I'm a 28-year-old Hindu woman, happily married now. Before marriage, during college, I was in a relationship with a Muslim guy. We genuinely cared about each other, but we had constant disagreements, and our families strongly opposed the relationship. Eventually, we broke up, and my parents later arranged my marriage.

My husband is a wonderful person, and I'm genuinely happy with my life. I don't regret marrying him.

That said, every now and then I find myself wondering what would have happened if my college relationship had worked out. Not because I want to go back or because I'm unhappy, but simply out of curiosity about the "what if."

Has anyone else here experienced something similar after an interfaith relationship? How did you come to terms with those occasional thoughts while still being content in your marriage?

I relocated to Maryland from NYC and I'm trying to get my limited belongings, but it's so expensive. It's such a small amount but it's the distance that causes such a big price. I really don't wanna leave it behind as I don't own much and that's the first bed I've ever purchased for myself. But is there anyway to make it cheaper like some moving company that I don't know about? I've tried UShip, U-Haul Moving Help, Budget Costco, etc. the cheapest has been $300 one way which isn't super bad except for the fact that I’d have to travel there to load it up which increases the costs.

My '33F' girlfriend '34F' of 2 years has a friend she met online '37F' and I feel like I am losing my mind. They text and Snapchat all day every single day. From the time they both wake up, until they fall asleep. And outside of all the texting and snapping, they also send each other videos daily on tiktok and Facebook. They go live together on tiktok almost every day. Video call almost daily.

It has become excessive. But here's where I feel crazy.... my gf is very open. She isn't trying to hide that she talks to this girl (who BTW is also lesbian if that matters.) She talks about her to me all the time. My girlfriend hasn't changed her actions towards me at all. Everything is the same as it was before this happened.

Another thing, I snooped in her phone, which I know was wrong of me. I never wanted to be that person. But here I am. And in Snapchat this girl is constantly hitting on my gf, flirting with my gf, saying she just wants to love her, etc. And my gf completely avoids all of those kinds of comments. But yet is still entertaining her all day every day??

Idk how to feel... if my feelings are understandable or if im being too crazy.. when i have tried talking to my gf about it, she gets upset and says im just jealous and if I dont like it I can leave her.... this is our only problem.. but idk what to do at this point. And idk how to even bring up what I have seen in her snapchat ....

help ???? Im internally screaming....

Tl;dr my gf is possibly taking things too far with an online friend ..

“Mr. President, as we all know, the mainstream media has been against you from day one, and that’s probably because you’re the epitome of the American dream and they hate that. For others who you want to inspire to follow on your footsteps, how much has your company’s net worth gone up since you’ve been in office?”

Why does a British accent put you in danger in America?

Like the kind that the power company says "If you smell gas, all 911".

When S/O takes a nap during the day Ithey need blankets on blankets. At night they need just a sheet. Same room and temp, just different times.

sorry is this is the wrong place btw just tought it would be worth a shot

I'm 17M.

I don't go to a regular school. I go to another place instead (long story, so let's just call it "the location").

I do have autism, although not heavily. I usually just say I have autism because I honestly don't know if it plays a role in this or not.

At the location I met what's basically my only IRL friend. I get along fine with other people there we can joke around and have conversations but he's the only person I'd actually call a friend.

The problem is that eventually one of us is going to leave. It could be in a few weeks, a few months, or maybe around January/February (his birthday so he turns 19). He's already 18, and normally people leave at that age, although he is allowed to stay longer with his situation. Nobody really knows exactly when he'll leave, and I hate not knowing.

I'm also pretty sure we won't stay in contact afterwards.

I asked him once if he thought we'd keep in touch, and he said he didn't know because he also doesn't really stay in contact with old school friends. We also barely text anyway. The only times we really message each other are random things, like him sending me a picture of a random ass burn he got or telling me he got stuck on an attraction, and i also dont like texting anyway i only text my mom or people at the location like the people managing stuff and being there etc but i never text anybody outside one of those and my mom.

About a month ago I even asked him if he still wanted to be friends because I was worried maybe he didn't and was just being nice. He told me he didn't see a reason not to be friends, so I don't think that's the issue.

The thing that's driving me crazy is how much I overthink all of this. I feel like I've become way too attached because he's literally my only friend.

We did hang out outside the location once. We spent about 10 hours together watching a movie, eating fries, scrolling Reddit, and just talking. It was honestly a great day. Afterwards he said meeting up like that was a bit much for him mentally at that time, which I understood. That was around 7 or 8 months ago, and he's doing a lot better now.

The thing is that after he left, I also felt relieved to be back on my own. I genuinely enjoyed hanging out, but I also really like being by myself. So it's not like I constantly need to be around him.

Normally we see each other about three times a week for three hours each time if we both show up, but because of summer break we haven't seen each other for a while.

There are two things that also keep bothering me:

1. I'm scared he'll only tell me he's leaving on the last day, or maybe not at all.
2. I hate admitting this, but I'm worried that if he tells me he's leaving, he'll think I'm taking it way harder than I actually am. I go really red when I'm embarrassed or if i think someone thinks something i think when i dont, and then I start thinking, "Great, now he thinks I'm freaking out," which makes me even redder. It's a loop.
3. i did send this text message tough Hey question if or when you leave x location could you tell me when you know? I like knowing that kind of stuff if possible ofc And he responed oh yeah sure that was a few weeks ago but i still feel like the prior 2 things mentioned

I know I'm overthinking this. I know there's nothing I can really do until he actually knows when he's leaving.

I guess I'm wondering if anyone else has been in a situation like this. How do you stop getting so attached to your only friend? And how do you stop constantly worrying about losing a friendship that hasn't even ended yet?

Anything that makes you laugh, any youtuber whos videos you could watch for days, im out of ideas..

(not some motivational or view changing stuff, just entertaning?)

I've seen many people who compare Trump to Jesus, or Trump to God. Where is the justification?

One is a capitalist with questionable morals. The second is someone whose teachings emphasized radical generosity, caring for the poor, and the spiritual dangers of wealth, state-enforced wealth redistribution and government control of the economy.

So frequently I see people praise behaviors that go against the teachings of their lord and savior.

How do they reconcile?

I had a dream last night involving people I no longer have in my life (not death, they’re just cunts), what does that mean? I haven’t thought of them in years

For context I am was in boarding school and this person was my best friend, but last year he had stabbed me. After which I avoided him throughout the year I specially made sure I was not at any given time near him. After the year I changed schools like in a different state and on the other side of the country. Now, since March he is trying to contact me, I have blocked him but he keeps on calling from different numbers. You all should also know that I lied for him to the police. Before you call me an idiot, it was an impulse thing and I don’t know why I did it. Okay, you all can call me an idiot.

I stay informed... on top of the news, yet I haven't heard any interviews of soldiers, much less "all of them", saying what Cadet Bonespurs alleges they said.

Observing the arrival of caskets of military personnel just killed in Trump's unauthorized war of choice, he just told the press "All of them said very strongly, 'We cannot let Iran have a nuclear weapon.'"

Can anybody please provide a link to validate the POTUS' claim?

Anybody? Buehler...Buehler...Buehler?
https://www.yahoo.com/news/politics/articles/trump-wildly-claims-fallen-us-165212815.html

does it?