how are other folks faring? i see a lot of local places have removed their information and resources and after pride being cancelled, im feeling pretty pessimistic and depressed about it all. everything feels like its on the hush hush. i feel like a prohibition era criminal just trying to get my trans care done :/

Does anyone else feel like the construction on calkins is not just slow, but poor quality? Anywhere they’ve needed to cut into the road is a half assed patch and now that road just feels bad to drive down. I go down this street every day for work so there might be some bias, but now I’m wishing after they’re done with the sewer (I think that’s what they’re doing anyways) u think they should replace that section of road entirely

HMU :) looking for genuine platonic friendships 🫶🏽🥰🤗

A little about me:
•30F💁🏻‍♀️
•Asian🇨🇳
•Pisces♓️🐟
•dog mom 🐕‍🦺🐾
•cat mom 🐈🐈‍⬛🐾
•420 friendly 💚
•bi🌈🏳️‍🌈
•Single🧍🏻‍♀️(& loving it 🥰)
•American Sign Language 🤟🏽
•Foodie🍔🌭🍟🥔 🍝
•Love beaches 🏖️
•Work night shifts🌙
•Hobbies: photography 📸, gym 🏃🏻‍♀️🏋🏻‍♀️, gaming 💻🎮, learning more ASL🤟🏽, listening to music 🎵, reading 📖, coloring 🖍️

•Requirements: Be kind, respect boundaries, and don’t turn this into a dating application. I’m looking for genuine platonic friends only. 😊

Has anything here seen the Odyssey at Tinseltown in 70mm? I have a gift card and want to see the movie but they are all basically sold out besides a couple seats front row which I am not a big fan of. Is it worth it to wait? Or should I go to the regular showing? Is the 70mm showing a must see? Thank you

I’m an incoming PhD student from Texas and, being so far away, has proven to be an issue when it comes to renting. I’m having placing a lot of trust in property owners and I have seen plenty of warnings about which ones to avoid.

Right now, I’m kinda down to the wire for renting. Being far away puts me at a disadvantage for apartment showings and getting my foot in the door.

Right now, I found an apartment that seems to check all my boxes except for one thing I’m super not used to. A basement rental.

I have ZERO experience with basements, let alone basement living, I wanted to get opinions if this is something I should consider seriously or if I need to keep looking. Additionally, any other tips are welcomed! Thank yall! 🦭

EDIT: Thank you everyone who responded!! All your comments were spot on. That ‘apartment’ was shit lolll. The hunt goes on…

Now, I’d like to start this with saying I’m 25, female, pansexual

But how tf do people make friends these days 😔 I have always struggled with making friends, even from a young age. But, it seems like these days people are always just ghosting after two conversations, or have ulterior motives.

I am very blunt, but kind. I am the type of person that always helps others, and expect nothing in return. I am pro BLM+/LGBTQIA. I spend my weekends sometimes helping with the House of Mercy with feeding the homeless. And I work 25/8.

Places/recommendations?

Hi!

I grew up in Brighton, hoping to move back in the next year or two. My husband has never been to Rochester and we’re going to visit in early October or September.

Any recommendations on places to eat in Brighton, Pittsford, Fairport etc? Not looking to really dive into downtown too much honestly.

Nothing crazy either (if you have celiac you get it). I just would like some food I don’t need to make myself in a hotel room at some point. 😄

Is anyone else out there having the worst time dealing with this place? It is the most unorganized college I have ever seen. Current student here, and the level of frustration with this place grows every single day. GET YOUR SHIT TOGETHER!

Looking for a tarot or psychic reader who does home parties on Saturday afternoons. I've seen a few readers before but they're not available at the time I need. Nothing extravagant, party of about 4-7 people for a bachelorette. Thank you!

Tried their food yesterday and was pleasantly surprised. They have these pizza bombs that are basically like crazy puffs from little Caesars that are really good. I had one of those, and a deep dish pepperoni slice that was almost like Detroit style but tender instead of cutting your gums with sharp edges. I am going to try their regular slice today I think. Im usually more of a purist when it comes to sauce: i like seasoned, crushed san marzano tomatoes, not some marinara crap. However, their sauce is very good.

Does anyone have recommendations for a residential bridge builder?

I'm on the far west side of Rochester and they put the stone down about 3 weeks ago. How did this work, what is the schedule? When will the street be paved over and back to normal?

I’m looking for event space in ROC for middle of October. Around 100 people, food services needed as well. Open to all spaces so long as they have a liquor license. Already reached out to Richmond’s and Rohrbach’s. tyia

I have had spectrum for about 15 years but it cuts out a lot. My Internet bill is $55 a month after a $20 promo ($175 total for my Cable subscription and Internet) I know Greenlight is available in my neighborhood.

Looking for recommendations for an exceptional male therapist in the Rochester, NY area.

This is for a 58 year old man who is going through an extremely difficult emotional crisis after an unexpected pregnancy. He's normally outgoing, social, resilient, the life of the party, and has never been someone who struggles with anxiety or depression.

Over the past month, he's become a completely different person. He's had severe insomnia, says his mind won't stop spinning, feels like he's in a dark place, has withdrawn from people and activities he normally loves, says he doesn't want to see anyone, talk to anyone, or do anything, and is overwhelmed trying to process what he sees as a life-altering change.

I'm looking for a therapist who is especially good with men facing major life transitions, grief, trauma, or overwhelming stress. Ideally, someone who is direct, experienced, and connects well with men who normally would never consider therapy. Experience helping men navigate unexpected pregnancies or similarly life-altering situations would be a huge plus.

Personal recommendations would mean a lot. Thank you.

According to the bus schedule, the Trailways and Greyhound bus station appears to have moved from Cumberland to Pleasant St. Does anyone know if this is the case or have seen the buses parked on Pleasant of late?

Im looking for one near rit. Could somebody please recommend me one

My husband has a very specific dinner craving: pancakes, eggs, mozzarella sticks, and pizza logs… all in the same meal.

We used to go to Golden Fox on Culver Rd, but it seems to have closed. It was one place that could satisfy all of those cravings at once.

Is there anywhere around Rochester that can make this combination happen?

I was not familiar with this business prior to this location opening on Empire Blvd. What’s the deal? The place is often SWAMPED with cars, sometimes wrapping out of the parking lot (they even have traffic directors). Most days there are also like 25+ teenagers out front waving “free drinks” signs roadside at traffic in all weather conditions & often there are multiple booth style tents set up in the parking lot with different companies at them like a mini convention. I also often see full on decorations happening some days with like.. Hawaiian style inflated balloon palm trees and people dressed up, & bunch of LED lights. Shit, today there were a ton of them in the parking lot dressed up as what looked like literal res phone booths! I’ve also seen many cars in the area with writing on the windows like “we love 7 brew!” etc. It’s catching me very off guard most days now as I pass that area often in my daily commute.

I’m all for a business having a positive environment & this post isn’t meant to come across as me hating or being a grouchy old individual. I’m just genuinely curious about all the buzz & why they are always just giving their product away for free?🤔 Is this common for this company & as far as concurrent busyness, will it calm down as time passes or should I expect this to be a new normal for traffic in that area? Regardless, it’s working because it has my attention & i’d be lying if I said I wasn’t considering stopping & trying something.

Hey Rochester!
I’m moving to the area in August to start as an engineer at the Kraft Heinz plant in Avon, and I’m actively searching for a female roommate to split a 2-bedroom apartment. My budget is around $1,200–1,500/month for my share of rent (so we’d ideally find a 2BR in the $2,400–3000 range).
About me: I’m 22, a recent Industrial Engineering grad from UW-Madison, clean and organized, work full-time so weeknights are quiet for me, but I’m genuinely hoping to build a friend group here since I’m new to the city. I grew up in Kolkata and moved to the US alone for college, so I’m comfortable with independent living and getting to know new people.
I’ve narrowed down my search to a few buildings and I’d love local feedback on them before I tour.
My top choices right now:
• The Metropolitan (1 S Clinton Ave, downtown)
• 88 on Elm (88 Elm St, downtown)
Questions I have for you:
1. Neighborhoods: Which of these neighborhoods would you actually recommend for a 22-year-old wanting to make friends and have a social life? Which are safest?
2. Winter/commute: I work at the plant in Avon, so my commute is roughly 25–30 minutes from downtown. Is that doable in Rochester winters? How often do the main roads get plowed?
3. Apartment feedback: Have you lived in or know anyone in The Metropolitan, 88 on Elm? Real feedback on management, maintenance, community vibe?
4. Roommate finding: Besides Facebook groups and Roomies.com, where else should I be looking? Any Rochester-specific tips?
5. General advice: Anything a newcomer should know about living here that I’m not thinking of?
Also, if you’re a female looking for a roommate or know someone who is, please DM me! I’m flexible on the exact neighborhood as long as it’s safe and walkable, and I’m open to people my age or a bit older.
Thanks for any advice — I’m really looking forward to getting to know Rochester!
Edit: I should mention — I’m open to discussing utilities, move-in timing, and can provide references from previous roommates. Also, I’m happy to video chat before committing to anything.

I am looking for a hair dresser that does cut and color who has experience in super fine hair and sensitive scalp. Preferably would like one on the east side. Open to any recommendations thank you! This is for a female in her sixties.

I've consulted Google, but I'd appreciate any recs for a competent and kind doc who specializes in liver problems. A beloved family member is in need. Appreciate any help you could give!