r/MakeFriendsOver30 18h ago

[F4M] 32 F. Looking for a conversation that doesn't start with "hi beautiful".

40 Upvotes

Looking for real conversations, not insinuations. I like spontaneous, friendly chats. If you want to talk, I'll send you a chat request. I prefer that to receiving unsolicited photos.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 8h ago

33 f Looking for consistent chat buddies :)

21 Upvotes

Hello everyone. I'm giving it a shot again,and I'm looking to connect with new nice people and hopefully make a friend or two. I love cooking, crochet,video games, cars and horror movies. I'm getting back into reading, so if you have any book recommendations feel free send them over here. Well that's a little about me, thanks for stopping by. šŸ’œ


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

[F4R] 30F - Doing yardwork and want company!

12 Upvotes

Hey :) 30F from the Midwest!

I love to draw, write, cook, bake, play games, be outside doing things. I like listening to music, watching random shows, learning new things. Im a huge nerd and have a lot of useless trivia lol

I have 13 animals, own a small farm/homestead, am pretty self sufficient. I have a lot of random hobbies and skills.

I'm wanting to chat through messaging first then maybe after a little, voice chat or call :)

Hope to chat!! :D


r/MakeFriendsOver30 21h ago

[F4R] 30/F - Looking For Friends

13 Upvotes

Hello anyone! I’m hoping to find someone to chat with throughout the days. A reason to look at my phone and actually see a message.

My days can get pretty busy so I can always get back right away. I work 12 hour shifts and I’m basically a single mom to a 2 year old. I’m a compounding tech and love it. Some of my interests include spending time outdoors, movies (horror is my favorite), drama involving celebrities and reality tv stars, and diamond art. I’m located in the northeast US if that matters. Feel free to say hi and send me a message.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

[F4M] 30F looking for my new favorite notification 😁

10 Upvotes

Hello there, just wanna have a real connection with anyone 30 and above. Single people is my preference, thank you and feel free to say hello šŸ‘‹

I dont expect anyone to carry the whole conversation, I just wanna want to enjoy a good company.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 11h ago

[F4R] 32 f I am still looking for people who need or want kindness in their life

8 Upvotes

Hey there. The name is Q and I'm here to brighten your day. Hopefully. I'm 32. F. Biracial if that matters. I have a psychology degree, go to therapy twice a week for my DID, and do my homework too. I'd say I'm a well rounded person who is constantly working to be a better person. And I like to spread that energy.

I'm looking for people who are loney, dejected, ready the give up on friendship online all together. Or people who are happy and just want someone to talk to. Or people who are just bored. I do not care who you are where you came from what you have done in your past. You matter and you deserve kindess in your life.

Some more stuff about me. I love gaming, podcasts, my fish, my cat, my bf, music, ducks, birds, bird watching, and just being a vibe.

Come on dont be shy send me a message.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 15h ago

34, F, NY - Up late, let’s be friends.

8 Upvotes

I’m a gamer, writer and artist looking for someone who likes similar things. Online friends are cool but I’d love to make one or two IRL if possibly to go new places. I love texting and reading and just talking about nothing.
Looking for platonic only, please don’t be weird.
Oh I’m African American, if that bugs you, please take your janky self elsewhere.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

36F looking for friends

7 Upvotes

I'm gonna keep trying until something sticks. Lol. I'm 36, childfree and have a long term boyfriend, I usually hang out with him. We play video games sometimes. I listen to lots of music and like adult animation like American Dad for example.. I desire no children but I do own four cats. I'm not really into movies or tv shows and prefer YouTube creators as opposed to watching television.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 22h ago

[M4R] 32M (EU) - going through a hard time, let's do it together?

7 Upvotes

Going through a hard time right now. A recent break up, dealing with some mental and physical health issues (anxiety, ibs)... Basically I'm very uncomfortable and trying to figure out who i am.

I would really love to add some supportive people into my life. Just to do this together you know. To feel less alone.

In return I will be a very safe place for you. I care so much. I would never judge anything, and TMI means tell me immediately.

Are you in? Maybe you are in a similar situation?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[F4M] 29F looking for a friends!

6 Upvotes

Hi! I’m looking for people who enjoy slow, comfortable friendships ✨

I like gaming, music, horror movies, and talking about everyday life. We don’t have to chat all day, but it would be nice to have someone to check in with play games after work.

Just moved in to the US though my English isn’t perfect, but I always try my best. If you think we’d get along, I’d love to hear from you! šŸ’ŖšŸø


r/MakeFriendsOver30 13h ago

30/F looking for 420 smoking buddies

6 Upvotes

I smoke like a train and have more time than I know what to do with. Just trying to find someone cool that I can vibe and smoke with. Kinda lacking in the friend department lately and would enjoy the ā€œcompany.ā€ :) I’m good with video calls, especially for a sesh. I don’t mind being on 24/7, lol. Annnnyway, send the smoking buddy applications my way if you’re interested!! I use discord :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 18h ago

[R4R] 32F | Looking for friends (and if you actually read this, you’re already ahead of 90% of Reddit šŸ˜…)

7 Upvotes

Hi again!
I’m not looking to collect 47 conversations that die after ā€œhey.ā€ I’d rather find one or two genuine people to chat with about books, life, random thoughts, and whatever rabbit hole we end up in.

I’m married, have a kid, and work full-time, so life is busy. If you’re in a similar stage of life, you’ll probably understand that I won’t be glued to my phone 24/7. Sometimes I’ll reply in five minutes, sometimes after I’ve survived work, dinner, bedtime, and the tiny human’s latest crisis.
Bonus points if you:

Like books (or at least pretend your TBR isn’t judging you).
Can hold a conversation beyond ā€œwyd?ā€
Understand that adult friendships don’t require instant replies to be real.

If this sounds like your kind of friendship, send me a message. Tell me what you’re reading—or the last book you couldn’t stop thinking about.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 58m ago

Finally People My Age?!

• Upvotes

I was concerned because I was only seeing teenie boppers & young adults everywhere on Reddit. But now that I’ve found people my age range:

I’m 31! I literally have no friends 😁 Im super nice. I don’t judge. Im looking for different people who actually converse not just flat conversations. We’re 30+ ! How is your now officially adulthood out of your 20’s? Im a bit uncomfortable speaking with guys because they are all weird and physically charged through conversations. SO

Anyone looking for a severe platonic friendship im completely down. šŸ™‚


r/MakeFriendsOver30 16h ago

[F4M] 31 F searching for a fun, long term (hopefully!) buddy.

5 Upvotes

Good evening or morning based on where you’re reading this from. I’m a SAHM (stay at home mom) looking for a nice, fun person to talk with and hopefully get to know. My problem is I tend to get attached to people fairly quickly and I’ll want to talk all the time if we hit it off.

Before I get asked, yes I am just looking for friends. I love my family and what I do so much. But being a stay at home mom is very isolating for talking with other adults in any sense. So I just miss that attention.

A bit about me… I love to bake, banana bread is my favorite. I play video games, mostly, Fortnite because it’s super fun. I like superheroes, movies and music. I’m trying to save some things for when we talk and considering not many people read the whole post too. If you made it this far tell me your favorite drink! Mine depends on my mood I love iced coffee though.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 21h ago

[M4F] 35M – I think the best conversations are the ones that start for no particular reason.

6 Upvotes

Maybe this is a long shot, but there’s something I miss about having that one person you can message without overthinking it.

The kind of friendship where you send a photo of a ridiculously good coffee, rant about a meeting that could’ve been an email, share a random thought that popped into your head at midnight, or spend 20 minutes debating something completely pointless like the best snack or the most overrated movie. The conversations don’t need a goal they just happen.

Life gets busy, people disappear for a few days, then come back with, ā€œYou won’t believe what happened,ā€ and you pick up right where you left off. That’s the kind of friendship I appreciate.

A little about me…

I’m a tech guy who spends most weekdays staring at screens, so I make a point of getting outside whenever I can. The gym keeps me sane, I never say no to volleyball or soccer, and long drives with a good playlist are my favourite way to clear my head.
I’m also an F1 fan, so if you’ve ever questioned a strategy call from your couch like you could do a better job, we’ll probably have plenty to talk about.

Travel is another big one for me. Beaches are an easy yes, but I also love colder places, mountain views, and anywhere that makes me forget to check my phone every five minutes.
At home you’ll usually find me casually gaming, endlessly scrolling for memes I’ll probably never send, or watching thrillers, mystery, horror, or action shows.

I’m easygoing, genuinely curious about people, and I like conversations that can bounce from meaningful to completely ridiculous without feeling forced.

If you’re looking for someone to swap memes with, celebrate the little wins, vent about your day, recommend shows, or just have those random chats that somehow become part of your daily routine, I’d love to hear from you.

Who knows maybe this is the start of that ā€œI’ve got to tell someone thisā€ friendship we’ve both been missing.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[F4M] I'd like to meet new friends.

• Upvotes

Hi there. I am a 30F from US GA. I enjoy traveling, good food, anime, reading, shopping, the stock market, animals, and nature. I hope to make some friends here.I cherish every beautiful relationship


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[F4F] 32F looking to make more female friends

3 Upvotes

Hi everyone. I spent most of my 20s putting my career first. I recently got laid off which made me question things. Now I’m 32, questioning my past decisions. I know 32 isn’t old, but it feels like I’m rebuilding from scratch while everyone else has moved ahead. Idk if anyone feels the same, but hoping to make some genuine connections. I prefer other women but if you are a man shoot your shot.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

[M4R] 37M - Quirky nerdy married dad looking for acquaintanceship

4 Upvotes

I’m a 37 year old bi married father (I have a wife and one son) based in the US, looking for good quality friendship!

I work from home full time. I'm a quirky nerdy guy, an introvert who also enjoys meting new people and getting into detailed conversation about just about anything (I have a tendency to ramble once I get going). I'm a software engineer by trade and I work from home full time. I'm big into fantasy series (especially LOTR), anime, manga (I may be a little bit of a weaboo) and a former avid cosplayer and LARPer. I'm also a runner and finally getting into a regular fitness routine. I'm usually online here during the workdays to chat.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 14h ago

36 F Co. Why is it hard to find a dancing partner?

4 Upvotes

Well as the title says. 36, F, in Co. Honestly I'm just looking to chat with individuals. I find myself recently having a hard time mentally entertaining myself.

Some things about me. I have a motorcycle, i love to take photos, I like Motocross, have a dog, two teenage daughters (shoot me lol). I love to read and be outside.

Looking for interesting individuals to chat with and possibly be friends. You never know what's going to happen in this crazy world.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 23h ago

[M4R] 40 M Northern Ireland

4 Upvotes

Hi everyone, hope you’re all well? My name is Mark, I’m 40 from Northern Ireland - I’m looking friends from all over - to be honest I’ll talk about pretty much anything as long as the conversation is good!

About me:

Divorced father of one, gay, type 1 diabetic- football supporter and owner. Can be a-bit nerdy (not gonna apologise for it - I like a good Lego challenge from time to time)

My kid is my world - my career is secondary! Love to learn about different cultures, habits, food etc

My life motto is: Que Sera Sera (I’m so chilled out I’m near horizontal as some folk would say)

I treat others the way I expect to be treated.

Time zones aren’t an issue (if you don’t mind waiting on replies, but I’ll always get back to you) I do use snap a lot (more for quick, on the go and convenience for me) but happy to chat here (just bare in mind I’m not on here a lot tbh)

Feel free to reach out - tell me abit about yourself!

Thanks for reading - and i hope you have a great day āœŒļø


r/MakeFriendsOver30 19h ago

Let me introduce myself..

3 Upvotes

Hi everyone, my name is Ashley and I'm a 33 year old female in the Santa Cruz area of CA (U.S.A).

I am currently a childless stay at home wife, but I am starting college classes in August to finish up a Business AA.

I crochet, cross stitch, and read as hobbies. I go to the gym about three times a week and am in the process of trying to lose weight - down 15lbs with 65lbs to go.

I think it would be nice to have someone to talk to.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

34 MtF non binary trans CST

2 Upvotes

Hello everyone I am looking for PS5 friends who love playing different video games.

Games I have downloaded:
The elder scrolls online
Fortnite ZB
Grand theft auto v
Cyberpunk

A little about myself I am 34 I have two step kids two dogs and a partner who I have been with for almost 10 years. I like to drink, smoke, and say dumb shit. I only work part time so I have time to kill when I’m at home. I love to listen to all type of music I usually listen to alternative rock some bts type stuff r&b hip hop. I like to watch horror movies and here lately I have been obsessed with crime documentaries.

If you are interested please don’t be shy to message me. I would love to have friends who live in different areas of the world. Please be lgbtq+ friendly we are just people like yourself just surviving and getting by one day at a time. And I have many other games so if there’s a game you enjoy and we are clicking I have no problem downloading a new game as long as it’s not expensive šŸ˜‚

My PSN: AWC_Play4Fun


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[M4F] 32 M looking for chatting buddy

2 Upvotes

I am 32 M , single from India.

Looking for a chat for the long term.

Any geographical location, any age

DM if interested


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[M4R] 33 m UK looking for new friends , preferably of the somewhat nerdy variety

2 Upvotes

So about me I'm your typical video game nerd I guess you'd say pc gamer playing mostly single player stuff but do like the odd co-op.

I recently got out of a long term relationship so I'm looking for someone new that I can spend the day talking to and sharing my life with, I tend to get on better with females but it's not a requirement. I'm just looking for friends .

Currently live by myself with the cutest cat so if your a cat person , be prepared to have lots of cat pictures sent your way.

As I mentioned gaming is my primary hobby so would be good to find someone that shares that interest but again no Biggie (currently playing through Assassin's creed black flag if it helps) I think I'd prefer people from the UK as well just to keep in the time zone.

Well enough blathering on, hopefully someone sees this and decides to message


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

38M Looking for friends to chat with daily

2 Upvotes

Hello all

I'm just posting to see if anything comes from it. Have been trying for a while but no luck.

I'm 37M from Canada PST.

My hopes are I can make some longterm friends on here. If you want to know anything about feel free to ask.

A little about me, I am a casual to moderate gamer all depends on how much time I have. I mainly play on PC but also have a Switch. Games I play vary but am willing to try any game.

I also like to go on walks, hikes, trips to the lake or camping. Been wanting to start going to the gym but haven't, just been doing home work outs plus my job keeps me pretty active.

I like to go on road trips and late night drives just around town.