r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

33F a bit of company for the next couple of hours

10 Upvotes

platonic convos passing time. Let's ask eachother random questions

Tell me a little about you. Let's keep things interesting, maybe share some deep thoughts or light banters.

I'd like it if you introduced yourself and told me about your favorite dish

I am a 33 F south Asian Canadian multi-lingual easy-going girl. I love traveling, history, culture, and of course food.

Catch you on the other side.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

To the person reading this...

12 Upvotes

Can we just take a second to acknowledge something? Like the fact that you are here just slaying life and looking good while doing it!

Have you seen yourself lately? The smile? Dangerous. The Personality? Authentic! The way to put in the work and show up every day no matter how burnt out you are? Motivational, honey!

You don’t need to change a thing to deserve love, happiness, peace, or all the good things coming your way. You are way cooler than you think you are.

Walk into today like the main character you are. The world is so lucky to have you! 😄


r/MakeFriendsOver30 8h ago

[F4R] 30F - Doing yardwork and want company!

16 Upvotes

Hey :) 30F from the Midwest!

I love to draw, write, cook, bake, play games, be outside doing things. I like listening to music, watching random shows, learning new things. Im a huge nerd and have a lot of useless trivia lol

I have 13 animals, own a small farm/homestead, am pretty self sufficient. I have a lot of random hobbies and skills.

I'm wanting to chat through messaging first then maybe after a little, voice chat or call :)

Hope to chat!! :D


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

36F looking for friends

6 Upvotes

I'm gonna keep trying until something sticks. Lol. I'm 36, childfree and have a long term boyfriend, I usually hang out with him. We play video games sometimes. I listen to lots of music and like adult animation like American Dad for example.. I desire no children but I do own four cats. I'm not really into movies or tv shows and prefer YouTube creators as opposed to watching television.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

[F4M] 29F looking for a friends!

7 Upvotes

Hi! I’m looking for people who enjoy slow, comfortable friendships ✨

I like gaming, music, horror movies, and talking about everyday life. We don’t have to chat all day, but it would be nice to have someone to check in with play games after work.

Just moved in to the US though my English isn’t perfect, but I always try my best. If you think we’d get along, I’d love to hear from you! 💪🐸


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

Finally People My Age?!

6 Upvotes

I was concerned because I was only seeing teenie boppers & young adults everywhere on Reddit. But now that I’ve found people my age range:

I’m 31! I literally have no friends 😁 Im super nice. I don’t judge. Im looking for different people who actually converse not just flat conversations. We’re 30+ ! How is your now officially adulthood out of your 20’s? Im a bit uncomfortable speaking with guys because they are all weird and physically charged through conversations. SO

Anyone looking for a severe platonic friendship im completely down. 🙂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 11h ago

33 f Looking for consistent chat buddies :)

20 Upvotes

Hello everyone. I'm giving it a shot again,and I'm looking to connect with new nice people and hopefully make a friend or two. I love cooking, crochet,video games, cars and horror movies. I'm getting back into reading, so if you have any book recommendations feel free send them over here. Well that's a little about me, thanks for stopping by. 💜


r/MakeFriendsOver30 8h ago

[F4M] 30F looking for my new favorite notification 😁

11 Upvotes

Hello there, just wanna have a real connection with anyone 30 and above. Single people is my preference, thank you and feel free to say hello 👋

I dont expect anyone to carry the whole conversation, I just wanna want to enjoy a good company.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

[F4F] 32F looking to make more female friends

5 Upvotes

Hi everyone. I spent most of my 20s putting my career first. I recently got laid off which made me question things. Now I’m 32, questioning my past decisions. I know 32 isn’t old, but it feels like I’m rebuilding from scratch while everyone else has moved ahead. Idk if anyone feels the same, but hoping to make some genuine connections. I prefer other women but if you are a man shoot your shot.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 30m ago

[M4F] 35M - Looking for my future “why are you texting me at 3am” person

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I’m not looking for anything serious. What I am looking for is that one chaotic soul who wants to:

- Send me the most unhinged memes at inappropriate hours.
- Have those “wait how did we get on this topic” conversations that start about pizza and end with debating whether fish have feelings.
- Roast me affectionately (and accept roasts in return).
- Actually reply to my messages instead of disappearing into the void.
- Eventually become the kind of friend where we just get each other.
-I want the banter. The inside jokes. The “I saw this and thought of you” energy. Someone who matches my chaos and doesn’t take life too seriously.

A bit about me:

- I will double text. Triple text. No shame.

- My humor lives somewhere between wholesome and “what is wrong with you?”

- I’m genuinely curious about people and tend to ask random questions

- I’m a good listener when things get real

- I have strong opinions about snacks, music, and why pineapple on pizza gets way too much hate

One thing I’d love to avoid: people who come in with great energy, text constantly for a day or two, make it seem like we’re getting along really well, and then vanish without a word. Life happens, interest changes, and that’s completely fine. But if I’ve said something that rubbed you the wrong way, call me out on it. Tell me. And if you decide we’re not a good fit, bow out gracefully. I’d respect that far more than being left wondering what happened.

What I’m hoping for:

Someone who actually wants to talk consistently. Not the “hey” followed by silence for three days thing. I want to build a genuine friendship that feels effortless, fun, and lasts longer than a single burst of enthusiasm.

If you’re the type who sends voice notes, bonus points. If you have a cursed meme folder, even better.

Drop me a message, tell me something weird about yourself, and let’s see if we click.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

[F4M] I'd like to meet new friends.

4 Upvotes

Hi there. I am a 30F from US GA. I enjoy traveling, good food, anime, reading, shopping, the stock market, animals, and nature. I hope to make some friends here.I cherish every beautiful relationship


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

45M from MA. Looking for like minded friends!

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Trying to cast my net yet again 😅

45 year old husband and dad from Massachusetts.

I love watching a good show or movie, chilling with a great book or playing an awesome video game!

Or I can get in the zone coding while I listen to metal music!

Gamers and non gamers welcome. Just please. Platonic only and please be at least close to my age.

Talk to you soon!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 7h ago

[M4R] 37M - Quirky nerdy married dad looking for acquaintanceship

6 Upvotes

I’m a 37 year old bi married father (I have a wife and one son) based in the US, looking for good quality friendship!

I work from home full time. I'm a quirky nerdy guy, an introvert who also enjoys meting new people and getting into detailed conversation about just about anything (I have a tendency to ramble once I get going). I'm a software engineer by trade and I work from home full time. I'm big into fantasy series (especially LOTR), anime, manga (I may be a little bit of a weaboo) and a former avid cosplayer and LARPer. I'm also a runner and finally getting into a regular fitness routine. I'm usually online here during the workdays to chat.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

38F - Chronically ill nerd looking for online best friend

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I miss having a best friend. Even if it's "just online" I've had that kind of connection where we chat throughout the day, send each other songs and cute animal pics, make playlists, share our creative work, have inside jokes, give each other encouragement and support.

It's so difficult to find. Most people don't like long messages, don't want to talk to someone different like me, or don't want have a friendship mostly via text. I've often been filler for people who go back to their real lives, but this is my real life.

If you happen to be someone who gels with this, feel free to reach out. I will mention that I'm looking for strictly platonic. I'm very chronically ill, neurodivergent, and disabled as well as queer so please be cool with that. I'm homebound and that's why online friends mean a lot to me.

Not a fan of people who are weird to me about my health stuff or try to fix me or tell me to be more positive. I'm very sick and it is what it is. I want a friend who accepts me and whatever I can offer, which is music and memes and deep convos and support. I appreciate mutual effort, people who ask questions back and help keep the convo going.

A little more about me: I'm a writer, music nerd, love all kinds of TV, and I collect plushies. I've been through a whole lot but I try to be empathetic, socially aware, and kind as much as I can while still advocating for myself and my communities.

I'm looking for people who resonate and can help me keep a convo and connection going. I think I have a lot to offer the right friend. I hope I find them.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

30M UK/Online - Looking for honest conversation and genuine connection

2 Upvotes

I can talk for far too long about George R. R. Martin's books set in Westeros, almost any historical period Ken Burns has covered, and morally complicated fictional characters like Walter White.

I'm 30 and from the UK. I'm fairly introverted and don't have a huge social circle, so I'd like to meet people I can talk to regularly about everyday life, random interests, serious things, stupid things, or whatever happens to be on our minds.

I'm into gaming, horror, history, audiobooks, films, music, nature walks, museums, and hearing people talk about whatever they're genuinely passionate about. I don't expect constant replies, we all have lives, but I do appreciate mutual effort, curiosity, humour, and people who ask questions back. I enjoy conversations that feel like both people are genuinely interested in getting to know each other.

To be transparent, I'm married and still living with my wife. The relationship has been unhappy for a long time, and I'm currently working through what the right next steps are. I'm mentioning it because I'd rather be upfront than let anyone talk to me under a false impression.

I'm mainly looking for genuine friendships and good conversation. Ideally I'd like to build friendships that grow naturally over time, not just exchanging the occasional message, but eventually feeling comfortable enough to swap photos, voice chat, maybe meet for a coffee, museum, walk, or whatever makes sense if we happen to get on and live nearby. There's no rush or expectation, but I enjoy friendships that gradually become more real.

Empathy, humour, honesty, and proper two-way conversation matter more to me than having identical interests.

Tell me a little about yourself, what you're looking for, and something you could happily talk about for hours.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

38M Looking for friends to chat with daily

4 Upvotes

Hello all

I'm just posting to see if anything comes from it. Have been trying for a while but no luck.

I'm 37M from Canada PST.

My hopes are I can make some longterm friends on here. If you want to know anything about feel free to ask.

A little about me, I am a casual to moderate gamer all depends on how much time I have. I mainly play on PC but also have a Switch. Games I play vary but am willing to try any game.

I also like to go on walks, hikes, trips to the lake or camping. Been wanting to start going to the gym but haven't, just been doing home work outs plus my job keeps me pretty active.

I like to go on road trips and late night drives just around town.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 6m ago

[F4M] Rebuilding. Open to share with someone real.

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36/F/Ph recently left corporate life behind, now working remotely and figuring out this next chapter. Not petite, neither shabby, working on my health — no dramatic before/after story here, just steady progress.

Single. Never married, no kids. Not looking for a rescuer — just someone kind, emotionally mature, and actually available (legally single, truly moved on, not "it's complicated") and hopefully someone close to PHT 😂

I've got a lot of love and loyalty to give, and I'm not rushing to hand it to just anyone. If you're into a woman who's still growing and knows exactly what she wants, let's talk 😄


r/MakeFriendsOver30 12m ago

31M — Searching for a worthy adversary

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I like sunshine, animals, candy, movies, happiness, ice cream, long walks along the beach blah blah blah. I'm seeking quality banter, are you up for the challenge? Message if interested. Enjoy the rest of your evening! :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 31m ago

[M4R] M 29 - what’s a guy gotta do to get some friends around here 🤔

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Hello there ! but I thought I’d find some people who are either awake or just let this post fester a bit and see who shows up lol. I got nothing else to do besides twiddle my thumbs and eat cheese. And I’m all out of cheese 😔

I’ve been in the mood for more gaming friends I mean as much as I usually like to play solo, I kinda miss having a duo or a trio. I play on console so I know sometimes it becomes hard because of the crossplay element, but I’m sure we can find something. I do enjoy just talking about random shit too, wether it’s horror stuff or how your days been lol.

I find it funny when people say they wanna talk about nerdy stuff… until they actuality find someone who is a expert nerd on the subject they love 😅 I just want the convo to flow naturally and for you to be comfortable about being yourself around me.

Anyway, that’s it for me ! I hope you have a good day and I’ll see you on the flip side 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 21h ago

[F4M] 32 F. Looking for a conversation that doesn't start with "hi beautiful".

44 Upvotes

Looking for real conversations, not insinuations. I like spontaneous, friendly chats. If you want to talk, I'll send you a chat request. I prefer that to receiving unsolicited photos.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[M4M] 44M | Married | South Carolina | Looking for a real friendship

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Making friends as an adult isn't easy. Between work, family, and life, it feels like everyone already has their circle.

I'm a 44-year-old married guy near Columbia, SC, looking for a genuine guy friend. Someone to text regularly, check in with, talk about life, laugh about random things, vent when needed, and build a real connection.

I'm easygoing and enjoy talking about just about anything—movies, TV, tech, current events, hobbies, family, or whatever comes up. Shared interests are great, but I value honesty, and good conversation more.

Local would be awesome if it eventually led to grabbing coffee, lunch, but I'm just as open to online friendships. Distance doesn't matter if the connection is real.

If you're also looking for a long-term friendship—not just a few messages before disappearing—send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. I'd love to get to know you.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

[M4F] 32 M looking for chatting buddy

2 Upvotes

I am 32 M , single from India.

Looking for a chat for the long term.

Any geographical location, any age

DM if interested


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

[M4R] 33 m UK looking for new friends , preferably of the somewhat nerdy variety

2 Upvotes

So about me I'm your typical video game nerd I guess you'd say pc gamer playing mostly single player stuff but do like the odd co-op.

I recently got out of a long term relationship so I'm looking for someone new that I can spend the day talking to and sharing my life with, I tend to get on better with females but it's not a requirement. I'm just looking for friends .

Currently live by myself with the cutest cat so if your a cat person , be prepared to have lots of cat pictures sent your way.

As I mentioned gaming is my primary hobby so would be good to find someone that shares that interest but again no Biggie (currently playing through Assassin's creed black flag if it helps) I think I'd prefer people from the UK as well just to keep in the time zone.

Well enough blathering on, hopefully someone sees this and decides to message


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[M4F] 42 M/Ohio

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42-year-old single dad from Ohio looking to make a friend. We can text or talk either is fine. I love fishing, camping, hanging out with my kids, watching horror movies. If any of this is interesting to you message me which you feel is better, Jason or Freddy. I know my account is brand new but I can't get into my old one.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[M4F] 37 [M4F] USA/Anywhere - Looking to make some friends.

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I never know what to say in these things. I’ll try to keep it brief and to the point.

37 year old guy from the north east. I’m not looking for anything particular, just someone who is easy going and able to hold a conversation.

I’m a pretty avid reader. I like music (metal, hardcore, rock-like stuff etc). I play guitar. I occasionally play video games, but very infrequently. I occasionally go fishing (I don’t catch much of anything). I don’t really watch TV so I have no idea what shows are cool or what anyone is talking about. Socially and politically I’m very progressive, if that matters. I like banter, dark humor, and just not taking things too seriously.

I think I’ve covered the basics… maybe. If you think we’d mix well, send me a message. It doesn’t need to be a fancy introduction or anything crazy, it’s only Reddit after all.