r/MakeFriendsOver30 Oct 21 '25

Join the MFO30 Discord Server

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We're a small but active SFW 30+ community discussing a wide range of topics every day. It's an amazing group of friendly people and we're always glad to see new folks join in: https://discord.gg/mfo30


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

[F4R] 30F - Doing yardwork and want company!

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Hey :) 30F from the Midwest!

I love to draw, write, cook, bake, play games, be outside doing things. I like listening to music, watching random shows, learning new things. Im a huge nerd and have a lot of useless trivia lol

I have 13 animals, own a small farm/homestead, am pretty self sufficient. I have a lot of random hobbies and skills.

I'm wanting to chat through messaging first then maybe after a little, voice chat or call :)

Hope to chat!! :D


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

36F looking for friends

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I'm gonna keep trying until something sticks. Lol. I'm 36, childfree and have a long term boyfriend, I usually hang out with him. We play video games sometimes. I listen to lots of music and like adult animation like American Dad for example.. I desire no children but I do own four cats. I'm not really into movies or tv shows and prefer YouTube creators as opposed to watching television.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

Finally People My Age?!

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I was concerned because I was only seeing teenie boppers & young adults everywhere on Reddit. But now that I’ve found people my age range:

I’m 31! I literally have no friends 😁 Im super nice. I don’t judge. Im looking for different people who actually converse not just flat conversations. We’re 30+ ! How is your now officially adulthood out of your 20’s? Im a bit uncomfortable speaking with guys because they are all weird and physically charged through conversations. SO

Anyone looking for a severe platonic friendship im completely down. 🙂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 8h ago

33 f Looking for consistent chat buddies :)

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Hello everyone. I'm giving it a shot again,and I'm looking to connect with new nice people and hopefully make a friend or two. I love cooking, crochet,video games, cars and horror movies. I'm getting back into reading, so if you have any book recommendations feel free send them over here. Well that's a little about me, thanks for stopping by. 💜


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[F4M] 29F looking for a friends!

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Hi! I’m looking for people who enjoy slow, comfortable friendships ✨

I like gaming, music, horror movies, and talking about everyday life. We don’t have to chat all day, but it would be nice to have someone to check in with play games after work.

Just moved in to the US though my English isn’t perfect, but I always try my best. If you think we’d get along, I’d love to hear from you! 💪🐸


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

[F4M] 30F looking for my new favorite notification 😁

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Hello there, just wanna have a real connection with anyone 30 and above. Single people is my preference, thank you and feel free to say hello 👋

I dont expect anyone to carry the whole conversation, I just wanna want to enjoy a good company.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[F4M] I'd like to meet new friends.

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Hi there. I am a 30F from US GA. I enjoy traveling, good food, anime, reading, shopping, the stock market, animals, and nature. I hope to make some friends here.I cherish every beautiful relationship


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[F4F] 32F looking to make more female friends

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Hi everyone. I spent most of my 20s putting my career first. I recently got laid off which made me question things. Now I’m 32, questioning my past decisions. I know 32 isn’t old, but it feels like I’m rebuilding from scratch while everyone else has moved ahead. Idk if anyone feels the same, but hoping to make some genuine connections. I prefer other women but if you are a man shoot your shot.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 7m ago

To the person reading this...

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Can we just take a second to acknowledge something? Like the fact that you are here just slaying life and looking good while doing it!

Have you seen yourself lately? The smile? Dangerous. The Personality? Authentic! The way to put in the work and show up every day no matter how burnt out you are? Motivational, honey!

You don’t need to change a thing to deserve love, happiness, peace, or all the good things coming your way. You are way cooler than you think you are.

Walk into today like the main character you are. The world is so lucky to have you! 😄


r/MakeFriendsOver30 22m ago

32M Looking for someone who doesn't take life too seriously.

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What's something you should probably never admit online... even if it's completely true? 😂

I'm into dumb memes, sarcastic banter, random shower thoughts, and conversations that somehow start with "How's your day?" and end with debating whether cereal is soup.

I can talk about just about anything—movies, games, weird facts, food, embarrassing stories, life, or that random rabbit hole you accidentally fell into at 2 a.m. because one Wikipedia page led to twelve more.

Bonus points if you can make me laugh, roast me a little (I'll survive), or have the energy of a golden retriever that somehow gained unlimited internet access.

If you're funny, can hold a conversation, and don't mind a little chaos, send me a message. Worst case, we end up with a hilarious story.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

[M4R] 37M - Quirky nerdy married dad looking for acquaintanceship

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I’m a 37 year old bi married father (I have a wife and one son) based in the US, looking for good quality friendship!

I work from home full time. I'm a quirky nerdy guy, an introvert who also enjoys meting new people and getting into detailed conversation about just about anything (I have a tendency to ramble once I get going). I'm a software engineer by trade and I work from home full time. I'm big into fantasy series (especially LOTR), anime, manga (I may be a little bit of a weaboo) and a former avid cosplayer and LARPer. I'm also a runner and finally getting into a regular fitness routine. I'm usually online here during the workdays to chat.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 30m ago

[M4F] 34 [M4F] #Columbus, Ohio – Looking for a platonic female friend

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Hi! I'm a 34-year-old guy in the Columbus area looking to make a genuine female friend!

I enjoy being around feminine energy and women seem to be good at giving hugs; at the same time, I’m basically asexual.

Some of my hobbies include paranormal research, horror movies, hiking, playing board games, watching sports, studying esoterica, and wearing Converse sneakers. I'm also into fantasy writing and always enjoy talking about books, strange mysteries, or anything that gets the imagination going.

I'm looking for someone who's kind, open-minded, and enjoys spending time together as friends. Whether we end up exploring a supposedly haunted location, catching a scary movie, hiking a trail, playing a new board game, or just hanging out and talking, I'd love to make a lasting friendship.

If this sounds like your kind of friendship, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. I'd love to hear about your hobbies and what you enjoy doing around Columbus.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 18h ago

[F4M] 32 F. Looking for a conversation that doesn't start with "hi beautiful".

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Looking for real conversations, not insinuations. I like spontaneous, friendly chats. If you want to talk, I'll send you a chat request. I prefer that to receiving unsolicited photos.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

34 MtF non binary trans CST

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Hello everyone I am looking for PS5 friends who love playing different video games.

Games I have downloaded:
The elder scrolls online
Fortnite ZB
Grand theft auto v
Cyberpunk

A little about myself I am 34 I have two step kids two dogs and a partner who I have been with for almost 10 years. I like to drink, smoke, and say dumb shit. I only work part time so I have time to kill when I’m at home. I love to listen to all type of music I usually listen to alternative rock some bts type stuff r&b hip hop. I like to watch horror movies and here lately I have been obsessed with crime documentaries.

If you are interested please don’t be shy to message me. I would love to have friends who live in different areas of the world. Please be lgbtq+ friendly we are just people like yourself just surviving and getting by one day at a time. And I have many other games so if there’s a game you enjoy and we are clicking I have no problem downloading a new game as long as it’s not expensive 😂

My PSN: AWC_Play4Fun


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[M4F] 32 M looking for chatting buddy

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I am 32 M , single from India.

Looking for a chat for the long term.

Any geographical location, any age

DM if interested


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[M4R] 33 m UK looking for new friends , preferably of the somewhat nerdy variety

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So about me I'm your typical video game nerd I guess you'd say pc gamer playing mostly single player stuff but do like the odd co-op.

I recently got out of a long term relationship so I'm looking for someone new that I can spend the day talking to and sharing my life with, I tend to get on better with females but it's not a requirement. I'm just looking for friends .

Currently live by myself with the cutest cat so if your a cat person , be prepared to have lots of cat pictures sent your way.

As I mentioned gaming is my primary hobby so would be good to find someone that shares that interest but again no Biggie (currently playing through Assassin's creed black flag if it helps) I think I'd prefer people from the UK as well just to keep in the time zone.

Well enough blathering on, hopefully someone sees this and decides to message


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

38M Looking for friends to chat with daily

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Hello all

I'm just posting to see if anything comes from it. Have been trying for a while but no luck.

I'm 37M from Canada PST.

My hopes are I can make some longterm friends on here. If you want to know anything about feel free to ask.

A little about me, I am a casual to moderate gamer all depends on how much time I have. I mainly play on PC but also have a Switch. Games I play vary but am willing to try any game.

I also like to go on walks, hikes, trips to the lake or camping. Been wanting to start going to the gym but haven't, just been doing home work outs plus my job keeps me pretty active.

I like to go on road trips and late night drives just around town.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

[M4F] 32 M Single Dad

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Simply dreading the lonely days and nights while the kids at camp or sleeping. Let’s chat and get our minds off being lonely.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 15m ago

Need a friend

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Hi Everyone,

My name is Kevin. I’m just looking for some friends. I live in Oregon, work in Construction though I travel a lot. Married. I’ve got 4 horses, 3 of which are retired. A dog and a cat. I’m a political junkie and a SciFi and Fantasy nerd. I’m in the Willamette Valley in Oregon. Oh I deleted all social media.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

36M Missouri/online - Looking for consistency and effort.

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I am quiet guy who keeps to himself mostly, just go about my day. Would be nice to have that one person though. I love to read and I always have my kindle with me. I mostly read fantasy, but venture into true crime and horror from time to time. Similar to reading, I just love a good story and that can come from any form a media, from a movie to a video game. Love horror movies and spooky season just in general. I love being out on the river. Fishing, camping... I just feel better closer to water.

I work in a forensic mental health facility with plenty of stories to share if we click. I look forward to hearing from you.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 11h ago

[F4R] 32 f I am still looking for people who need or want kindness in their life

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Hey there. The name is Q and I'm here to brighten your day. Hopefully. I'm 32. F. Biracial if that matters. I have a psychology degree, go to therapy twice a week for my DID, and do my homework too. I'd say I'm a well rounded person who is constantly working to be a better person. And I like to spread that energy.

I'm looking for people who are loney, dejected, ready the give up on friendship online all together. Or people who are happy and just want someone to talk to. Or people who are just bored. I do not care who you are where you came from what you have done in your past. You matter and you deserve kindess in your life.

Some more stuff about me. I love gaming, podcasts, my fish, my cat, my bf, music, ducks, birds, bird watching, and just being a vibe.

Come on dont be shy send me a message.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

✦ 33M l Looking to make long-term friends!

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✦ I will match your energy and effort! ✦

I'm ENTJ and Saggitarius, and love learning new hobbies! Looking for friends that are not just 1 conversation and done, yapping sessions and playing together!

  • Art: I started learning how to draw last year and I also have a twitter if you would like to check my drawings, and would love to learn with someone: https://x.com/llKeys_ - Please do not reach to me if you into AI slop.
  • Music: I'm recently started learning some songs on Electric Guitar and I'm taking lessons on Piano, I've been also recently goofing around with my Otamatone!
  • Games: Would like to play games with people also like; Slay the Spire 2, Overwatch (TANK), Battlefield 6, FFXIV (TANK), Nikke, Rabbit and Steel, Co-op and Friend-gem games, so I'm very open! - I wouldn't like to be video games the only thing we talk about tho!
  • Other: I also like to Journal and decorate it with Flowery Stickers, I would be happy with us having moments where we stream each other games or movies and discuss them and more! My favorite movies are: Portrait of a Lady on Fire l The Fall 2006 l Violet Evergarden l Redline and MadMax Fury Road.
  • Languages are: Spanish, English. Vietnamese, Japanese that I'm learning, so I'm looking for people to learn with.

I really would like to meet new people, so I would love moments where I can enjoy other people's company. I do not expect you to be a professional yapper, neither for you to entertain me but I would like for some balanced effort, and I would like a conversation to be a two-way road instead of a single way highway.

If any of this interest you send me a DM, a small intro would be appreciated! Thank you!!

✦ People tell me I have soothing voice and I'm very thoughtful and energetic like a puppy (Golden Retriever Energy) and I love hyping things together!

I also work from home!!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[M4F] M32 uk

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Hi everyone 👋 just hoping to make some online friends


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

40 F looking for friends with good vibes to chat about life fashion stocks or whatever

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Married with two daughters. So I am not here for romance or anything flirty, just looking to meet some like minded people to have easy fun conversations with on a regular basis

Hoping to connect with people in the US around the same age with a normal healthy mindset. Open to anyone but please respect my family situation and keep things friendly and real. We can talk about market moves swap outfit ideas or just share the little wins and frustrations of daily life

If you think we might click feel free to DM me with a quick intro about yourself and I will actually get back to you. Excited to meet some cool people