Hi there! I am 47, white, no kids, divorced, currently living in Michigan. I am 5'6, 170lbs, dyed brown shoulder length hair (originally blonde), green eyes. I get compliments on my eyes and smile mostly.

I have a lot of interests and hobbies: Bowling, the beach, camping, hiking, fishing, reading, museums, casinos, documentaries, history, travel, golf, disc golf, foodie, breweries, parks, card games, board games, not into playing video games but love watching others play and cheering them on!, pool, darts, music, concerts and festivals and watching sports (mostly NFL and college football) but also like watching baseball and basketball in person.

I'm looking with intention. I want to talk with someone with intention of moving off this app, to texting, calling, videos, and if it turns into more, with the expectation of me relocating. I'm looking for someone willing to put in that effort.

I apologize for my bluntness. I like to be open and honest.

I thought maybe I could just get my red flags and dealbreakers for some out of the way.

I have debilitating anxiety sometimes and I have a tendency to over think. Like, beat it to death then beat it some more type over thinking.

I am a social drinker and smoker. Sometimes for my anxiety and insomnia, I will smoke weed or take gummies.

I am not a size 2. While I am on a weight loss journey and have lost 55lbs since March, with still about 20 more, I will never be rail thin. Its just not how I'm built I also don't think I'm hideous either. Every lid has a pot, right?

Speaking of smiles: About 6 months after my divorce, I went downtown to have dinner and drinks with some friends. As I was walking back to my car alone (I know! I will never do this again!) I was assaulted by 3 guys. They beat me so bad I had broken ribs, broken clavicle, broken facial bones, broken jaw, fractured eye socket and burst ear drum. Other things too, that i don't want to go into. I have no visible scars from the assault, but many mental ones. I'm also, 4 years later, reminded daily of what happened because due to my burst ear drum, I lost most of my hearing in my right ear and they also couldn't save my top teeth (my bottom are fine) so I'm now forced to wear an upper denture. You can't tell by looking at or talking to me.

I wanted to give you my biggest red flags so you can make a more informed decision on whether to respond or not. I really hope they don't scare you away but wanted to be honest.

You: white, single, between the ages of 35 and 60. I'm an actual real person looking for real things and responses will not be given on one word dms or people that don't put in effort. Be emotionally available. I won't talk to a wall. Be serious. No games. Please don't waste my time. I like consistent chats and I like to be pursued. A man that is comfortable with himself to let his intentions be known.

I am very much looking forward to making a connection!

**About Me**

I'm 46, never married, and ready to find my ride-or-die partner. I live a clean lifestyle—I don't use drugs, I don't smoke weed, and I don't drink alcohol. My only vices are cigarettes, coffee, and the occasional Coke.

I'm a fun-loving, caring, loyal, honest, and trustworthy man with a big heart. I believe in treating people with kindness and respect, and I'm looking for someone who values the same.

I'm also very handy and enjoy fixing things. Whether it's electrical work, plumbing, auto repairs, or small engines, I like solving problems and working with my hands.

I'm at a point in life where I'm tired of being single and ready to build something real with the right woman. If you're looking for a genuine, dependable man who will have your back through the good times and the tough times, I'd love to get to know you.

I’m 34 and live in Sydney, Australia. I'm an introvert by nature, so I prefer quieter nights over big parties. I enjoy spending time with people who are genuine, kind, and easy to talk to.

My interests include going to the gym, watching fantasy, horror and action movies, playing Dota 2 and following esports, trying different restaurants (especially exploring new food places), and binge-watching movies and TV series. I enjoy relaxing at home, having meaningful conversations, going for walks, and spending quality time with the people I care about.

I'm looking for a serious, long-term relationship with someone who wants to build a life together as a team. I'd love to have a close, loving family one day, and having children is important to me I hope to have 2–3 kids. I'm hoping to meet someone who values loyalty, honesty, good communication, and a stable relationship. Ideally, you're someone who doesn't smoke, doesn't party every weekend, and is ready for something genuine.

If this sounds like we're on the same page, feel free to send me a message. I'd love to get to know you.

If 1000 people come across this post, only 1 needs to read it and reach out. That is truly what I’m hoping for.

About me: I’m a 20 year old engineering student and part time engineer at a manufacturing company. I have a few main goals for the rest of my life:

Prosper professionally as an engineer

Find a loving wife who enjoys the things I do

Have kids and try my absolute best to be the greatest parent I can

Have a garage filled with awesome cars including a Honda civic type R, a cb7 honda accord, a c5 corvette, a Mazda mazdsaspeed 3, a bmw e36 m3, and potentially a supra/Silvia

Play video games until I die of old age.

Meditate daily and seek to one day find inner peace.

Become a superhero

Try and make all of the people in my daily life a little happier when I see them

Now I’ll explain a little bit about my self, my hobbies, personality, and interests.

I am a very funny and deeply emotional person. I pick up on others emotions extremely quickly and generally try to react and help them feel though it. I try to be genuinely helpful and explain my thought processes any time I can, even when I might be wrong. This sometimes leads me to think I’m over explaining or rambling.

When I said I’m very funny, I mean it. I consistently make my coworkers and friends laugh with 1 liners in groups, but 1 on 1 I am extremely witty and flirtatious but also absurd. If you don’t find humor in absurdity we might not connect. An example of a joke I made recently was a one liner off of my coworkers joke. My manager asked him what he did for the day, and he started sarcastically listing things like “ opened strait of Hormuz, solved Iran war, solved world hunger…” and things like that. I then replied “WOW, he did all the in 1 day?!!!?!? Imagine what he will do tomorrow!”

And I thought that was pretty funny.

I’m deeply analytical and analyzing media is one of my hobbies. When I watch a show or movie, I have to be able to take some moral or artistic lesson away from it, and it also has to be fun to watch or read or listen.

I absolutely love music of ALL KINDS.

From very underground stuff line hyperpop that I would be surprised if you have heard of, to post hardcore and metal, to Kendrick Lamar and even Michael Jackson. I love music so much and listen constantly.

I also like video games, mostly multiplayer team games like marvel rivals.

I have a dog.

I’m 6’0” and 145lbs. Lean but athletic build with blue eyes and brown curly hair. I have a generally good fashion sense and take decent care of my body.

Here are my interests when looking for a partner:

Is funny/thinks I’m funny
Will share their hobbies with me, will let me share mine.
Will talk debate with me for the sole purpose of figuring out how each others mind works.
Always searching to learn more about whatever they are passionate about.
Wants kids and wants to be the world’s greatest mom.
Thinks I’m pretty and will compliment me.
18-23.
I prefer shorter, slimmer women.
I find myself to be generally attractive although young looking, and I take good care of my body through hygiene. I want someone who shares those values to health with me.

I’m not religious but I value sexuality very deeply. I’m flirtatious but I would only have sex if I’m in a committed long term relationship. I have been in a few sexual situations but I’m still a virgin.

If this resonates with you an any way feel free to reach out. I’m really looking forward to meeting you.

Feel free to dm with questions or if interested

Yorkshire nerd living in South Wales looking for a real connection with a lass who enjoys conversation, and wants to laugh together (DND nerd is a huge plus).

I'm 5'10, grey eyes (I know I'm unique 😉), slim/medium build, brown hair, glasses. solo Dad of three. I like hiking, reading, art, gaming, tattoos, Arcane, horror.

Open to talking to folk from anywhere, but would prefer those closer to home. I'm missing long cuddles, cooking for someone, and the physical loves that comes with it.

I would love to share my interests with someone and explore theirs. If you have gotten this far, thank you, and message me 😊

Hi Folks - This is Bineet, based in India. Currently Pursuing Bachelor's Degree.

A Little About Me: I am currently Single. Besides College, I am doing a small startup. Things I Love: Good Food, Music, Binge Watching Webseries & Documentaries and Exploring Nature ☘️.

DM if you think we can vibe! :)

Only 18-19 aged.

:) :)

Hi! I'm from Texas, I'm 24m and i'm 6'4

I love cooking, working with my hands, and learning how things work. Whether it's fixing something, building it, or figuring it out, I'm always interested in learning new skills. :b

I'm a PC gamer and play just about everything. Some of my favorites are Helldivers 2, Rust, DayZ, The Isle, Barotrauma, Phasmophobia, Metal Gear, Dead Space, Dark Souls and other Soulslikes, Resident Evil, Dragon's Dogma, Crysis, RimWorld, Halo, Warhammer 40K, Minecraft, Terraria, Star Wars games, Digimon games, and plenty more. 🎮

I'm also a huge anime and manga fan. Some of my favorites are Berserk, Gantz, Guyver, Chainsaw Man, Dragon Ball, Digimon, Attack on Titan, One Punch Man, Devilman, Getter Robo, Dororo, and Dorohedoro, but there are way too many to list. 📺📚

I also enjoy older movies and TV shows, and I love music. My favorite bands include Black Sabbath and Dio, but honestly I'll listen to just about anything. 🎵

i also love the woods it's nice and peaceful and i also like 3d printing it's really fun making stuff 👍

I'm also a huge fan of horror i love old horror movies and internet horror also a big sci-fi fan love me some star wars and 40k

i also enjoy streaming and vtubing and 3d modeling

If you're under 30 and think we'd get along, feel free to send me a DM. I'd love to chat, get to know you, and see where things go. 😄

Do you have higher than average emotional intelligence and a functioning moral compass? Are you also tired of being disappointed by people? I’m looking for a someone that enjoys my presence platonically and has intentions of making it a romantic long term relationship. I have kids, pets, houseplants, a rock tumbler, a degree, a job, a car, and a house. I also like to sew. My comment and post history isn’t hidden so you can learn more about me there. I do have preferences but I’m not picky about your hobbies, your salary, or your height. I do prefer that you are a fully functioning, independent adult. I am picky about the first message you send, and your politics. No MAGA and nobody under 30 please.

Been waiting a very long time for just the right person I can happily match my energy with and have our own dorky rom-commie life.

I currently reside in Bloomington but I do intend on relocating towards Indy (not ‘in’ Indy, just outside of it) following the next couple years. I’ve been living steadily and independently (with my cat) and I have so much of my physical media collection, movies, video games, card/board games I’d love to experience with that special person. Perhaps assumably, I am more of a homebody; however, I am very willing to take more steps out and onward with the right gal to scratch that adventurous, dreamer itch. I occasionally go see movies and, within the last year, have been to a couple conventions. Always up to go someplace else fun or to a good restaurant, even just a classic stroll in the park; just not by myself! 

I love horror especially, and again, have a wide selection across media to pick from. I hope you’d never be bored over at my place (or let alone with me…)! Currently going through a bit of a Final Fantasy backlog, more casually on the side dipping into Pokopia (also have yet to get Tomodachi Life - maybe play it with me…?), some Zelda and Baldur’s Gate III (3 years late to the party on that one; just started!). Ask me about some horror games (and tell me all your favorites!) and I might talk your ear off! And that’s not even the half of it. I own a dozen home consoles and hundreds of Blu-rays to keep well occupied. I also do a bit of writing on the side, prominently fiction and occasional poetry; currently on a script project with a friend. I own some books, manga and have seen just a select few anime, but admittedly not much. Movies and games more prominently take up my free time. 

I’m also, little by little, trying to get more into cooking (thank you, Hell’s Kitchen 🔥). I try to get at least something different with each grocery pickup to better my palette. All the more inspired and motivated to cook a good feast if it’s with and especially for a special lady 😉. I also have an acoustic guitar that’s been of interest for greater practice. Briefly upon the topic, my regular music genres primarily compose of pop/indie/alt rock, with mixes of movie and game soundtracks as well. 

A few particular specs to know; I’m about 6 ft, more of a liberal, yet I do not actively engage myself with political conversation. I myself stand as atheist/agnostic. I absolutely do NOT partake in smoking/vaping/weed, etc., with drinking (usually just a cocktail) on the other hand being more occasional. I have a few healthier strands of OCD in my head; very well organized and a bit of an overthinker, depending on the context. Never a true mess at my place. I keep everything in its right place (Radiohead, anyone?). 

While I will always stand as a proud introvert (INFJ, Taurus, if curious), I wouldn’t exactly consider myself “shy” like I used to be as a kid. Nonetheless, my communication might initially come across the most thorough with messaging until we get to know each other more comfortably. I would prefer a partner to be about my age or at least 21, minimum. I hope to find someone I can easily vibe with in an endlessly delightful and relatable manner; a kind, caring and loyal soul, passionate, funny, but also mature, and is happy to snuggle while a good spooker plays on the TV.

Seeking out those as local as possible. Pictures upon DMs are appreciated. 

Just gonna be invisible and not waste my time anymore. Nice guy, not ugly, not hot but still I am really sick of women. They are extremely fickle, one minute on and next minute off. Just gonna be single and bang hookers. Way more honest and way more easy. Rant done

Giving this a shot & hoping to be the next success story! Going to keep it short. Had some setbacks and fell behind in life, focused on school, racing & did all I could to pursue and grinded trying to make my dream job a reality, so I didn't date or look for relationships. Racing has given me a lot of great memories... and unfortunately a few concussions 😅 I’m actively getting treatment, improving, and not letting it stop me from enjoying life and focused on getting back to 100%. Sooo I got a late start in life and restarting my life now in 2026. Im a PC gamer (COD, Fortnite, GTA, SW Battlefront to name a few). I like most types of movies; particularly Superhero, StarWars, LOTR & action movies are my thing. I like to bake (Baked Goods), photo & videography, cars, country & phonk music. Night owl. I'm generally a tad shy & quiet until I warm up to you, but I'm a really good listener. I'm a huge history buff and collect items from the World Wars. I work & drive racecars! No smoking nor drugs and I rarely drink. I've been doing freelance photography & race mechanic, but in the process to find something more stable & long term job. I'm a homebody but like to go out with friends when I can.

My Intention is for a long-term relationship. I'm wanting someone in California & would highly prefersomeonelocatedinthe central valley.I don't have a reliable truck engine at the moment, so long distance dating just isn't practical at the moment.Not very picky as long as there's chemistrybut to save us both time, I'm looking to date someone currently without kids right now. Feel free to hit me up on chat & please introduce yourself & see where it goes!

BTW-I'm Caucasian, average bod, medium length beard, rosy cheeks, 6'1 with green eyes

I'm Dawson I'm 19 I'm 5'9 I love dogs and cats and snakes I love to play outside and I work out also I love to watch football and hunt im a pretty funny person and I like to eat chicken fingers and listen to alot of music looking for a female I prefer older women like late 20s to even early 50s looking to date long distance

Let’s skip the games and the typical dating app fatigue.

I’m a 41-year-old professional living on the Connecticut coast. I’m an active, grounded guy who appreciates the quieter, more scenic side of life. During the week, I work in finance, and I spend a lot of my free time working on software development and vibe coding my own projects. When the weekend hits, you'll find me getting offline and heading out on the water, researching boats, and exploring the shoreline. I only drink a couple of times a year, so you won't find me at crowded bars on a Saturday night.

Where I’m at: I am out of a long-term marriage and share custody of my three young sons. Because my boys are my priority, I am looking to take dating at a comfortable, slower pace. I am completely open to building a full relationship again in the future, but I'm looking to start with a genuine, slow-burn connection.

What I’m looking for: I find myself craving a very specific kind of energy. I’m looking for a woman who brings a vibrant, hopeful, and unjaded outlook to the table. Someone who brings lightness and excitement about the future, but who is also mature enough to appreciate a steady guy who has his life together.

Ideally, you: * Love the ocean, being out on a boat, and spending weekends outdoors. * Value strong communication and honesty. * Are perfectly content taking things slow and just enjoying the process of getting to know someone.

If you are looking for a mature guy who communicates honestly and you share a love for the coast, I'd love to hear from you.

To prove you aren't a bot (and because I'm always looking for new spots), send me a DM with your absolute favorite place to spend a summer day on the New England coast.

I've been single all my life, Never kissed any girl, never been to a party, all my friends cant contact me. I have been feeling really like ending it. I study construction in Norway, it live in norway. For the past 3 years I have felt like my teenage life has been wasted, I did drink with friends before, even smoked pot and cigarettes and now I wish I never did. I have been crying myself to sleep every single day since the beginning of the year and haven't felt like eating, I wish to meet someone soon before I snap and isolate myself until I become 20. I wish to never feel this pain anymore and want to hold someone and cry until all my pain is gone.

I just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years a few months ago. Times have been rough but I’m moving on now. If you’re into chubby, mid looking black woman. Just PM. I love music, cooking and just being a vibe. I am from the US.

I'm a 43-year-old male with Caribbean heritage from Long Island who hasn't explored much places in NYC.
I realize I might have missed out on many great places, and perhaps all the popular ones are now closed. However, for the good spots that are stil open, I'd love to have female company who knows good places and would enjoy visiting them with me.
I'm open to trying new things at least once. I'm open to places around the City or Long Island.
I'm the true meaning of an introvert so please take it easy with me.
I've been to concerts alone, and it's not enjoyable doing it alone.
I'm open to activities that don't involve drinking, smoking, or partying.
If you're chill, fun to talk to, and would like to hang out or just chat, please send me a message. I'm looking forward to meeting you!
* I know how creepy this world can be so please share a photo before the meet up, I'll do the same.*

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I'm looking for someone clever, funny and open-minded to care for, annoy, all round get into each others pockets on a daily basis. Hopefully you're in the UK but I'm open to long distance. I'm open ended on what the relationship might look like.

A little on me:

I'm white, 5'11, would describe my body type as dad-bod but strong and still hitting the gym.

I'm loving, affectionate and interested in what you have to say. I'm fiery and will fight for my beliefs but that doesn't mean I'm ignorant of others or their values. I just think it's important that we care. I'm told by everyone I meet that I stare into their souls when we talk. Some like this, some find it too much.

I have a serious career and am a suit-wearing professional during the day, but at night you'll find me in joggers making your dinner (ex chef over here) or reading. I collect records, am green fingered (on my way to self-sufficiency - smart thinking or midlife crisis? You decide.) and have a real habit of buying more suits than I'll ever need.

I've travelled to many places and am looking for someone either similarly well travelled or with the desire to.

A bit of what I'm after:

I have historically preferred thicker girls but open to anyone, just please don't be a fussy eater!

You're pro-LGBT and anti-racist. I feel deeply about these. It's a deal-breaker.

You're hopefully independent and have your own career, or at least are trying to be.

You're capable of conversation - I'm so tired of one-word replies. Some relationships work with one person putting in 90% of the effort, but that's not me.

You're passionate and care about the arts or culture, but (and this is crucial) not into anime in a weird way! It's just not for me!

Youre capable of taking a roasting occasionally, and you don't take yourself too seriously.

You're above 21 but no upper limit on age.

Your opening message will be more than just 'hey', or you'll be ignored. Sorry!

Maybe that's enough to start with, let's see what comes my way - reach out, we might just have some fun.

Ive been looking for a relationship with a girl who's honest and loves me for who I am im 20 and ive been alone for a while never really dated anybody

Hey, everyone! :-)

I figured I should give an intro... especially since I'd rather not continue with dating apps. I'm a bit tired of matching, having a brief chat, and then getting ghosted.

I'm not sure how detailed I should get online, but...

• I'm in my mid 40s. Eeeek!
• I'm a bit of a giant at 6'6" tall, avg build, green / hazel eyes
• I've lived in 8 countries and explored 75 countries on 6 continents 🌎
• I'm re-starting a Calm Audio YouTube channel in which I write and narrate sleep stories and other calm narrations.
• I've built multiple brands and met a couple of celebs with one of them!
• I love playing the piano and going to live music shows / concerts.
• I'm self-employed... I just love the freedom and flexibility remote work brings!
• I'm most proud of my adorable 8-year-old boy, whom I co-parent part time :-) 🥰
• I'm told my strongest qualities are: empathy, affection, and giving.
• I volunteer with 3 organizations
• I help teach self-defense workshops 🥷
• Love getaways, road trips, and cabins
• Hmm.. what else? I'm a fan of spontaneous kitchen dancing. lol

There's my "long walk on the beach" awkward post. Phew, be gentle ppl!

I don't have an age range in mind or location. Finding someone who feels at home, wrapped up in my arms, and to do life with them... that's more important, IMO. The rest will follow. 🙃

I should say that I love emotional connection, conversations about anything (big or small), texting, voice notes, video chats, sharing pics of our days to feel included etc.

Note: I'd rather wait until I have a brief chat with someone before tossing my pic online due to how much reddit posts are indexed on Google now... but it IS available. (just ask!)

Currently single and I would love to find a good relationship! We can casually date and if either of us aren't interested then no hard feelings! Really into pet lovers, I have two dogs and one of them is new to the family! My sexuality is pansexual.My DM's are always open so feel free!

Hi! Im 34 years old Thai woman that looking for a serious relationship. Im single with no kids and i have never been married. I have an MBA and work in HR. My hobbies are reading, gym, Netflix, muaythai and watching true crime documentaries. I also love animal. Im open to men of any race and from any location. Preferably 28-48 years old. Feel free to DM me with an introduction ! 🌸

Hi I’m 34 year old guy from the uk who is looking to connect with a woman for a genuine long term online connection. I manage day to day with Anxiety and OCD which has left me unable to really experience any form of a relationship due to my homebound lifestyle. I am not currently at the weight I’d like to be however beneath my struggles is a confident person who when comfortable with someone shows that side. I am very passionate and attentive as an individual and am caring in nature.

A few things I enjoy-

. Love music and its ability to take you to another world to forget about your own struggles.
. Big movie fan and also love video games
. Im a good listener and am genuinely interested in what people have to say in regard to their interests, thoughts and feelings.

I am open to matching with women of all backgrounds and lifestyles aged 24 and over. I am looking for someone who is at a point in which a virtual online connection is what they are after long term. Would be happy to receive a message from someone who values a txt based emotional bond over a louder in person lifestyle.

A few details-

Right now I would be looking for a text based connection via Reddit or Discord for the time being. Texting for now with the potential for more if we develop a genuine relationship.

If you would like to send photos, voice notes or anything else then that would be more than welcomed but due to my insecurities I wouldn’t be ready to do the same right now. No rush at all in anyway.

Because of my struggles I would really appreciate someone with a patient approach.

If we have a genuine spark then I would be completely open to virtual intimacy and myself sending voice notes. While an online bond is the focus right now. I would hope one day that could become physical if circumstances were to change and I would never say never to that.

I have a flexible schedule although at times a a bit inconsistent due to my struggles. No matter what though I am caring and attentive when chatting.

I am open to any time zones

Overall I feel like I can be there for someone emotionally, offering complete support and care even if not physically for the foreseeable future.

Feel free to drop me a message or chat request. If we talk and feel no connection that’s fine. Im just trying to put myself out there for once instead of talking myself out of it.

Newly single and have been lonely for some time even before that. Looking for someone to talk to and connect with, long distance or close by. I enjoy animals of almost every kind, plants, gardening, pike and bass fishing, and the quiet contentment of fresh country air where I live. If anything in this post interests you, feel free to dm me and chat. I would love to make a new friend connection and see what happens!

I'm 20 i live in US and i'm trying to chat.

Newly single and have been lonely for some time even before that. Looking for someone to talk to and connect with, long distance or close by. I enjoy animals of almost every kind, plants, gardening, pike and bass fishing, and the quiet contentment of fresh country air where I live. If anything in this post interests you, feel free to dm me and chat. I would love to make a new friend connection and see what happens!