19M, 6’5. Half Irish, half Swedish, born and raised in Manhattan

Mostly looking to keep things online for now, but if we click I’d maybe be open to meeting eventually.

I’m in college in NYC and like women close to my age, though I’ve been with older women before and have had great experiences. So feel free to reach out if that’s you too! 

Any race is cool with me- but super extra bonus points if ur desi!

Hi I’m 34 year old guy from the uk who is looking to connect with a woman for a genuine long term online connection. I manage day to day with Anxiety and OCD which has left me unable to really experience any form of a relationship due to my homebound lifestyle. I am not currently at the weight I’d like to be however beneath my struggles is a confident person who when comfortable with someone shows that side. I am very passionate and attentive as an individual and am caring in nature.

A few things I enjoy-

. Love music and its ability to take you to another world to forget about your own struggles.
. Big movie fan and also love video games
. Im a good listener and am genuinely interested in what people have to say in regard to their interests, thoughts and feelings.

I am open to matching with women of all backgrounds and lifestyles aged 24 and over. I am looking for someone who is at a point in which a virtual online connection is what they are after long term. Would be happy to receive a message from someone who values a txt based emotional bond over a louder in person lifestyle.

A few details-

Right now I would be looking for a text based connection via Reddit or Discord for the time being. Texting for now with the potential for more if we develop a genuine relationship.

If you would like to send photos, voice notes or anything else then that would be more than welcomed but due to my insecurities I wouldn’t be ready to do the same right now. No rush at all in anyway.

Because of my struggles I would really appreciate someone with a patient approach.

If we have a genuine spark then I would be completely open to virtual intimacy and myself sending voice notes. While an online bond is the focus right now. I would hope one day that could become physical if circumstances were to change and I would never say never to that.

I have a flexible schedule although at times a a bit inconsistent due to my struggles. No matter what though I am caring and attentive when chatting.

I am open to any time zones

Overall I feel like I can be there for someone emotionally, offering complete support and care even if not physically for the foreseeable future.

Feel free to drop me a message or chat request and tell me a bit about yourself. If we talk and feel no connection that’s fine. Im just trying to put myself out there for once instead of talking myself out of it.

Hello there if you are reading this i hope that you are doing well and that your week is going well.

I'm 26, I just recently moved to Texas almost 2 months ago, I am 5'9 with an average build, I have been going to the gym 3-4 times a week. I have 4 tattoos I found a new artist who is going to help finish my old tattoos and get some new ones designed.

I'm currently on track to buy my first house sometime next year and at the ripe age of 27 haha, I work as a systems specialist at a manufacturing facility, and I have really flexible hours which makes it super easy to plan stuff,

Some of my hobbies include watching Movies, Reading, Cooking, Camping Hiking and going out with friends. I am a very avid gamer my go to game right now is Deadlock, Palworld, and Star Citizen, I am currently waiting for Blood of the Dawnwalker, I've been waiting forever for this game. My music taste is everywhere if it's got a good beat, I'll listen to it, but country music is probably my favorite none of this new country I like my old school country. I love to cook, if you tell me something you want, I will find a way to make it.

I love going to Museums and Aquariums, I love the Ocean too one of the main reasons I moved to Beaumont Texas was the Ocean being 30mins away. The beach is always a great time to unless i start turning red then it's a nightmare for the next week.

You can always reach out to me on my discord: acebird1e2, we can also talk elsewhere if depending on comfort level, so let me know and I look forward to hearing from you and see where things can go

Hello ladies…I hope this message finds you well.

I am a 47 M, educated, confident, charming Latino man who would love to find a fellow open minded amazing woman to connect with.

Building a friendship in which we could allow to grow together, and explore would be ideal, connection and trust being the solid foundation of all.

I believe in open and honest communication, and expect your message to have a little bit of context ( aka no ☺️“hey“ or one word sentences or responses without verb ) after my effort in writing this post.

Open to a number of possibilities, scenarios and circumstances…reasonably of course and distances as long as an in real life relationship is realistic.

I know what I want and my worth, but you directly get Bonus points if your response paints a vivid picture of who you are and what you want.

About me…

I am attractive (yes, really), fit (work out regularly but not obsessed about it! Enjoying life is also important!), 5’10”, and very easy on the eyes ( lots of people seem to think I have an Italian/Spanish vibe to me), positive and laid back with a bit of a nerdy side.

I have brown eyes and darker features and a slight Midwestern accent when I’m comfortable.

I love cooking, reading, movies, animals, history, DIY projects, and music is a big part of my life as well.

Anyway…Send me your virtual carrier pigeon, I’ll take good care of it before sending it back!

Hugs and positive energy…

T

Looking for someone to get to know and build some kind of friendship. Age is unimportant (older or younger), just be comfortable with yourself and an be an adult and open minded. ~

I’m looking for a female friend. I’m not seeking a life-changing relationship, just someone to connect with through constant, private, and fun texting. Let’s build trust and friendship and see where it takes us. Having a good sense of humor is a huge plus; I enjoy laughing.

Attached or married , is okay as long as you are discreet and drama-free. Chatting when time permits or whenever possible, and even coffee or more ( if nearby).

About me: I’m 5’9”, brown eyes, dark with grey hair, borderline, hwp, a professional in biotech, I’m kind, funny, and handsome -ish . I’m supportive, respectful, friendly, flirty, kind , open-minded, funny, supportive, helpful, respectful, and caring.

Not wanting to change your life in any drastic way, but add fun and maybe excitement to it.
If it doesn’t work no ghosting and we say goodbye. Send me a message, even if you are just curious.
Thanks for reading.

I'm hoping to meet a who's genuinely looking to build a real connection(26+). Distance doesn't bother me—I'm open to meeting someone from anywhere in the world if we click. I'd rather have an amazing person far away than the wrong person close by.

A little about me:

• I love coffee dates, beach trips, road trips, dressing up, and discovering new restaurants.
• I'm affectionate, loyal, and definitely a hopeless romantic.
• I value kindness, honesty, emotional maturity, and communication.
• Family and faith are important to me, and I believe the best relationships are built on trust, laughter, and choosing each other every day.

I'm not looking for casual hookups or endless chatting with no intention of ever meeting. I want someone who's emotionally available, genuinely single, and ready to get to know someone with the possibility of building something meaningful.

Age doesn't intimidate me because I appreciate confidence, stability, and the perspective that comes with life experience.

If you're someone who still believes in good morning texts, random check-ins, planning trips together, laughing over silly things, and making each other feel appreciated, I'd love to hear from you.

I'm hoping to meet a man (26+) who's genuinely looking to build a real connection. Distance doesn't bother me—I'm open to meeting someone from anywhere in the world if we click. I'd rather have an amazing person far away than the wrong person close by.

A little about me:

• I love coffee dates, beach trips, road trips, dressing up, and discovering new restaurants.
• I'm affectionate, loyal, and definitely a hopeless romantic.
• I value kindness, honesty, emotional maturity, and communication.
• Family is important to me, and I believe the best relationships are built on trust, laughter, and choosing each other every day.

I'm not looking for casual hookups or endless chatting with no intention of ever meeting. I want someone who's emotionally available, genuinely single, and ready to get to know someone with the possibility of building something meaningful.

Age doesn't intimidate me—in fact, I've always found myself drawn to older men because I appreciate confidence, stability, and the perspective that comes with life experience.

If you're someone who still believes in good morning texts, random check-ins, planning trips together, laughing over silly things, and making each other feel appreciated, I'd love to hear from you.

F20, African

looking for someone who doesn't do things halfway

I'm not interested in casual "let's see where this goes" energy.

I want someone who, once they're in, is in , texts back because they want to, remembers the small stuff, picks me even when it's inconvenient. Loyalty isn't a bonus feature for me, it's the baseline.

A little about me: l play chess and passionate about all things medicine.

I'm affectionate, direct, and I give what I get ,if you're all-in, I will be too.

Looking for someone who knows what they want and isn't afraid to chase it. Bonus points if you're a good texter and better at follow-through.

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I like to think my personality is built on two main pillars: a deep seated curiosity and a reliable sense of humor. I love to laugh and find the lighthearted side of things, but I also know that not every moment calls for a joke. My curiosity means I'm genuinely interested in the "why" and "how" behind people and the world, so you can expect me to be the one asking plenty of questions. What else have you discovered about me? Well, I guess you'll just have to chat with me to find out !

When I'm not busy being curious, you can find me:

· Chasing calm: Looking up at the sky, admiring a full moon, or just spending quiet time in nature.

· Diving into entertainment: Getting lost in endless YouTube rabbit holes, feeling the beat of EDM and pop music, or getting hooked on the drama of a wrestling match.

· Getting lost in stories: I'm usually buried in a nonfiction book or a gripping thriller. The world of romance novels is still a mystery to me so feel free to send your best recommendations my way!

My list of interests is pretty wide! from the mysteries of the paranormal and history, to the intricacies of watches and psychology, and the mechanics of cars. But don't let that list intimidate you! While I love deep-diving into specific topics, most of my conversations end up being about life in general...the big, small, and everything in between.

I'm hoping to find someone who engages genuinely, who is as interested in getting to know me as I am in getting to know them. I value consistency and someone who wants to build a real, lasting relationship. And honestly? A little bit of a clingy partner in crime is a total bonus in my book.

I want to add that I'm a person of color.

If this sounds like a connection you'd like to explore, my DMs are open. I'm looking forward to our first real conversation.

Hello hello!

Call me Star. I am a 33 year old Indian woman (currently in India). I am a finance professional with a solid career, financially and emotionally stable, good friends, good social life and lead a pretty full and busy life.

I am divorced, no kids (want a few in the future). I have a good few tattoos and will be getting some more, I enjoy my own personal quiet time, napping, travelling and cooking.

I am looking for someone who will make my life better. I do prefer dating tall, fit, conventionally attractive men, who are not bald. We can share pics once we are comfortable. Please be between 34-41 and mention age and location when you DM, if you don’t, I will not respond.

Thats pretty much it!

Hi all! 35-year-old British guy here.... if you like British accents, I'm your guy!

Im looking for the one, and I thought I'd give this a go, so this is about me:

Physically, I'm 6'4, athletic build, caucasian, brown/blonde hair, blue eyes. I enjoy working out, so im in fairly good shape. Personality wise, I'd describe myself as easygoing, approachable, and friendly. Im quite sociable and enjoy company. I enjoy talking about music, sport, travel, or just general chit-chat.

You:

As long as you are fun, easy-going, and cool, that is the main thing, and I am open to women of all shapes and sizes from all backgrounds. You do not necessarily have to be UK based, but I'd like to hear from people open or planning to visit the UK. I would also appreciate a photo or 2, though, in your first message, and a bit about yourself, as I do prefer to know who I am talking to. Lastly, I want to speak to people willing to put in the effort, who make conversation and ask me questions too as I am looking to make a long term and lasting connection.

If you're interested, my DM's are open :)

Hi there Im 24f I’m from the U.S. currently living in Texas. I would prefer to connect with someone who lives here or in the US. Ages 23+ please

A little about me: I love to cook, bake, read, write, go on walks, game, do visual design, etc. Also enjoy binging TV shows, movies and making playlists (currently watching house of the dragon )and I’m a huge horror fan so bonus points if you are too lol

Physical traits: I’m black/creole. Curvy. Currently on a fitness journey I absolutely love it. I dont have any tattoos unfortunately but id like to get one or a few eventually. (If you have a fetish for women of my background this will not work lol)

Religion: Christian/spiritual

What I'm looking for:
I want to connect with someone who enjoys good convo as much as i do. I genuinely love deep conversations, random conversation and just laughing for no reason. I’d much rather you be yourself and let loose.

What I look for in a person is someone who values communication, honesty, loyalty, and consistency. Someone who’s family-oriented (I would like to have a family of my own someday. We wouldn't work if you dont want kids so just a heads up), has goals, and is intentional about building a healthy relationship. I’m liberal, so I’d love to meet someone who shares similar values.

not in a rush to jump into a relationship. I like to take my time getting to know someone and build a genuine connection first

If this sounds like we’d click, message me and tell me something about you ☺️

Hi I'm a stocky, single latino guy from the Inland Empire in Southern California looking for a relationship, I'm a mix of stereotypical nerd and stoner, with a dash of anxiety, neetdom, and a healthy sense of humor looking for a monogamous relationship with a child free, loyal woman. I'm very low maintenance, affectionate, communicative, kinda funny, a little sensitive, at least a little attractive and really love spending lots of time together. I also enjoy cooking and learning new recipes, please tell me your favorite foods and let me cook something for you. I'm also very "non-vanilla" in the bedroom and also pretty inexperienced and would want to find someone as equally inexperienced honestly wouldn't mind a female led relationship. I'd be open to relocating for the right woman, also please be willing to send pictures and reply with more than "hi"

Hey everyone!

I'm a 25-year-old Software Engineering student currently living in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. I'll be graduating soon, and I'm hoping to meet someone kind, open-minded, and interested in getting to know each other across different cultures.

A little about me: I'm Bengali and grew up with a strong appreciation for different cultures and perspectives. I'm a calm and curious person who enjoys meaningful conversations and learning about people's experiences.

Outside of studying and coding, I enjoy watching movies (especially horror, fantasy, and sci-fi), exploring random topics, and spending time with my cat 🐱. I enjoy conversations about life, dreams, cultures, hobbies, and the small things that make people unique.

I'm interested in interracial connections because I think two people from different backgrounds can learn a lot from each other and create something meaningful when there is respect, understanding, and genuine effort.

I'm looking for someone who is kind, genuine, and open-minded. Someone who enjoys sharing stories, laughing together, and building a connection naturally over time.

If you think we might get along, feel free to message me ...Tell me a little about yourself .. your hobbies, interests, favorite movies, pets, or anything you enjoy talking about.

I'm a 27-year-old black woman from South Africa. I'm an introvert, a homebody, and very much a slow-burn kind of person. I'd rather spend my weekend crocheting, reading, or disappearing down a random research rabbit hole than at a party. I'm fascinated by space, psychology, and true crime. I also enjoy hikes and indoor rock climbing when I feel like venturing outside.

Physically, I'm 5'5, petite (57kg), with brown skin and brown eyes.

I'm looking for something genuine. I don't care much about distance as long as there's an intention to eventually close it. I'm not looking for a pen pal or someone to casually pass the time with. I'd love to build something meaningful with someone who's willing to take the time to get to know me and isn't afraid of making plans for the future if we're a good match.

I'm only interested in people who are 27 and older.

I tend to be more attracted to white men, but I'm open to genuine connections regardless of race.

One thing I'd like to be upfront about: if you're eventually going to ask me for nudes, send unsolicited pictures, or only become enthusiastic when the conversation turns sexual, we're probably not a good match. Physical attraction and intimacy are important in relationships, but they're not what I'm here for. I'm looking for emotional intimacy.

I like feeling safe and making the people I care about feel safe too. It takes me some time to open up, but once I'm comfortable I'm incredibly affectionate, curious, and probably asking you thirty questions about your latest hobby.

I've taken a long break from dating and I'm finally at a place where I'm excited to get to know someone again.

Deep down I know or hope that there is someone for me out there. I don't know how to find them or what the right words are to find them. Are they even on Reddit? I don't know but leave no stone unturned right? I am not new to dating and I am not new to Reddit. I am also not be to the dating scene on Reddit. What is new - the increasingly creative ways I have to say what I need to to find the right person for me.

I am black, plus sized and I have shoulder length microlocs. I tend to like white guys with medium to average build but that's not set in stone. Things that are set in stone however are good hygiene, kindness, being down to earth, and having a great sense of humor. I'm a creative person and I love to express that. I love true stories about the unexplained. I'm an extroverted introvert - I'm very talkative when I get to know you. I think that's the best part of having a partner - feeling like you have a friend that you can talk to about anything and everything. I recently binged the Tv show "Grimm" and I have no one to talk to about it! It was so good! The most underrated sure I've gone across in a while... Now I'm looking for something equally dark with a supernatural twist to it...I digress.

Anyway. I promise I have a lot of love to give to the right person. We could be quietly and exquisitely happy together.

HOWEVER. Please don't reach out if you simply send one word intros and replies, or just your a/s/l as an intro. I am not interested in taking to people who are more than 4 years younger than me, or if you need to use ai to craft a response to my intro. I am looking for genuine connection, not NSFW activities. I would like to find something real. Maybe that's naïve but I know it's out there. If you are not looking for that then I'm not the one for you.

And don't reach out if you're nonchalant. How do you know if you're nonchalant?If you reply "nm" when someone asks you what you're doing you're probably nonchalant. If you struggle to express your opinions and/or things that you think about frequently, you are nonchalant. Get help. Your nonchalace leaves you with no personality and it makes it very difficult to carry a conversation with you and reluctant to even want to. Don't leave your personality at home when you're talking to me. I would very much like to see it. Be as chalant as possible. I'm going to tell you right now, I'm chalant. I care deeply.

Dirty South born and bred. Newly moved to the area looking for friends who are down to hang out and escape this crazy crazy world. I like horror movies and I’m a huge lover of all kinds of music. Like every other person in the city, I used to be a rapper but don’t hold that against me.

Looking for something serious and long lasting ideally but shit happens. I love Janet Jackson and Erykah Badu. Send me a color and I’ll pair with a song from either of them.

Thanks for reading! I’m a cute white guy seeking a cute girl to chat with about anything and everything. This isn’t a romance post. Just looking for good online company. Age and location don’t matter. So if you’re cute and want to have a cute, smart, fun, chat friend…say hello!

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great online friendship or maybe even the love of my life on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in musik includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

As for what I am looking for, well, I am a virgin to be honest. And I am looking for a relationship. I would describe myself as a hopeless romantic. I always liked the idea of only being with one woman my whole life. Not for religious reasons or anything like that, it is just a personal preference. So I would like to find the love of my life here. I definitely want to be friends first and let things develop at a natural pace.

That is all I have to say for now. If you like what you read, feel free to introduce yourself and we will see. If you are from a different country or continent that is fine. We will find a way if things work out:)

Hey there so I am a 28 year old guy from ireland who is single and hoping to meet someone. I am 5ft 11 with blue eyes, redhair, white skin and pretty athletic. I work as an engineer and im into gaming, reading, history, working out, programming, travelling and anything science or engineering related.

Im looking for someone who takes care of her health, open minded, kind and who has some similar interests. I do have physical preferences as well although we can exchange photo's if we talk to see if there is attraction

I’m a 37-year-old man based in Toronto—down-to-earth, emotionally grounded, and always up for a great conversation. I’m at a place in life where I know what I’m looking for: a real connection with someone younger who’s curious, open-minded, and maybe craving something a little more grounded.

I value emotional depth, shared humor, and mutual respect. Whether we’re talking about life over coffee or exploring the city together, I enjoy meaningful moments—big or small. I’m confident, attentive, and supportive, and I genuinely enjoy mentoring, guiding, and learning from my partner too.

Age is just a number, but experience and intention matter. If you’re younger, whether you’re just getting your footing in life or looking for something different from the usual dating scene, I’m here for something sincere and drama-free.

If any of this speaks to you, send me a message—tell me a little about yourself and what you’re looking for. I’m always happy to chat and see where things go.

Hey 25F From EA... omg can a phone be drier!! I'd love to chat with someone that has insight on different things and stuff in common or just wants to talk to and see if we can be friends... please be respectful.. text and voice are okay then maybe if we get along we can stay in touch and get a new buddy 😂😅 …. I love clingy people 🙈

feel free to PM me if you’d like to chat 😊
TT

Hey there l’m 33, l live in Namibia.
I love cooking, discovering great restaurants, staying active, and getting completely sidetracked by random rabbit holes. I’m ambitious enough to have colour-coded life goals, but self-aware enough to know life rarely sticks to the spreadsheet.

I’m hoping to meet someone who’s kind, emotionally mature, communicates well, and is intentionally building a life he loves. I really admire people who are always growing, not because they’re chasing success, but because they’re curious, purposeful, and want to become the best version of themselves.

At the end of the day, I’m simply looking for genuine conversations, meaningful connection, and someone who makes life a little more fun. If you have a good sense of humour, a kind heart, and a story you’re passionate about, I’d love to hear it.