r/Singles • u/Spiffany007 • 17h ago
25 [M4F] #Indiana - Seeking my geeky equal to share popcorn and adventures with.
Been waiting a very long time for just the right person I can happily match my energy with and have our own dorky rom-commie life.
I currently reside in Bloomington but I do intend on relocating towards Indy (not ‘in’ Indy, just outside of it) following the next couple years. I’ve been living steadily and independently (with my cat) and I have so much of my physical media collection, movies, video games, card/board games I’d love to experience with that special person. Perhaps assumably, I am more of a homebody; however, I am very willing to take more steps out and onward with the right gal to scratch that adventurous, dreamer itch. I occasionally go see movies and, within the last year, have been to a couple conventions. Always up to go someplace else fun or to a good restaurant, even just a classic stroll in the park; just not by myself!
I love horror especially, and again, have a wide selection across media to pick from. I hope you’d never be bored over at my place (or let alone with me…)! Currently going through a bit of a Final Fantasy backlog, more casually on the side dipping into Pokopia (also have yet to get Tomodachi Life - maybe play it with me…?), some Zelda and Baldur’s Gate III (3 years late to the party on that one; just started!). Ask me about some horror games (and tell me all your favorites!) and I might talk your ear off! And that’s not even the half of it. I own a dozen home consoles and hundreds of Blu-rays to keep well occupied. I also do a bit of writing on the side, prominently fiction and occasional poetry; currently on a script project with a friend. I own some books, manga and have seen just a select few anime, but admittedly not much. Movies and games more prominently take up my free time.
I’m also, little by little, trying to get more into cooking (thank you, Hell’s Kitchen 🔥). I try to get at least something different with each grocery pickup to better my palette. All the more inspired and motivated to cook a good feast if it’s with and especially for a special lady 😉. I also have an acoustic guitar that’s been of interest for greater practice. Briefly upon the topic, my regular music genres primarily compose of pop/indie/alt rock, with mixes of movie and game soundtracks as well.
A few particular specs to know; I’m about 6 ft, more of a liberal, yet I do not actively engage myself with political conversation. I myself stand as atheist/agnostic. I absolutely do NOT partake in smoking/vaping/weed, etc., with drinking (usually just a cocktail) on the other hand being more occasional. I have a few healthier strands of OCD in my head; very well organized and a bit of an overthinker, depending on the context. Never a true mess at my place. I keep everything in its right place (Radiohead, anyone?).
While I will always stand as a proud introvert (INFJ, Taurus, if curious), I wouldn’t exactly consider myself “shy” like I used to be as a kid. Nonetheless, my communication might initially come across the most thorough with messaging until we get to know each other more comfortably. I would prefer a partner to be about my age or at least 21, minimum. I hope to find someone I can easily vibe with in an endlessly delightful and relatable manner; a kind, caring and loyal soul, passionate, funny, but also mature, and is happy to snuggle while a good spooker plays on the TV.
Seeking out those as local as possible. Pictures upon DMs are appreciated.