r/ForeverAloneDating 9h ago

F4M 26F from Europe (f4m) - Looking the real thing

41 Upvotes

Hey everyone. I’m a 26 years old woman looking for a genuine connection which could lead to a serious relationship. I’m struggling to find someone nearby and decided to try my luck here.

About myself

I’m from Europe and I’m okay with long distance if the goal will be to close the distance.

Personality: My personality type is INFP. I’m shy, reserved, caring, loyal, sensitive, open-minded and imaginative. I love chatting for many hours and sharing ideas. I’m not very sociable but I enjoy to go out and explore new places. I like to have some time alone since I’m an introverted. My negative characteristics are being anxious and prone to depression but I try my best to handle it.

Hobbies: I love going for walks, do my nails, hanging out with friends, watch movies, listening to music, traveling, candle making and collecting mugs and plushies. Regarding music taste, I listen almost everything especially R&B and 2000’s/2010’s pop. I love to learn about other cultures, my favourite trip ever was India last March.

Physical appearance: I’m the Mediterranean type. Dark long hair, naturally way but sometimes I like to keep it straight. Almond shaped, small and brown eyes. Tan skin. Slim. I have a nose ring. No tattoos. My height is 5’3 (161cm). I wear modest clothes.

Religion and spiritual beliefs: I was raised Catholic but I consider myself more spiritual than religious. I believe in God and I pray and like to practice meditation sometimes. I like to learn about other religions. My way to be closer to God is to spend time in nature or writing.

Career and education: I have a master’s degree in Marketing Management. Currently working as a Social Media Manager and looking for a full-time job. I have experience in customer service too. I speak Portuguese and English fluently. I’m learning French as my third language.

Other important things to know: I don’t eat red meat. I don’t drink alcohol. I don’t smoke or do any kind of drugs. I’m neurodivergent (dyscalculia and dyspraxia).

What I expect from you?

I’m looking for someone kind, consistent and loyal. I want a healthy, monogamous and loving relationship.
• You should be at least 5’7
• You must want something serious
• You should be hard-working and provide for our family
• No racism or violence
• Clear communication and real efforts


r/ForeverAloneDating 11h ago

F4M 28 [f4m] #Online - Searching for a genuine connection and more?

18 Upvotes

Hii I'm searching for genuine chats with someone around my age (~26-33) and potentially more down the line if there's a vibe :) I'm from southeast asia, long black hair, brown eyes, people say I'm cute? Maybe it's for you to decide (open to sharing pics later on!!).

I'm an introvert but do quite well in social situations (fake extrovert?) and love connecting with people from around the world. I like art/painting, rock/indie music, writing, creating things, staying active, travelling, cooking. I have a background in psychology/neuroscience and have lived in many countries.

I'm naturally drawn to extroverts because I think it balances with my own nature - someone who is empathetic, witty, and kind (Introverts are more than welcome of course though haha), ambitious, creative in their own way, fit, open-minded.

((In the spirit of transparency, in the past I have been more drawn to wasians or white men (sorry, I guess I fit the stereotype..)). But feel free to text anyway if you think we could connect!

I don't mind texting initially but I would prefer calls/voicenotes down the line, as I think you can get to know someone more that way.

Thanks for reading and text me 'peanut' and your favourite song you're listening to rn just so I know you've read the whole thing. Please don't just say 'hi', make it a bit interesting ;) please only text if you can put some effort in, I’ll match your energy forsure.

I hope you have a wonderful day :)

- M


r/ForeverAloneDating 21h ago

F4M 29F usa- looking to see whose put their

18 Upvotes

Hello, looking for long term relationship where two people can really fall for each other, but that just me being a hopeless romantic I like ,honesty,and just someone who feels genuine to me. About myself, I work full time and I also have great hobbies.

Hobbies i enjoy a lot are being on xbox and from time to time watching a good show like h.o.g or g.o.t fan. I enioy watching those shows. I also like anime. I enjoy shopping and thrifting when I get time. Really great with pets I have a cat who really likes me and is a really great pet. I like music and i often listen to my headphones and like some alternative bands as well as other songs and music. I enjoy fast cars and street bikes and i enjoy outdoors and food. I like variety in my life and conversations that flow really well.

What I'm looking for is someone who has patience and is very committed in the same age range or pretty close in age. Tattoos are welcome, someone who also is in a situation where they are independent.

Travel is always and option so distance really doesn't bother me. As far as personality goes I get along with pretty much all except a few types but I'm very open minded. But i do believe chemistry matters and how people connect matters alot.


r/ForeverAloneDating 17h ago

F4M 45[f4m] Texas looking to have casual conversation and see where things go.

14 Upvotes

I'm a latina, 5'6, non athletic person. Not into exercising. I'm medium build. Big brown eyes. I have no kids just dogs. I'm an introvert but also enjoy spending time with my close friends. I like to dance. Love 90s music. I've been single for a very long time. I think because I never made any effort to try and date again. Now I feel like I have been out of the loop for so long that it makes it harder to dive back in. I'm very independent, liberal, fierce protector of my loved ones. Just giving this a shot because I don't want to do dating apps.


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

F4M 21F [f4m]

11 Upvotes

Ready to date, but keeping it strictly genuine. I like art, style, and good design, and I'd love to find someone on that same wavelength for thoughtful conversations and cool moments.
Note: Serious connections only & under 27.
If that sounds like you, let’s skip the surface-level small talk and see if we click.


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

F4M 27F NY - Capricorn

10 Upvotes

You think you can get drenched in the rain with me, eat ice cream, and listen to "Raindrops Keep Fallin' on My Head"? I'm old school like that. But I also want someone I can argue ideas with, learn a random language with, honestly I don't even know.. let's just find out.

I'm from NY. Working as a research associate right now, on my way to becoming a physician(after MCAT). I am a Muslim and , it's just part of who I am, so that matters to me.

Okay here's the thing, I'm not doing "let's see where this goes" anymore. I want a forever and kids.

I want to cook your favorite meal when you get home. I want to knit you something dumb for your birthday. I want to vent to you when a test destroys me and have you just listen. I want to steal my two days off and just drive somewhere with you for no reason.

I want to grow old with someone and actually feel safe, not spend the whole thing waiting for them to leave. a doberman villain may be 😂

I also want a man to just act like one. Plan the date. Bring flowers.. I love flowers. Take the lead. I'll take care of your heart better than anyone ever has, I promise you that, but I'm not the one running our relationship.

I've been in and out of the gym for 10+ years too, when I'm not drowning in exams that's where I am.

And I'll be honest, when I love someone I go all in, I'd skip class or text you in the middle of an experiment just because I missed you that much. But I don't beg. If you pick someone else, I'm not fighting for a spot in your life. It'll hurt but I'm walking away, because if you actually love someone you don't make them beg to stay.

If all this sounds like too much, then yeah, I'm probably out of your league. I've spent too long asking for too little already.

If you're actually serious and know how to lead, come talk to me.(I promise it won’t be another business meeting)


r/ForeverAloneDating 21h ago

F4M 20 [F4M] #Online #Germany - The reader and fan of simple things

9 Upvotes

Hiii! I’m a 20 year old living in Germany, and I’m hoping to meet someone around my timezone (or at least close enough that we’re not always catching each other while one of us is asleep).

Some about me : I enjoy the simple things in life. I love reading, baking, and spending time in the garden when the weather allows it. I also have a soft spot for snow, cute animals, movie nights, and just enjoying life without making everything overly complicated. Right now I work as a cashier, which means I meet all kinds of people, so I’d love to meet someone here who I can actually connect with on a more personal level.

What I’m looking for: I’d like to get to know someone who’s interested in building a genuine connection and possibly a relationship if we click. Someone who enjoys talking regularly, sharing parts of their day, and seeing where things naturally go.

You don’t have to be in Germany, but must be with a timezone and location next to Germany.

If you decide to message me, tell a some facts about yourself, what you' enjoy doing, and what you’re looking for with mei. I’m exited to meet someone new and see where it leads. At this time I'm currently not looking to talk to dms who outside of my preffered timezone.


r/ForeverAloneDating 13h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #Germany #Online - Looking for the only woman I'll ever be with

5 Upvotes

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great online friendship or maybe even the love of my life on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in musik includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

As for what I am looking for, well, I am obviously a virgin as I am posting here. And I am looking for a relationship. I would describe myself as a hopeless romantic. I always liked the idea of only being with one woman my whole life. Not for religious reasons or anything like that, it is just a personal preference. So I would like to find the love of my life here. I definitely want to be friends first and let things develop at a natural pace.

That is all I have to say for now. If you like what you read, feel free to introduce yourself and we will see. If you are from a different country or continent that is fine. We will find a way if things work out:)


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Turkey/Anywhere - Artsy Melancholic Soul and His Relationship CV

4 Upvotes

Here is my CV for this relationship position:

About me I’m 28, 185cm (6'1"), and I take pride in living a honest life. You’ll usually find me lifting heavy in the gym (deadlifts are my therapy) or working on my game development projects as a 2D/3D Generalist Artist. I’m a "do-it-yourself" guy: I cook, I repair, I restore, and I’m even my own barber. I have a signature style, you’ll rarely see me without my suspenders.

I’m a big fan of the Dark Souls series and its aesthetics. My world revolves around my 7-year-old cat, who I named after a Dark Souls boss. While I’m currently deep in the "grind" of my career, I’m looking for someone who can help me balance that pace and share in the downtime.

I’m a direct, honest, and loyal person, and I’m looking for the same. I’m not interested in casual flings or "situationships." I believe that real, long-lasting connections are built slowly and intentionally. I hold the firm belief that a person's relationship history matters for men and women equally. Because of this, I’m not looking for someone who treats intimacy as something casual; I prefer to let trust and intimacy grow naturally over time. If you are looking for someone to rush into things with, I’m probably not the one.

I’m looking for a partner who is calm, empathetic, and truly values presence. I’m someone who listens more than I talk, and I treat my partner as my absolute priority. I have my own circle of friends, but I’m looking for that special someone who wants to share their life with me as I share mine with them. I don’t believe in sarcasm or games; I believe in clear, open, and sincere communication.

A few practical things:

  • The Cat: He is my world, so you must be a cat lover (and allergy-free).
  • Communication: I value meaningful, consistent communication. I'm not a fan of short, delayed texts, I make time for those who make time for me.
  • Trust: I am loyal to a fault and I expect the same. I’m not comfortable with the "close male friend" dynamic in private settings.
  • Future: I’m building my career now, but I do plan to relocate to another country eventually but not right now.

r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

F4M 19 [F4M] LondonUK/The world Dating Doomsday, This december in the backrow of a dimly lit cinema near you

4 Upvotes

I'm cute, you're stable. I'm fun and depressed, you tolerate fun and are kind to saddos. I can dominate stupid activities like pub quizzes and karaoke, you can dominate the real world and things that matter. I can be brought to your parents and they will think wow how did he pull such a cutie but she's a bit weird, you can be brought to my parents and they will think hmmm he is old and ugly but will bring great blessings to our family. I'm good at wearing cool outfits, devouring new foods and swallowing exotic drinks while travelling, you are good at planning and booking and reading maps. I'm good at distractedly watching movies while writing poems or dressing up in funny clothes, you are good at paying attention and explaining the plot to me if I have missed it or which character is which.
Just a girl seeking a guy. Want real world dates not online, I'm trapped in hellhole London, I can be flown out to you for the most amazing date ever if you really want. Talk to me, tell me about yourself.


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] UK, Germany, Europe - Looking for a romantic connection to swap songs and playlists with

3 Upvotes

Hii! 25M from the UK here, I thought I'd try my luck here and see if I can find anyone who might be looking for the same kinda thing!

Just to fill in a few of the blanks about myself quickly: I work as a software engineer, my biggest hobbies are music (mostly playing guitar, and please feel free to spam me with playlists/songs you like!), I do quite enjoy nice walks out in the countryside, late night drives, and a little gaming if I get the time. I've also been told I'm fairly laid back, and kinda nerdy with an easy sense of humour. Physically I'm 6 foot tall, with blonde hair and blue eyes, I'm also happy to swap pictures to help get familiar with each other. I know this is quite brief but if there's anything else you do wanna know about me feel free to ask 🤗

I'm ideally looking for someone who is also looking for some sort of connection if that's not too much of a cliche haha, I would say I'm largely more attracted to personality than appearance. It would be nice if you were also from the UK, but I do have a potential move to Germany in the near future too - either way it would be nice to actually meet up sometime! :) I don't have any particular age in mind, but the closer to my age you are I'm sure it'll be easier to get along.

Thank you for reading, I'm happy to talk on any platform later but feel free to shoot me a message here whenever first!


r/ForeverAloneDating 10h ago

M4F 39 [M4F] Los Angeles.. Not sure where to look anymore

3 Upvotes

This sub popped up so I decided to give it a shot..

Anyway here’s a little about myself:

Like the title says I’ve come to realization that apps might not be for me so I am giving this a chance.. I’m in my “weight loss era” I’ve lost 70 pounds over the last year.. I enjoy going to concerts, stand up shows, dive bars, bowling, movies, hanging out with family and friends

All the basic stuff

Here’s what I look like:

https://imgur.com/a/Ne3Vk0X


r/ForeverAloneDating 13h ago

M4F 46 [M4F] #Virginia - Looking for a deep connection, open to international

4 Upvotes

I’m 46, live in Virginia, and I’m looking for a relationship that has the potential to become something long-term. I’m open to meeting someone anywhere in the US and would also consider someone outside the country if we’re a good match.

A little about me, I enjoy mountain biking, traveling, exploring new places, and spending time outdoors. I have a stable career, value honesty, communication. I am divorced dad with older kids. I’d rather build something that has potential for long-term than rush into something. So it’s important to me to take things slowly. I’d rather spend time getting to know each other to develop a deep connection. I’m not looking to force anything or rush a connection. I’d rather let it grow naturally.

I’m looking for someone who is doing their self-growth work, strong, sense of humor and interested in getting to know each other. I don’t expect perfection.

Distance doesn’t scare me if there’s mutual effort and a plan to eventually be together.

Tell me a little about yourself and what your goals are.


r/ForeverAloneDating 22h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] East Coast USA - "She's perfect for you, Man there's got to be somebody for me"

5 Upvotes

I'm a 29 year old software engineer, originally from New York (and very much culturally from New York) but currently living in Maryland. As far as the appearance, I've got long brown hair (turning gray because I'm cursed) and a beard, and you'll usually see me with aviators and leather jackets. Pictures available upon request, tit-for-tat.

Hobby wise, I like to think of myself as someone who doesn't fit neatly into a box. I'm an amateur genealogist, a baseball fan, a video game nerd (just started a FireRed nuzlocke), a music aficionado (pretty much any genre, ask me about my playlists), an improv comedy appreciator, and several other things that I drift in and out of based on the day.

On the personality side, I'm as loyal as they come. I'm happy to do whatever, as long as it is with the people I care about. I'm a chronic overthinker, so I do best with straight shooters and other people with strong communication skills. I like to think of myself as a class clown type and I'm always trying to crack jokes. Especially at my own expense, self-deprecation is probably my finest skill. But I'm also very introspective and try to think through every decision logically. I'm a problem solver at my job, and I carry that into my life, for good or for bad. I'm a bit of an oddball, but hopefully on the endearing side of things more than anything. I'm happy to be a rubber duck for your day or just be a friendly face messing around on some video games. I'm also very much a supporter of the rule of law and of the right for people to be free to live their lives without harassment. If that's not you, please avoid for both our sakes.

My previous experiences here have left me with great memories but also some hesitation. I'm working through it, and I think six months is plenty of time to try and put myself out there, but it wasn't pretty. I'm probably going to be a lot more guarded than I may have been in the past, and take things much slower than previously, but if you can work past that, hopefully I'm exactly what you've waited for.

That's a lot about me, so let's talk about you.

Ideally, you're within my age range and within the United States. The closer to Maryland the better, although if you're willing to travel at some point, I'm open to that. In the past, I would travel, but given how that has gone in the past, I need to really be comfortable before I decide to give that another try. Aside from that, you're ideally also someone who has no problem saying what's on their mind, and not prone to "holding stuff in" or "pushing through things". It's best for both of us to be good communicators (and err on the side of over-communication more than anything). And really, at the end of the day, you're looking to stop having to look through posts like this and instead looking to commit to a happy life with me by your side. Not sure if that's too sappy or what, but that's certainly all I want.

Feel free to shoot me a message. I'm more likely to respond if you take the time to tell me about yourself instead of just dropping a few characters. Much easier to build a conversation and all that.

I can't wait to hear from you. But if I don't, I wish you the best of luck in your search.


r/ForeverAloneDating 22h ago

F4M 50 [F4M]#USA Looking for a Life Partner

4 Upvotes

"I'm a 50-year-old woman from Hong Kong 5'7", about 120 lbs. Financially set, own my place, run my own show, and honestly? I'm pretty damn confident in my own skin. I'm about to retire, which means I can literally pack up and bounce anywhere at the drop of a hat.

Been single for over four years now, and let me tell you I've handled everything on my own in that time. Work stuff, life stuff, all of it. Every damn thing. And after a while, you start feeling like something's… off. Like, this ain't it. So I made a call I'm ready for something steady, something that lasts.

I live for travel and taking in the scenery along the way. I'm looking for a partner who's got my back someone independent, mature, loyal, and with their own life together. I still believe life's full of surprises, and I'm dying for some real, meaningful conversations that go deeper than small talk.

Age-wise, I'm thinking 48 to 70 so if you're in that ballpark and this resonates with you, hit me up. Let's see where this goes."


r/ForeverAloneDating 23h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] Vancouver B.C./ Hong Kong/ anywhere - Looking for a nerdy life partner

5 Upvotes

Hello. I'm a Chinese Canadian. I am 5'6 tall and wear glasses. I'd like to think I have slightly better than average looks but you can be the judge. I am willing to send my photos early. I am currently a PhD student, hoping to graduate next year. I intend to acquire a professorship after I graduate but my career choices are flexible. My current aspiration is to become a professor of teaching. I find it deeply rewarding to see students make connections and fully comprehend difficult concepts. I really enjoy seeing the aha expression on their faces.

After I graduate, I also plan to explore opportunities outside of Canada. In particular, I am considering Hong Kong and by extension China, where I hold citizenship. That said, I might also pursue a career in industry, which offers ample remote opportunities that would allow me to live where my partner does. I have a preference for a North America long-distance relationship due to time zones, but ultimately, as long as we both make the effort to meet each other, I am open to different arrangements.

My friends describe me as kind, patient, thoughtful, and funny. I am also loyal and romantic. I've been told I am sweet. I would say I have a sarcastic sense of humour. I also really enjoy puns and dad jokes, and just like to laugh in general. This happened during a DnD session. A person was joking and mentioned that only Vtuber and adjacent communities would understand the joke. I replied do you mean Utubers and Wtubers?

I also like to engage in long and thoughtful discussions. I enjoy having my thought processes challenged and have thought-provoking discussions that expand my horizons. Politically I am on the left and I am agnostic. While I do lean towards having kids eventually, I am open to being childfree. I don't do drugs. I only drink on special occasions.

I have primarily nerdy interests (video games, horror films, escape rooms). I love the RPG and strategy genres. I like story shooters too. My favourite are RPG games like Baldur's Gate III and Honkai: star rail. I play DnD online weekly with a group of friends. I collect Pokemon cards too. I am currently playing DOOM: the dark ages and it is a blast. I've also recently watched Obsession and that was an amazing experience. No spoilers but there is a scene that you know something is going to happen and when it did happen, I muttered holy s*** in the theatre. I would love to discuss the film further if you've watched it too. Outside of those interests, I enjoy hiking and going to the gym. I hope to be able to benchpress two plates by the end of summer. I also want to travel more and explore the world too. I'll be having a conference in Europe in late August so if you are from Europe, I am down to take a side trip and meet. I dabble a bit into cooking. My proudest creation is a beef wellington. Food also just tastes so much better when you cook it yourself. I am more than happy sharing photos of my cooking too.

I am looking to connect with someone who doesn't mind spending some evenings at home, watching a tv show, playing some games, talking about our days went or just cuddling. Ultimately I want a relationship where we bring out the best in each other. Making my partner happy is my first and foremost goal in a relationship, and seeing them happy makes me happy too.

It's fine if you don't share all my interests as long as you are open to exploring my interest. I will also do so for yours. Though I think it would be ideal that you have some interest in nerdy content to an extent so that there is something we can do together and bond over online. I also want to be honest about physical preferences as well. I tend to be most drawn to women with lighter-coloured eyes, and someone who is somewhat HWP or on a weight loss journey. Thanks for reading. If you are interested, please send me a message and tell me about yourself.


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] - New England, USA - Giving this another shot

3 Upvotes

Hello!

I'm a 31 year old man from the United States. My hobbies include working on tech projects, writing fiction, playing video games, and most recently e-biking. Because I work freelance, I have a lot of free time to spend on these interests. I'm constantly looking for new experiences, new music, and new things in general to enjoy, so please do share your favorite music and games with me.

I'm looking to connect with a woman who knows what she wants and has good communication skills. I have a lot of free time on my hands, meaning I'll have plenty of time to spend chatting and getting to know you. I would love to spend it with someone who is open-minded, has a positive outlook on life and is looking for a meaningful relationship. It would be especially nice if you share similar interests and have a similarly free schedule.

It's worth mentioning that I have a physical disability and while it doesn't define me, it is a part of me. I'm looking for someone who is comfortable with this fact and willing to accept me for who I am. I believe that a strong connection and mutual understanding are much more important than any physical differences. I am open to dating others who are also disabled, but this is by no means a requirement.

I believe in being a safe space for my partner, someone they can trust and rely on. I'm a problem solver at heart and I would always rather discuss things than argue. I'm looking for someone who shares this mindset and is willing to communicate openly and honestly. Someone who is kind, understanding, and empathetic. I'm not the type of person who can leave a problem unfixed; I prefer to talk things out and find solutions rather than let things lie.

One of my favorite things is learning about new people. I love to try to see the world from other people's perspectives- So please do share yours with me.

Important side notes:

-Interested in anyone 25-35 or so, but this is flexible

-I am STRICTLY CHILDFREE.

-Strictly Monogamous. Nonreligious, but not bothered by it/supportive of those who are.

-I do not drink (ever) or do any hard drugs. I smoke weed maybe once a year if that. Nonjudgemental on drinking (within reason) but I am not interested in hard drug users.

-I only speak English, unfortunately!

If you're interested in learning more about me, please send me a message or chat. Let's see where this journey takes us.


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

F4M 25 [F4M] Colombia // Open to International Connections ✨

2 Upvotes

Hi 🌼

Nice to meet you!

A bit about me: I’d describe myself as someone who values depth, consistency, and emotional presence over quick sparks.

I’m not close off to meaningful connections that bring something more. Big fan of romanticism and stability in all life senses.

In my day-to-day, I spend time drawing, taking care of my health (home workouts, healthy diet), big fan of enjoining a really good cup of capuccino or hot chocolate on my daily routine. I appreciate people who have their own world, but are open to sharing it.

I’m looking to meet someone 29+ who is emotionally aware, communicates clearly, and knows what they want (or is at least honest about where they are). I’m open to long-distance that becomes a more in person relationship over time. I’d like getting to know someone from different parts of the world (except people located in the US or Canada - personal preference).

Looking forward to expand my horizons I’m also grounded to a more solid and stable concept of a real relationship. Not in a rush, but I do value intention. If you’re someone who can hold a conversation, is curious about life, and shows up consistently, we can start from there.

Another curiosity about me, I’m allergic to cat’s fur since a kid, if you have a puffy companion we might not be a good fit 🌻

Tell me something you’ve been genuinely enjoying lately if you think we might be a good match✨


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] #Ireland #Online Looking for a connection

3 Upvotes

I’m a 26-year-old guy from Ireland who’s looking for a genuine connection, whether that ends up being friendship or something deeper. Ideally we share the same time zone or one that’s workable.

A little about me:

I love travelling, nothing better then planning a quick city break and exploring a new place for the weekend.

I’m big into video games it’s my main way of unwinding after a day of work. My favourite game is red dead redemption 2.

Music who doesn’t like it. We can share spotifys and see how we line up on tastes.

I love trying to cook new foods. Finding new ways to challenge my cooking skills. Maybe you could share some of your favourite recipes.

What I’m really after is that spark — the kind where you both feel like talking about anything that pops into your head, laugh about the same weird stuff, and actually care about what’s going on in each other’s lives.

If any of that sounds like you’d like it, slide into my DMs or start a chat. Let’s talk and see where it goes.


r/ForeverAloneDating 9h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] England/Anywhere - Alternative cat dad seeking someone cozy, kind, and a little weird. ฅ₍^•⩊ •マⳊ

3 Upvotes

I've reached a point in my life where I've become painfully aware that I don't really have anyone I feel deeply connected to. I have roughly two souls I can always rely on... and they both happen to be cats. As wonderful as they are, they're terrible conversationalists. I'd love to find someone I can genuinely build a life with! Someone to talk to until 2am, share games and movies with, laugh at stupid memes with, cuddle the hell out of, and simply make ordinary days feel exciting.

I'm a 32 year old guy from the south coast of England! I don't work at the moment, so this means that my free time is almost boundless. I'd absolutely love to game, watch movies, listen to music together, just chat or whatever! I'm not the most social or extroverted person, I'll be the first to admit that I'm not a simple person. I have a bunch of quirks and I have my own difficulties such as an awful case of anxiety and OCD. But I'll always try my best to be good company and brighten your day!

I'm pale, I'm six foot tall with fairly long dark brown hair and hazel eyes. I'm pretty much always wearing glasses as my vision has decided to gradually give up on me and I prefer to keep to an alternative kind of aesthetic (I guess it could be described as a mix between gothic and anime streetwear). I also have a couple of piercings and may or may not decide on tattoos in the future. Probably something in a biomechanical style. Kinda like a robotic arm! You know, cyberpunk vibes.

I'm a laid back, mostly calm kind of guy and I'm always doing my best to remain optimistic. Life's tough, so it's nice to get away from all of that. I have quite an eccentric, cynical and at times quite a dark sense of humour. So I definitely get along best with others that aren't quick to take offense. And I'm usually pretty playful when I've grown comfy around someone. It does take me a bit to warm up, especially on voice calls.. But afterwards, I'm a very loyal person.

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• ᴠɪᴅᴇᴏ ɢᴀᴍᴇs 🎮

I'm a PC gamer and I don't have any consoles at the moment sadly. I play a lot of games and hopefully you do as well! I'd love to have somebody to play co-op with! I play a wide variety of genres but my favourites will always be RPG games such as Assassin's Creed, Borderlands, Persona, Dragon Age, The Witcher, Fallout and The Elder Scrolls. I also love survival and I've been interested in playing Once Human properly as well as Enshrouded! Or more casual things like Stardew Valley or Terraria or Golf It! I've also played many MMOs in my time and wouldn't rule them out!

• ᴀɴɪᴍᴇ 🎌

I love to binge watch anime although I don't really like doing so by myself! It's just not as much fun and I tend to get distracted too easily.. So, if you are into it, or are willing to try it, that's a bonus as well! I like a wide variety of it, though my favourites are Gintama, Beelzebub, Assassination Classroom, Death Parade, Re:Zero and Soul Eater.

• sʜᴏᴡs ᴀɴᴅ ᴍᴏᴠɪᴇs 🎥

Some shows that I like/have liked are It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia (my permanent number one pick), What We Do In The Shadows, Rick & Morty, Brooklyn Nine-Nine, Community, Arrested Development, Archer.. When it comes to movies.. I like comedies, thrillers, horrors, mysteries and especially anything psychological. Oh and lots of superhero stuff like The Boys or Invincible! Again, if we could watch stuff together, it'd be awesome.

• ᴍᴜsɪᴄ 🎶

EDM (Electronic Dance Music) and the many, many sub genres has always had my heart. With Porter Robinson being my favourite artist. Although I've been through many phases and some stuff has stuck with me including rock, metal or even just simple alt pop. In general, I'll give anything a go, no matter the genre and I'd love to share musical interests.

• ᴀɴɪᴍᴀʟs 🐈

I adore animals. Probably more than I like most human beings in all honesty. Especially felines or other fluffy bundles of joy. [Here's kitty tax](https://ibb.co/xqTQyh2z)

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• ᴡʜᴀᴛ ɪ·ᴍ ʟᴏᴏᴋɪɴɢ ғᴏʀ

I'm not really the most picky person out there when it comes to a relationship. I don't mind how old you are, as long as you're over eighteen and.. I guess not TOO much older (let's say ten years older at most). I don't mind where you're from as long as you're interested in meeting up someday as I don't want to stay virtual forever. I don't have much preference about looks either. What's important is that we connect deeply on an emotional level. What I do however see as non-negotiable is that I'll only ever consider a completely dedicated, monogamous relationship.

Communication would ideally be on Discord. And voice calls would be something I'd ideally want to do at least semi-often. I'm happy to start off messaging back and forth on Reddit though.

If you've somehow made it all the way down here without falling asleep, firstly I'm impressed. Secondly, I'd genuinely love to hear from you. Tell me about yourself, your favourite games, show me your pets (instant bonus points), or just tell me what you've been obsessed with lately. I'd rather receive one thoughtful message than several one line introductions.


r/ForeverAloneDating 11h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] #UK #online be the reason I leave this subreddit

3 Upvotes

Hi all! My name is Jack, Im 26 and Im from the UK, putting feelers out there for new people! I'm sick of dating apps, so here I am trying my luck at Reddit dating

Few things about me, my interests and hobbies:

Firstly, I'm 6'1, brown hair and brown eyes, a full beard I keep tidy and I have tattoos.

I go to the gym, not to gain bulk or get shredded or anything, I have a dad bod I can get insecure about sometimes, so I use the gym to help keep myself in check

I also have a wardrobe composed entirely of hawaiian shirts, shorts, sandals and suits for special occasions

I'm a big video game guy, so Pokemon, Marvel Rivals and Stardew Valley currently, anything and everything inbetween! I play primarily on PC, though I do also own a Switch for Pokemon, Splatoon and Smash 🙂 I also play Pokemon competitively, so if you're from the UK/Europe or can travel from wherever you are, Id love for you to come to tournaments! Ill treat you even if I lose

Im a leftist, feminist, socialist, any kind of ist that would make Tory/Reform UK voters/MAGA people hate me

I collect Pokemon cards, LEGO, Marvel comics, alcohol (Im not a drunk, I just like an abundant collection for when I host my friends) and Funkos! Maybe we can compare 👀

I'm currently learning to drive, it was delayed by my family all these years due to my epilepsy, but now I'm gunning for it. A life goal of mine is to travel across Europe in a van I've built into a camper with my dog Twix, I could do with a travel buddy

I have a previous working career in finance (finance, trust fund, 6'1, brown eyes) but I recently quit my job to focus full time on both an accounting qualification and a cyber security university course, I was sick of corporate finance and wanted something more personally gratifying than making rich people richer.

I own a pet chihuahua called Twix who is my absolute best friend in the world. If she likes you, I will like you

I'm not really looking for any particular type, just please be 21+!

And thats all from me! If you've read this far, tell me what your favourite Pokemon or video game character is, or your preferred role in Marvel Rivals if you play! I need a duo to boost me in ranked 💀


r/ForeverAloneDating 13h ago

F4A 22 [F4A] #Ohio

3 Upvotes

Please read the entire thing before reaching out!

Major deal breakers; if you support the current president and/or anything he stands by, if you are a dry texter, if you're looking for easy sex, if you live any farther than a neighboring state, if you have/want kids, if you have a history of cheating, if you're nonchalant, if you rely on ChatGPT

I am a bit nervous to get back into the dating scene. If we click, please let us get to know each other before anything more!

Anyway, hi! I'm Eleanor, Elly / Elly Anne for short (very much preferred name, not my birth name!). I'm 22 years old, 5'4", about 175lbs. I'm a cat mom, artist, gamer and 420 friendly. I still live with my family thanks to the economy (and anxiety). But I like to think of myself as independent in my personal life. I have a car and a full time job. I'm open, honest and communicative. Around here, TMI means Tell Me Immediately. I just started therapy for my (many) anxieties. I've always had a preference for older ladies and gentlemen despite my healthy relationship with my parents. Hm. My moods can change very quickly and easily. I laugh loud, openly express my emotions, and have been told that I'm "too much" more than once. I'm quick to reply most of the time. But sometimes I read texts and either promise I'll respond later but I never do, or I think I respond but I didn't, thus leading to me feeling terrible about it, so double texts are welcome!

My interests are but not limited to; Outlast (1, 2 & Trials), Five Nights at Freddy's, Dying Light (1 & The Beast), Helluva Boss (I promise I'm not one of *those* fans), the paranormal, Jim Henson films, The Conjuring universe, Markiplier & Iron Lung movie ... that's all I can think of for now

Some fun facts; I met Markiplier once! I'm a hairy girl, I rarely ever shave. I'm an agnostic Satanist (I encourage you to do your own research but I'm happy to answer questions). I'm an avid listener of FNAF fansongs. I detest ghosting.

Speaking of ghosting! I will not stand for it. Unless I am let known that you will be gone, if 48 hours go by since your last message your ass will be blocked and I will move on. I do not believe in "tunnel vision" or being too busy to take not even a one minute break to say "hey, I'm busy and can't talk now, we'll talk later."

Ice breakers! What's your hear me out character? And no, it cannot be a conventionally attractive person, that is NOT a hear me out. Do you also listen to FNAF fansongs, and what's your favorite? What's the weirdest dream you've had? Please include the words pineapple juice in your greeting so I know you read all this :3


r/ForeverAloneDating 13h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] UK - Am I your dream guy? I hope not, most of my dreams are really weird.

3 Upvotes

Hello there! As mentioned in my title (You did read the title, I hope? I put a lot of effort into it.), I'm a 29-year-old guy living in the mystical, magical land of \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*checks notes\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* England. That noise you just heard is me letting out a long sigh. Okay, maybe not so magical. All the dragons are in Wales, Excalibur has been melted down for scrap, and Hogwarts is in Scotland.

I currently work in a law firm. Sadly I'm not a lawyer, as that would mean I'd be earning shedloads more, but actually I do admin work for them, earning considerably less than shedloads. But it's a fine job, I get on well with my coworkers, and I'm not down a coal mine or sweeping chimneys, so I consider that a win.

As for me myself? Well, I actually speak multiple languages. I'm a fluent German speaker, and I also have a decently high level of Italian. I could also struggle through French if I had to, and I have basic Spanish and Japanese. I would like to learn more languages, although it's hard to find the time to do any study of them, what with the problems of having an adult life with adult responsibilities!

Another interesting \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\[citation needed\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\] thing about me is that I'm currently attempting to write a fantasy novel. It's going...decently. We'll see how it ends up, but I've wanted to write a book since I was 13 or so, and now as an adult I'm finally doing something about it!

In terms of pop culture, I'm a huge Doctor Who fan. Like, I'm the sort of Doctor Who fan who knows what a telerecording is and can tell you about the Australian censor clips. That kind of fan. I also finally got into Harry Potter last year after putting it off for my whole life, meaning I now finally know the context for Dumbledore asking calmly.

I'm also getting back into Pokémon somewhat after avoiding it for most of the Switch era. Other things I enjoy are The Elder Scrolls, Red Dead, GTA (Currently replaying RDR2). I'm big Assassin's Creed fan too. In general I like single player, open world games. I'm not a huge multiplayer guy, I don't like having other people ruining my fun!

I'm trying to read more too lately. That's a thing I've always enjoyed that I'm now trying to find the time for again. I'm in a book club at work, where we express such hot takes as "Thursday Murder Club is a bit rubbish, actually".

And I suppose I should say, I'm a fat guy. Trying to do something about it though! Over the past year or so I've started a regimen of exercise, and I've been controlling my eating a lot more. So I seem to be losing weight, at least according to other people who've stopped me to specifically point it out.


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 26M from Europe - looking for a seriuos relationship

2 Upvotes

Hello everyone, I figured it couldn't hurt to try posting here. If you want to change something in your life, you have to take action, right?

A little about me: I’m a strong introvert, but not shy. I like spending time alone or with people close to me, I’m not really the party-going type.

My hobbies include music, especially gothic and doom metal, but I also enjoy other genres. Video games, particularly RPGs and strategy games. Books, especially fantasy. I like watching movies and TV shows. I also enjoy walking in nature, skiing and scuba diving, I’m an advanced diver. I’m also interested in science in the broad sense and history, I can read for hours about historical events that catch my interest.

As for my physical appearance, I'm 178 cm tall, I'm slim, I have short black hair and gray-green eyes.

I am an engineer with a college degree, and I work in my field. Even so, I'm still thinking about continuing my education, while I still can and want to.

I don't smoke, I stay away from any drugs, I drink very rarely, and always in small amounts, usually when someone has a birthday. I prefer to have a cup of coffee or tea, especially if it's strongly brewed.

I have a fairly liberal, somewhat left-leaning worldview, issues like human rights and environmental protection are important to me. I was raised as a catholic as a child, but now I’m an agnostic and don’t follow any religion. I speak English and Polish.

What I'm looking for is someone with whom I could build a stable relationship based on shared interests and at least somewhat similar worldviews. I believe that, contrary to some sayings, opposites don't actually attract, and that's why it's so hard for me to meet someone in real live.

I prefer to take things slowly at the beginning of a relationship, without rushing. I think it's best to get to know each other well first, for example by exchanging thoughts and talking about hobbies. Feel free to DM me, or not, depending on whether you're interested in talking to someone like me.


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F 23 [M4F] #Online - Nerdy femboy in search of role reversal relationship <3

2 Upvotes

Hewwo! ♥

I'm hoping to find something meaningful. I'd love to one day be in a role reversal relationship with a cg/l dynamic. I'm pretty sensitive and absolutely love being babied and cared for! I see myself being a stay-at-home partner, taking care of things like cleaning, cooking, doing the dishes, buying groceries and making sure you have the easiest time after coming home from a long day at work! If possible, I'd also like doing some work from home like electronics repair, manufacturing useful products for people or anything else I might be interested in, but I'd primarily be focused on doing everything I can for you!

It can take me a while to warm up to someone new, but once I'm well-acquainted, I can be really affectionate- I'd text you every other hour for virtual hugs (I need a lot of them!) and I'd love spending time on voice calls, watching stuff together or playing co-op games like Portal or Human Fall Flat. And I can totally ramble your ears off talking about my interests, something I'm working on at the time and so on! Unfortunately, I'm very far away from the developed world, but I'd be fully open to relocating to you if you could help facilitate it. And while we are still apart, I can sync my sleep schedule with yours so we can spend the most time together ^^

As for my appearance, I'm 5'6", have fair skin and I'm pretty slim, with long wavy black hair and dark brown eyes! I haven't explored different styles all that much, but I do love wearing black, and also cold-shoulder tops!

I tend to age regress involuntarily when I'm in my comfort zone, but not to a very young age, I would say I'm more of a middle. I really like being childlike in my behavior and speech, and I'm scared of doing some grown-up things like driving or going to the doctor by myself. I love to snuggle in a blankie and cuddle with my favorite teddy bear at bedtime, it's hard for me to sleep without that. And I like making pillow forts for me to hide inside! I'm also a bit of a crybaby.

I'd love being with someone caring and protective. Someone who'd hold me and make me feel safe, speak to the waiter on my behalf at the restaurant, hold the door open for me, stuff along those lines! I'm also an atheist and would highly prefer my partner be the same or similar in that aspect. And I'd be most comfortable meeting people who are under 35 years old ^^

To add a bit more about myself, I spend most of my day in my room, working on random nerdy stuff, watching youtube or TV shows and movies, playing PC games, and sometimes I'm just sat there staring at a wall hehe. I also enjoy going out on walks, having fun with diy rc vehicles and hanging out with stray cats! I'm entirely self-educated, proper schools don't exist where I live. I've always been into learning about the things that pique my interest from youtube and other online platforms ever since I was little! I love fixing things and understanding what makes them tick, and working on random projects like custom smart home stuff with ESP32s, high voltage stuff like tesla coils, long-range radios, hardware hacking, etc! I value privacy and I'm strongly against mass surveillance, I try to avoid any online service that's known to disrespect user privacy and use open-source software whenever possible, like running Linux on my computers, de-googled Android on my phones, and self-hosting my own services like Immich, Home Assistant and cloud storage!

Hope this post did a good job at expressing who I am. I want to write soo much more, but I'd rather not take any more of your time. Here's a yummy cookie for making it to the end! 🍪