r/Celiac • u/Papayasatnoon • 14h ago
Discussion Doctor Mum completely invalidates celiac disease
Hi everyone, this has been troubling me for a long time now, though as a child I never realized the severity of it as much. I was diagnosed with celiac disease when I was 6 and my parents followed some of the recommendations in my early childhood that were up to date then (2000s/2010s). However, they were never really strict about some things, like my mum used to routinely offer me the top of her cheesecake at the cafe since it didn’t contain flour (so she thought) and never made any distinction between simply gluten free and celiac safe. Going to my grandmothers house, she would routinely gluten me with pasta that she mixed up, and my parents never bothered to check the package she used. I developed OCD, different eating disorders and bone problems, that they never connected to celiac though. I would really like to believe that they simply didn’t know better, but my mother is actually a gastroenterologist and diagnoses celiac disease on a regular basis. I am now an adult and try to be as strict as I can, still unable to follow everything since I still live with them and my mother refuses to follow the celiac guidelines (she uses her gluten knife to cut cheese, uses the same chopping boards and cooking spoons) and when I or my siblings say something, she erupts and says I am too strict and none of her patients follow the rules so closely. She then points to my bloodwork and says it’s normal, although I get sick very often and had to go to hospital for tummy aches multiple times the past years. It just puzzles me completely how a doctor can be like this when she probably knows the evidence, sometimes I think it’s just too inconvenient for her… it makes me really sad though. Anyone had a similar experience? It would help to know it’s not only my own mother who does this…