Problem/Goal: Matatanggal sa trabaho

Context: Cashier po ako sa isang supermarket, nakatanggap po ako ng expired na sodexo ang nakalagay sa sodexo revalidation after Dec 2022 worth 2k. May policy po yung company namin na kung ma short ka ng 1k sa isang buwan automatic babaan ka ng memo for termination. pwede ko ba ito ilapit sa DOLE? inaantay ko nalang na babaan ako ng memo from accounting. under po ako ng agency at during orientation naman sinabi po nila ganun daw po yung policy ni company pero wala po akong pinirmahan na contract.

Problem/Goal: Is it still possible to find a genuine, long-term relationship these days? I'm curious to hear both men's and women's perspectives.

It seems like modern dating is becoming more focused on hookups and situationships. One thing I've also wondered is whether it matters if a woman has never been in a relationship because she chose to wait until she was emotionally ready for commitment.

I've tried talking to people and keeping an open mind, but I haven't found anyone looking for the same kind of genuine connection. Does relationship experience matter, or do character and intentions matter more?

Problem/Goal:
I want advice on whether it’s reasonable to feel uncomfortable when my partner goes to a party without me, especially when there will be female friends there. I want to handle the situation in a healthy way without being controlling or creating unnecessary conflict.
Context:
We’re in a long-distance relationship, so we don’t get to spend time together in person very often. My partner was invited to a party that I’ll be unable to attend, and some of the people there are female friends. I do trust my partner, but the distance sometimes makes my insecurities stronger. I don’t want to stop them from having a social life, but I also don’t want to ignore my own feelings.
Previous Attempts:
I’ve tried reminding myself that trust is important and that I don’t want to be controlling. I’ve also communicated that I feel a little uncomfortable, but I’m still unsure if my feelings are reasonable or if I need to work on my own insecurities. I’m looking for honest opinions and advice from people who have been in similar situations.

Problem/Goal:
I feel guilty because I realized that I don’t love my boyfriend of 2 years anymore

Context:
It’s 4 AM, and I’m sitting in my balcony writing this while my boyfriend is all comfortable in the bed with his full blast volume.

After an argument a while ago (I opened up about my feelings & he hated it), I decided that I will sleep it off nalang. He knows how sensitive I am sa noise pero still, he ended up watching tiktoks on full volume & when I asked him to turn it down, ang sabi lang niya sakin takpan ko raw ears ko. Hindi pa siya contented dun, he kept on shaking his legs which made the bed move nang sobra.

I don’t know if I’m overreacting, but something snapped in me & I realized that this is not the kind of man that I want to spend my life with. Alam na niyang masama ‘yong loob ko & the least he can do is to let me sleep peacefully kasi he refuses to take accountability, pero ayun ganon ginawa niya.

Aside from that, I feel offended na ako pa ‘yong mag aadjust sa place na ako mismo nagbabayad. Nakakabastos masabihan nang takpan ko nalang tenga ko when he purposely used his phone on full volume. I hate him so much. Kung galit lang nararamdaman ko, I would argue & argue with him pero ngayon wala na ‘kong maramdaman.

Am I just being petty over this or valid naman nararamdaman ko?

Previous Attempts:

Problem/Goal: I was supposed to start college this year, but I took a gap year. Now I have to decide where I’ll study next year, and I honestly feel stuck.

Context: Hi. I’m 18. I was raised alongside my three siblings by my single father after my mother passed away in 2019. From the outside, we look like a normal family. We don’t constantly fight, our bills are paid, and my father has always made sure we never had to worry financially. He’s genuinely the best father anyone could ask for.
Pero sabi nga nila, mas nakakabingi ang tahimik na bahay.

Last year, my father attempted to take his own life. By some miracle, he survived and chose to keep living — for us. Life eventually went back to “normal.” We don’t really talk about what happened anymore, and everything continued as if nothing had changed. But for me, it did.

Previous attempts: I can stay here, study at a university nearby, and be close to my family, specifically to my dad. But a part of me also wants to move away for college to experience independence, meet new people, and finally build a life of my own.

The problem is.. I feel guilty for even wanting that.

So I wanted to ask: If you were in my position, what would you do? Would you stay close to your family, or would you choose yourself and move away for college?

I’d really appreciate honest perspectives.

Problem/Goal: i’ve been receiving texts that are consistently meant for another person for a while now. its starting to worry me because now im overthinking na may records of someone else with MY phone number.

Context:
hi all, pls bear with me as i try to explain the best i can :”)

i’ve been constantly receiving texts clearly meant for someone else kasi iba yung pangalan na nakalagay sa “Good day, [name]” and such. literal na consistent din yung spelling ng other name lagi.

it started out a few years ago (2023 from what i recall) with a happy birthday text meant for that other person from some office. at the time i thought it was a scam so nireport ko as spam yung text LOL

pero recently, may natanggap akong text (this time from pag ibig allegedly) na may overdue tax payment yung other person. syempre the first time it happened, i ignored it lang and reported as spam ulit. pero bigla nalang nag text ulit sila. at this point iniisip ko ba kung totoo ba or scam kasi nung sinearch ko yung numbers na pinrovide nila for inquiries, may lumabas talaga sa google na pag ibig din pero parang for a certain area lang?? like wala siya sa pag ibig website mismo pero it does pop up in searches and may “pag ibig” na nakalagay sa website description thingy na nag aappear sa google. i dont think im explaining it well huhu

so now, inaassume ko na someone else used to own this number before i got the sim and registered it :// i feel like inooverthink ko to and its a scam talaga pero may what if parin eh hahahahahuhuhuhu

ayorn, ask ko sana if may nakaexperience ba rin ng ganto at kung may advice kayo on what i should do moving forward?? id appreciate any advice or insight on this :”)) thank youu

(also: i have no idea how pag ibig works kasi unemployed po ako… so i really cant tell if its legit or not lol pls be kind to me HUHU)

Problem/Goal: Me 30 him 29 . me earning 40k him 80k Tama ba na hiniwalayan ko bf ko kasi priority niya family niya kesa sa amin sa future namin. Breadwinner kasi siya. Panganay and nagpapadala siya 20k sakanila for bills groceries pati nadin sa ibang needs nila. Siya din nagpapaaral sa 2 nyang kapatid. Narinig ko nagusap sila ng tatay niya na need ng 30k para daw magtanim etong ng wala panga pundar ni lupa or bahay tas pamilya nya hingi ng hingi . Inaway ko siya kasi hindi manlang siya magbigay sakin ng kusa ng pera pampasalon or nails manlang . Kapag naka incentive siya una niyang iisipin pamilya niya na tikman incentive niya bakit di niya ba ako inisip na need ko din ng pera. Andito siya palagi sa bahay sa weekend . Aircon wholeday , oo nagluluto siya pagkain namin nagdadala ng food pero kayang kaya ko yan eh. Hindi ako ang priority niya at alam ko na pag ikakasal kami magaaway at magaaway kami dahil sa family niya. May bf nga ako pero hindi naman nagiging better yung life ko. Ako paden namomoblema sa bills ko pag nagpaparinig ako bigyan niya ako pera hindi siya sumasagot . pag dating sa family niya padala agad pera pagdating sakin wala

Problem/Goal: How to ignore manager on social media?

Context: 2 weeks pa lang ako sa work nag follow and nag add na manager ko sa work. Ayoko i-accept kasi bakit? Hindi pa naman tayo ganun ka close. And hindi ko kasi msyado feel and napaka judger niya and super vocal siya sa opinions niya (kasi naririnig ko mga rants niya) so what if may na post ako?! Ang hilig niya pa naman mag feedback kahit hindi sa work.

Previous Attempts: No attempts. Request is just there, I am afraid baka i-confront niya ako sa team meeting namin sa Friday and wala ako masagot. 😭😭😭

Send help 😵‍💫

Problem/goal: A VERY LONG DETAILED STORY

Naging kami when we were still 17 yrs old (during SHS). After graduation (almost 2 years na rin kami non), he already said that his family struggling financially daw dahil na bankrupt business nila. So ending, he stopped going to college.

Naging fast-food service crew siya, buti naman masipag siya at hindi panay reklamo. Akala ko magiging okay lang lahat pero totoo pala talaga yung kasabihan na pag may pera kana, dadami rin problemahin mo. He provided for his family like rice, ulam, bills etc. (basic needs). At first, okay pa kaso napansin ng bf ko na parang isang kilong bigas kukulangin sa isang araw. Imagine, 4 na sila sa bahay nila (may kuya siya na wala pang trabaho non) tas nag papatira pa ng another 2 nanay niya. Na gets ko rin bf ko na hindi kaya sweldo ng isang crew sa 6 ka-tao. (naka aircon pa yan ha)

Dun na nag start lahat. Nung nag sweldo na, konti lang natanggap ng bf ko that time dahil temporary na tinanggal ang night-shift sa branch nila. So it means, 5-6hrs nalang shift niya. Hindi siya nakapagbigay sa fam niya (which is sa mama niya lagi binibigay) dahil nga kailangan nya rin ibudget sarili niya like 15-days rin na pamasahe to work. Sobrang galit nanay niya, and she blamed me! Dahil nag “ddate” daw kami sa labas. Eh ako pa nga nag bayad non eh! I promised, I never expected that to her. Legal kami both ways and she was never like that to me during SHS pa kami. Si bf ko naman, never yan sumasagot kahit pinagsasabihan siya ng masama.

Kahit alam kong may sinasabi nanay niya sakin, pinapautang ko parin siya kasi daw needed. She borrowed 5k, and then babayaran niya lang daw pag nakapag abroad siya (di lang yan utang niya). Nag update siya sa bf ko after a month na she earned 20k+ daw. After a month umalis daw siya sa work niya kasi nakakapagod but ilang months lang, biglang nag chat siya na wag gagastos dahil uuwi na daw siya so yun, nakauwi agad siya dito sa pinas na walang pera. Sa ilang months na yun di rin nag demand bf ko or kuya niya ng pera na ipapadala dahil gusto nila makapag ipon nanay nila. Kahit sinabi niya pa na wag nalang sila mag trabaho at mag-aral nalang.

Now we’re almost 3 years into our relationship. I’ve been thinking for how many months if I’ll end this nalang. Palaging short yung sweldo niya at palagi rin ako nag hahanap ng solution just to keep up. BUT IM SO TIRED NA GANTO PALAGI (di pa kasali yung utang dyan). Kada sweldo, may plan na kami kung san pupunta yung pera pero di parin nasusunod kaya kulang palagi. Last week, nanghingi 1k mama niya tapos humingi nanaman in just 2 days. Nag open na ako sa kanya, na dapat paglaban niya rin sarili niya na hindi ganun kalaki sweldo niya (dahil nga kasi naawa ako). Hindi niya nga dapat obligasyon mag provide eh pero he would still do it because he is a good person. I would do anything for him para lang hindi kulangin sweldo niya (ako pa nag bibigay pamasahe). To the point na pinapakialaman ko na sariling tuition ko (hindi lang yan). Sinabi ko sa kanya na pag ganto always, ako na mismo aalis sa relationship namin but he said I’m his biggest “motivation” to work hard. Hearing that, It makes me crumble in tears. I know he’s not the one to blame and he is a good partner to me. Knowing that we are still in our 20’s rn, we should be in college together. Not worrying about bills, food, other responsibilities that weren’t his to begin with.

Im just so tired that’s all. Tired of being considerate, always trying to find solutions to his problems, always putting his needs before mine, and carrying burdens that were never mine. I hope this reaches all parents out there. Having a child is not an investment. Your children are not your financial security or even a retirement plan.

Problem/Goal: Im a 24f. I have a job but im not satisfied with my salary 25k wfh (creative/videogame industry). Im grateful but its obv not enough in Manila. Im an artist and have freelanced before but its inconsistent (I did earn double/triple my salary). My love life is non existent, 2 exes, 1 recent. I have no friends. I literally talk to no one except my parents and coworkers. Everyday all I do is work then hobbies, it feels incredibly lonely. I have very few opportunities to meet new people. Im scared I'll be a single tita pero atleast sana rich tita lol.

I know im still young and im doing my best to improve myself but im scared I'll be a failure by my own standards. My mom is a breadwinner and she already has a heart disease. If we lose her, im afraid what would happen as my dad is basically retired and entirely relies on my mom. Is this a standard experience as an adult? How did you guys overcome feeling like this. I feel like if namatay ako tomorrow, I wouldnt even strongly about it, I'll just feel bad for my parents and my dog. Para bang walang meaning yung ginagawa ko.

Problem/Goal: my boyfriend has an older sister that needs him lagi and madalas nadedelay siya sa date/nagcacancel last minute because his sister needs him.

Context: Hi! my boyfriend M20 has an older sister F25 na madalas need siya. I feel guilty for feeling this way kasi transparent naman yung boyfriend ko sa pinagdadaanan niya and naiintindihan ko naman, pero lately parang nahihirapan ako kasi hindi name-meet yung needs ko and I know na sobrang toxic na parang nagseselos ako sa family niya. Ayoko naman ng ganon:( I feel bad kasi ako yung dapat nakakaintindi sa kanya and I know most of his struggles. Ayoko ng conflict with his family huhu pls hindi na para papiliin siya, but I can’t help but to feel tampo after ng nangyari kagabi. My boyfriend and his siblings have daddy issues and due to the lack of presence ng father nila, boyfriend ko yung madalas na parang “kuya” sa family nila kahit na 2nd to the eldest siya. Hindi naman sila naghihirap, they’re well off and decent naman socioeconomic background.

Throughout our 2 years relationship, it was very apparent to me kung paano niya alagaan yung ate and other siblings niya and I admire him for that. I noticed lang din na dependent yung ate niya sa kanya kahit sa mga simpleng pag hiwa ng mangga, pag luto, ganon. There are times in the past na nacacancel yung date namin because his ate is on her period tapos yung boyfriend ko sa need mag stay sa bahay lang nila kasi incase may kailangan daw yung ate niya (cute naman actually), minsan naman magpapasama yung ate niya sa mall… may times naman na hindi kami makapag call kahit 9pm pa lang bc nakikitulog yung ate niya sa room niya. okay lang naman yun pero sobrang tampo ako last night:(( 2nd anniversary namin and then we went to white plains kasi may resto kami na matagal na naming gusto i-try, and ofc sinundo ako ng boyfriend ko sa bahay with his car, fast forward, dumating na yung order namin pero habang we’re enjoying our dinner date, tumawag yung ate niya na kailangan daw siya (hindi niya sinabi agad kung anong nangyari) pero he needs to go na raw, very urgent. he seems on a rush (he paid for our dinner) ako naman, nagtatampo na ako nun and mas nanaig pagiging avoidant ko kaya sabi ko umalis na siya. ang ending, i was left there waiting for our orders na pina-takeout and had to book grab pauwi hashaha dito ako medyo na disrespect. layo ng white plains from where i live and di ko alam ano sasabihin ko sa parents ko na ganon nangyari. sabi ko na lang na I had a great time:)

Previous attempts: wala, nahihiya ako. it involves his family. i don’t want to overstep naman, di pa naman kami married.

Problem/Goal: I’m unsure whether I should stay in my university or leave to pursue my studies in the U.S. I’m in my dream program, but it’s not my dream campus, and I no longer see myself staying in my university due to the environment and people around my course being toxic.

Context: I recently got rejected from the program and campus I wanted to shift into but I’m also waitlisted for another program I’d consider, but my parents don’t support that option as the program is not practical daw, and they don’t want me to take a gap year to wait for the next college entrance again. Right now, I feel stuck between staying somewhere I’m unhappy and taking a risk by starting over abroad.

Previous Attempts: None

Problem/Goal: I'm starting to like him. Na-aattach na ako. Now I know this is not normal because minsan lang ako magkapake about someone. And I'm panicking right now because after () days of not responding to him tas recently lang nagkausap, I feel sick to my stomach because I miss him. Fuck me. Isa pa, I DON'T BELIEVE IN ONLINE RELATIONSHIPS.

Context: I've been in constant communication w this friendo sa IG for months now, actually-- parang malapit na mag-1 year. at friends lang talaga intent ko that time nung naghahanap ako. marami na akong nakausap (as friends) but lagi siyang fail after a few weeks. Somehow, siya 'yung tumagal. Siya yung nandito pa rin and gano' n din daw 'yung sakaniya.

Listen. I do NOT want to fuck this up.

I don't have plans of pursuing him bec it's just unrealistic. Bukod sa kinagisnang lifestyle, magkalayo rin beliefs namin (pero get this, there was a random afternoon na i actually considered adjusting or adopting his values if ever may nangyari-- HAHAHAH GETS NIYO BA? Nasiraan na ako ng bait! WTH.)

Previous Attempts: Ayun palang na days of not responding. Strictly platonic pa rin convos namin (again, wala akong plano maglevel up to).

He's a good friend. I like talking to him. I want to keep him, platonically. Isa pa, purely platonic lang din tingin niya sa'min.

Anong gagawin ko? How do keep him without cutting ties or limiting my time with him? Hindi naman kami all day long kung magchat, usually 3hrs lang every night minsan wala pa 'pag tinatamad ako makipag-usap. I have platonic friendships w other guys naman pero sigghh. I think 'yung pinaka-trigger nito is bec he's a soft boy (exactly my type)... and I don't know about you guys but I think these kind of men are rare lol. Minsan parang gusto kong gumamit ng pet name to get a reaction but ofc malakas pa rin restraint ko. I hate feeling this way. Konti na nga lang friends ko.

Problem/Goal: all of these years i realized that i had a problem when it comes to building and maintaining relationships to the people that i meet.. walang nag sstay sa mga taong kagaya ko, i would say na may mga di ako magagandang ugali pero still i have good traits parin naman. i wanna ask on how to rebuild my self again, how to make healthy boundaries and how to make routines na pang araw-araw kasi na re-realize ko na, nakakapagod na yung ganitong setup. wala kang makausap tungkol sa mga problema mo at hindi mo rin alam kung paano kapa magtitiwala sa ibang tao kung sa sarili mo ay wala kang tiwala.. nasanay nalang yung sarili ko na maging negative na tao, pero nakakapagod na talaga.

Context: patong-patong na realizations lang din sa teenage life ko at sa mga nangyaring events ngayon sa'kin..

nag karoon naman ako ng friend before nung teenager ako and umabot yung pag ka-kaibigan namin ng 7 years (mula elem hanggang senior high), kaso we part ways din dahil hindi kami mag kaintindihan o siya lang yung hindi ko maintindihan so naging way niya nalang is i-cut off ako dahil nga siguro kahit may good traits ako lamang parin yung pagiging toxic ko. (id like to make amends to him bago matapos tong taon, hopefully) hindi lang umiikot yung problema ko dito, kasama rin yung magiging lovelife ko sana kaso di rin natuloy.

Another Context: i have someone who's special to me that i met nung month of May, tagal din naming nagusap about our plans in the future, having a family, at makaraos sa buhay na meron kami. sumablay din ako sa kaniya, she cut me off kahapon lang. umay na umay ako sa sarili ko at wala akong idea para magsimula ulit.

iniisip ko nga kung narc bako o need ko na talaga ng specialist

kakapagod, magulo, hindi ko maintindihan sarili ko, gusto ko nalang ulit maging passionate sa mga ginagawa ko before.

how to start again??

Previous Attempt: None

Problem/goal: i encountered a video in tiktok and it made me realize po na ako lagi ang nageeffort na gawin po ang bahay namin. Gusto ko po sana kahit 1k lang iambag nya sa bakod para hindi po masama loob ko na puro ako lang gumagastos
Context: ako po ang nag hulog ng downpayment sa bahay namin umabot 500k+ , ako rin nagdodownpayment ng 9k monthly. Ipaparenovate na po namin. Work nya ay engr lang sa company sa manila ako naman ay VA.
Previous attempts: if nabring up ko po eh lagi nalang pagsusumbat ang dating sa kanya, well i dont know po how to say it properly pero totoo naman sumbat ang aking paniningil ng 1k . I need advice. Now im threatening him po to pay me since i dont know what to do sabi ko ichat ko kapatid nya at dun ako maniningil ng 1k lol pero tinulugan lang ako. Pag dating naman sa mga kapatid konting lambing lang ng baon, tuition nabibigay nya pag dating sakin sapilitan pa. Understandable naman na jowa lang ako at hindi ako part ng pamilya nya. Hindi nya ko responsibilidad. Please advise. Pls dont be harsh po i love him still po. I just dont know how to communicate the right way po with him

Problem/Goal: Financial Problem. I want to earn money as a student in the medical field.

Context: My fam and I used to be financially stable, then my dad cheated and chose his mistress - this mistress is a gold digger ofc. Now, my siblings and i are having a hard time on our school. I’m looking for a way to earn money to help with our finances as a student jn the medical field. My school is monday-saturday but it’s only half a day.

Previous Attempts: I’ve tried selling old clothes but it would take days or even weeks before people would reach out. I’ve also tried selling e-books but flopped so hard. I wanted to try academic commissions but the competitor demand is just too high, especially with AI evolving.

Problem/Goal: I really want to take a break from my current life for a while, work on myself privately, and eventually come back as a completely different version of myself.

Context: Oftentimes I fantasize about disappearing for like 5 yrs. Tipong i-deactivate lahat ng socmed accounts ko, no one really knows what I'm doing, no constant updates, no expectations, no explaining myself. Just completely removing myself from everyone's radar and spending those years rebuilding my life from scratch.

Not necessarily physically disappearing or moving somewhere far away—I can't afford that anyway. Basta staying where I am but becoming completely invisible online and socially while I work on myself in private.

Then one day, babalik na lang ako completely reinvented. Different mindset. Different appearance. Different skills. Financially independent. More confident. Healthier. Maybe with a completely different life from the one everyone remembers.

I know real life doesn't work like a movie, and I can't literally vanish without consequences. But I genuinely feel this strong desire to retreat from everyone and everything for yrs so I can focus entirely on becoming someone I'm actually proud of.

The problem is, I don't even know how to do this realistically. How do you "disappear" from your old life without actually destroying your relationships, responsibilities, and future? Is it possible to take a few years to completely rebuild yourself while still technically being present in the world?

Would you tell your close friends and family that you're taking a break, or just quietly disappear online?

Has anyone else ever felt this way or actually done something similar?

Tips naman, oh. 🙏

TL;DR: I want to deactivate my social media, disappear from everyone's radar for around 5 years, quietly rebuild myself while staying where I am, and eventually come back completely reinvented. Has anyone actually done something similar? Could you share some tips?

Problem/Goal: I lost my removable retainer and I’m worried my teeth might shift before I can get a replacement. Should I wait for my original dentist or have a new retainer made by another dentist?

Context:
I had my braces removed last May and have been wearing my removable retainer since then. Unfortunately, I lost it last Monday. I immediately messaged my orthodontist to book an appointment because I’m scared my teeth will start moving again, especially since I previously had a diastema (gap between my front teeth). The earliest appointment she can give me is at the end of the month. I asked if it’s okay to wait until the 30th, and she said it should be fine, but I’m still really anxious. I REALLY don’t want to end up wearing braces again.

Attempts so far: I contacted my orthodontist as soon as I realized I lost my retainer and asked if waiting until the 30th would be okay. She reassured me that it should be fine, but I’m still worried. I’m now considering whether I should have a replacement retainer made by another dentist instead of waiting.

Would love to hear from anyone who’s experienced something similar or from dentists/orthodontists. Is it safer to wait until the 30th, or should I have a new retainer made elsewhere as soon as possible?

Problem/Goal: So I got in this top university back in 2024 and I'm an incoming junior now. Both me and my friend wanted to get in but I was the only one who passed the entrance exam. It's been a long time since the results came but she's still bitter about not being accepted. Every time that I'm with her, she always brings up my uni. She posts about it everywhere, like on TikTok, IG, Facebook, in her public and dump accounts. The posts are often about being upset that she did not get in, the uni being her totga, and sometimes just posts romanticizing it. She even told me once that she doesn't want me talking about my uni around her because it upsets her (which is so hard because 3 of my friends study in the same uni, and I'm the only one going to a different one, what else am I supposed to talk about to update them about my life?). I'm trying my best to understand her, but I'm honestly getting so tired of it now. The romanticization kind of...offends me? Everyday, I'm fighting for my life in this uni and I'm honestly struggling so hard. I feel like she doesn't understand how hard it actually is to be here, and how hard it is to get here. When we were seniors in highschool during the entrance exam period, we were both very busy with requirements and we both weren't able to study for the exam. But the thing is, I can say that I have a strong foundation because I've been a top student since forever, and I don't wanna sound rude but she wasn't really in the same level growing up. I can't help but to sometimes think, why didn't she study if she wanted to get in this bad? I understand that it's her dream and I have no right to dim her lights and stop her from dreaming about it, but I have to stop seeing her posts or I will literally go insane. I figured that I would just mute her accounts so I would stop seeing her posts. There's no mute option for reposts on TikTok so I had no choice but to unfollow her and just hope that she wouldn't notice that I unfollowed her. But today I just received a notification of her following me, which means she probably unfollowed me, which may likely be because she noticed I unfollowed her? Looks like she already found out and is probably now wondering why I unfollowed her. I don't really know what to do now. Someone please tell me if I'm wrong for feeling this way, and what should I do next?

Problem/Goal: What would you do if you and your partner had unexpectedly got pregnant nasa plano niyo naman kaso hindi pa sa ngayon then during the journey the guy is so stressed sa future expenses since breadwinner siya and only child din so iba impact sakanya and sa parents niya. And him being "too transparent" to the point it made me feel like its my fault or something. We were told na high risked pregnancy ako and then half of the pregnancy journey we lost it.

Now parang may lamat na yung relationship namin i dunno siguro feeling ko lang yun.. but it really make me wonder kung relief ba sknya somehow na di natuloy yung pregnancy or what.

FYI di kami live in, so di kami magkasama. During those months na buntis ako he will just stay for a week or two pag work from home siya pero pag need niya magoffice umuuwi siya sakanila since mas sanay siya magbyahe mula bahay nila hanggang sa work place niya even though mas malapit samin.

Problem/Goal: I participated in cheating as the third party and I wanna feel better about myself.

Context: I had sex with my fwb guy friend before he made it official with his GF. I didn’t know he was already pursuing her when we’ve been doing this for months, specifically Q1 of this year.

Then I kinda interrogated him about this account I keep on seeing viewing my stories, and he admitted na he was seeing her but not as GF/BF but getting there na daw. She doesn’t know anything about our set up whatsoever.

I also told him that if one of us is seeing someone else, we need to end it ASAP.

I just feel icky because he also admitted na they also engaged in intercourse for his birthday. So ayun, again Idk what to do, I wanted to be mad at him but I just left him and muted him on all socials. I have not checked his account ever since as well.

How do I get this guilt off of m? Also I got my test results back if there’s stds and what not buti na lang wala.

I also don’t wanna be involved in their relationship anymore so no I won’t message the girl.

Previous attempt: Currently telling myself to stop with the FWB set ups and really just focus on my business and hobbies.

problem/goal: crocked teeth that causes a lot of pain and my pasta needs to be changed kasi hindi maganda ang pagkakagawa

context: hindi maganda ang pagkakagawa ng pasta ko sa front teeth, everytime na umiinom ako or kumakain may times na sobrang sakit, sinabi ko sana na papalitan na sa trusted dentist namin kasi sobrang sakit na, kaso ayaw talaga nila, need na rin pastahan some of my bottom teeths kasi baka maghawa-hawa pa pero ayaw nila, sinabi nila sobrang arte ko, gusto ko lang ng healthy teeth, masama ba yun, yung gumawa ng pasta sinabihan ako na pastahan na rin kasi baka mas lalong masira so sinabi ko sa papa ko, kaso pabaya raw ako. afford naman niya eh, ang hirap lang kasi kahit financially stable siya ayaw niyang paayusin ngipin ko, I even asked for braces kaso ayaw rin. I'm finding alternative ways to fix my teeth, but incoming freshman pa lang ako, I don't have a stable work, gigs lang which I only earn ₱500 a month online, hindi pa enough, hindi ko na alam kung saan pa ako hahanap ng work para lang maayos teeth ko.

previous attempts: tried finding a job kaso underage and far from home, mas magastos pa ang pamasahe kaysa sa sahod