To preface this I don't exclusively prefer white women, just figured that I might vibe with them more due to common interests! I also prefer to be friends first if that's okay? :> With that aside this is probably gonna be super embarrassing but here goes nothing...

Gonna be upfront about my appearance first! I'm average (short?) 5'7, and quite skinny. I eat a lot and can't seem to get fat for some reason? I exercise at home and outdoors but I guess I really do needa hit the gym some day lol. If it matters, I briefly worked in finance before, and currently work as a researcher at a university.

I'll say I'm an ambivert, but more on the introverted side. I used to go to group parties when I was in high school but not anymore. Damnit I miss those days...

I'm a musician and an amateur artist/animator! I play the guitar, piano, and violin (learned drums and trumpet before too!). I enjoy and play any genre of music. I also like fandom stuff - the list would be too large if I wrote it here. Always interested in learning about more fandoms! Call me cringe, chronically online or whatever lol but in my defense, I'm not like a diehard fan of any xD I like gaming but I don't game as much anymore as compared to when I was in school. I do like creating things tho, so I'm working to become an indie game dev!

If we do date, I'm okay with LDR, as long as we chat constantly and do meet up in person one day!

Just no drugs or smoking I guess, I can't really stand the smell of smoke. And maybe age range of 20-30? Nothing against you personally!

That's all folks, dm me if interested? This post is getting too long rip

looking for a relationship in this world.

Hi there!

I’m a 37-year-old Southeast Asian (Chinese descent), currently living in Japan and this August will be moving to SEA for a few months. I’m not Japanese, but I’ve been here for a while now. I’m single, never married, and seriously looking for a long-term relationship.

Dating hasn’t been easy for me here partly because of my limited past experience, and partly because it can be tough to meet like-minded people. That said, I’m open-minded, emotionally mature, and ready to grow with the right person.

Personality-wise, I’m a bit shy at first, but once we connect, I enjoy deep, meaningful conversations and sharing laughs. I’m more of a good listener than a smooth talker, but I value honesty and kindness in relationships.

A few of my interests:

🏋️‍♂️ I’ve recently gotten back into the gym and train 5 days a week (cardio + weightlifting).

🎬 I enjoy watching dramas and movies (open to all genres).

✈️ I love traveling to Europe and Asia are my favorites so far.

🍜 I’m a big foodie and enjoy trying local cuisines wherever I go.

I'm open to meeting someone either in Japan or SEA or anywhere. I’m also open to relocation for the right person and willing to travel to build a connection if things go well.

If you think we might click or just want to chat, feel free to message me. I usually reply as soon as I can, but please be patient with time zone differences.

Thanks for reading, and I hope to hear from you soon!

PS: This is me.

https://imgur.com/a/1GyP2fC

Hey everyone!

I am a 28-year-old healthcare professional looking for a genuine, long-term relationship. I currently live in South Australia, but I am completely open to starting long-distance if we click.

I have already completed my university degrees and love what I do, though my long-term plan is to eventually transition out of my frontline role and grow into other areas of the field. Visually, I am South Asian with olive skin, which means I often get told I look a bit racially ambiguous, people frequently guess everything from Italian and Greek to Middle Eastern or Mexican or just Indian.

Physically, I am a 5'6" petite, slim man.
When I am not at work, I am usually diving into video games, reading comic books, or checking out art galleries or trying new restaurants. I also love watching comic book movies.

I am looking to meet a woman of European/white descent between the ages of 24 and 28. I value health, self-improvement, and mutual growth, and I would love to find a partner who shares those values.

I am genuinely not interested in hookups, friends-with-benefits, or rushing into anything. I want to take the time to build a real, meaningful connection first.

If any of this resonates with you, please send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself. To kick things off, let me know what games you have been playing lately, or share your favourite comic book movie!

I'm an academic and seeking an initially long-distance relationship with a realistic ability to be short-distance in the next few years. One of my only principles is the respect I give to those who have lived through or otherwise considered something very deeply; I believe in the Dunning-Kruger effect and try to not be confidently wrong. Conversely, I expect consideration for things that are natural from my experiences and to find mutual truth within those.

If any of the following sound like you, let's chat! More biographical information will be provided in DMs.

\- you're driven by your work or a large project outside of work

\- you value empathy but also bring your own life experiences to the table

\- you like to discuss things to the details as a matter of truth-seeking, not as a signal of distrust. sometimes these details will reveal a better way of thinking about things and we'll both be for the better.