r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

F4M 19 [F4M] LondonUK/The world Dating Doomsday, This december in the backrow of a dimly lit cinema near you

2 Upvotes

I'm cute, you're stable. I'm fun and depressed, you tolerate fun and are kind to saddos. I can dominate stupid activities like pub quizzes and karaoke, you can dominate the real world and things that matter. I can be brought to your parents and they will think wow how did he pull such a cutie but she's a bit weird, you can be brought to my parents and they will think hmmm he is old and ugly but will bring great blessings to our family. I'm good at wearing cool outfits, devouring new foods and swallowing exotic drinks while travelling, you are good at planning and booking and reading maps. I'm good at distractedly watching movies while writing poems or dressing up in funny clothes, you are good at paying attention and explaining the plot to me if I have missed it or which character is which.
Just a girl seeking a guy. Want real world dates not online, I'm trapped in hellhole London, I can be flown out to you for the most amazing date ever if you really want. Talk to me, tell me about yourself.


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

F4A 20 [f4a] #uk #Europe - Looking for something real

1 Upvotes

I’m sick of dating apps so I thought this may be worth a shot.

I’m only looking for someone in the UK ideally, but I’m open to the entirety of Europe. I’d describe myself as fairly introverted and I do tend to gravitate towards those who are similar but this isn’t a requirement at all. I’m also looking for a serious relationship.

Appearance wise I’m 5’6, I have light brown hair, blue eyes and I’m an average weight. My interests include video games, reading, tv shows, travelling, walking in nature and history.

I do not have any preferences looks wise. I just want someone who can communicate well, has similar interests, is respectful. Just someone who generally has a personality I feel matches with mine well. I do end up having a preference for the nerdier types of people but it’s not a necessity.

I’m not sure what else to say here I am not great at intros.


r/ForeverAloneDating 9h ago

F4M 28 [F4M] Finland – an asexual girlie looking for love (Europe only pls)

0 Upvotes

Alright, let's get through the serious stuff first since I know what I’m looking for is not conventional and not going to work for a lot of people. So in a nutshell my asexuality means that I'm never going to take part in anything sexual, I have zero interest towards anything spicy. Cuddles and kisses are fine and expected but anything more intimate is off the table. Simply put, I’m looking for a 100% sexless BUT still romantic relationship. So let's keep it SFW, okay? :)

Now, since lists are clear and effective...

Who I am

  • 28 years old, born and raised in Finland
  • looks wise pretty average; short, a bit chubby, black bob cut, some tattoos
  • atheist, progressive, leftie, woke, you get it
  • childfree/don’t want kids
  • sadly deadly allergic to pets :(
  • city girl who enjoys urban life, shopping, museums, musicals, theatre, into photography, writing, reading etc
  • personality wise I'm a bit shy at first but I've been described as fun and kind, I tend to be pretty sarcastic and my humour is typically Finnish: dark and dry

Who I’m looking for

  • someone who’s also asexual OR is otherwise fine going without
  • childfree/doesn’t want kids
  • located somewhere in Europe
  • around my age, let's say mid/late 20s to early 30s (no one under 25 please)

Turn offs/dealbreakers for me

  • racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, bigotry in general
  • drugs, smoking, excessive drinking

r/ForeverAloneDating 21h ago

F4M 26 [F4M] Phoenix, Arizona - nerdy, tatted, and looking to date

0 Upvotes

Hi there! I’m 26F in Phoenix, AZ. I am seeking someone in Arizona. I am looking for something serious !!

About me: 26F, office job, cat. Leftist, monogamist, childfree. I am plus-size (5’6”, 230 lbs) and white/asian (but look white). Currently living with my family (cannot host shenanigans). I enjoy baking, music and concerts, video games, crafting, and going new places.

Ideally looking for: someone local to Arizona. someone who is also leftist, monogamist, and childfree. Someone who is interested in building up to a relationship. I prefer thin/fit/average, and looking for someone who is 32 or younger!

Some more fun info to sound less intense: I love cozy gaming and grew up on farming sims. I would love a horror/thriller movie cuddle buddy. I work in science!

Feel free to send me a message or chat (:


r/ForeverAloneDating 12h ago

F4A 22 [F4A] #Ohio

4 Upvotes

Please read the entire thing before reaching out!

Major deal breakers; if you support the current president and/or anything he stands by, if you are a dry texter, if you're looking for easy sex, if you live any farther than a neighboring state, if you have/want kids, if you have a history of cheating, if you're nonchalant, if you rely on ChatGPT

I am a bit nervous to get back into the dating scene. If we click, please let us get to know each other before anything more!

Anyway, hi! I'm Eleanor, Elly / Elly Anne for short (very much preferred name, not my birth name!). I'm 22 years old, 5'4", about 175lbs. I'm a cat mom, artist, gamer and 420 friendly. I still live with my family thanks to the economy (and anxiety). But I like to think of myself as independent in my personal life. I have a car and a full time job. I'm open, honest and communicative. Around here, TMI means Tell Me Immediately. I just started therapy for my (many) anxieties. I've always had a preference for older ladies and gentlemen despite my healthy relationship with my parents. Hm. My moods can change very quickly and easily. I laugh loud, openly express my emotions, and have been told that I'm "too much" more than once. I'm quick to reply most of the time. But sometimes I read texts and either promise I'll respond later but I never do, or I think I respond but I didn't, thus leading to me feeling terrible about it, so double texts are welcome!

My interests are but not limited to; Outlast (1, 2 & Trials), Five Nights at Freddy's, Dying Light (1 & The Beast), Helluva Boss (I promise I'm not one of *those* fans), the paranormal, Jim Henson films, The Conjuring universe, Markiplier & Iron Lung movie ... that's all I can think of for now

Some fun facts; I met Markiplier once! I'm a hairy girl, I rarely ever shave. I'm an agnostic Satanist (I encourage you to do your own research but I'm happy to answer questions). I'm an avid listener of FNAF fansongs. I detest ghosting.

Speaking of ghosting! I will not stand for it. Unless I am let known that you will be gone, if 48 hours go by since your last message your ass will be blocked and I will move on. I do not believe in "tunnel vision" or being too busy to take not even a one minute break to say "hey, I'm busy and can't talk now, we'll talk later."

Ice breakers! What's your hear me out character? And no, it cannot be a conventionally attractive person, that is NOT a hear me out. Do you also listen to FNAF fansongs, and what's your favorite? What's the weirdest dream you've had? Please include the words pineapple juice in your greeting so I know you read all this :3


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

M4F Just Turned 27 and ready for next step

0 Upvotes

Hello everyone I hope you are having a wonderful life

I just turned 27 and man time flies really fast.....

I'm looking for someone who I can call mine, trust and can spend my entire life with and most importantly move to a colder country cuz this heat is killing me hahahaha

a bit about me

Hobbies:

I used to be very active in sports but for the past few years haven't really got time to play any sports. In my free time I watch some highlights from combat sports (Boxing, MMA etc), F1 or rewatch the same old movies for the 100th time (don't judge me).....I love going out in nature and going to the mountains almost every Sunday

Interests:

I love engineering and i spend a lot of time reading different reports and articles about fighter jets, cars etc (boring i know).... I'm also the type to run outside to see the aircraft flying over

Education:

I have a degree in Metallurgy and I'm actually a gold medalist (yeah I'm flexing lol)......

Some Random Facts:

I don't smoke or drink at all i live a clean life

I don't like going to parties etc as well i prefer spending time with my special person (hopefully it's you)

I like cooking as well

what else

man I'm having a really tough time writing this.....

hopefully you will find this Post interesting

that's all from me


r/ForeverAloneDating 19h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #online #USA scientist that likes trashy reality tv, running, and minecraft

1 Upvotes

*hey!*

[here’s what I look like](https://imgur.com/a/NGhblo0)

I’m in the midwest, nearing the end of my phd, using the sacred few hours of sleep I got to scroll reddit while binging on the trashiest reality TV

since moving here I’ve been aching to meet people that aren’t related to my professional or academic sphere, and rarely got the time to do much outside the lab, so, here I am

* my work is on machine learning and biophysics
* love running and cycling, pretty much any heavy cardio activity
* love playing soccer but suck at it
* love signing but suck at it
* love drawing but suck at it
* I only sing in spanish, because I got a thiccc accent and feel a tad self-conscious singing in english
* expert in early 00s shitty pop music
* best pixar movie is ratatouille and most overrated is up
* love dancing cumbia and bachata… and actually do not suck at it!
* have lived in 4 countries, 6 cities, 2 continents
* I’m trying to get into video games. help? I've been trying minecraft, world of warcraft, and no man's sky! they're really hard!
* once got jump scared by a possum while riding my bike
* knows two and a half languages
* love crafts (specially origami) and playing the accordion

*here are two truths and a lie*

* I was personally invited to a fancy rooftop party by a google hotshot, but bailed on it
* a mexican bill saved my life while I was stranded in serbia
* I was suspended from middle school for burning a whiteboard with body spray and a lighter

If you're interested in talking, send me a line about yourself or a picture!


r/ForeverAloneDating 10h ago

F4M 28 [f4m] #Online - Searching for a genuine connection and more?

19 Upvotes

Hii I'm searching for genuine chats with someone around my age (~26-33) and potentially more down the line if there's a vibe :) I'm from southeast asia, long black hair, brown eyes, people say I'm cute? Maybe it's for you to decide (open to sharing pics later on!!).

I'm an introvert but do quite well in social situations (fake extrovert?) and love connecting with people from around the world. I like art/painting, rock/indie music, writing, creating things, staying active, travelling, cooking. I have a background in psychology/neuroscience and have lived in many countries.

I'm naturally drawn to extroverts because I think it balances with my own nature - someone who is empathetic, witty, and kind (Introverts are more than welcome of course though haha), ambitious, creative in their own way, fit, open-minded.

((In the spirit of transparency, in the past I have been more drawn to wasians or white men (sorry, I guess I fit the stereotype..)). But feel free to text anyway if you think we could connect!

I don't mind texting initially but I would prefer calls/voicenotes down the line, as I think you can get to know someone more that way.

Thanks for reading and text me 'peanut' and your favourite song you're listening to rn just so I know you've read the whole thing. Please don't just say 'hi', make it a bit interesting ;) please only text if you can put some effort in, I’ll match your energy forsure.

I hope you have a wonderful day :)

- M


r/ForeverAloneDating 8h ago

F4M 26F from Europe (f4m) - Looking the real thing

37 Upvotes

Hey everyone. I’m a 26 years old woman looking for a genuine connection which could lead to a serious relationship. I’m struggling to find someone nearby and decided to try my luck here.

About myself

I’m from Europe and I’m okay with long distance if the goal will be to close the distance.

Personality: My personality type is INFP. I’m shy, reserved, caring, loyal, sensitive, open-minded and imaginative. I love chatting for many hours and sharing ideas. I’m not very sociable but I enjoy to go out and explore new places. I like to have some time alone since I’m an introverted. My negative characteristics are being anxious and prone to depression but I try my best to handle it.

Hobbies: I love going for walks, do my nails, hanging out with friends, watch movies, listening to music, traveling, candle making and collecting mugs and plushies. Regarding music taste, I listen almost everything especially R&B and 2000’s/2010’s pop. I love to learn about other cultures, my favourite trip ever was India last March.

Physical appearance: I’m the Mediterranean type. Dark long hair, naturally way but sometimes I like to keep it straight. Almond shaped, small and brown eyes. Tan skin. Slim. I have a nose ring. No tattoos. My height is 5’3 (161cm). I wear modest clothes.

Religion and spiritual beliefs: I was raised Catholic but I consider myself more spiritual than religious. I believe in God and I pray and like to practice meditation sometimes. I like to learn about other religions. My way to be closer to God is to spend time in nature or writing.

Career and education: I have a master’s degree in Marketing Management. Currently working as a Social Media Manager and looking for a full-time job. I have experience in customer service too. I speak Portuguese and English fluently. I’m learning French as my third language.

Other important things to know: I don’t eat red meat. I don’t drink alcohol. I don’t smoke or do any kind of drugs. I’m neurodivergent (dyscalculia and dyspraxia).

What I expect from you?

I’m looking for someone kind, consistent and loyal. I want a healthy, monogamous and loving relationship.
• You should be at least 5’7
• You must want something serious
• You should be hard-working and provide for our family
• No racism or violence
• Clear communication and real efforts


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 23 [M4F] #Online - Nerdy femboy in search of role reversal relationship <3

2 Upvotes

Hewwo! ♥

I'm hoping to find something meaningful. I'd love to one day be in a role reversal relationship with a cg/l dynamic. I'm pretty sensitive and absolutely love being babied and cared for! I see myself being a stay-at-home partner, taking care of things like cleaning, cooking, doing the dishes, buying groceries and making sure you have the easiest time after coming home from a long day at work! If possible, I'd also like doing some work from home like electronics repair, manufacturing useful products for people or anything else I might be interested in, but I'd primarily be focused on doing everything I can for you!

It can take me a while to warm up to someone new, but once I'm well-acquainted, I can be really affectionate- I'd text you every other hour for virtual hugs (I need a lot of them!) and I'd love spending time on voice calls, watching stuff together or playing co-op games like Portal or Human Fall Flat. And I can totally ramble your ears off talking about my interests, something I'm working on at the time and so on! Unfortunately, I'm very far away from the developed world, but I'd be fully open to relocating to you if you could help facilitate it. And while we are still apart, I can sync my sleep schedule with yours so we can spend the most time together ^^

As for my appearance, I'm 5'6", have fair skin and I'm pretty slim, with long wavy black hair and dark brown eyes! I haven't explored different styles all that much, but I do love wearing black, and also cold-shoulder tops!

I tend to age regress involuntarily when I'm in my comfort zone, but not to a very young age, I would say I'm more of a middle. I really like being childlike in my behavior and speech, and I'm scared of doing some grown-up things like driving or going to the doctor by myself. I love to snuggle in a blankie and cuddle with my favorite teddy bear at bedtime, it's hard for me to sleep without that. And I like making pillow forts for me to hide inside! I'm also a bit of a crybaby.

I'd love being with someone caring and protective. Someone who'd hold me and make me feel safe, speak to the waiter on my behalf at the restaurant, hold the door open for me, stuff along those lines! I'm also an atheist and would highly prefer my partner be the same or similar in that aspect. And I'd be most comfortable meeting people who are under 35 years old ^^

To add a bit more about myself, I spend most of my day in my room, working on random nerdy stuff, watching youtube or TV shows and movies, playing PC games, and sometimes I'm just sat there staring at a wall hehe. I also enjoy going out on walks, having fun with diy rc vehicles and hanging out with stray cats! I'm entirely self-educated, proper schools don't exist where I live. I've always been into learning about the things that pique my interest from youtube and other online platforms ever since I was little! I love fixing things and understanding what makes them tick, and working on random projects like custom smart home stuff with ESP32s, high voltage stuff like tesla coils, long-range radios, hardware hacking, etc! I value privacy and I'm strongly against mass surveillance, I try to avoid any online service that's known to disrespect user privacy and use open-source software whenever possible, like running Linux on my computers, de-googled Android on my phones, and self-hosting my own services like Immich, Home Assistant and cloud storage!

Hope this post did a good job at expressing who I am. I want to write soo much more, but I'd rather not take any more of your time. Here's a yummy cookie for making it to the end! 🍪


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

F4M 25 [F4M] Colombia // Open to International Connections ✨

3 Upvotes

Hi 🌼

Nice to meet you!

A bit about me: I’d describe myself as someone who values depth, consistency, and emotional presence over quick sparks.

I’m not close off to meaningful connections that bring something more. Big fan of romanticism and stability in all life senses.

In my day-to-day, I spend time drawing, taking care of my health (home workouts, healthy diet), big fan of enjoining a really good cup of capuccino or hot chocolate on my daily routine. I appreciate people who have their own world, but are open to sharing it.

I’m looking to meet someone 29+ who is emotionally aware, communicates clearly, and knows what they want (or is at least honest about where they are). I’m open to long-distance that becomes a more in person relationship over time. I’d like getting to know someone from different parts of the world (except people located in the US or Canada - personal preference).

Looking forward to expand my horizons I’m also grounded to a more solid and stable concept of a real relationship. Not in a rush, but I do value intention. If you’re someone who can hold a conversation, is curious about life, and shows up consistently, we can start from there.

Another curiosity about me, I’m allergic to cat’s fur since a kid, if you have a puffy companion we might not be a good fit 🌻

Tell me something you’ve been genuinely enjoying lately if you think we might be a good match✨


r/ForeverAloneDating 21h ago

F4M 50 [F4M]#USA Looking for a Life Partner

3 Upvotes

"I'm a 50-year-old woman from Hong Kong 5'7", about 120 lbs. Financially set, own my place, run my own show, and honestly? I'm pretty damn confident in my own skin. I'm about to retire, which means I can literally pack up and bounce anywhere at the drop of a hat.

Been single for over four years now, and let me tell you I've handled everything on my own in that time. Work stuff, life stuff, all of it. Every damn thing. And after a while, you start feeling like something's… off. Like, this ain't it. So I made a call I'm ready for something steady, something that lasts.

I live for travel and taking in the scenery along the way. I'm looking for a partner who's got my back someone independent, mature, loyal, and with their own life together. I still believe life's full of surprises, and I'm dying for some real, meaningful conversations that go deeper than small talk.

Age-wise, I'm thinking 48 to 70 so if you're in that ballpark and this resonates with you, hit me up. Let's see where this goes."


r/ForeverAloneDating 23h ago

F4M 28 [F4M] - Canada/US/Online. Still looking for my person

8 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

As the title says, I’m looking for my soulmate. I want to find my person who would want a family and a dog or two. Dating apps aren’t it.

I’m a 28 year old woman from Montreal, Canada. I’m 260 lbs but my height is 5’8. I have dark brown hair and blue eyes. I’ve been working on myself physically. I’ve been told that I’m attractive. I currently work in the aviation industry, bonus points if you do too!

*** I am willing to relocate within Canada or the US only. ***

What I’m looking for:

• I’d like someone who is between the age of 28 to 36, but willing to go younger by 2 years (26yo). I’d like someone my height or taller

• Someone who isn’t clingy. Getting bombarded with messages because I’m busy is a turn off…

• I’ve been working on losing weight and I’d like to be around someone who is taking care of themselves… doing their hair, shave or trim.

• You must love dogs and country music. I also like a uniform on a man and/or a beard, I know I’m weird haha. The uniform part is not requirement but it’s a nice touch

I won’t say too much about myself here so we can learn to know each other. Message me if you’re interested, but please introduce yourself and don’t just say hi :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F 25 M4F Germany/Europe I Are we about to prove the red thread of fate is real?

0 Upvotes

The red thread of fate is a pretty interesting concept and somewhere deep down I like to believe its real. Maybe with this post I'll be able to find definitive proof… in the form of you! With that being said I should introduce myself to not make it more cringe soooo my name is Oliver, I'm 25 years young (I'm not unc ok :c) born and raised in Berlin/Germany. If I had to describe myself I’d definitely say that I am very organized and love to have everything planned out, more on the introverted side and a fan of just a peaceful life. The day you will see me going to clubs you can be sure that it’s not me anymore xD I do have a bunch of hobbies and activities that I like to do such as cycling, going on hikes, workouts at home, watching documentaries or just interesting videos specifically about big construction sites (ik very specific), reading manga and playing on my PC. I’m definitely more of a homebody buuuut if you were to ask me if I want to travel I’d already be looking up flights and planning out our trip haha I think one of the best momories of mine are traveling with friends/solo so I cant imagine how nice it would be to travel with my soulmate :) And if trips to Asia & US are on your bucket list then we are a perfect travel match :D I do also love animals and I had most of my life cats around me. I think also worth to note that I don’t smoke, have never taken any kind of drugs and I rarely drink alcohol. My music taste is a bit niche, I do listen mostly to Hyperpop/Emotional Hip&Hop and Rap with some Lofi elements sprinkled inbetween (heylog/aftertheparty/sewerperson you name it). Since I know that some people are interested in personality types, mine is ISTJ and someone pointed out to me the other day that apparently ESFP/ESTP would be a great complementary pairing sooo maybe my fate is to get adopted by an extrovert 😂

Curious what I look like? All of what you read so far you can get in a package that is 166 cm (or 5'5 in freedom units) and 64 kg, with green eyes, dark blonde hair xD I do also wear glasses which people have said either make me look like a professor or harry potter, you get to decide on which one it will be ^^ As for clothes I do like to wear rather simple ones and would say that my style is more on casual side mixed in with a bit of business, partially because of work but ngl I do have to admit, I like those pants xD I’d be up to exchanging pictures down the line once we know each other a bit :)

So what am I looking for in you? Look wise I don’t care if you will be shorter or taller than me, whether or not you have the perfect BMI or some other silly crap that people constantly talk about. In my opinion its the imperfections that make one perfect ^^ Would be also very shallow of me to just ignore someone for something they can’t change. Our hobbies dont need to match completely as I think it would be fun to learn something new from each other and broaden our perspective. I definitely appreciate someone who is financially responsible, coming from a family that taught me on how to value money I would love to build a future with someone who thinks similarly. Besides, how else are we supposed to fund all of our trips :D One thing I should probably also mention I'm looking for a long term, monogamous relationship. The whole point of this post is to (hopefully) find my person, so if thats what you are looking for too, we have already something in common :)

I put in Germany/Europe in my title since it would definitely make things easier if you were from around this area (timezones and also convenience of short travel distance to see each other) but I’m not going to ignore someone from the other side of the world :v In case it would turn out to be LDR it should be clear for both of us that we should work on closing that distance. I mean yeah virtual hugs are nice but what about real ones? Cant remember the last time I had one 😭

If having someone cool headed and reliable no matter the situation, stability and a safe space at home, cozy evenings just vibing and enjoying each others presence sound like something that you could get behind on a regular basis then feel free to reach out with a short introduction and what made you write to me :) I’d love to hear from the real you so a genuine message means muuch more to me than something generated or copied, especially since it is more often then not pretty obvious lol Anyway wherever you are I wish you a great day and hopefully I’ll hear from you soon ^^


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

TF4M 41 [TF4M] #Cleveland Ohio A Wild Trans Girl Appears in Alaska

0 Upvotes

​Read to the end or I won't respond!

Hot take: You Can Be A True Fan Without Knowing Every Single Detail About The Person.

Traveling to alaska for nerd stuff

Being 41 years old, its hard to think there is anyone out there for me. I am a very niche want. I often make the joke that I could win the lottery 4 time in my lifetime before finding the man ill spend my life with. Odds of 1 and 7 septiliton, arn't those fun odds.

**So here it is:** The Wizard of Oz is the first American Isekai

I am a 41 year old transwoman panromatic with demisexual flair.

I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness.

I am looking for my last person to start and finish my life with. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, D&D, Larping, writing, art, magic the gathering and more

​LARPING is a huge part of my life, I would love to be able to share it with someone the rest of my life.

**Deal breakers:** smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed alot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are.

**Yellow flags** are not wanting pictures of us, distance (i prefer within 10 hours DRIVE!), and aversion to anything social media.

I am not a bad person, big girl, adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess

If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:

* Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit

* Age, Location and Pronouns

* Everyone has a thing they know the most about, Sum up in 1 sentence that thing.

Hope we chat later.​Read to the end or I won't respond!

**Hot take:** Hockey is just a Male Aquarium

Being 41 years old, its hard to think there is anyone out there for me. I am a very niche want. I often make the joke that I could win the lottery 4 time in my lifetime before finding the man ill spend my life with. Odds of 1 and 7 septiliton, arn't those fun odds.

**So here it is:**

I am a 41 year old transwoman panromatic with demisexual flair.

I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness.

I am looking for my last person to start and finish my life with. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, D&D, Larping, writing, art, magic the gathering and more

​LARPING is a huge part of my life, I would love to be able to share it with someone the rest of my life.

**Deal breakers:** smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed alot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are.

**Yellow flags** are not wanting pictures of us, distance (i prefer within 10 hours DRIVE!), and aversion to anything social media.

I am not a bad person, big girl, adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess

If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:

* Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit

* Age, Location and Pronouns

* What was your worst hotel/travel experience?

Hope we chat later.


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

F4M 30 [F4M] Malawi/Anywhere - If it's you, here I am.

0 Upvotes

Deep down I know or hope that there is someone for me out there. I don't know how to find them or what the right words are to find them. Are they even on Reddit? I don't know but leave no stone unturned right? I am not new to dating and I am not new to Reddit. I am also not be to the dating scene on Reddit. What is new - the increasingly creative ways I have to say what I need to to find the right person for me.

I am black, plus sized and I have shoulder length microlocs. I tend to like white guys with medium to average build but that's not set in stone. Things that are set in stone however are good hygiene, kindness, being down to earth, and having a great sense of humor. I'm a creative person and I love to express that. I love true stories about the unexplained. I'm an extroverted introvert - I'm very talkative when I get to know you. I think that's the best part of having a partner - feeling like you have a friend that you can talk to about anything and everything. I recently binged the Tv show "Grimm" and I have no one to talk to about it! It was so good! The most underrated sure I've gone across in a while... Now I'm looking for something equally dark with a supernatural twist to it...I digress.

Anyway. I promise I have a lot of love to give to the right person. We could be quietly and exquisitely happy together.

HOWEVER. Please don't reach out if you simply send one word intros and replies, or just your a/s/l as an intro. I am not interested in taking to people who are more than 4 years younger than me, or if you need to use ai to craft a response to my intro. I am looking for genuine connection, not NSFW activities. I would like to find something real. Maybe that's naïve but I know it's out there. If you are not looking for that then I'm not the one for you.

And don't reach out if you're nonchalant. How do you know if you're nonchalant?If you reply "nm" when someone asks you what you're doing you're probably nonchalant. If you struggle to express your opinions and/or things that you think about frequently, you are nonchalant. Get help. Your nonchalace leaves you with no personality and it makes it very difficult to carry a conversation with you and reluctant to even want to. Don't leave your personality at home when you're talking to me. I would very much like to see it. Be as chalant as possible. I'm going to tell you right now, I'm chalant. I care deeply.


r/ForeverAloneDating 19m ago

M4F 23 US

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Hi! Im not so good at writing about myself but i figured id put myself out there as i have so much love to give.

I am white 5'8/5'9 american boy with an average build. I usually have my hair long, but as of eight now its rather short as im aiming to look like a character from a show.

I work a full time job 11-8 5 days a week wednesday through sunday and the other 2 days off i spend with my family mostly. I spend my time after work till i sleep with my online friends and that either consists of playing games or getting on my vr headset and interacting with them through there, one of my favorite things to do is voice impressions of many characters. I do also hang around younger people (like teenagers), but OBVIOUSLY as just friends. I live under the belief that age should not stop 2 people with common interest from getting along. Plus as an "older" person i can give them helpful advice as i was their age at one point ha ha, but of course i do have friends my age its just that i have friends of all ages really.

Im a very fun and caring person, i like to "troll" but not in a mean spirited way and i make obvious of my jokes. Everyone that knows me would say nothing but good things. Reason i dont have somebody despite all this? Well truth be told im just shy... i have confidence in myself but im also not the type to go out of my way just to try to catch someone. I like letting things take its course as to not get too hopeful or jump too far... ive been with girls, boys, and even a trans before so i can safely say ive tried it all ha ha and ive settled on girls. They all did fall out sadly but not in a bad way, just grew apart.

I really hope someone someday can see the heart i have and truly want it in their lives. I love my friends and family more than anything and i wouldnt be here without them. If you could find a place for me and my people, i promise you could not be in a better place. I hope to meet you soon.


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F 21 M4F US/Online - I’m a closeted femboy, and I’d love to meet another nerdy gamer

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Believe it or not, yes I wanna be a femboy and yes I’m straight. I feel like I should be upfront about this bc I know not many women would be into that.

I’m gonna be honest, this is gonna be a copy-paste from another post I made a while ago I really don’t wanna sit here and type out all the same stuff again.

This is a massive shot in the dark, but we ball. I don’t post stuff like this, so I’m just gonna lay out some things about me first, I guess.

As the title suggests, I’m 21, live in the US, and am looking for a special someone. I’m Mexican, 5’6, 155lbs, and I live in Texas. I speak both English and Spanish, and I’ve been going to the gym for the past few weeks, so I’m working on myself. I’m open to long distance, but the closer you are to Texas, the better.

I’m a pretty big nerd, so I’m really interested in meeting a fellow nerd. I’m heavily into FPS games, but apart from that, I play fighting games and some other games. I can tell you in more detail what kinds of games I have in my libraries (I’m on PC and PS5) in my DMs :) I’m also a very big music lover. I’m not gonna say I listen to a bit of everything, because I don’t, but I will say that I listen to whatever sounds good to me. That has ended up with me listening to a little bit of a lot of different genres, but my absolute favorite artist is Tame Impala🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️ I’m also chronically online, so I’m pretty brainrotted😔

I hope to someday have a family and children; this is non-negotiable, though I doubt anybody’ll read this to know. I’m also somewhat religious, but while I haven’t really practiced in a long time, I still do consider myself catholic.

Now some of my preferences: is within 19-26 years old and is at the very least 5’0 tall. Taller than me is a big bonus; I will absolutely date a tree of a woman🙂‍↕️ I also prefer when girls don’t usually go too heavy into makeup for a normal day, though it’s just a preference. Also, I find pale skin immensely attractive, but again, just a preference.

My absolute non-negotiable requirements (though, I honestly don’t know if I can be picky) are that your are not overweight/obese/plus-sized (I don’t mind being chubby or have a little bit of pudge, that’s reasonable to me. I just am not attracted at all to heavier set women). I’m not really interested in black/African-American/African women (again, nothing against them, I’m just not attracted to them). And, plays a decent amount of games (especially fps and/or fighting games).


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F 37/m/chicago & northshore

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Hullooo,

I'm kinda odd and pretty cute. 5 feet 9 inches tall, slim/fit build (150 lbs). I suppose you could say that i'm an artist. I make music... heres a link to some originals/visualizer (totally free and channel is not monetized...not looking to self promote, just to give a sense of my art because I think it helps illuminate my personality!)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g1etOMSOlWM

I'm not looking for any type in particular, besides perhaps shorter than me and younger than me, and even that is not all that important. I'm a bit of a late bloomer...i dont make much money and i live with my mom, but I havent really started living full fully until about 2.5 years ago. I have a storied past with addicition and mental illness, but thanks to a determined of myself and family over the past decade or so, thats not really a defining feature of mine anymore...

looking forawrd to hearing from you!


r/ForeverAloneDating 20h ago

F4M 20 [F4M] #Online #Germany - The reader and fan of simple things

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Hiii! I’m a 20 year old living in Germany, and I’m hoping to meet someone around my timezone (or at least close enough that we’re not always catching each other while one of us is asleep).

Some about me : I enjoy the simple things in life. I love reading, baking, and spending time in the garden when the weather allows it. I also have a soft spot for snow, cute animals, movie nights, and just enjoying life without making everything overly complicated. Right now I work as a cashier, which means I meet all kinds of people, so I’d love to meet someone here who I can actually connect with on a more personal level.

What I’m looking for: I’d like to get to know someone who’s interested in building a genuine connection and possibly a relationship if we click. Someone who enjoys talking regularly, sharing parts of their day, and seeing where things naturally go.

You don’t have to be in Germany, but must be with a timezone and location next to Germany.

If you decide to message me, tell a some facts about yourself, what you' enjoy doing, and what you’re looking for with mei. I’m exited to meet someone new and see where it leads. At this time I'm currently not looking to talk to dms who outside of my preffered timezone.


r/ForeverAloneDating 16h ago

F4M 45[f4m] Texas looking to have casual conversation and see where things go.

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I'm a latina, 5'6, non athletic person. Not into exercising. I'm medium build. Big brown eyes. I have no kids just dogs. I'm an introvert but also enjoy spending time with my close friends. I like to dance. Love 90s music. I've been single for a very long time. I think because I never made any effort to try and date again. Now I feel like I have been out of the loop for so long that it makes it harder to dive back in. I'm very independent, liberal, fierce protector of my loved ones. Just giving this a shot because I don't want to do dating apps.


r/ForeverAloneDating 23h ago

F4M 26 [F4M] Canada, looking for something low pressure at first

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hello! :)

i’m from the eastern part of canada and i’d love to meet someone with whom i can chat throughout the day about random thoughts, send memes to and talk about meaningful topics. i’m rly looking for something casual at first, no pressure for pictures or calls in the beginning (don’t mind if you do send pics though) and see how it goes before maybe getting more serious. i guess i want to develop a friendship first.

a little bit about me:

- I’m a 26F East Asian, around 120 lbs, 5’3” or 160 cm
- I’m like an extroverted introvert and tend to be cheerful, outgoing and friendly (or so I’ve been told haha). I'm a very curious person, so in a relationship, I tend to ask lots of questions to get to know someone.
- I work a 9-5 office job, but whenever I have time, I love to hang out with my friends and family, watch movies, shows and kdramas, play games on my PC (my favourite are league and valorant), hit the gym, go karting, and go out for a drive/get dessert! I’m a bit of a jdm car girl so if you are into that, it’s a plus :)
- I like to send random pictures of things happening in my day as well as the most random thoughts and questions I have, so expect that if we click
- I can speak 3 languages and I’d love to learn another one
- Some of my core values: transparency, good communication (I hate it when conversations are one sided), kindness and being able to be playful
- Looking for someone aged 26-30 in Canada or eastern NA, extroverted introvert homebody who doesn’t mind the outdoors and who is naturally a "leader" in a relationship. I don't mind if you're clingy :) I don't care about looks that much and would rather you be a genuine person who takes care of himself. For what it's worth, I very rarely wear makeup and think there’s beauty in everyone.

If this resonates with you, feel free to shoot me a message with your age, where you’re from and a fun fact about yourself! :) (bonus points if you're funny)


r/ForeverAloneDating 8h ago

M4F 38 [M4F] London, England - Looking for someone cool to get to know during this hot summer.

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Hi! I'm a 38-year-old guy living in London who's hoping to meet someone for a genuine connection. Ideally that starts with good conversation, a coffee or a walk, and seeing where things go.

Outside of work you'll usually find me geocaching, out with my camera, or buried in a book. I mostly read history and fiction—everything from espionage novels by John le Carré to books on European history. If you've got recommendations, I'm always looking to add to my ever-growing reading list.

Photography is probably my biggest hobby. I enjoy wandering around London (and further afield) looking for interesting architecture, landscapes, and street scenes. If you're curious, here's some of my work: https://www.flickr.com/photos/piersmathias/

I'm also into geocaching, which has turned out to be a brilliant excuse to explore places I'd never otherwise visit. There's something satisfying about finding hidden corners of cities and countryside alike.

Travel is another big interest. So far I've explored Belgium, Germany and Denmark, and I'd love to see more of Europe over the next few years. I'm equally happy discovering a new city, finding a great museum, or simply sitting in a café people-watching.

I'm looking for someone who's kind, curious, and enjoys conversations that can wander from history and travel to completely random topics. Bonus points if you're happy to join me on a photography walk, a geocaching adventure, or help me decide where my next trip should be.

If any of that sounds like your kind of day, send me a message. Tell me about the last place that surprised you, your favourite book, or the best hidden gem you've discovered.


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] Online / Anywhere - Looking for a partner who matches my interests and energy

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Hey! I’m looking for my partner someone who I can chat with everyday, share funny reels, and enjoy some awesome experiences together whether that’s gaming at home or going to concerts, traveling, thrifting, going to conventions, wrestling, and football games! I'm down! I love to travel, lived in the States for a few years, and still make it a point to visit whenever I can. I’m actually planning a roadtrip back to the West Coast next year to hit up Seattle, Portland, San Francisco, and Los Angeles!

About me:

31M, Arab, White, 6’0”, black hair, atheist, based in GMT+3

I’m into gaming, football, wrestling, anime, traveling, and I'm really into music!

My fav bands :)

- Avenged Sevenfold
- Bad Omens
- Bring Me The Horizon
- Linkin Park
- Metallica
- System of a Down
- My Chemical Romance
- Evanescence
- Sleep Token

... just to name a few! I luv to share sum of my playlists and luv to listen ur fav bands/songs! There’s plenty of shows are coming up that I’d love to go and I would luv a concert buddy who’s down to go together!

Right now I’m gaming on my Nintendo Switch (Pokémon is my main obsession) and on PC. I’m open to playing pretty much anything, so I’m down to try whatever games you're into! :)

About you:

- Must be into Pokémon
- Must be a gamer
- Into dark humor
- Similar music taste (or open to it)
- Not religious
-Confident, open-minded, emotionally available
-Loyal, honest, and good at communication
- I’m totally cool with you texting a lot long messages, double texts, blowing up my phone, and spamming reels… I’m here for all of it :)
- I don’t mind if you’re clingy! I actually find that attractive :)
- Down for random adventures, late night snacks, and just enjoying life!
- Comfortable being freaky, weird and fun

I’ve definitely got a soft spot for curvy women and goth girls, but if you’ve got a good vibe, dark humor, and good music taste, you’ve already got my attention :)

I’m cool with long distance and willing to travel within 3-6 months to meet someone special. I’m not here to waste time I’m looking for something serious and long term, and I value honesty and clear communication. If you’re not feeling it, no hard feelings, just don’t drag it out :)

I’m also open to relocating in the future if we really click.

If this sounds like you, feel free to reach out. Let’s connect, share music, game, and see where things go! Hit me up with your age, location, and a quick intro of what you're into!


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] Germany - Let's see what happens.

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Born in Spain 🇪🇸, living in Germany 🇩🇪.

Normally dark-haired, but occasionally I go blonde just to confuse people (and myself). Consider it a seasonal feature.

Athletic build. You'll usually find me on a tennis court, in the gym, listening to music, watching horror or thriller movies, reading, gaming, or having long conversations with interesting people.

I'm always up for trying something new. I like challenging myself and set high expectations for what I do. I enjoy getting good at things rather than just doing them halfway.

Personality-wise, I'm relaxed and easygoing, but I can turn up the energy when the moment calls for it. I tend to say what's on my mind and appreciate people who do the same.

Apparently I have a face that looks annoyed... don't worry, it's just the default setting. I'm actually friendly, polite, and pretty approachable.

Honesty and respect go a long way with me.

If you feel like chatting, just send a message. You don't need to come up with some creative opener.