Hey gays,

More specifically aimed at girlies and non-men centred individuals. What do you all DO for a living?

Every job I go to is just full of straight people, “straight gays” (they call themselves the “normal” gays (ick)) and/or right-wingers. This would be fine if I didn’t spend half of my life at work. I cannot stand the facade I have to put on to fit in and not come across anti-social.

Maybe I am chronically online but I need a workplace where I’m not told daily devastating stories of misogyny and VAWAG but the plot twist is that the perpetrator is your boyfriend who “treats you like a princess!”. I need to be around people who don’t think everyone who receives benefits is a scrounging leech.

Where are all the gays and if you all work from home, HOW?!

Please advise…

TLDR: I’m looking for safe queer communities/spaces in and around the south Birmingham area to find out more about and explore ideas about my gender expression.

Hi,

My therapist has suggested that I try and find and engage in local queer communities to try and not only be more socially active, but also they believe it will be helpful to me in exploring my gender identity. For a while now I have had thoughts that I may be trans, but in the past year I have become more certain that this is right for me, doing stuff like experimenting with clothes and makeup and the like has really made me realise that this is more than I’d originally put any thought into.

I’m wondering if anybody on here would be open to talking about this stuff or have any suggestions of spaces and places that are safe and open to explore and discuss things like this.

Im also not very sure if posts like this are the ‘done thing’ here, I don’t use reddit too much so please forgive me if I’m doing it wrong XD.

Thanks <3.

For context;

I’m a straight male, married, and work with my wife. We are a wedding photographer and videographer duo and work all kinds oweddings (which involves a lot of interacting with strangers).

Is it okay to wear a rainbow bracelet to these events to show that i’m safe/an ally?

Or even I could wear it all the time, I don’t know 🤷🏼‍♂️

I guess I want to check how this would come across to the lgbtq+ community.

I’d love to hear your thoughts!

Hey all, I'm the solo founder/dev behind Klyck, a UK-based LGBTQ+ social, dating, and safety app. We're launching properly at Manchester Pride, but the app isn't fully public yet. It's in a soft/invite stage right now while I iron things out.

I'd genuinely love some outside eyes on it before the wider launch. If you want to poke around, you can get in with the invite code REDDIT.

• App Store: https://apps.apple.com/app/id6761499355
• Website: https://www.klyck.app/

A bit of context on why I'm building it:

• MeetSafe: check-in timers and trusted contact alerts for dates/meetups, always free, never paywalled
• Kudos: a community reputation system aimed at cutting down on bots, fakes, and bad actors
• Venue discovery: surfacing LGBTQ+ friendly bars/venues (starting with Canal Street in Manchester)
• Real-time chat, profiles, the usual dating-app basics
• A premium tier, but nothing safety-related sits behind it

What I'd love feedback on:

1. Design/UX: does it feel clean, confusing, dated, promising?
2. Features: what's missing, what's pointless, what would actually make you use it
3. The honest question: would this get you to use something other than Grindr, or is the switching cost just not worth it for you? Why or why not?

I'm not trying to sell anything here, genuinely just want blunt feedback, including "this is bad and here's why." Bug reports, screenshots, roasts, all welcome.

Thanks for reading this far 🙏

(Invite code: REDDIT. UK-based, iOS only at the moment)

Hey all,

Watched Tip Toe recently and 100% recommend, it’s a challenging watch but really captivating.

However, it’s made me want to go to canal street, which I’ve never done before. Hoping to go with a friend or two (likely 25M and 25F, maybe another 25F)
Want to ask those who have been:
1. Any recommendations for timings, bars, clubs etc?
2. In the show they mentioned travelling to the area through less LGBT focussed areas was a bit unnerving - any experiences of this?
3. Is it similar at all to Soho, for those who have been to both?

🎉 Claire Richards Returns to Via Manchester for Manchester Pride 2026! 🌈

After three years away, Claire Richards is officially returning to Via Manchester for one exclusive, one-night-only performance as we kick off Manchester Pride 2026! 💖

📅 Wednesday 26th August 2026

Expect an intimate evening packed with Claire's incredible solo hits alongside the iconic Steps classics we all know and love. If you were there in 2023, you'll know just how special these nights are, and if you missed it, now's your chance!

🎟️ Every ticket includes a FREE welcome drink:

• 🍑 Large Smirnoff Miami Peach or
• 🍓 Large Smirnoff Raspberry Crush
• Served with Soda, Red Bull Peach, or Red Bull Tropical.

🕡 Doors: 6:30pm
⏰ Last Entry: 8:30pm

This is expected to be one of the hottest tickets of Manchester Pride, so don't leave it too long!

Who's coming? 🌈✨

Check out our channel HomoMoto, created by two gay men, this video is the first in a series called Paving The Way, each video will focus on a different person in History who helped pave the way for the rights we have today.

https://youtu.be/jOOCc0xcmLE?si=udqDjh8RgQaI_iSB

hi, me and my friend are looking for queer friendly spaces in newcastle, to meet new people within the same community, aged between 18-20. thanks!

Heyyy 20f looking to find community and others like me, dm me with details if interested :)

Hi guys bi 35 m here manly looking for friends to join me and get some laughing done up for anything really. How about you?

Should have posted earlier but was busy being a tourist 🙃 Gay places to be to flirt? I'm also down to be around sporty gays since it's France v England tonight! I would love to see y'all's enthusiasm.

Sidenote, ive been paying attention to y'all's fashion today, where do I find cute fishnets?! I feel like so many people were rocking them today along with good piercings 🎉

I'm near Tower London but down for the train since everything is usually a 30 minute ride, at least with what Ive been doing.

You ever wished there was somewhere you could just… exist?

A place to jump into voice after work, chat absolute rubbish, play games, watch a movie together, or meet other LGBTQ+ people?

That’s what FKN QUEER CLUB is.

A cosy 18+ LGBTQ+ community with a virtual nightclub vibe inspired by queer nightlife. The music, the warmth, the conversations and the feeling that everyone’s welcome.

✨ Active community across Europe (and beyond)

🎮 Co-op games, Jackbox and community game nights

🎬 Watch parties and themed events

❤️ Real friendships, not just usernames

🛡️ Inclusive, well moderated and drama free

Whether you’re looking for people to game with, laugh with, or just spend your evening with, pull up a seat.

The club’s open.

https://discord.gg/J2kzjUEtR