r/AskSF Jan 08 '24

Moving to San Francisco or the Bay Area? Read this first!

176 Upvotes

Hey /r/askSF!

In 2024, the sub has doubled in size, growing to 113K+ subscribers. With more subscribers, there's a ton more traffic and posts. One of the most popular topics is moving to SF and, in turn, these posts are the most commonly removed. There's been a noticeable increase in posts that boil down to "I'm moving to the city, where should I live?" that provide little to no information. To ensure OP's receive quality recommendations and to prevent endless comment loops, we're requiring all Moving-to-SF posts to include the following information:

  • Budget
  • Roommate status (solo, splitting rent w/ partner, seeking roommates, etc.)
  • Desired neighborhood(s) or preferred neighborhood amenities (dining, shopping, noise, etc.)

We recommend that OP's provide additional information such as:

  • Commute consideration
  • Housing preference (mom and pop landlords, condo, managed apt complexes, SFH rentals, etc.)
  • Additional personal preferences (pets, garage access, density, weather, etc.)

We're a small mod team so we are asking you, the community, to help up identify these posts! If you spot a moving submission that should have more information, please report the posts, select the breaking AskSF's rules, and select "Vague, overly broad, or low information" as the reason. We'll review the report and potentially ask OP to repost with more info.

Here's to more questions answered in 2024 and beyond!


r/AskSF Aug 13 '25

PSA [PSA] Clipper Card has an official subreddit: r/bayareaclippercard

29 Upvotes

Hi everyone! The Bay Area’s transit card, Clipper card, now has an official subreddit! If you enjoy discussing transit, check out our new subreddit. Dedicated to Clipper related news and posts, it’s a space open for you to share questions, insights and experiences related to Clipper. Join the conversation here: https://www.reddit.com/r/bayareaclippercard


r/AskSF 3h ago

Burnt out former techies: What are you doing for work now?

61 Upvotes

Hi there!

I would love to hear from former tech workers that left the industry due to burnout and ended up doing something completely different. OR even if you left for awhile and went back to tech, what type of work did you do during that time? Did you go to school or focus on part-time work to help with your recovery?

I'm not necessarily looking for advice here. I just want to hear what others are doing outside of tech and gather some inspiration for other career paths.


r/AskSF 3h ago

Metreon Odyssey Tix

17 Upvotes

Hey all! I’m visiting SF for the first time on August 5-8. I was really hoping to see the Odyssey in 70mm and didn’t realize it would still be pretty booked through mid-August. My small city has a nice AMC theater with Dolby, but it rarely books out so I wasn’t anticipating tickets still being basically sold out (aside from the front couple rows). It would be my first true 70mm imax experience.

If anyone is planning on cancelling their tickets for any of the showtimes, I’d really appreciate a heads up so I can snag your seats. Figured it’s a long shot but might be worth it. I’m very excited to be in the city and explore regardless and would love any first-time visiter advice/recommendations!


r/AskSF 3h ago

Fermented Tea Leaves

14 Upvotes

Is there anywhere in SF where one can buy fermented tea leaves? I can't be paying Burma Superstar prices for every time I need my tea leaf salad fix (which is often). Would love to be able to make it at home.


r/AskSF 3h ago

Does anyone have an extra ticket for Stern Grove-Al Green?

11 Upvotes

Long shot but I am newly single and feel like only Al Green can save me atp. Lol. I really wanna see the show. Thanks


r/AskSF 1h ago

When does august 20th showings pop up for odyssey 70mm IMAX? The rest is sold out but wanna book for future

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r/AskSF 36m ago

Weekend Side Hustle for Extra Cash

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I (30F) am beginning a graduate program in August and moving to SF. It's the first time I haven't had a job in my entire adult life (I have usually had one full time job and a couple side gigs) so I am kind of stressed. Since it's a new city to me and I won't have a car, I'm wondering what is in demand.

  • I have a lot of experience in nannying and pet sitting (or house sitting).
  • I also frequent my local plasma donation spot to get a hundred or so bucks a week.
  • I'm not oppose to cleaning houses, cooking, being a hostess or bartender, or call centers as long as it's a weekend only gig.

Let me know if any of these sound good or bad for the city or if you have any side hustles you'd like to suggest.

Thanks in advance for any suggestions! :)


r/AskSF 1h ago

Best overnight public transit route to SFO airport from Market Street?

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Hi! I’m staying in downtown SF soon and have a 6:30am flight out of SFO. Normally I’d simply take BART—I’d done it before—but I’ve never had a flight that early so BART is kind of out of the question. Any night buses that serve the airport?


r/AskSF 14h ago

Need advice: I want to move to SF but it feels impossible.

37 Upvotes

I’m a single 34 year old woman living in the greater Sacramento area in a small, conservative town. There isn’t enough of what I need here, not enough art, culture, or things to do. I feel like a black sheep here. I’m honestly starting to lose my mind.

It’s always been a dream of mine to live in San Francisco. I have a job that I could keep if I moved there. The problem is that it just feels impossible with the cost of housing. I make about $110k a year, and it seems like living alone probably isn’t even an option.

I’ve thought about renting a room, but I have two cats, so that feels like it could be pretty challenging. I also travel a lot for work and need to keep my car, so at least some kind of parking is necessary.

I don’t really have anything tying me here. No spouse, no kids. I just don’t want to waste away my life in a town that doesn’t feel like home when I have the freedom to go somewhere I’ve always wanted to live.

Has anyone made something like this work? Is living in SF on my salary realistic, or should I be looking at nearby cities instead? Any advice, experiences, or even just some encouragement would really mean a lot right now.


r/AskSF 2h ago

Amazing food spots

5 Upvotes

Friends are in town for two days, they requested omakase so I landed on chisai sushi club (open to suggestions if this spot isn’t the “best”), and then looking for suggestions on what the other day could be

I recommended ramen which they love, but one person is allergic to pork so I’ve been trying to find a spot that is really good and serves something like chicken broth

Aside from that, any recommendations that people have?


r/AskSF 2h ago

Jewelry stores (Jade, 24K gold, or diamonds)

3 Upvotes

Hi!

I’m celebrating my mom’s 70th birthday in the city this weekend and would love to buy her a special piece of jewelry while we’re there.

I’m looking for reputable jewelers that carry 24K gold and jade pendants.

Alternatively, I’d also consider a pair of diamond earrings. I’m hoping to find a jeweler with a great selection so she can browse and choose something she truly loves.

TIA!!!


r/AskSF 5h ago

Cat dental services?

6 Upvotes

If you’ve had cat dental work done in SF, where did you go and what was your experience?


r/AskSF 18h ago

How can I defend myself legally

51 Upvotes

I'm a short woman and after a few bad experiences I started carrying pepper gel at all times. However I started a new job with a strict "no weapons" policy that includes legal weapons and pepper spray, the consequence is getting fired.

I have a...pretty unsavory walk home at night every day so I would really prefer having a way to defend myself. I take transit so leaving the gel in my car is not an option (I do not have a car or a parking spot so it will never be an option) and my job is small enough to not have a security person or front desk where I could maybe leave the spray. Basically if it falls out of my pocket I could be fired.

Some suggestions I've seen are travel size heavy hold hairspray, a birdie alarm, or a very bright flashlight to temporarily stun an attacker, but are those actually effective? I could just hide the spray in my backpack I suppose but it wouldn't be very useful if it's out of reach.


r/AskSF 1h ago

Looking for salted egg yolk sesame ball (流沙煎堆)

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Anybody seen it around SF? Not the steamed bun version.


r/AskSF 5h ago

Where can I get some sourdough starter

5 Upvotes

I'm traveling to San Francisco for 3 days from Houston and I want to bring back some starter for a friend. Are there any places that hand out or sell their starter? I was thinking The Mill perhaps.


r/AskSF 15h ago

Landlord raised rent between the listing and signing lease

21 Upvotes

Hi, I applied to a place that was listed at $4000 on Craigslist and the building's own application portal, so it wasn't a typo on one site.

Just got the proposed lease back and it says $4200. No explanation for the jump. I didn't pay an application fee, and I haven't signed anything yet, but I do want this specific unit at the price I applied for.

Has anyone actually gotten a landlord/PM to honor the advertised price after this happened?

I have the screenshots of the old price, am I able to hold them to it?

Not really trying to start a legal fight, just want the apartment at the price I applied for if that's realistic. Appreciate any advice, thanks!


r/AskSF 5h ago

Store that sells Seville Oranges

3 Upvotes

I'd like to make a recipe that calls for Seville Oranges. Are there any stores in SF that sell them? Preferably in the city, but I cango outside the city if it's BARTable


r/AskSF 1d ago

Metreon just opened up more IMAX 70mm showings for the Odyssey

256 Upvotes

Posted a few days ago lamenting the lack of availability for viewing the Odyssey in IMAX 70mm thru Aug 12. The Metreon (and Dublin) have both opened up one more week of showings and as of 6:30am, there is tons of availability.

Thank me later.

Edit: glad I could help so many of you out. We were down from our Masters lottery rejection yesterday and needed a W. Saw it in XD/D-box over the weekend and still yearned for the IMAX experience. True credit goes to my husband (I’m just a Nolan girly) who woke me up at 6:30 saying we needed to check our calendars ASAP.


r/AskSF 44m ago

Getting folks more involved in the creative space?

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I run a monthly creative workshop in the City, to really get more folks active with their creative muscles and meet others that regonize the importance of setting time to connect and innovate.

This weekend on Saturday, 7/25 I'm inviting attendees to the Jean Henry School of Art to participate in an Art Swap - to bring or make handmade pieces to swap with other creatives.

I've flyered in various districts, attend art spaces, and post on various platforms online. Would love advice on getting the word to get out, or spreading word!


r/AskSF 1d ago

Where do baristas live?

95 Upvotes

Just moved here from Texas and me and my wife were unable to find a decent 2b apt under $5k. 1 bed apts looked to be around $3.5k. Got me thinking - how do people working at grocery stores/coffee shops afford rent? Do you have to live outside SF and commute, or live with several roommates? Just doesn't seem like you could comfortably live in the city and make ends meet working 30 hours at Peet's or Target like you can elsewhere in the country. Rent is just so crazy here.


r/AskSF 15h ago

Best locally roasted coffee beans?

14 Upvotes

I make my coffee at home and have been looking for the best local roasters to try out! I mostly go for dark roasts and espresso beans, but I'm not opposed to medium and light roasts. (Bonus points if the beans are very low in acidity and have more nutty/chocolate notes than fruity.)

I've tried Bird and Bear, Linea, and Hedge so far. Thinking of trying Graffeo, Andytown, or St Franks next, but I want to hear about all the other ones I might not know about!


r/AskSF 1h ago

Selling IMAX 70mm Odyssey tickets at Regal Dublin for Thursday, July 23rd 7pm

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Hey y’all, I booked 6 tickets for Odyssey in 70mm tomorrow at 7pm @Regal Hacienda in Dublin. Unfortunately, my friends can’t make it anymore :(

I know IMAX 70mm tickets are super booked out, so I wanted to offer these up if anyone’s interested. Really good tickets btw, H13-H18 which is fully center towards the back. Happy to share a picture of that.

If you’re interested, feel free to DM me!


r/AskSF 22h ago

Rec soccer players needed for weekly pickup game

43 Upvotes

We organize a weekly pickup game at beach chalet and are looking for players over 30+ to play in our friendly pickup games (skill level don’t matter). We play 8v8 on half pitch and we have been organizing our own pickup games for over 10 years now. We have a few open spots now so looking to find people who love to play weekly and looking to make new friends in SF.


r/AskSF 15h ago

Where is the best place to get a muffin in the city?

13 Upvotes

Wife and I are looking to do a full day tour of the city trying to find the best muffin! Where should we go?