r/ForeverAloneDating Jul 04 '25

Rules Announcement Comment karma requirement has been increased

183 Upvotes

As you may have noticed, we've had a sharp increase in bot activity the past few days. We've banned over 50 bots in the last couple of days alone. These bots are posting everywhere, not just here, and steal other users posts. Reddit eventually bans most of them, but not fast enough.

Therefore, we will be temporarily increasing the comment karma requirement to 100. We realise that people who create new accounts or struggle making karma will be affected by this, but this is important for the safety of the subreddit and it's users. We may lower this later or it may stay permanent.

We also appreciate those who submit reports as it helps us out a lot. If you spot any bots, or people trying to subtly advertise NSFW content, then be sure to report them, but this comment karma requirement increase should get rid of the majority of them.


r/ForeverAloneDating Apr 10 '25

Rules Announcement Chat is replacing DMs.

67 Upvotes

While the change doesn't officially take place until June, the change is already occurring, and has been since March. This means we had to change the comment automod leaves on every post. Now instead of linking to the DM system, which is being phased out, it will link to the author's profile. From there, simply hit "Start Chat" to send them a message. If the link doesn't work or you run into any problems, send us a report in modmail.

For more information: https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/34720093903764-Enhancing-Messaging-on-Reddit-A-simpler-faster-and-easier-way-to-communicate


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

F4M 26F from Europe (f4m) - Looking the real thing

17 Upvotes

Hey everyone. I’m a 26 years old woman looking for a genuine connection which could lead to a serious relationship. I’m struggling to find someone nearby and decided to try my luck here.

About myself

I’m from Europe and I’m okay with long distance if the goal will be to close the distance.

Personality: My personality type is INFP. I’m shy, reserved, caring, loyal, sensitive, open-minded and imaginative. I love chatting for many hours and sharing ideas. I’m not very sociable but I enjoy to go out and explore new places. I like to have some time alone since I’m an introverted. My negative characteristics are being anxious and prone to depression but I try my best to handle it.

Hobbies: I love going for walks, do my nails, hanging out with friends, watch movies, listening to music, traveling, candle making and collecting mugs and plushies. Regarding music taste, I listen almost everything especially R&B and 2000’s/2010’s pop. I love to learn about other cultures, my favourite trip ever was India last March.

Physical appearance: I’m the Mediterranean type. Dark long hair, naturally way but sometimes I like to keep it straight. Almond shaped, small and brown eyes. Tan skin. Slim. I have a nose ring. No tattoos. My height is 5’3 (161cm). I wear modest clothes.

Religion and spiritual beliefs: I was raised Catholic but I consider myself more spiritual than religious. I believe in God and I pray and like to practice meditation sometimes. I like to learn about other religions. My way to be closer to God is to spend time in nature or writing.

Career and education: I have a master’s degree in Marketing Management. Currently working as a Social Media Manager and looking for a full-time job. I have experience in customer service too. I speak Portuguese and English fluently. I’m learning French as my third language.

Other important things to know: I don’t eat red meat. I don’t drink alcohol. I don’t smoke or do any kind of drugs. I’m neurodivergent (dyscalculia and dyspraxia).

What I expect from you?

I’m looking for someone kind, consistent and loyal. I want a healthy, monogamous and loving relationship.
• You should be at least 5’7
• You must want something serious
• You should be hard-working and provide for our family
• No racism or violence
• Clear communication and real efforts


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

F4M 28 [f4m] #Online - Searching for a genuine connection and more?

13 Upvotes

Hii I'm searching for genuine chats with someone around my age (~26-33) and potentially more down the line if there's a vibe :) I'm from southeast asia, long black hair, brown eyes, people say I'm cute? Maybe it's for you to decide (open to sharing pics later on!!).

I'm an introvert but do quite well in social situations (fake extrovert?) and love connecting with people from around the world. I like art/painting, rock/indie music, writing, creating things, staying active, travelling, cooking. I have a background in psychology/neuroscience and have lived in many countries.

I'm naturally drawn to extroverts because I think it balances with my own nature - someone who is empathetic, witty, and kind (Introverts are more than welcome of course though haha), ambitious, creative in their own way, fit, open-minded.

((In the spirit of transparency, in the past I have been more drawn to wasians or white men (sorry, I guess I fit the stereotype..)). But feel free to text anyway if you think we could connect!

I don't mind texting initially but I would prefer calls/voicenotes down the line, as I think you can get to know someone more that way.

Thanks for reading and text me 'peanut' and your favourite song you're listening to rn just so I know you've read the whole thing. Please don't just say 'hi', make it a bit interesting ;) please only text if you can put some effort in, I’ll match your energy forsure.

I hope you have a wonderful day :)

- M


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

F4M 27F NY - Capricorn

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You think you can get drenched in the rain with me, eat ice cream, and listen to "Raindrops Keep Fallin' on My Head"? I'm old school like that. But I also want someone I can argue ideas with, learn a random language with, honestly I don't even know.. let's just find out.

I'm from NY. Working as a research associate right now, on my way to becoming a physician(after MCAT). I am a Muslim and , it's just part of who I am, so that matters to me.

Okay here's the thing, I'm not doing "let's see where this goes" anymore. I want a forever and kids.

I want to cook your favorite meal when you get home. I want to knit you something dumb for your birthday. I want to vent to you when a test destroys me and have you just listen. I want to steal my two days off and just drive somewhere with you for no reason.

I want to grow old with someone and actually feel safe, not spend the whole thing waiting for them to leave. a doberman villain may be 😂

I also want a man to just act like one. Plan the date. Bring flowers.. I love flowers. Take the lead. I'll take care of your heart better than anyone ever has, I promise you that, but I'm not the one running our relationship.

I've been in and out of the gym for 10+ years too, when I'm not drowning in exams that's where I am.

And I'll be honest, when I love someone I go all in, I'd skip class or text you in the middle of an experiment just because I missed you that much. But I don't beg. If you pick someone else, I'm not fighting for a spot in your life. It'll hurt but I'm walking away, because if you actually love someone you don't make them beg to stay.

If all this sounds like too much, then yeah, I'm probably out of your league. I've spent too long asking for too little already.

If you're actually serious and know how to lead, come talk to me.(I promise it won’t be another business meeting)


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] UK, Germany, Europe - Looking for a romantic connection to swap songs and playlists with

3 Upvotes

Hii! 25M from the UK here, I thought I'd try my luck here and see if I can find anyone who might be looking for the same kinda thing!

Just to fill in a few of the blanks about myself quickly: I work as a software engineer, my biggest hobbies are music (mostly playing guitar, and please feel free to spam me with playlists/songs you like!), I do quite enjoy nice walks out in the countryside, late night drives, and a little gaming if I get the time. I've also been told I'm fairly laid back, and kinda nerdy with an easy sense of humour. Physically I'm 6 foot tall, with blonde hair and blue eyes, I'm also happy to swap pictures to help get familiar with each other. I know this is quite brief but if there's anything else you do wanna know about me feel free to ask 🤗

I'm ideally looking for someone who is also looking for some sort of connection if that's not too much of a cliche haha, I would say I'm largely more attracted to personality than appearance. It would be nice if you were also from the UK, but I do have a potential move to Germany in the near future too - either way it would be nice to actually meet up sometime! :) I don't have any particular age in mind, but the closer to my age you are I'm sure it'll be easier to get along.

Thank you for reading, I'm happy to talk on any platform later but feel free to shoot me a message here whenever first!


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] Germany - Let's see what happens.

2 Upvotes

Born in Spain 🇪🇸, living in Germany 🇩🇪.

Normally dark-haired, but occasionally I go blonde just to confuse people (and myself). Consider it a seasonal feature.

Athletic build. You'll usually find me on a tennis court, in the gym, listening to music, watching horror or thriller movies, reading, gaming, or having long conversations with interesting people.

I'm always up for trying something new. I like challenging myself and set high expectations for what I do. I enjoy getting good at things rather than just doing them halfway.

Personality-wise, I'm relaxed and easygoing, but I can turn up the energy when the moment calls for it. I tend to say what's on my mind and appreciate people who do the same.

Apparently I have a face that looks annoyed... don't worry, it's just the default setting. I'm actually friendly, polite, and pretty approachable.

Honesty and respect go a long way with me.

If you feel like chatting, just send a message. You don't need to come up with some creative opener.


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F Just Turned 27 and ready for next step

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Hello everyone I hope you are having a wonderful life

I just turned 27 and man time flies really fast.....

I'm looking for someone who I can call mine, trust and can spend my entire life with and most importantly move to a colder country cuz this heat is killing me hahahaha

a bit about me

Hobbies:

I used to be very active in sports but for the past few years haven't really got time to play any sports. In my free time I watch some highlights from combat sports (Boxing, MMA etc), F1 or rewatch the same old movies for the 100th time (don't judge me).....I love going out in nature and going to the mountains almost every Sunday

Interests:

I love engineering and i spend a lot of time reading different reports and articles about fighter jets, cars etc (boring i know).... I'm also the type to run outside to see the aircraft flying over

Education:

I have a degree in Metallurgy and I'm actually a gold medalist (yeah I'm flexing lol)......

Some Random Facts:

I don't smoke or drink at all i live a clean life

I don't like going to parties etc as well i prefer spending time with my special person (hopefully it's you)

I like cooking as well

what else

man I'm having a really tough time writing this.....

hopefully you will find this Post interesting

that's all from me


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F [25M] Ireland/Anywhere – Looking for someone to build a genuine connection with

2 Upvotes

Hi!

I’ve always found it difficult to meet people, so I thought I’d take a chance and post here.

I’m a quiet, introverted person who’s much more comfortable having meaningful one-on-one conversations than making small talk in big groups. I’m kind, thoughtful, and a good listener, and once I get to know someone I open up a lot.

A few things I enjoy:
Movies
Marvel and DC
Anime
Gaming
Going to cafes and restaurants
Football, comic books and learning about psychology

I’m 6’0”, slim, with brown hair and brown eyes.

What I’m really looking for is someone I’d genuinely enjoy talking to every day. I miss having that person you can message about how your day went, send random thoughts or funny things to, check in with, and slowly build a real connection over time. Whether it turns into a relationship or starts as a friendship that grows naturally, I’m happy to let things develop at a comfortable pace.
Distance isn’t a dealbreaker if we click. More than anything, I’m hoping to meet someone who’s kind, honest, and enjoys getting to know people on a deeper level.
If you think we’d get along, I’d love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself!


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F M4F 38M from Denmark looking for something serious...

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I'm looking for something serious and long term.

I like to travel and experience new places, culture and people, also go out to the city to have a drink and visit a good restaurant or just sit a cafe and watch people pass by.

Also spend time at home with great dinner and a good movie.

I'm looking for a woman that wants to prioritize each other, and spend time together.

For me love, trust, mutual support to each other is important. And being there for each other in both good and hard times are important.

I'm also interested in long distance that can lead to meeting in shorter time, and building a future together.

Want you to be in my timezone so it's easy for us to communicate.

Dm me if you are interested in getting to know each other.


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F 39 [M4F] Los Angeles.. Not sure where to look anymore

3 Upvotes

This sub popped up so I decided to give it a shot..

Anyway here’s a little about myself:

Like the title says I’ve come to realization that apps might not be for me so I am giving this a chance.. I’m in my “weight loss era” I’ve lost 70 pounds over the last year.. I enjoy going to concerts, stand up shows, dive bars, bowling, movies, hanging out with family and friends

All the basic stuff

Here’s what I look like:

https://imgur.com/a/Ne3Vk0X


r/ForeverAloneDating 8h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #Germany #Online - Looking for the only woman I'll ever be with

5 Upvotes

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great online friendship or maybe even the love of my life on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in musik includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

As for what I am looking for, well, I am obviously a virgin as I am posting here. And I am looking for a relationship. I would describe myself as a hopeless romantic. I always liked the idea of only being with one woman my whole life. Not for religious reasons or anything like that, it is just a personal preference. So I would like to find the love of my life here. I definitely want to be friends first and let things develop at a natural pace.

That is all I have to say for now. If you like what you read, feel free to introduce yourself and we will see. If you are from a different country or continent that is fine. We will find a way if things work out:)


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 38 [M4F] London, England - Looking for someone cool to get to know during this hot summer.

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Hi! I'm a 38-year-old guy living in London who's hoping to meet someone for a genuine connection. Ideally that starts with good conversation, a coffee or a walk, and seeing where things go.

Outside of work you'll usually find me geocaching, out with my camera, or buried in a book. I mostly read history and fiction—everything from espionage novels by John le Carré to books on European history. If you've got recommendations, I'm always looking to add to my ever-growing reading list.

Photography is probably my biggest hobby. I enjoy wandering around London (and further afield) looking for interesting architecture, landscapes, and street scenes. If you're curious, here's some of my work: https://www.flickr.com/photos/piersmathias/

I'm also into geocaching, which has turned out to be a brilliant excuse to explore places I'd never otherwise visit. There's something satisfying about finding hidden corners of cities and countryside alike.

Travel is another big interest. So far I've explored Belgium, Germany and Denmark, and I'd love to see more of Europe over the next few years. I'm equally happy discovering a new city, finding a great museum, or simply sitting in a café people-watching.

I'm looking for someone who's kind, curious, and enjoys conversations that can wander from history and travel to completely random topics. Bonus points if you're happy to join me on a photography walk, a geocaching adventure, or help me decide where my next trip should be.

If any of that sounds like your kind of day, send me a message. Tell me about the last place that surprised you, your favourite book, or the best hidden gem you've discovered.


r/ForeverAloneDating 6m ago

F4M 19 [F4M] LondonUK/The world Dating Doomsday, This december in the backrow of a dimly lit cinema near you

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I'm cute, you're stable. I'm fun and depressed, you tolerate fun and are kind to saddos. I can dominate stupid activities like pub quizzes and karaoke, you can dominate the real world and things that matter. I can be brought to your parents and they will think wow how did he pull such a cutie but she's a bit weird, you can be brought to my parents and they will think hmmm he is old and ugly but will bring great blessings to our family. I'm good at wearing cool outfits, devouring new foods and swallowing exotic drinks while travelling, you are good at planning and booking and reading maps. I'm good at distractedly watching movies while writing poems or dressing up in funny clothes, you are good at paying attention and explaining the plot to me if I have missed it or which character is which.
Just a girl seeking a guy. Want real world dates not online, I'm trapped in hellhole London, I can be flown out to you for the most amazing date ever if you really want. Talk to me, tell me about yourself.


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

M4F 46 [M4F] #Virginia - Looking for a deep connection, open to international

3 Upvotes

I’m 46, live in Virginia, and I’m looking for a relationship that has the potential to become something long-term. I’m open to meeting someone anywhere in the US and would also consider someone outside the country if we’re a good match.

A little about me, I enjoy mountain biking, traveling, exploring new places, and spending time outdoors. I have a stable career, value honesty, communication. I am divorced dad with older kids. I’d rather build something that has potential for long-term than rush into something. So it’s important to me to take things slowly. I’d rather spend time getting to know each other to develop a deep connection. I’m not looking to force anything or rush a connection. I’d rather let it grow naturally.

I’m looking for someone who is doing their self-growth work, strong, sense of humor and interested in getting to know each other. I don’t expect perfection.

Distance doesn’t scare me if there’s mutual effort and a plan to eventually be together.

Tell me a little about yourself and what your goals are.


r/ForeverAloneDating 12h ago

F4M 45[f4m] Texas looking to have casual conversation and see where things go.

9 Upvotes

I'm a latina, 5'6, non athletic person. Not into exercising. I'm medium build. Big brown eyes. I have no kids just dogs. I'm an introvert but also enjoy spending time with my close friends. I like to dance. Love 90s music. I've been single for a very long time. I think because I never made any effort to try and date again. Now I feel like I have been out of the loop for so long that it makes it harder to dive back in. I'm very independent, liberal, fierce protector of my loved ones. Just giving this a shot because I don't want to do dating apps.


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] England/Anywhere - Alternative cat dad seeking someone cozy, kind, and a little weird. ฅ₍^•⩊ •マⳊ

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I've reached a point in my life where I've become painfully aware that I don't really have anyone I feel deeply connected to. I have roughly two souls I can always rely on... and they both happen to be cats. As wonderful as they are, they're terrible conversationalists. I'd love to find someone I can genuinely build a life with! Someone to talk to until 2am, share games and movies with, laugh at stupid memes with, cuddle the hell out of, and simply make ordinary days feel exciting.

I'm a 32 year old guy from the south coast of England! I don't work at the moment, so this means that my free time is almost boundless. I'd absolutely love to game, watch movies, listen to music together, just chat or whatever! I'm not the most social or extroverted person, I'll be the first to admit that I'm not a simple person. I have a bunch of quirks and I have my own difficulties such as an awful case of anxiety and OCD. But I'll always try my best to be good company and brighten your day!

I'm pale, I'm six foot tall with fairly long dark brown hair and hazel eyes. I'm pretty much always wearing glasses as my vision has decided to gradually give up on me and I prefer to keep to an alternative kind of aesthetic (I guess it could be described as a mix between gothic and anime streetwear). I also have a couple of piercings and may or may not decide on tattoos in the future. Probably something in a biomechanical style. Kinda like a robotic arm! You know, cyberpunk vibes.

I'm a laid back, mostly calm kind of guy and I'm always doing my best to remain optimistic. Life's tough, so it's nice to get away from all of that. I have quite an eccentric, cynical and at times quite a dark sense of humour. So I definitely get along best with others that aren't quick to take offense. And I'm usually pretty playful when I've grown comfy around someone. It does take me a bit to warm up, especially on voice calls.. But afterwards, I'm a very loyal person.

**─── ・ 。゚☆: *.☽ .* :☆゚. ───**

🇲​🇾​ 🇮​🇳​🇹​🇪​🇷​🇪​🇸​🇹​🇸​

• ᴠɪᴅᴇᴏ ɢᴀᴍᴇs 🎮

I'm a PC gamer and I don't have any consoles at the moment sadly. I play a lot of games and hopefully you do as well! I'd love to have somebody to play co-op with! I play a wide variety of genres but my favourites will always be RPG games such as Assassin's Creed, Borderlands, Persona, Dragon Age, The Witcher, Fallout and The Elder Scrolls. I also love survival and I've been interested in playing Once Human properly as well as Enshrouded! Or more casual things like Stardew Valley or Terraria or Golf It! I've also played many MMOs in my time and wouldn't rule them out!

• ᴀɴɪᴍᴇ 🎌

I love to binge watch anime although I don't really like doing so by myself! It's just not as much fun and I tend to get distracted too easily.. So, if you are into it, or are willing to try it, that's a bonus as well! I like a wide variety of it, though my favourites are Gintama, Beelzebub, Assassination Classroom, Death Parade, Re:Zero and Soul Eater.

• sʜᴏᴡs ᴀɴᴅ ᴍᴏᴠɪᴇs 🎥

Some shows that I like/have liked are It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia (my permanent number one pick), What We Do In The Shadows, Rick & Morty, Brooklyn Nine-Nine, Community, Arrested Development, Archer.. When it comes to movies.. I like comedies, thrillers, horrors, mysteries and especially anything psychological. Oh and lots of superhero stuff like The Boys or Invincible! Again, if we could watch stuff together, it'd be awesome.

• ᴍᴜsɪᴄ 🎶

EDM (Electronic Dance Music) and the many, many sub genres has always had my heart. With Porter Robinson being my favourite artist. Although I've been through many phases and some stuff has stuck with me including rock, metal or even just simple alt pop. In general, I'll give anything a go, no matter the genre and I'd love to share musical interests.

• ᴀɴɪᴍᴀʟs 🐈

I adore animals. Probably more than I like most human beings in all honesty. Especially felines or other fluffy bundles of joy. [Here's kitty tax](https://ibb.co/xqTQyh2z)

**─── ・ 。゚☆: *.☽ .* :☆゚. ───**

• ᴡʜᴀᴛ ɪ·ᴍ ʟᴏᴏᴋɪɴɢ ғᴏʀ

I'm not really the most picky person out there when it comes to a relationship. I don't mind how old you are, as long as you're over eighteen and.. I guess not TOO much older (let's say ten years older at most). I don't mind where you're from as long as you're interested in meeting up someday as I don't want to stay virtual forever. I don't have much preference about looks either. What's important is that we connect deeply on an emotional level. What I do however see as non-negotiable is that I'll only ever consider a completely dedicated, monogamous relationship.

Communication would ideally be on Discord. And voice calls would be something I'd ideally want to do at least semi-often. I'm happy to start off messaging back and forth on Reddit though.

If you've somehow made it all the way down here without falling asleep, firstly I'm impressed. Secondly, I'd genuinely love to hear from you. Tell me about yourself, your favourite games, show me your pets (instant bonus points), or just tell me what you've been obsessed with lately. I'd rather receive one thoughtful message than several one line introductions.


r/ForeverAloneDating 47m ago

M4F 25 [M4F] #Canada/USA – Looking for a romantic connection

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Here are a few things about me:

  • I try to be smart - I just graduated university and am so excited to be working in a field I enjoy a ton
  • I try to work out - big emphasis on the try here
  • I try to stay well informed about current events. Mostly with politics, tech news, and economics as I find them very interesting. (Also I love to debate/talk about these things)
  • I built my own PC!!
  • I am liberal/moderate leaning (Please no Trump voters, I’m sorry but no chance our values align)
  • I have been told that I have a nice voice!! (Voice clip here) if ya wanna check it out! check it out!
  • I am a cat dad to a very pretty cat (Will share pics on request)
  • I am very frugal, financially responsible and ambitious about my goals and career
  • Super duper subby and kinda shy with strangers 🥺
  • I lean towards introversion and I've been described as sweet, slightly clingy, and soft hearted. A bit of a romantic, I enjoy the little things like good morning texts and genuine affection

What I'm looking for and things you should consider

I want a long term relationship that ends up with us eventually meeting in person if we click. I don’t expect this to happen instantly, obviously, but just be prepared for that to be a possibility. I'd very very much prefer something local where we could see each other decently often, so around a 5-ish hour drive from my city Toronto, or if you'd be willing to fly over. I want a deep connection, but we’ll go at your pace since I sometimes tend to get overexcited and jump right into things.

I really want to support and fulfill my partner's needs, wants, fantasies, and desires. My goal is to make my partner, feel appreciated and special. I want them to understand how much they mean to me and how much I value who they are. If I could, I would do anything to make my dream girlfriend happy. I enjoy getting to know someone through conversation and finding out the little things that make them who they are, including the things that make them blush, happy, sad, etc. I have a lot of love to give and hope to find someone to share it with, who will also offer me the same love and affection in return

If you’re someone who’s is kind, smart, financially savvy and into deep conversations (or just vibing while gaming or watching something), I think we’d get along great. Bonus points if you like taking the lead, because like I said above I’m definitely more on the subby side. 🥺Feel free to shoot me a message and tell me a bit about yourself! If you're cool with it, we can swap photos right away too <3


r/ForeverAloneDating 57m ago

M4F 36 (M4F) UK. Seeking a partner (Mid/late 20s - late 30s)

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Hi!

Alright so, where to start? A bit about me I guess.

I’m 36, live in south central England. I drive, I have a good job, I work hard and have my own flat. As a person, I’m respectful, independent, I am quite shy until I open up a bit but when I do I have a very dry sense of humour. Despite that I genuinely believe I make a loving and loyal partner.

I’m into travel, taking trips in a car, by train, boat and of course proper holidays too. I am a bit of a Luddite, I don’t like AI and I firmly believe our quality of life peaked in the late 90s/early 2000s when we didn’t carry our whole world around in our pocket. I prefer being out and about and doing things in my free time, but at the same time I am also quite content to have a day of rest infront of the TV with some good snacks. Oh, I’m just shy of 6ft tall and just over 16 stone. A bit of a dad bod if you like but also I do go to the gym regularly. Life’s all about balance eh?

So why I am single? Well I’ve not always been so. My last relationship ended at the start of this year and it’s taken me until now to process things and work my way through it and now my mind is in the right place to begin looking again. I’ve been in 2 loving relationships, so I’m not a ‘player’ by any stretch and in between those I’ve spent my fair share of time happily single. But after a while single is tiring and boring and I want someone to share life with, to build a forever home.

Still here? I’m impressed. So I don’t really have a type as such, I take everyone as they come but I’m after someone to spark with where things feel special. I don’t want a mediocre connection and I of course will give as much to a relationship as I get out of it, if not more. You’ll probably have to put up with my slightly nerdy/luddite tendencies (we’re talking listening to Ken Bruce, and going to air shows etc) but in return I’ll drive us places, cook, bake for you and there’s a spot on the sofa on a rainy Sunday with your name on it.

I appreciate that’s a lot but I don’t do things half hearted, it’s a bit of a long shot but I resent using dating apps and you never know, imagine telling our parents we met through Reddit.

Oh, have car, will travel, Oxfordshire, Berkshire, Wilts, Glos, Somerset kinda area.

Alright, cheerio for now


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 21 M4F US/Online - I’m a closeted femboy, and I’d love to meet another nerdy gamer

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Believe it or not, yes I wanna be a femboy and yes I’m straight. I feel like I should be upfront about this bc I know not many women would be into that.

I’m gonna be honest, this is gonna be a copy-paste from another post I made a while ago I really don’t wanna sit here and type out all the same stuff again.

This is a massive shot in the dark, but we ball. I don’t post stuff like this, so I’m just gonna lay out some things about me first, I guess.

As the title suggests, I’m 21, live in the US, and am looking for a special someone. I’m Mexican, 5’6, 155lbs, and I live in Texas. I speak both English and Spanish, and I’ve been going to the gym for the past few weeks, so I’m working on myself. I’m open to long distance, but the closer you are to Texas, the better.

I’m a pretty big nerd, so I’m really interested in meeting a fellow nerd. I’m heavily into FPS games, but apart from that, I play fighting games and some other games. I can tell you in more detail what kinds of games I have in my libraries (I’m on PC and PS5) in my DMs :) I’m also a very big music lover. I’m not gonna say I listen to a bit of everything, because I don’t, but I will say that I listen to whatever sounds good to me. That has ended up with me listening to a little bit of a lot of different genres, but my absolute favorite artist is Tame Impala🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️ I’m also chronically online, so I’m pretty brainrotted😔

I hope to someday have a family and children; this is non-negotiable, though I doubt anybody’ll read this to know. I’m also somewhat religious, but while I haven’t really practiced in a long time, I still do consider myself catholic.

Now some of my preferences: is within 19-26 years old and is at the very least 5’0 tall. Taller than me is a big bonus; I will absolutely date a tree of a woman🙂‍↕️ I also prefer when girls don’t usually go too heavy into makeup for a normal day, though it’s just a preference. Also, I find pale skin immensely attractive, but again, just a preference.

My absolute non-negotiable requirements (though, I honestly don’t know if I can be picky) are that your are not overweight/obese/plus-sized (I don’t mind being chubby or have a little bit of pudge, that’s reasonable to me. I just am not attracted at all to heavier set women). I’m not really interested in black/African-American/African women (again, nothing against them, I’m just not attracted to them). And, plays a decent amount of games (especially fps and/or fighting games).


r/ForeverAloneDating 18h ago

F4M 26 [F4M] Canada, looking for something low pressure at first

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hello! :)

i’m from the eastern part of canada and i’d love to meet someone with whom i can chat throughout the day about random thoughts, send memes to and talk about meaningful topics. i’m rly looking for something casual at first, no pressure for pictures or calls in the beginning (don’t mind if you do send pics though) and see how it goes before maybe getting more serious. i guess i want to develop a friendship first.

a little bit about me:

- I’m a 26F East Asian, around 120 lbs, 5’3” or 160 cm
- I’m like an extroverted introvert and tend to be cheerful, outgoing and friendly (or so I’ve been told haha). I'm a very curious person, so in a relationship, I tend to ask lots of questions to get to know someone.
- I work a 9-5 office job, but whenever I have time, I love to hang out with my friends and family, watch movies, shows and kdramas, play games on my PC (my favourite are league and valorant), hit the gym, go karting, and go out for a drive/get dessert! I’m a bit of a jdm car girl so if you are into that, it’s a plus :)
- I like to send random pictures of things happening in my day as well as the most random thoughts and questions I have, so expect that if we click
- I can speak 3 languages and I’d love to learn another one
- Some of my core values: transparency, good communication (I hate it when conversations are one sided), kindness and being able to be playful
- Looking for someone aged 26-30 in Canada or eastern NA, extroverted introvert homebody who doesn’t mind the outdoors and who is naturally a "leader" in a relationship. I don't mind if you're clingy :) I don't care about looks that much and would rather you be a genuine person who takes care of himself. For what it's worth, I very rarely wear makeup and think there’s beauty in everyone.

If this resonates with you, feel free to shoot me a message with your age, where you’re from and a fun fact about yourself! :) (bonus points if you're funny)


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] #Egypt/Anywhere - Looking for someone to build a meaningful life together

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Round two. 😄

Last time I posted here I got more DMs than I expected, but none of them worked out. So here's hoping the right person finds this one.

I work remotely in tech. Mostly grateful as I'm working a job that I enjoy, and coming from a job that I didn't like much.

A few years ago my life looked very different, so getting here wasn't something I took for granted. Since then I've been focused on building a career that gives me freedom rather than just paying the bills. Long term, I want to build my own company, travel, and live between at least 2 countries. It's still a work in progress but I'm on the right direction.

Outside of work I enjoy going to the gym every now and then, learning whether it's a practical skill or just understanding how the world works. watching TV shows/Movies, gaming occasionally, and trying to improve myself on the mental/physical side. I'm also trying to find some sports to play and try new things like recently I'm trying to learn how to cook and eat healthy

Personality I'm pretty laid-back, calm and quiet person. Mostly introverted but I don't mind going out every once in a while and more often if I found people like minded. I don't play games and value clear communication instead of creating unnecessary drama.

Appearance I'm 182 cm, about 83 kg. Dark hair and wearing glasses.

Overall:My life is pretty good and I'm looking for partner to take it to the next level with me.

What I'm looking for:-

-A long-term relationship with someone from anywhere in the world. I'm open to relocating.

-I'm not planning to have kids, but if my partner wants them and we can provide a good life, I'm open to discussing it.

-Someone with similar values and a shared vision. We don't need identical interests, I enjoy learning from people who are different.

-A woman who takes pride in how she presents herself, not just in her style but in how she carries herself.

-Clear, honest communication. If we can't communicate openly, we're probably not a good match.

-Working remotely is a plus, but it's not important.

-Age 23 to 40 ( I don't mind if you are older if we are compatible)

If any of this resonates with you, I'd genuinely love to hear from you. Tell me about yourself. I'm also happy to make some friends as well. I know how to differentiate between friendship and relationship.

P.S: I do live in Cairo so if you are close that's a plus


r/ForeverAloneDating 16h ago

F4M 29F usa- looking to see whose put their

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Hello, looking for long term relationship where two people can really fall for each other, but that just me being a hopeless romantic I like ,honesty,and just someone who feels genuine to me. About myself, I work full time and I also have great hobbies.

Hobbies i enjoy a lot are being on xbox and from time to time watching a good show like h.o.g or g.o.t fan. I enioy watching those shows. I also like anime. I enjoy shopping and thrifting when I get time. Really great with pets I have a cat who really likes me and is a really great pet. I like music and i often listen to my headphones and like some alternative bands as well as other songs and music. I enjoy fast cars and street bikes and i enjoy outdoors and food. I like variety in my life and conversations that flow really well.

What I'm looking for is someone who has patience and is very committed in the same age range or pretty close in age. Tattoos are welcome, someone who also is in a situation where they are independent.

Travel is always and option so distance really doesn't bother me. As far as personality goes I get along with pretty much all except a few types but I'm very open minded. But i do believe chemistry matters and how people connect matters alot.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] #Ireland #Online Looking for a connection

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I’m a 26-year-old guy from Ireland who’s looking for a genuine connection, whether that ends up being friendship or something deeper. Ideally we share the same time zone or one that’s workable.

A little about me:

I love travelling, nothing better then planning a quick city break and exploring a new place for the weekend.

I’m big into video games it’s my main way of unwinding after a day of work. My favourite game is red dead redemption 2.

Music who doesn’t like it. We can share spotifys and see how we line up on tastes.

I love trying to cook new foods. Finding new ways to challenge my cooking skills. Maybe you could share some of your favourite recipes.

What I’m really after is that spark — the kind where you both feel like talking about anything that pops into your head, laugh about the same weird stuff, and actually care about what’s going on in each other’s lives.

If any of that sounds like you’d like it, slide into my DMs or start a chat. Let’s talk and see where it goes.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 25 M4F Germany/Europe I Are we about to prove the red thread of fate is real?

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The red thread of fate is a pretty interesting concept and somewhere deep down I like to believe its real. Maybe with this post I'll be able to find definitive proof… in the form of you! With that being said I should introduce myself to not make it more cringe soooo my name is Oliver, I'm 25 years young (I'm not unc ok :c) born and raised in Berlin/Germany. If I had to describe myself I’d definitely say that I am very organized and love to have everything planned out, more on the introverted side and a fan of just a peaceful life. The day you will see me going to clubs you can be sure that it’s not me anymore xD I do have a bunch of hobbies and activities that I like to do such as cycling, going on hikes, workouts at home, watching documentaries or just interesting videos specifically about big construction sites (ik very specific), reading manga and playing on my PC. I’m definitely more of a homebody buuuut if you were to ask me if I want to travel I’d already be looking up flights and planning out our trip haha I think one of the best momories of mine are traveling with friends/solo so I cant imagine how nice it would be to travel with my soulmate :) And if trips to Asia & US are on your bucket list then we are a perfect travel match :D I do also love animals and I had most of my life cats around me. I think also worth to note that I don’t smoke, have never taken any kind of drugs and I rarely drink alcohol. My music taste is a bit niche, I do listen mostly to Hyperpop/Emotional Hip&Hop and Rap with some Lofi elements sprinkled inbetween (heylog/aftertheparty/sewerperson you name it). Since I know that some people are interested in personality types, mine is ISTJ and someone pointed out to me the other day that apparently ESFP/ESTP would be a great complementary pairing sooo maybe my fate is to get adopted by an extrovert 😂

Curious what I look like? All of what you read so far you can get in a package that is 166 cm (or 5'5 in freedom units) and 64 kg, with green eyes, dark blonde hair xD I do also wear glasses which people have said either make me look like a professor or harry potter, you get to decide on which one it will be ^^ As for clothes I do like to wear rather simple ones and would say that my style is more on casual side mixed in with a bit of business, partially because of work but ngl I do have to admit, I like those pants xD I’d be up to exchanging pictures down the line once we know each other a bit :)

So what am I looking for in you? Look wise I don’t care if you will be shorter or taller than me, whether or not you have the perfect BMI or some other silly crap that people constantly talk about. In my opinion its the imperfections that make one perfect ^^ Would be also very shallow of me to just ignore someone for something they can’t change. Our hobbies dont need to match completely as I think it would be fun to learn something new from each other and broaden our perspective. I definitely appreciate someone who is financially responsible, coming from a family that taught me on how to value money I would love to build a future with someone who thinks similarly. Besides, how else are we supposed to fund all of our trips :D One thing I should probably also mention I'm looking for a long term, monogamous relationship. The whole point of this post is to (hopefully) find my person, so if thats what you are looking for too, we have already something in common :)

I put in Germany/Europe in my title since it would definitely make things easier if you were from around this area (timezones and also convenience of short travel distance to see each other) but I’m not going to ignore someone from the other side of the world :v In case it would turn out to be LDR it should be clear for both of us that we should work on closing that distance. I mean yeah virtual hugs are nice but what about real ones? Cant remember the last time I had one 😭

If having someone cool headed and reliable no matter the situation, stability and a safe space at home, cozy evenings just vibing and enjoying each others presence sound like something that you could get behind on a regular basis then feel free to reach out with a short introduction and what made you write to me :) I’d love to hear from the real you so a genuine message means muuch more to me than something generated or copied, especially since it is more often then not pretty obvious lol Anyway wherever you are I wish you a great day and hopefully I’ll hear from you soon ^^