r/crochet • u/CherokeeTrailhawkGuy • 1h ago
Discussion EtiquettebOf Re-giftUnfinished WIP When Completed
So I have a WIP that was supposed to be a gift for my now Ex-fiancé. It hurts that he turned mentally and financially abusive. I feel a failure as a man for leaving him and for allowing it to go on so long.
However in just in the starting stages of making a king size blanket. It is in a color I like, but I also know a friend that likes the color and I think if I add a border in a conversation of one other color and body color it would be really great looking.
I'd love to gift it to this friend, and I know they would treasure a handmade gift like this.
But I don't want to practice poor etiquette by re-gifting once the other 90% of work is put in to finish it, something that was originally meant to be for someone else.
I do like the color so I'd not be opposed to keeping it for myself. But also would love to gift my great friend a labor of love like it too
Is re-gifting an only 10% done WIP that was meant for an Ex-fiancé a big taboo? Or would the fact that almost all the work out into it was now intended for them, (as someone that an amazing friend has helped me through great struggles and is right now) make it ok?