To preface this I don't exclusively prefer white women, just figured that I might vibe with them more due to common interests! I also prefer to be friends first if that's okay? :> With that aside this is probably gonna be super embarrassing but here goes nothing...

Gonna be upfront about my appearance first! I'm average (short?) 5'7, and quite skinny. I eat a lot and can't seem to get fat for some reason? I exercise at home and outdoors but I guess I really do needa hit the gym some day lol. If it matters, I briefly worked in finance before, and currently work as a researcher at a university.

I'll say I'm an ambivert, but more on the introverted side. I used to go to group parties when I was in high school but not anymore. Damnit I miss those days...

I'm a musician and an amateur artist/animator! I play the guitar, piano, and violin (learned drums and trumpet before too!). I enjoy and play any genre of music. I also like fandom stuff - the list would be too large if I wrote it here. Always interested in learning about more fandoms! Call me cringe, chronically online or whatever lol but in my defense, I'm not like a diehard fan of any xD I like gaming but I don't game as much anymore as compared to when I was in school. I do like creating things tho, so I'm working to become an indie game dev!

If we do date, I'm okay with LDR, as long as we chat constantly and do meet up in person one day!

Just no drugs or smoking I guess, I can't really stand the smell of smoke. And maybe age range of 20-30? Nothing against you personally!

That's all folks, dm me if interested? This post is getting too long rip

Hi! I'm Fernanda, a 27-year-old from Mexico.

I'm hoping to meet a kind, curious Japanese man who wants to build something meaningful together.

I'm open to long-distance. While moving to Japan is something I'd genuinely love to experience, my family is also very important to me. I'd like that decision to be one we make together, based on what's best for both of us.

I've left a couple of photos of myself in comments to make things easier for both of us. 😺 Physical attraction matters too, so I'd rather we both know what the other looks like from the beginning. If we click, I'm happy to move to Instagram fairly early on.

**A little about me**

\- 5'2" (157 cm)

\- AI & Data Engineering student, currently working in SEO & digital marketing.

\- Former Anthropology student (and planning to go back one day).

\- Native Spanish speaker, fluent in English, currently learning Japanese.

\- Cat mom. My cat, Kyoji 🐈, is family, so yes... he comes with the package.

***Warning: I'm neurodivergent (AuDHD), if that matters to you. Side effects may include enthusiastic infodumping, random anthropology facts, accidentally collecting degrees, asking way too many questions, and sending you photos of my cat.***

***I'm endlessly curious. I love anthropology, medicine, AI, psychology, history, philosophy, theology, languages... if there's a rabbit hole, I'll probably end up exploring it. Learning genuinely makes me happy.***

What I'm looking for

\- Japanese (or Japanese diaspora).

\- Around my age (roughly 24–35), though chemistry and compatibility matter much more than the exact number.

\- Kind, emotionally mature, emotionally available, and a good communicator.

\- Family-oriented.

\- Someone who's genuinely curious about the world.

\- Someone who's passionate about *something*. I love listening to people talk about what they genuinely enjoy, whether it's science, engineering, music, literature, art, or a wonderfully niche hobby.

\- Someone who enjoys both meaningful conversations and is not afraid of making fun of himself. We can spend the afternoon at a bookstore, museum, or café, then end the night at a bar, karaoke, or simply wandering around the city together.

\- Someone who sees their partner as their best friend.

\- Open to having children someday—or equally open to not having them. I'm still figuring that part out, so I'd like us to make that decision together when the time comes.

**A few random facts**

\- I play chess (still improving 🤞).

\- I looove dancing!

\- I'll probably ask you what you're currently reading or what you've been obsessed with lately.

\- I laugh... a lot.

\- I'm always planning my next project.

I'm mainly here hoping to find a relationship, but if we end up becoming good friends instead, that's perfectly okay too. Meaningful connections are always worth having, even if they don't become romantic.

If you made it this far, congratulations—you've officially survived my first infodump. 😹

I'd genuinely love to hear from you.

よろしくお願いします！🌸

looking for a relationship in this world.

I'm an academic and seeking an initially long-distance relationship with a realistic ability to be short-distance in the next few years. One of my only principles is the respect I give to those who have lived through or otherwise considered something very deeply; I believe in the Dunning-Kruger effect and try to not be confidently wrong. Conversely, I expect consideration for things that are natural from my experiences and to find mutual truth within those.

If any of the following sound like you, let's chat! More biographical information will be provided in DMs.

\- you're driven by your work or a large project outside of work

\- you value empathy but also bring your own life experiences to the table

\- you like to discuss things to the details as a matter of truth-seeking, not as a signal of distrust. sometimes these details will reveal a better way of thinking about things and we'll both be for the better.

Hi there!

I’m a 37-year-old Southeast Asian (Chinese descent), currently living in Japan and this August will be moving to SEA for a few months. I’m not Japanese, but I’ve been here for a while now. I’m single, never married, and seriously looking for a long-term relationship.

Dating hasn’t been easy for me here partly because of my limited past experience, and partly because it can be tough to meet like-minded people. That said, I’m open-minded, emotionally mature, and ready to grow with the right person.

Personality-wise, I’m a bit shy at first, but once we connect, I enjoy deep, meaningful conversations and sharing laughs. I’m more of a good listener than a smooth talker, but I value honesty and kindness in relationships.

A few of my interests:

🏋️‍♂️ I’ve recently gotten back into the gym and train 5 days a week (cardio + weightlifting).

🎬 I enjoy watching dramas and movies (open to all genres).

✈️ I love traveling to Europe and Asia are my favorites so far.

🍜 I’m a big foodie and enjoy trying local cuisines wherever I go.

I'm open to meeting someone either in Japan or SEA or anywhere. I’m also open to relocation for the right person and willing to travel to build a connection if things go well.

If you think we might click or just want to chat, feel free to message me. I usually reply as soon as I can, but please be patient with time zone differences.

Thanks for reading, and I hope to hear from you soon!

PS: This is me.

https://imgur.com/a/1GyP2fC

Hey everyone!

I am a 28-year-old healthcare professional looking for a genuine, long-term relationship. I currently live in South Australia, but I am completely open to starting long-distance if we click.

I have already completed my university degrees and love what I do, though my long-term plan is to eventually transition out of my frontline role and grow into other areas of the field. Visually, I am South Asian with olive skin, which means I often get told I look a bit racially ambiguous, people frequently guess everything from Italian and Greek to Middle Eastern or Mexican or just Indian.

Physically, I am a 5'6" petite, slim man.
When I am not at work, I am usually diving into video games, reading comic books, or checking out art galleries or trying new restaurants. I also love watching comic book movies.

I am looking to meet a woman of European/white descent between the ages of 24 and 28. I value health, self-improvement, and mutual growth, and I would love to find a partner who shares those values.

I am genuinely not interested in hookups, friends-with-benefits, or rushing into anything. I want to take the time to build a real, meaningful connection first.

If any of this resonates with you, please send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself. To kick things off, let me know what games you have been playing lately, or share your favourite comic book movie!

Hello!

Thank you for checking out the post. I’ll start with the basics. I’m 30 years old, 6’0”, 175 lbs, average slim athletic build, Korean/Chinese but born and raised in the states. College educated, work with numbers, sociable. I’d like to say I’m not a weird guy, but I’ll let you be the judge of that.

I’m based in NYC and really enjoy the energy here the mix of people, the food scene, and the constant buzz of the city. I’ve been in a great place lately, and I figured I’d put myself out there again to see if I can share that positivity in a way I know how.

I genuinely enjoy giving and focusing on a partner’s experience. It’s something I can get completely absorbed in, and I take pride in making sure you feel comfortable, relaxed, and able to enjoy yourself without any pressure to reciprocate or do anything beyond what you want. That’s important to me - you being able to just be present and a little selfish.

I can host, or we can figure out something that works best for you. I do usually prefer meeting up first for coffee, lunch, or dinner (my treat) just to make sure we both feel comfortable and the vibe is right.

I have SWF photos I’m happy to share.
If you made it this far, I appreciate you taking the time to read. Even if you’re just curious or want to chat, feel free to reach out aI’m always open to a good conversation.

Stay safe.

Hey there! I'm on the lookout for an awesome lady right here in Southern California to get to know and enjoy the summer with and possibly beyond.

We’d probably vibe well if you’re

Into any of these:
-asian culture and food
-museums, zoos and concerts
- hikes, nature or naturism
-dinking, Skating or other sports
-like dogs and/or cats
Bonus points if you’re kinda nerdy and also wear glasses

And If you're a fan of beach days and checking out some foodie or coffee spots, let's explore together! Leave me a message and let’s see where it leads us

Hey everyone! It's my first time posting in this specific sub, though I'm no stranger to Reddit r4rs. Since I'm a mix of Italian (a quarter on my dad's side) and Chinese-Filipino, I wasn't entirely sure if I qualified to post here, but I figured I'd take the leap!

I like to think I’m a great package for someone looking for that White/Asian fusion, as well as a mix of cultures. Even though I look mostly Asian and was raised in an Asian culture, I’m very open-minded and liberal in my lifestyle. I'm Asian Australian; my dad is an Australian of Italian and Chinese descent, and my mum is Filipino-Chinese. I'm usually based in Australia, but I'm currently taking a break in the Philippines.

What I'm looking for:

• I'm looking for a fellow introvert. Someone who loves being a homebody, playing video games, and watching movies. I’m heavily into that as well, so it’d be great to share those interests.
• Since I’m on the eastern side of the world right now, this will need to start as an online connection. However, I am absolutely open to meeting up in the future if things go well.
• I am a highly sexual person (it’s one of my love languages), but I want to keep things strictly SFW for at least the first month. This is my filter to deter guys who only want to get off and immediately disappear.
• I have a strong preference for East and Southeast Asian men. It’s just a preference, but you definitely get priority.
• I have no strict age preferences. However, I base everything initially on physical attraction before proceeding to test the emotional and intellectual connection. Because of this, I need to see a picture of you.

About me:

• I am a massive Lord of the Rings fan! I also love playing RPGs (Ghost of Tsushima, Horizon) and horror games, plus watching fantasy and horror movies.
• I tease and make fun of people a lot, lol. Please don't take it seriously; it's just my sense of humour, so don't be a softie!
• I’m a huge reciprocator. I strictly match the energy I’m given; if I feel prioritised and valued, I will give you that exact same energy back.
• I absolutely love voice calling! I’m a big caller, so be prepared to talk.
• While I mentioned holding off on sexual stuff initially, I believe it's important to disclose right off the bat that I am sexually dominant.
• I’m just really hoping to find my person someone who can put up with my BS and build something long-term.

Attached is a sample pic of me. If we hit it off, you will get a full photo once we've started chatting. Excited to meet you!

Hiii ! My name is Kitty and I'm a white woman from the US. I've been interested in dating a south Asian man for a while but all I meet are creeps 😭. I want to date to marry only, not get into something casual or just for time pass.

I'm currently in college studying political science as sociology and human welfare are some of my interests. My hobbies include reading, doing art, learning about things I'm interested in like cultures and religion, trying new foods and experiences, and watching YouTube/movies. I hope to travel eventually as well, but for now I'm just chilling here.

I'm a very spiritual person and I can mesh well regardless of what religion you follow. Also, be ready to have long talks about this because I do find it fascinating lol. In the future I would like to move so if distance is an issue I will be more than willing to find a solution for it. All I really ask of you is that you be a nice, caring, intelligent, ambitious, and considerate human being. If someone has all of those aspects I believe we could make anything work together. No low self worth people pls !

There's more i could say but I'll just leave it at this for now since I don't want to give the entire Internet my life story loll. If any of this interests you and you would like to chat just send a message, thanks 🤗

Prefer white or Latina but open. I'm fine with older or younger but older, more mature is preferred, someone who is patient, kind, open-minded, loving, wise. I'm introverted and not fond of outdoors. I've been told I'm kind, considerate, patient, smart, cute (but your mileage may vary depending on preference, of course). In the palmdale/lancaster/los angeles/antelope valley if anyone is interested. May take time to warm up to people since I'm kind of socially awkward. Let me know if you have any questions? I have a slender build and prefer someone similarly but as long as you're kind and loving, I'm open to it. Personality >>> appearance. Also, please be local because I haven't had good experiences with people who are out of state (they tend to flake or lose interest).

Hi! I'm a 25-year-old Software Engineering student currently living in Malaysia. I'm an introvert, so meeting new people has never come naturally to me, but I'm hoping to find someone I genuinely connect with. I'm open to long-distance if the connection feels right.

A little about me: I'm Bengali, about 173 cm tall, and a huge cat lover. I spend most of my time coding, learning new technologies, watching fantasy movies and TV shows, and occasionally playing games. I enjoy meaningful conversations far more than small talk, and I'd much rather spend an evening talking about life, dreams, random facts, or our favorite movies than going out every weekend.

I'm Muslim, and my faith is an important part of my life. I value honesty, kindness, loyalty, respect, and good communication. I believe the strongest relationships begin with friendship—getting to know each other naturally, supporting one another, and growing together over time.

I'm looking for a kind, emotionally mature woman who's interested in building something real. Age, race, and nationality aren't dealbreakers for me. If we connect well, I'm happy to see where things go naturally.

If you decide to message me, I'd love to hear a little about yourself instead of just saying "hi." If you're comfortable, we can exchange photos once we've gotten to know each other a bit.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

Hi my name is Kei. Born in New Jersey, currently living in NYC for work. Both of my parents are Japanese and i am well connected the my culture. I go home every year to visit family.

Im an optmistic, positive and outgoing person. The kind of person that talks to strangers and is best friends with them 5min later 😅.

I love anime, cooking, baking, staying fit (running and lifting), gaming, people watching, solo travelling.

Im into all body types, short, skinny, fit, muscular, chubby.

White women tend to match my personality better in my experience, both American and European and Latina.

If that sounds interesting to you hit me up :)

Hi, I'm 29, 6'3 (191 cm) & weigh 87 kgs (191 lbs). I work remotely within the ECE sector of the US, love animals with all my heart (my dog especially) & have always wanted to build and run an animal sanctuary (still in the pipeline but soon enough iA!).

I've also delved into some gigs on the side such as acting & voice acting, I love music especially the saxophone & the electric guitar, currently working on the electric guitar (still kinda suck but getting a little better everyday)

Looks wise I try my utmost to look like a footballer since I'm absolutely obsessed with the sport, playing as well as watching & I'm also a regular gym goer on the days I'm not playing, really into bodyweight exercises (addicted to pullups) so I think I look alright & I'd expect you to also be someone that's keen on taking care of themselves.

What I'm looking for: Please be chill & someone who's genuinely kind, loves animals, music & has a wack sense of humor. Also, mutual attraction is essential to any relationship so I think we should exchange pictures straight away & see if we'd like to proceed.

PS. I know this ain't detailed enough but hit me up if you think we'd vibe & I'll share more about myself!

I'm a 35yo east Asian guy in Florida having a stable career and grounded life. Outside of work, I like staying active, long-distance running and kayaking. I'm definitely not a gym bro muscle maxing type. One of my favorite hobbies is cooking, especially traditional French cuisine and patisserie. There's something satisfying about taking the time to get a recipe right, whether it's a classic beef bourguignon or a paris brest, or Sant honore that takes far longer to make than it does to eat.

When I'm not at home, I enjoy exploring new places. I like weekend road trips, finding cafes I've never been to, and getting out on the water whenever I can. Traveling is something I value, not because I want to check countries off a list, but because I enjoy slowing down and experiencing a place and the food. One trip I've been dreaming about is spending an extended period living somewhere in southern Italy, enjoying the local food, culture, and everyday life instead of rushing through it as a tourist.

I'd describe myself as thoughtful and someone who likes to think things through before action. That mindset naturally carries over into every part of my life. I'm not really the impulsive or thrill-seeking type, and I'm perfectly okay with that. I also have a 7-year-old daughter, which is another reason I value reliability, stability, and being dependable. I appreciate a peaceful life much more than constant excitement.

I'd like to find a genuine connection with someone who values honesty, kindness, and consistency. I'm not looking for perfection or trying to force anything. I'd rather build a strong connection first and let a relationship grow naturally from there. If you're looking for something real, enjoy meaningful conversations, and think we'd get along, I'd love to hear from you. Florida or nearby states would be ideal, although I'm open to the right connection. If you decide to say hi, tell me a random fact about yourself that would surprise most people. Happy to verify right away.

Looking for mature woman 40+ .

Hey 👋

Figured I’d give this another shot.

I’m a 31-year-old Indian guy from Melbourne. Pretty chilled, a bit sarcastic, and the kind of person who’ll happily spend hours gaming, watching random YouTube videos, or ending up in a conversation that started with “how was your day?” and somehow turned into conspiracy theories or childhood memories.

I work in game QA and from home most days, so it’d be nice to have someone to message throughout the day instead of pretending I’m not checking Reddit every five minutes.

I’m not looking for perfection or someone who has their whole life figured out. Just someone who’s easy to talk to, enjoys a bit of banter, doesn’t mind sharing random thoughts or memes, and is actually interested in getting to know someone.

Looks-wise, I’m 5’8”, slim, Indian, with a few tattoos. Happy to swap photos early if we get along.

If you think we’d click, send me a message. Tell me something completely random about yourself or what you’ve been obsessed with lately. Bonus points if you can recommend a game or convince me to watch something I haven’t seen.

Hello!

I'm 27, 173cm/5 ft 8, Korean, based in the Boston area. During the day I work in engineering. Outside of work I enjoy going on a walk outside, building Lego, driving the backroads, going into the city, trying new restaurants.

Lately I have also been getting more into photography. I'm also a huge music person so be sure to ask for my music recommendations!

I'm writing this post to see if there's anyone out there who I click with. Whether that leads to a great friendship or something more, I’m interested in seeing where things go.

I value someone able to keep a conversation going, beyond a simple "hey". Smoking/recreational drugs are a deal-breaker for me, and ideally I'd like it if you were my height or shorter than me.

If you've read this far and think we'll get along, please send me a message! Let's get to know each other!

Because I'm bored and I have already submitted a post even though that post was not meant to be advertising, just a warning to others to beware of trolls.

So this post of mine is me finally putting myself out there I guess? Want to know more? Ask me anything. I have already talked about myself plenty and people in here even tried to shit on me for being a human rights volunteer in a war in Eastern Europe.

Hi there, thanks for checking out my post. I hope that you're staying safe and well during these crazy times! I am hoping to find someone who I can chat on here a while and then maybe move on to a messaging app with the intention of hanging out in real life and explore the big apple with, which is why I'm mainly looking for someone in the NYC area or at the maximum withing the east coast. If you think we would really click, I'm open to anywhere too but please put some effort into your first message and can actually hold a conversation. Not looking to waste each other's time! Thanks!

About me:

• 5'8
• 160 lbs
• Average build
• Asian
• Foodie
• Majored in Computer Science
• Working as software developer
• Huge geography buff (love history too)
• Boxing fan (also watch MMA, NBA, and soccer from time to time)
• Horror/thriller/mystery movie fan, do watch mainstream movies & TV shows in general
• Love paranormal/creepy things
• Exploring new and unknown placesa
• Space, universe, aliens
• Enjoy deep conversations
• Collecting things (I'll keep it a mystery for now, message me to find out more)
• Swimming, running, hiking, working out
• Into science & tech in general
• Laid back, open-minded, and love to make inappropriate jokes even during tough times
• Dark humor
• 420 friendly (I smoke socially and have no problem with it as long as it doesn't revolve around your life 24/7)
• Random fun fact: Drifted around homes during childhood, moved more than 10 times before I left home for college (lost count at this point 🤔)

Looking for:

• 25+
• A cutie like myself :>
• Can hold a conversation
• Share some of my hobbies and interests, would love to hear your hobbies/interests too
• Willing to explore the city and go on a food hunt with me
• Enjoy traveling and trying out new things
• Will enjoy staying indoor as much as being outdoors
• Build a deep connection with me and open to the possibility of leading to a serious relationship
• To be honest, I don't have much expectation. So just send me a message and we can find out!

What I am hoping to see from your first DM:

• An intro about yourself, just something we can kick off with. Things like as age, height, weight, location, INTERESTS, etc. would be cool
• Perhaps a photo, will be sending one (or a few) in return

31 M, Asian Man, 5'6, 150lbs. I enjoy traveling and watching movies!
I want to make a good friendship and maybe more than that!! I am down for a close location like the Roanoke area too!
If we have fun, I'm very open to keeping the connection going. Hope to hear from you soon!

Hey there my fellow Redditors , after failing miserably in the real world I'm shooting my shot here , if anyone around my age is interested , feel free to DM

Here are a few things about me :-

1. I am a Mathematics student (I know it sounds nerdy)
2. I play table tennis at a good level
3. I'm into classics i.e, movies , music and paintings , I sometimes draw myself too

If we vibe then it will be long term , if not no hard feelings...

Hey hi hello, I’m a 27 year old southeastern Asian male that’s looking for a connection or something in between. I was in what was basically an on and off relationship for quite sometime but recently the partner had decided to make other decisions which is ok since it’s for their own happiness especially since I wasn’t too good to her and I regret it. I like to play video games, go to the gym and watch tv show for the most part. I do enjoy outdoor activities here and there but I’ve mostly been a shut in the past month. Please feel free to shoot me a message if you’d like to get to know more. I am in a bit of a depressive state currently as well so please don’t expect anything too much from me unfortunately.

About me: 31 M, Korean-American, 5'10, 170lbs, in shape and active. I enjoy reading, volleyball, board games, outdoor activities, and trying new restaurants!

Maybe we show each other out favorite local food spots, or try new ones. Or perhaps we get coffee and drink explore a museum, or grab Korean food and then dance the night away? I'm always open to tying new places!

If we have fun, I'm very open to keeping the connection going. Hope to hear from you soon!

Hi everyone. I grew up in a non-diverse place (still is) and got interested in east asian culture and men in the last few years. I'm looking for my forever person. I've never dated an asian man, so you would be my first. I'm looking for someone smart, interesting, has a good career, honest, likes white girls, wants marriage long term (not dating me just for fun or an experience). I'm ok dating long distance and moving to you if it's serious. I'm petite, 5'4", blonde. If I seem interesting to you, send me a message and tell me a little about you