people close to me, I’m not really the party-going type.

My hobbies include music, especially gothic and doom metal, but I also enjoy other genres. Video games, particularly RPGs and strategy games. Books, especially fantasy. I like watching movies and TV shows. I also enjoy walking in nature, skiing and scuba diving, I’m an advanced diver. I’m also interested in science in the broad sense and history, I can read for hours about historical events that catch my interest.

As for my physical appearance, I'm 178 cm tall, I'm slim, I have short black hair and gray-green eyes.

I am an engineer with a college degree, and I work in my field. Even so, I'm still thinking about continuing my education, while I still can and want to.

I don't smoke, I stay away from any drugs, I drink very rarely, and always in small amounts, usually when someone has a birthday. I prefer to have a cup of coffee or tea, especially if it's strongly brewed.

I have a fairly liberal, somewhat left-leaning worldview, issues like human rights and environmental protection are important to me. I was raised as a catholic as a child, but now I’m an agnostic and don’t follow any religion. I speak English and Polish.

What I'm looking for is someone with whom I could build a stable relationship based on shared interests and at least somewhat similar worldviews. I believe that, contrary to some sayings, opposites don't actually attract, and that's why it's so hard for me to meet someone in real live.

I prefer to take things slowly at the beginning of a relationship, without rushing. I think it's best to get to know each other well first, for example by exchanging thoughts and talking about hobbies. Feel free to DM me, or not, depending on whether you're interested in talking to someone like me.


r/ForeverAloneDating 11h ago

M4F [25M] Ireland/Anywhere – Looking for someone to build a genuine connection with

5 Upvotes

Hi!

I’ve always found it difficult to meet people, so I thought I’d take a chance and post here.

I’m a quiet, introverted person who’s much more comfortable having meaningful one-on-one conversations than making small talk in big groups. I’m kind, thoughtful, and a good listener, and once I get to know someone I open up a lot.

A few things I enjoy:
Movies
Marvel and DC
Anime
Gaming
Going to cafes and restaurants
Football, comic books and learning about psychology

I’m 6’0”, slim, with brown hair and brown eyes.

What I’m really looking for is someone I’d genuinely enjoy talking to every day. I miss having that person you can message about how your day went, send random thoughts or funny things to, check in with, and slowly build a real connection over time. Whether it turns into a relationship or starts as a friendship that grows naturally, I’m happy to let things develop at a comfortable pace.
Distance isn’t a dealbreaker if we click. More than anything, I’m hoping to meet someone who’s kind, honest, and enjoys getting to know people on a deeper level.
If you think we’d get along, I’d love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself!