Hi everyone, nice to meet you. I’d like to ask you to forgive me in advance for this long post, but I humbly believe that many people might relate to what I have to say, and considering the serious topic and the things I’m saying and what I’m looking for, is important to tell more about myself and trying to explain. Thank you for your patience.
Let me introduce myself: I’m a 25 years old straight man from Italy and, as the title says, I’m looking for a true and beautiful friendship and romantic relationship, because for me a partner is also your best friend, am I right? 😁
Due to various circumstances and probably because I’m growing up, i noticed is not easy to create a deeper connection with a person, romantically or friendly speaking. Lot of superficial people with whom you can’t have deeper or more serious conversations, nor share many passions, because they’re trapped in their own “worlds” of hypocrisy, falsehood, and interests that no longer align. I mean, is “easy” to find people that just want to have fun but… I don’t know, maybe I’m from another century hahaha but I kinda feel out of place. For me is not just fun and something quick, i believe we need to return to true and authentic connections rather than just sexual fun and materialistic views. Life is much more than that!
Unfortunately is not easy to find people who thinks the same, but i know there are a lot out there! Also, I noticed that when it comes to pursue a romantic interest, I longe for international women, I find them more interesting and more open minded and sensible, maybe is just me hahaha but I like the international aspect, discovering new cultures, different views on life, so many things to learn and to experience! Of course if there are Italian women out there don’t be shy 🤣 Nationality doesn’t matter when two hearts align❤️
I’ve always been kinda an old soul/old style for romantic connections, never been a fan of dating apps, I tried to use them but I don’t know… I guess I’m not fond of that. That’s why I though “Mmm I could try here”, on Reddit I met people that became some of my closest friends with whom I met in real life and after years we are best friends, so I thought that maybe I can truly find the person of my life even romantically speaking, or at least giving a try! I know love doesn’t come up easily, you must take care of it, growing together, but i’d like to try, with the right person💖
So, I’m trying to look for a person with a good heart and the right curiosity, someone with whom we can become one soul!
From what I’ve heard from others and read here and there, having some issues in finding the right person is becoming increasingly common among young people today, and there are likely several factors at play: a society that’s changing (and not for the better), an increasingly hectic lifestyle, a mental or psychological closed-mindedness stemming perhaps from fears, anxieties, and much more, or simply from opportunism and indifference… In short, for a variety of reasons!
As for myself, I have many hobbies and passions: I’m currently finishing my law degree at university, and I consider myself a very open minded and sincere person. I’m quite ironic (and self deprecating), and I enjoy engaging with others and learning from them. I’m a good listener and I love conversation.
Although it’s not easy to write in a message, I’ll list a few interests: I love culture in general, such as history, art, and museums… I enjoy reading and writing . I consider myself an “old soul” by today’s standards; I’m the kind of person who loves taking long walks, talking openly about everything, and having deep conversations, whether about fun things or more philosophical and serious topics. I’m interested in politics, I appreciate movies, good music, and anime... I enjoy physical activity. I recently started going to the gym, I find outdoor activities and embarking on new adventures wonderful, as well as long walks, exploring nature, traveling, eating, and cooking... And I love animals, I also have a dog! I never judge, I love both lighthearted and deep conversations, we can talk about anything and I consider myself a very empathetic and kind person. I’m an old-school gentleman when it comes to love, I truly believe a woman should never have to question where she stands with the man who truly loves her. I’m an extremely loyal person in all human connection and maybe it my biggest quality, my word is my bond, and my heart is given with intention, because there must always be respect and I’d never want to hurt someone else’s feelings.
I’d try to protect your peace, cherish your heart and celebrate your victories, standing beside you when life becomes difficult.
I think a true partnership is about two souls feeling to become one.
In 2026, distance has become relative! Traveling to meet new friends and partners and discover so many new things is part of life, and I consider these experiences wonderful, thus for whoever is reading I only ask to take in consideration the fact that you can come to Italy, or to move in general, or
being interested in Italy 😄 Especially if things get serious, physical contact and connection is fundamental for every relationship, texting and voice calling can help but of course the next step is trying to get closer as much as possible 🥰 If you know you cannot travel or move out, just ignore this post🥲
So what am I looking for? Maybe I’m asking for too much, hahaha, I realize that, but it would be nice if there was a woman who’s truly interested in a connection like this.
Someone with the right sensitivity and open mindedness, who maybe shares similar passions and interests, and most importantly, people who, after reading this post, thought, “Wow, so I’m not the only one who thinks and feels this way…” or “This guy intrigues me” hahaha. Like everyone else I have and had joys from life and I also suffered quite a lot, and despite my young age I’ve had and still have quite a fulfilling life, I’d have so much to say about the things I lived and witnessed.
I kindly ask that only serious, kind women who are genuinely interested in building a meaningful, long-term relationship reach out to me, and please don’t just disappear afterward. Let me be clear: only if you truly feel ready and interested in a genuine, sincere connection should you feel free to contact me, otherwise, let’s just skip it! Life is already complex, let’s not break hearts, read what I wrote earlier and if you feel truly interested and ready to be commited and also travel (if you are in Italy it’s already great hahaha or if you know you can move there it’s good!) you can text me. I know creating a human connection is not easy and takes time and lot of patience, thus think twice, thanks. And please, do not be a catfish or pervs or worse!!! I’d simply love a true person with good intentions 🥲
Whoever read all the post…. Thank you all for reading this far! 😆❤️ I’m sure many of you find yourselves in the same situation. Today we’re surrounded by so many opportunities to socialise and create a romantic relationship, and yet, unfortunately, people often seem to withdraw further and further into themselves, for various reasons. Thanks again, and have a great day, everyone, I hope love can finally reach me and I hope I can reach this right heart ❤️