r/ForeverAloneDating Jul 04 '25

Rules Announcement Comment karma requirement has been increased

177 Upvotes

As you may have noticed, we've had a sharp increase in bot activity the past few days. We've banned over 50 bots in the last couple of days alone. These bots are posting everywhere, not just here, and steal other users posts. Reddit eventually bans most of them, but not fast enough.

Therefore, we will be temporarily increasing the comment karma requirement to 100. We realise that people who create new accounts or struggle making karma will be affected by this, but this is important for the safety of the subreddit and it's users. We may lower this later or it may stay permanent.

We also appreciate those who submit reports as it helps us out a lot. If you spot any bots, or people trying to subtly advertise NSFW content, then be sure to report them, but this comment karma requirement increase should get rid of the majority of them.


r/ForeverAloneDating Apr 10 '25

Rules Announcement Chat is replacing DMs.

66 Upvotes

While the change doesn't officially take place until June, the change is already occurring, and has been since March. This means we had to change the comment automod leaves on every post. Now instead of linking to the DM system, which is being phased out, it will link to the author's profile. From there, simply hit "Start Chat" to send them a message. If the link doesn't work or you run into any problems, send us a report in modmail.

For more information: https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/34720093903764-Enhancing-Messaging-on-Reddit-A-simpler-faster-and-easier-way-to-communicate


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

F4A 27 [F4A] I am looking for my soulmate

18 Upvotes

Hi everyone I am 27 Mexican Female looking for my true soulmate. Im looking for a warm compassionate loving person who is interested in making each other's lives better. I need you. I know you are out there. Please reach out to me. I have looked long and hard for you. I enjoy music, movies, and chit chatting on the phone


r/ForeverAloneDating 8h ago

F4M 21F [f4m]

25 Upvotes

Ready to date, but keeping it strictly genuine. I like art, style, and good design, and I'd love to find someone on that same wavelength for thoughtful conversations and cool moments.
Note: Serious connections only & under 27.
If that sounds like you, let’s skip the surface-level small talk and see if we click.


r/ForeverAloneDating 15h ago

F4M 26F from Europe (f4m) - Looking the real thing

50 Upvotes

Hey everyone. I’m a 26 years old woman looking for a genuine connection which could lead to a serious relationship. I’m struggling to find someone nearby and decided to try my luck here.

About myself

I’m from Europe and I’m okay with long distance if the goal will be to close the distance.

Personality: My personality type is INFP. I’m shy, reserved, caring, loyal, sensitive, open-minded and imaginative. I love chatting for many hours and sharing ideas. I’m not very sociable but I enjoy to go out and explore new places. I like to have some time alone since I’m an introverted. My negative characteristics are being anxious and prone to depression but I try my best to handle it.

Hobbies: I love going for walks, do my nails, hanging out with friends, watch movies, listening to music, traveling, candle making and collecting mugs and plushies. Regarding music taste, I listen almost everything especially R&B and 2000’s/2010’s pop. I love to learn about other cultures, my favourite trip ever was India last March.

Physical appearance: I’m the Mediterranean type. Dark long hair, naturally way but sometimes I like to keep it straight. Almond shaped, small and brown eyes. Tan skin. Slim. I have a nose ring. No tattoos. My height is 5’3 (161cm). I wear modest clothes.

Religion and spiritual beliefs: I was raised Catholic but I consider myself more spiritual than religious. I believe in God and I pray and like to practice meditation sometimes. I like to learn about other religions. My way to be closer to God is to spend time in nature or writing.

Career and education: I have a master’s degree in Marketing Management. Currently working as a Social Media Manager and looking for a full-time job. I have experience in customer service too. I speak Portuguese and English fluently. I’m learning French as my third language.

Other important things to know: I don’t eat red meat. I don’t drink alcohol. I don’t smoke or do any kind of drugs. I’m neurodivergent (dyscalculia and dyspraxia).

What I expect from you?

I’m looking for someone kind, consistent and loyal. I want a healthy, monogamous and loving relationship.
• You should be at least 5’7
• You must want something serious
• You should be hard-working and provide for our family
• No racism or violence
• Clear communication and real efforts


r/ForeverAloneDating 46m ago

M4F 22 (M4F) Europe. Just a guy trying to find my significant other

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Hi there. My name is Matthew, 22 year old guy from Slovakia (small country in the Middle of Europe). I am aboout 175 cm and bit chuby. I am just an introvert looking for new connections with people and if possible something deeper too. I currently study history at uni with goal of working in a museum or an archive in the future. I like to game and read or be with my pets (cats, wich I love deeply) to pass the time and relax. If any of what I wrote sounds interesting, please send me a dm! Have a nice rest of day to whoever is reading thi :3


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] Dublin Ireland - Introvert Looking For Someone Local :)

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Hey 😄 I'm 32 years old and from Dublin Ireland, 5'8 with brown hair and eyes, slightly chubby, my photos, I'm an Introvert and a bit of a homebody seeking a relationship, I don't do long distance relationships so please only contact me if you live in Ireland 😄

I'm looking for a woman who is emotionally mature, loves deep conversations, voice calls + notes, someone who values communication, honesty and being open with each other. I'm looking for a deep romantic connection with someone and someone to share life with 😄 I'd LOVE to find someone on the same page as me and to find 'my person' 😄

I'm a very affectionate and loving person once I get to know you and my favorite thing is cuddles so huge bonus if you enjoy them too!

As I said I'm an Introvert, I'm a fairly quiet person who enjoys the simple things in life. My interests and hobbies include working out, playing video games, watching YouTube, online shopping and the occasional trip out to have a nice walk along the coast 😄

For work I'm an admin, I work part time so I'm lucky to have lots of free time.

I'm obviously very open to dating and getting to know each other before deciding whether we want a relationship together 😄 How I imagine this can go is that we will chat online for some time and perhaps voice call/message too and if we vibe we can meet and go on a date in person 😄

As far as age I really don't mind as long as you emotionally mature and genuinely want to build something REAL together, I don't care about looks, weight or race... these things don't matter as much to me, what matters most is personality and character and whether we really vibe or not!

If you read this and think "This is also what I'm looking for and I have a similar personality" then you have to message me 😄 I have found it's quite difficult to find someone with a similar vibe so don't hesitate and message me. I cannot wait to build a connection with a really likeminded person ❤️ All the best!


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 23 [M4F] from Iraq looking for my soulmate

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I'm a quiet, loyal, and patient person who enjoys meaningful conversations more than small talk.

My hobbies include boxing, cycling, learning about history and technology, gaming, and spending a good time with my family. I enjoy improving myself and trying to become a better person every day.

I have completed a two years diploma to become a paramedic at the Iraqi ministry of health, then I decided that this isn't my thing and now I'm studying AI and Robotics engineering second year (and working at the same time)

I'm looking for someone who values honesty and understands me, someone who's willing to build a connection, take things slowly, and support each other through life's ups and downs.

Distance isn't a problem for me and age isn't a big concern as long as we're compatible..

My dm's are open so feel free to text me.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] Canada/Anywhere - Any tall women out there?

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Just a lonely dude out here looking for someone to spend my time with. I'll be honest I'm very inexperienced in the relationship department so you might have to bear with me as I figure it all out but I guess since we're all on reddit we have an excuse to take it especially slow (or maybe not!)

Just a little about me:

On the personality side of things, I'm a bit of a homebody but I really enjoy outings with people I'm familiar with. I'd like to think I'm very open-minded in that I can enjoy a variety of things that I don't normally do on my own if it's with the right people. I love music (I can play the guitar!) and I spend my free time playing video games or watching a horror movie.

As for my physical features, one thing you should know is that I am ethnically Indian. I'm about 5'11" and moderately chubby. I also wear glasses (usually).

I don't know what else to write but if you're down even for just a chat let me know. Looking forward to hearing from you :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] #Pennsylvania / #Online - Looking for clingy partner!

3 Upvotes

My name's Benjamin, I'm 26 years old, 5'10 with blue eyes and long hair that goes down to my mid back. Here are some photos of me.

I consider myself a guy who's pretty in touch with his feminine side. I'm a hopeless romantic at heart. I want to meet that one person I can dedicate myself to and live the rest of my life with. I feel strongly that your partner should also double as your best friend. I am also very clingy. If I'm being honest, I don't like the idea of intentional dating. I'd love nothing more than to actually become friends with someone first, and anything more later. Also, making posts like these is out of character for me, but I figure I'll get nowhere if I don't put myself out there.

Hmm what else... well, in general I'd say I am a pretty reserved person. I typically don't go out of my way to meet new people. But if I know you, then I'm a complete open book and will talk about just anything. I don't get uncomfortable by hanging out with someone and having there be long silence. I honestly appreciate when you can just exist in the same place as someone, maybe even doing your own thing but keeping each other company.

For my day job, I work as a church office assistant. (I'm not a religious person, it's just a job to me. At home, I spread my time between a couple different passion projects, with a focus on creating my own video game. I really love game development, I honestly find the culmination of so many different artforms fascinating. Seeing writing, art, music, programming all coming together into a single product is so cool and I absolutely adore it. I try to be a jack of all trades, but I mostly just do programming on my game. My dream and lifelong ambition is to release my game in a finished state, and open up a game studio some day.

Some media I’m into:
• Music Artists: Ginger Root, jomm, Casey Lee Williams, Caitlyn Myers/Nerissa Ravencroft, Caleb Hyles, Jonathan Young, Annapantsu, Amalee, Lollia, LilyPichu, DEMONDICE/Mori Calliope, Palmy Chiller, OR30, The Living Tombstone, CielA
• Cozy games (Stardew Valley, Minecraft, Toontown, Wizard101, anything Nintendo)
• Non-cozy games (Dead by Daylight, Overwatch, Sea of Thieves, Visual Novels)
• Shows: Black Mirror, Severance, Squid Game, Breaking Bad, Better Call Saul, Pluribus, Doctor Who, Re:Zero. I don't watch reality TV consistently but I'm always down to watch some lol.

I love baking, writing letters to friends, playing visual novels, watching anime, traveling... but I don't know if I can exactly call them hobbies. I'm someone that tends to pick up lots of interests only for them to fall off quickly. I don't think I've baked anything in like two years, but maybe some day I'll get back into it lol.

Anywho, if you feel like this post resonates with you then please feel free to shoot me a DM with a bit about yourself. Thanks!


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] #California - What should I name my Minecraft pet slime

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Hey I'm a 27 year old guy from SoCal and I'm trying to find a real connection that blossoms naturally and just something that feels real. I'm not really in a rush and honestly would like a slow burn at this point in my life right now. My personality type is grounded, calm, patient, and just a tiny bit chaotic haha. I love to laugh and have fun and I feel like I can be just a happy person to be around. I have been told more often than not that I am a great listener so if you're a yapper you can be my polar opposite but even if you're not a yapper l'd like to share some comfortable silences with you. I think one of the most important things to me is desire. I’m not talking obsession, just desire. I want to feel like we both want to get to know each other not just a one-way street.

Now onto some more about myself. Some of my interests include being out with my friends, going to the theaters especially to watch MCU movies haha, listening to music, playing video games, and going to the occasional rave every now and then.

I am very friend-oriented. My friends are a very important part in my life and honestly I'm most happiest when I'm with them so ideally l'd like to find someone who feels like a friend, a lover girl I can date if you will. I wanna be able to talk to them about anything and everything like a true friend but with dating intentions. That’s why I’m wanting a slow get to know you burn. Oh and lastly, I guess an extra tid-bit about me is that I love technology! l'm a very tech savvy person and it honestly feels so rewarding getting to fix things that aren't working like phones, printers, PCs and even just WiFi so you can be assured that you’ll never have to worry about any of those things not working hahaha. Yeah I think that’s about it, I hope to hear from you soon!


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4M 26 [M4M] #Texas - Hoping to meet a guy for long term

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Hello. I'm a guy looking for a guy to chat with and form a long-term and serious connection with. I know what I seek and want so I expect you to also do the same.

I'm originally from Mexico but living in the US. I am 26, so I'm figuring things out in adulthood, since life is a bit lonely on this life stage. However, I do have big dreams and goals. 

I'm currently working part-time in a job I truly enjoy and just finished two internships.

What I can say about myself is that I love reading, writing, listening to music, and walking. I also like taking care of myself physically and mentally (I hit the gym, skincare, eat well, and meditate). So, if all goes good, I AM LOOKING FOR long term and serious with a masculine guy (I'm a normal guy with softer facial and personality traits, not truly feminine or trans at all, if that matters) WHO HAS academic and professional ambitions and goals in life and a similar healthy lifestyle and mindset. I dont mind long distance as long as there is a meeting plan.

BE around my age. Not into older or younger. Just good vibes, so dont ask for my snap, we are adults and maturity is what I seek in someone.

Dont dm if you won't bother to continue a conversation, dont really know what you want, or ultimately ONLY WANT FUN. Not only hi's, try your best as I always do :)

Include a Taco emoji in your message and send me an intro about you if you truly read my posy. Hope to see you 😄


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] Norway. Looking for you

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Hey!

I’m a 31 year old guy living in Oslo looking to my lifelong best friend and partner in crime in Norway or online around Europe because matching time zones is honestly underrated. Other places are okay too, just a bit less preferred. Long distance relationship is also okay, especially in Europe as I've went through it before and if the feelings are great, moving isn't a problem.

I'm on the middle between an introvert or an extrovert, but maybe just slightly leaning on the introvert side. I enjoy my hobbies of learning about history, aviation, being passionate about tech, getting into photography just now, hiking, gaming, fantasy, getting more into staying active and enjoying great food around the world.

You're right I didn't out traveling there on the list. I don't think it's a hobby really, but I love to travel and have a big bucket list to cross off🏝️🏔️

People and friends often describe me as a funny guy with impeccable dry humor, who's also attentive, is great with gifts (my love language), always positive and always lightening the mood.

I honestly miss deep and good conversations, so that's a trait I'm looking for, basically a best friend for life who I can talk about anything and who I can be the biggest support person for your growth. I'm a sucker for character development movies so personal growth for me and others is important and I'll always be moving mountains to help out.

If you're curious about me, reach out, I'm a great texter😉

And if you do reach out, one important question I have for you is what meal would you request me to cook for you?😉


r/ForeverAloneDating 15m ago

M4F 20M4F looking for my new favorite person

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Hello everyone I'm JayBee and honestly I miss having someone to talk to, vent to, and joke around with. I miss loving someone and being loved by someone so I thought I'd make my way to Reddit and cook up this post for y'all :) Anyway about me I like to play video games, go to the gym, hang out with friends or just leave the house in general, I like to travel, I like cars, I like to cook (and eat), I like to listen to music, and I like to watch movies, YouTube, Cartoons, and anime! Now what I'm looking for is a girl who's 18 to 28, kind, knows how to joke around, likes to call, knows how to communicate, and doesn't ghost...too much to ask for??


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

M4F 28 M4F looking for my sweetheart

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Hey I dont usually do this kind of thing... Im looking for a girl who is looking to make me theirs while also being treated like a princess... I would love to find someone who gets as attached as I do. I would love to find someone who wants someone to listen about the issues they are going through.

I promise Im very good at that. If you are not doing the best then I will listen and I will try my best to get you to smile or if the situation isnt right I will be the one person who is there for you through the hardest of times.

If youre trapped in a darkness like I am... please let me light your way. Its difficult going through life alone and Its just hard nowadays.

Ldr is fine but I want to find someone who actually wants to move through life with someone.


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

F4M 47 [F4M] #Michigan #USA I don't care how you get here, just get here if you can

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Hi there! I am 47, white, no kids, divorced, currently living in Michigan. I am 5'6, 170lbs, dyed brown shoulder length hair (originally blonde), green eyes. I get compliments on my eyes and smile mostly.

I have a lot of interests and hobbies: Bowling, the beach, camping, hiking, fishing, reading, museums, casinos, documentaries, history, travel, golf, disc golf, foodie, breweries, parks, card games, board games, not into playing video games but love watching others play and cheering them on!, pool, darts, music, concerts and festivals and watching sports (mostly NFL and college football) but also like watching baseball and basketball in person.

I'm looking with intention. I want to talk with someone with intention of moving off this app, to texting, calling, videos, and if it turns into more, with the expectation of me relocating. I'm looking for someone willing to put in that effort.

I apologize for my bluntness. I like to be open and honest.

I thought maybe I could just get my red flags and dealbreakers for some out of the way.

I have debilitating anxiety sometimes and I have a tendency to over think. Like, beat it to death then beat it some more type over thinking.

I am a social drinker and smoker. Sometimes for my anxiety and insomnia, I will smoke weed or take gummies.

I am not a size 2. While I am on a weight loss journey and have lost 55lbs since March, with still about 20 more, I will never be rail thin. Its just not how I'm built I also don't think I'm hideous either. Every lid has a pot, right?

Speaking of smiles: About 6 months after my divorce, I went downtown to have dinner and drinks with some friends. As I was walking back to my car alone (I know! I will never do this again!) I was assaulted by 3 guys. They beat me so bad I had broken ribs, broken clavicle, broken facial bones, broken jaw, fractured eye socket and burst ear drum. Other things too, that i don't want to go into. I have no visible scars from the assault, but many mental ones. I'm also, 4 years later, reminded daily of what happened because due to my burst ear drum, I lost most of my hearing in my right ear and they also couldn't save my top teeth (my bottom are fine) so I'm now forced to wear an upper denture. You can't tell by looking at or talking to me.

I wanted to give you my biggest red flags so you can make a more informed decision on whether to respond or not. I really hope they don't scare you away but wanted to be honest.

You: white, single, between the ages of 35 and 60. I'm an actual real person looking for real things and responses will not be given on one word dms or people that don't put in effort. Be emotionally available. I won't talk to a wall. Be serious. No games. Please don't waste my time. I like consistent chats and I like to be pursued. A man that is comfortable with himself to let his intentions be known.

I am very much looking forward to making a connection!


r/ForeverAloneDating 18h ago

F4M 28 [f4m] #Online - Searching for a genuine connection and more?

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Hii I'm searching for genuine chats with someone around my age (~26-33) and potentially more down the line if there's a vibe :) I'm from southeast asia, long black hair, brown eyes, people say I'm cute? Maybe it's for you to decide (open to sharing pics later on!!).

I'm an introvert but do quite well in social situations (fake extrovert?) and love connecting with people from around the world. I like art/painting, rock/indie music, writing, creating things, staying active, travelling, cooking. I have a background in psychology/neuroscience and have lived in many countries.

I'm naturally drawn to extroverts because I think it balances with my own nature - someone who is empathetic, witty, and kind (Introverts are more than welcome of course though haha), ambitious, creative in their own way, fit, open-minded.

((In the spirit of transparency, in the past I have been more drawn to wasians or white men (sorry, I guess I fit the stereotype..)). But feel free to text anyway if you think we could connect!

I don't mind texting initially but I would prefer calls/voicenotes down the line, as I think you can get to know someone more that way.

Thanks for reading and text me 'peanut' and your favourite song you're listening to rn just so I know you've read the whole thing. Please don't just say 'hi', make it a bit interesting ;) please only text if you can put some effort in, I’ll match your energy forsure.

I hope you have a wonderful day :)

- M


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

F4M 26 [F4M] Philippines // Be my fave iMessage notification or let’s travel around PH beaches together!

2 Upvotes

26 Filipina with chinese roots.

About Me:
- Beach bum (as you can infer). Loves to surf and other adrenaline water activities!
- Fair skin (that’s mostly gotten tan lately since I travel around PH beaches a lot)
- Straight
- 5’1.5 (short and sweet lol)
- Petite hourglass build
- Loves to travel and all things beauty.
- Yapper! I love to talk in person and since I WFH, I’m chronically online. Calls, it depends if I’m comfortable already.
- Work is related to tech, so if you’re a techie guy that’s a plus
-I’m mostly awake during US hours since I work remotely for a company in Arizona, so night shift here in PH.
- I’ve been single and haven’t been on a serious date for a year now since I took my time to heal from my previous long distance relationship (which tbh I genuinely thought will turn into moving in together eventually).

About You:
- Tall (5’8 above please) ‘cause I wear heels a lot and I love the height difference
- 26 to 35 and ready for something serious. I’m talking about constant chatting, dating, long term relationship, engagement, and the rest.
- Please send a pic with your intro so I can envision who’s behind the screen.
- Provider mindset. If you believe in 50-50 during dating, I don’t think it will work in the long run.
- If you’re from another country, it’s fine. I’ve done LDR already. As long as you’re willing to travel here in PH eventually in a few months and your communication skills are solid, we can make it work.
- Good communicator both in person and over the phone. Fast replier is a plus. If you’re a bad texter, forget about this post.
- Normal BMI, plus if you go to the gym as well


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F M4F 21 (OH, USA) Looking for my gamer gf. I am tired of waiting

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Reformatting for more cleaner look. Your welcome from not ruining your eyeballs

Hi there, I live in Ohio, USA. I am currently looking for that one and only girl that would be there for me to love on and her to love me back. My hobbies do include: gaming, computer building, and some coding. I am very nerdy as you can tell. I am skinny, 6 foot, glasses, healthy lower back length brown hair. Big gamer that is into Arc Raiders, Minecraft, and several others (Ask and I will most likely have said game). Big anime nerd, love action animes and romance ones as well. Not religious at all. Pretty picky with the girls I will choose to be going further with.

Just looking for a girl that:

  • I can relate to and play games with.
  • No smoking/vaping, drugs, or drinking. I don't want that in my house or around my kids in the future.
  • No kids of your own from other relationships.
  • Wants kids in the future
  • Loyal
  • Kind
  • Is a republication like myself
  • Will accept I am not religious, idm if you are religious though
  • Has long hair (waist length or longer is very much preferred)
  • Modest in clothing

I respond on discord better so ask in messages please.


r/ForeverAloneDating 11h ago

F4M 25 [F4M] Colombia // Open to International Connections ✨

5 Upvotes

Hi 🌼

Nice to meet you!

A bit about me: I’d describe myself as someone who values depth, consistency, and emotional presence over quick sparks.

I’m not close off to meaningful connections that bring something more. Big fan of romanticism and stability in all life senses.

In my day-to-day, I spend time drawing, taking care of my health (home workouts, healthy diet), big fan of enjoining a really good cup of capuccino or hot chocolate on my daily routine. I appreciate people who have their own world, but are open to sharing it.

I’m looking to meet someone 29+ who is emotionally aware, communicates clearly, and knows what they want (or is at least honest about where they are). I’m open to long-distance that becomes a more in person relationship over time. I’d like getting to know someone from different parts of the world (except people located in the US or Canada - personal preference).

Looking forward to expand my horizons I’m also grounded to a more solid and stable concept of a real relationship. Not in a rush, but I do value intention. If you’re someone who can hold a conversation, is curious about life, and shows up consistently, we can start from there.

Another curiosity about me, I’m allergic to cat’s fur since a kid, if you have a puffy companion we might not be a good fit 🌻

Tell me something you’ve been genuinely enjoying lately if you think we might be a good match✨


r/ForeverAloneDating 11h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Turkey/Anywhere - Artsy Melancholic Soul and His Relationship CV

5 Upvotes

Here is my CV for this relationship position:

About me I’m 28, 185cm (6'1"), and I take pride in living a honest life. You’ll usually find me lifting heavy in the gym (deadlifts are my therapy) or working on my game development projects as a 2D/3D Generalist Artist. I’m a "do-it-yourself" guy: I cook, I repair, I restore, and I’m even my own barber. I have a signature style, you’ll rarely see me without my suspenders.

I’m a big fan of the Dark Souls series and its aesthetics. My world revolves around my 7-year-old cat, who I named after a Dark Souls boss. While I’m currently deep in the "grind" of my career, I’m looking for someone who can help me balance that pace and share in the downtime.

I’m a direct, honest, and loyal person, and I’m looking for the same. I’m not interested in casual flings or "situationships." I believe that real, long-lasting connections are built slowly and intentionally. I hold the firm belief that a person's relationship history matters for men and women equally. Because of this, I’m not looking for someone who treats intimacy as something casual; I prefer to let trust and intimacy grow naturally over time. If you are looking for someone to rush into things with, I’m probably not the one.

I’m looking for a partner who is calm, empathetic, and truly values presence. I’m someone who listens more than I talk, and I treat my partner as my absolute priority. I have my own circle of friends, but I’m looking for that special someone who wants to share their life with me as I share mine with them. I don’t believe in sarcasm or games; I believe in clear, open, and sincere communication.

A few practical things:

  • The Cat: He is my world, so you must be a cat lover (and allergy-free).
  • Communication: I value meaningful, consistent communication. I'm not a fan of short, delayed texts, I make time for those who make time for me.
  • Trust: I am loyal to a fault and I expect the same. I’m not comfortable with the "close male friend" dynamic in private settings.
  • Future: I’m building my career now, but I do plan to relocate to another country eventually but not right now.

r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 34 [M4F] # Los Angeles, California - You Might Be My Favorite Bad Decision

1 Upvotes

"Hello There!" — General Kenobi

Are you here for attention, to pass the time, a distraction from life, or are you actually hoping to find your person?For me, I'm probably somewhere around 4 out of 5.

I'm naturally curious and ask a lot of questions, so if you enjoy talking about your interests, passions, random thoughts, or facts, I'm all ears.

I love conversations that flow naturally—easy, fun, and a little flirty. If that's your kind of vibe, we're already off to a good start.

While I can be a little reserved, once I'm comfortable I can talk for hours about life, random nonsense, weird hypotheticals, or whatever deep topic decides to show up at 2 AM. I've always imagined talking to someone late at night in a dark room, with nothing but the sound of our voices and laughter. We can go as far as the most unhinged stuff. Give me your best dark humor!

I'm an adventurer at heart. I love late-night drives, music blasting, the empty streets, city lights , and finding a lookout spot overlooking everything. Plus some urban exploring.

I go to the gym about 5x a week (3x weights, 2x cardio & core). I recently started hiking more; if you know any good hiking spots in the LA area, I'd love recommendations. I also walk my dog twice a day. Its his walks so I let the little guy lead the way while he checks his daily sniffmail.

I've been getting leaner and stronger. Ive seen the subtle improvements/changes. I didnt do this sooner but i started taking more before/ after pic. One thing ive realized that besides being healthy, fit, and strong, other reasons I work out is to see what my genes are capable.

Am I a nerd for being into video games, anime, manga, and light novels? I enjoy reading a good book. One niche hiche hobby I have is collecting specific trinkets and I have a metal detector. I havent found treasure yet but who knows its might be you. Im looking into magnetic fishing too :)

So that's me—chill, curious, sarcastic, and a sucker for banter. Come say Hi! Best case, we exchange a few messages and share a laugh. Worst case, we try to figure out what to have for breakfast.

PS: I get the feeling something is still missing, but at the risk of making this longer than it should be or "long-winded," I propose a challenge: How about you tell me what's something I should have added or expect to find but didnt. Let's see if you actually read this.

Oh...I remember now.

Character Build:

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Bonus:

Music-wise, I've had these on repeat lately:

•Djo — End Of Beginning

•Sombr — Back to Being Friends

•Vicente Fernández — Estos Celos

•C.C.R - Fortunate Son

•The Stranglers — Golden Brown (Slow + Reverb)

•Jaden ft. Kid Cudi — On My Own

•Lola Young — Messy

•Clean Bandit - Rather Be

•Gigi Perez - Sailor Song

•Future - Mask Off

•Dj Shadow - Six Days

•Ice Cube - You Know How We Do (best song to cruise)

•Leave Her Johnny - AC4 Black Flag Sea Shantie

•Rolling Stones - Paint It Black ( great workout song)

2nd Bonus

•Favorite color: Phthalo Green

•Favorite reptile: Jackson's Chameleon

•Favorite marine animal: Mantis Shrimp

•Favorite Beetle: Japanese Rhinoceros Beetle

Voicenote

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Btw if you didnt know - Bungee Gum possesses the properties of both rubber and gum.


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F 25 [m4f] Canada/anywhere - looking for relationship

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

I’m hoping to meet someone around my age who’s open to building something genuine. I think the best relationships start as friendships and grow naturally if the connection is there—ultimately I am looking for something real, not just casual chatting.

About me:

-Open-minded, grounded, a little nerdy (I can go from deep life talks to random trivia way too fast)

-Straightforward, with a “golden retriever” personality—loyal, a bit goofy, and I’ll hype you up for no reason

-Dark sense of humor, but I know when to turn it off

-Big on meaningful conversations (the kind that randomly happen at 2AM)

-My love languages are quality time, acts of service, and words of affirmation. If you’re into personality stuff: Capricorn + ISTJ.

-I’m into movies/shows, music (pop and edm), trying new food spots, and exploring new places—whether that’s a spontaneous drive or just finding a new café.

I appreciate thoughtful messages—tell me about you, what you’re looking for, and something you’re passionate about. Effort stands out.

If this resonates, send a message and let’s see where it goes.


r/ForeverAloneDating 14h ago

F4A 20 [f4a] #uk #Europe - Looking for something real

6 Upvotes

I’m sick of dating apps so I thought this may be worth a shot.

I’m only looking for someone in the UK ideally, but I’m open to the entirety of Europe. I’d describe myself as fairly introverted and I do tend to gravitate towards those who are similar but this isn’t a requirement at all. I’m also looking for a serious relationship.

Appearance wise I’m 5’6, I have light brown hair, blue eyes and I’m an average weight. My interests include video games, reading, tv shows, travelling, walking in nature and history.

I do not have any preferences looks wise. I just want someone who can communicate well, has similar interests, is respectful. Just someone who generally has a personality I feel matches with mine well. I do end up having a preference for the nerdier types of people but it’s not a necessity.

I’m not sure what else to say here I am not great at intros.