r/askdentists • u/Familiar-Owl-7768 • 4h ago
question My mum won't take me to the dentist, what should I do?
As you can see, I have tooth decay on my molars, last time I went to the dentist (i think this was around december last year??),, my dentist said this could be due to me being premature, which can lead to my tooth crumbling and stuff, so I'm guessing that has led to this? My dentist said that there's no point in getting fillings as that would make it worse, and that if It causes pain I will have to get them removed in a few years, I also used to purge but I have stopped purging and haven't done it for months, but I wonder if that has contributed to this, I'm just frustrated because I brush my teeth twice daily, my mum isnt taking me to the dentist even though it does kind of hurt now, mainly when im eating and chewing gum, it doesnt reallt sting but it aches,and I don't know what to do anymore, I'm only 14 so it's not like I can do much, any advice? All my other teeth are fine, it's just my molars im worried about