r/MBTIDating May 03 '20

- Mod Post - Hey, welcome to the r/MBTIDating community! Please read this Introduction and follow the Post Guidelines.

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Hello and welcome to r/MBTIDating ! =)

This is a subreddit for people of all personality types to look for and find other people to hang out with, become friends with or maybe even more ;)

To make sure that the right people can find your post please follow our post guidelines and use the follow format for your title (this makes posts searchable):

<age&gender> <mbti> - <location> - <title>
  • <age&gender> - Your current age e.g. 18, 24, 47 + your gender (male / female / non-binary)
  • [mbti] - Your four character MBTI personality type e.g. [ENTP], [INFJ], [ESJX]
  • <location> - Your current location e.g. Munich, Tokyo, Japan, Seattle, Washington
  • <title> - The title for your post and who you are looking for.

Example: 21M ENTP - Germany - Internet janitor and YouTuber looking for INTJ female to take over the world with ;)

Also please assign the correct user and post flairs, this way posts can be sorted.

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  • Describe yourself - Since reddit does not have traditional "profiles", you can use this as an opportunity to say a little something about your interests, hobbies, and if you want to talk about your work or career. If you know your Enneagram type feel free to include it there, too.
  • Set Expectations - If you are arraigning a date or a meetup, take the time to outline what the expected plan is: a trip to the zoo, to the bookstore, dancing in the club, or a moonlit stroll on the beach with strategically placed candles. Also indicate the expected time frame of the event.
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r/MBTIDating 2h ago

25 M4F , I'm ENFP seeking an INFJ

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I'm from India, never dated anyone. Good with people, into fitness and movies. I like singing and I'm filled with random energy đŸ•ș. I'm looking for a decent girl whom i choose to be with :)


r/MBTIDating 5h ago

looking for ENFP 37 [M4F] [INTJ] Down to chill and vibe with you

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Yo trying to link up and see where things go.

About you:

Cat person, non negotiable, got to give the felines some love

Rocking that organised chaos energy, a little messy is chill

No kids yet, but willing to go there down the line

Science minded, sharp, thinks critically for real

Glasses is geek chic, huge win

170 cm or under

Mestiza queen


r/MBTIDating 19h ago

18 INTJ looking for a girl with shared interests

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I'm a male INTJ looking for someone who is a Christian and likes deep conversations, fantasy, superheroes, and works out for some type of strength sport or martial art. I myself compete in armwrestling tournaments and train specifically for this sport. Max age gap two years older or younger, preferably less.


r/MBTIDating 1d ago

all types welcome 19M [M4F] Probably an INTJ looking for someone who enjoys deep conversations.

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Hey.
I’m 19 and, as the title says, I’m probably an INTJ (still figuring it out 😭).

I spend way too much time listening to music, reading manga, watching anime, and falling down random Wikipedia rabbit holes at 2 AM. I love conversations that go from “How was your day?” to “What’s the meaning of happiness?” without feeling forced.

A little about me:

đŸŽ” Music is a huge part of my life.

📚 Anime & manga addict.

đŸ§© Speedcuber (PR: 16.18s).

🌙 Big fan of dark humor, random facts, and late-night conversations.

I’m not looking for anything specific right away. Just someone genuine who’s curious, kind, and enjoys getting to know people without everything feeling like an interview.

If that sounds like you, come say hi. Worst case, we have a good conversation. Best case, maybe we become each other’s favorite notification.


r/MBTIDating 21h ago

all types welcome My last posts here, I'm not looking for primary text on Reddit, Discord is fine, if you don't have Discord I've Telegram, INTP, but if you disagree that's fine, latest PralineBudget 🍹 U.S. Online only, but loves making worldwide connections with others anyways [F4M]

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Permanently leaving Reddit July 26, of 2026, or permanently leaving July 29, 2026, if you would want to exchange Discord handles, let me know, I don't respond to comments, or starting the conversation in the comment section and I just think that's weird when the intro should be in a chat reqs anyways.

What I should clarify from my older posts on my main PralineBudget posts.

However, I should also include that I never included if I can make online connections with non-heavy gamers, to be honest if you're a basic gamer, that lightly plays that's okay with me, I never clarified on any of my posts that I'm comfortably fine with just texting about video games in general (however, texting me about video games may/might be boring for you though.)

Even then, I should also address the reason why I would say could/maybe boring is because I don't know hardly anything new for gaming these days, unless it's upcoming video game releases, remakes and remasters.

Old-skool games for example old-skool Nintendo consoles, older PlayStation consoles are where I thrive for convos anyways.

To be honest in this post, I've not purchased a new game in over a year in a half I didn't, I know in my past posts I've discussed about purchasing Mario Party Jamboree for the Nintendo Switch, but I've forgotten to do that, instead I kept on shopping for Sleep Token merch, or handmade Sleep Token merch you can buy on Depop, Vinted and apps that are similar to that.

Even then, I should also address/admit here that I enjoy watching people play let's play videos, it's honestly relaxing to be honest.

Helpful tips on how not to message me, if your MAIN goal is to bore me and make me become into Dragon Priest ash (for Redditors that don't know what Skyrim is, which is borderline embarrassing that you don't lol, is a pun and I'd enjoy making a lot of puns if you couldn't tell as well.)

However, I should also address now moving forward from this, this is another way to put me to sleep and make me die amongst the void.

I enjoy the Silent Hill original game.

That's kool you enjoy the Silent Hill original game, but could've texted maybe a sentence or two more than just that?

That just feels kind of dry 🩮 and I wouldn't want to waste my energy typing out a two or three sentence long text message, because your response would be alright, that's kool, alright I agree with you, that's nice and other variations of this dryer than a Ash Yam convos that could happen anyways.

These monologue convos are literally SUPER boring to me, I cannot have the attention span for SUPER boring convos, I can instantly just stop talking to the person quickly if I notice the person is just going to keep being monologue throughout our convos daily, with my autistic 360 fk ass and I'd take this literally.

Even then, I should also address before ending this post, if I miss your joke that's not because you failed to make the joke land, I'm autistic fk ass 360, I even had SOME Redditors telling me in the past, I didn't think you were this autistic getting to know you, text you more, you really are way too autistic for me and after that well that person left the building on me alongside the other one blocked me 💀

However, I should also address, I'm not a huge fan of A.I. even though I got temporarily suspended for 3 days from Reddit for disrupting subreddits with my A.I. posting, when that is false, I don't even enjoy A.I and since I don't enjoy A.I. why would I use that in any of my posts 💀

That's why I don't use IG anymore, when I was/were in my early 20s, I didn't care about how Meta operated, now I'd care how Meta operated, but the most embarrassing app of all the popular social media app has to be TikTok, for that embarrassing ''political paid speech about saving their app 💀''

Even then, I should also address that if you don't enjoy this post I would ask if you could refrain from reporting this post, because I could receive a 7 day temporary ban on my account and then after that is a permanent ban from this website.

What if I come across this post a few days later, or a few weeks later and older than a Dragon Priest ashes?

That's fine, I'll have my social handles posted on my pro anyways.

Even then, if you want to know what PralineBudget gets up to in her day life that has already been pinned on my post and maybe that can help you build a creative chat reqs? However, I should also address that I don't respond to hi messages, or several variations of hi messages, all I ask if you can share your age, region, interests, hobbies and I shouldn't have to be able to ask that out of you first anyways đŸŠ©

If you've any pets, I would love to see photos of your pets as well đŸ„‚


r/MBTIDating 1d ago

all types welcome 30 [M4F] [INTP] #Europe #Online — the distance is negotiable, the feelings are not

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Hello traveler. I'm a guy based somewhere in Europe, working and figuring things out like everyone else. I cook properly, go on walks when my brain gets too loud, and fall down rabbit holes about topics nobody asked me to research. One guaranteed constant: I will lose my keys at least once a week.

I'm quiet but present. I pay attention. I remember the small things. I show up.

I'm not here for a TikTok streak and a few scattered messages a day. I want to actually plan things — watch something together, cook the same recipe on call, take each other around town on video like a date that ignores the distance. Late night conversations that go longer than they should. And when the time is right, actual visits, somewhere to look forward to together. I love with intention and I'm looking for someone who does the same.

Who I'm hoping to find:

Someone with alternative taste — doesn't have to look a certain way, just has that energy. A nerd for something, anything, I don't care what as long as you can talk about it for too long. Witchy, artsy, bookish, chaotic — or something else entirely as long as you're genuine and you actually want to be here.

If you're tired of talking to people who go nowhere, same.

Drop me a message — tell me something you love about yourself


r/MBTIDating 1d ago

24 Enfp into a long term genuine connection

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Hey everyone,

​I'm a 24-year-old guy currently living in Morocco. I thought I'd throw a post out here to see if I can meet someone who shares a similar mindset.

​A bit about me:

​Hands-on & curious: I love fixing stuff and taking on random technical DIY projects. Usually you can find me messing around with old electronics or hardware to see how it works.

​Fitness: I try to keep up with a simple, consistent routine with strength training and staying healthly.

​Future vision: One of my main long-term goals is quiet, self-sufficient living. Im really interested in small-scale farming, livestock, and just living an independent life closer to nature.

​Chill lifestyle: When I'm not working out or tinkering with something, I'm usually reading up on new technical topics, grabbing a coffee, or planning out future projects.

​What I'm looking for:

​Someone thoughtful, practical, and open-minded.

​A partner who likes the idea of a simple, peaceful, and self-reliant life down the road.

​Good communication and someone who wants to build something genuine together.

​If any of this sounds like your vibe, feel free to drop me a chat or message with a little intro about yourself and what your long-term goals look like!


r/MBTIDating 2d ago

31M ENTJ - Looking for a connection

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Horror movie fan who promises I won't make you watch the scary parts alone. Chess player who's humble enough to lose gracefully to 12-year-olds online (they're brutal out there). I pass time gardening, hunting for the best coffee spots, rarely trying out wine or whiskey and turning into a full vacation dad with a camera fair warning, I *will* ask you to pose in front of that mural or my forehead ruining a beautiful picture.


r/MBTIDating 2d ago

26 [M4F] Beaumont Tx

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Hello there if you are reading this i hope that you are doing well and that your week is going good.

I'm 26, I just recently moved to Texas, I am 5'9 with an average build, I have been going to the gym 3-4 times a week. I have 4 tattoos planning more but my artists retired on me so now i need to find a new one. I am ENFJ

Im currently on track to buy my first house sometime next year and at the ripe age of 27 haha, I work as a systems specialist at a manufacturing facility and I have really good hours so it will be easy to plan a date or something.

Some of my hobbies include watching Movies, Reading, Cooking, Camping Hiking and going out with friends. I am a very avid gamer my go to game right now is Deadlock, Overwatch, Windrose, and Star Citizen. My music taste is everywhere if it's got a good beat, I'll listen to it, but country music is probably my favorite none of this new country I like my old school country. I love to cook, if you tell me something you want I would find away to make it.

I love going to Museums and Aquariums, I love the Ocean too one of the main reasons I moved to Beaumont Texas was the Ocean being 30mins away. The beach is always a great time to unless i start turning red then its a nightmare for the next week.

You can always reach out to me on my discord: acebird1e2, we can also talk else where if depending on comfort level,so let me know and I look forward to hearing from you and see where things can go


r/MBTIDating 1d ago

looking for INTJ 20 [M4F] , INFJ. Looking for something that can last and my favorite person to message

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Not my first post but make it my last

I think this will go better with someone who is more alike than different for me, but could possibly make it work.

Hi, so as the title I'm 20 years old guy looking for a woman of my imagination. Am from South Africa, Muslim as well and a college student. Nothing more than that.

Things that I like are gaming and anime. That has been apart of my life since my goo goo gaga eyes learned to read. And my hands went fast on controller. I play only pc now.

Reading, but I only read manga. I'm not a bookworm of any sorts, but I have been reading it less these days same with watching anime. Been focus on normal series/movies? Like with real life people. I still enjoy the animation ones.

Would probably say that I am weird, odd, clingy, comfortable, freaky with people but obviously if it's going to be you I'll only be so with you. Text you every day (hope I find something alike). Jokes are pretty okay depends on what you find funny. Homebody at home so I'm free to chat.

I'm comfortable with showing my face in dms and I hope you are too. Don't like it one way thing of cause.

FAIR WARNING - BE THE TYPE WHO MESSAGE SO LITTLE EACH DAY THEN I WILL LOSE INTEREST.


r/MBTIDating 2d ago

all types welcome [M4F] 22 | Online/Anywhere | Looking for my person Infp-A

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Hey, figured I would give this a shot because meeting people naturally seems harder than ever these days and I really don't like dating apps tbh.

I am 22, a brown guy from Asia, 5'11, light tan skin. Apparently my friends think I look like Prince Ali from Aladdin. I strongly disagree but they have refused to let that joke die lol.

A little about me: Personality wise i would say i am pretty affectionate, loyal, and easygoing. I am not looking for perfection. The biggest things I value are communication, honesty, and consistency. If something is bothering you, tell me. If you are excited about something tell me that too. I like people who say what is on their mind.

I am also someone who loves very deeply when I genuinely care about someone. If we click, you will probably find me wanting to hear about your day, celebrate your wins, support you through the rough patches, and generally be very invested in the people I care about. I do not really do half hearted connections.

I am the kind of person who puts a lot of effort into a relationship. Whether it is thoughtful messages, voice notes, long calls, remembering the little things, planning little surprises, or simply making time for you, I genuinely enjoy making the person i am with feel loved and appreciated. I do not really believe in pretending to care less than I actually do.

I can also get pretty attached to my person but in the healthiest way possible. I like relationships where both people are genuinely excited to talk to each other, send random updates throughout the day, share little moments, and make each other feel like a priority. If you are someone who enjoys being a little clingy too, I think we will probably get along really well.

On the flip side, if you are naturally a very dry texter, rarely put effort into conversations, disappear for days without communicating or do not really enjoy spending time with your partner, we probably will not be the best match and that is completely okay. I think both people deserve someone whose communication style matches their own.

I work in investing and trading, and I am currently trying to build a few businesses of my own. I also keep threatening to start a YouTube channel, disappear for a while, then come back and threaten it again. One day I will actually do it.

Outside of work, I spend a lot of my time gaming, cooking, singing, writing, I am starting to read again as well, and thinking way too much about random things. I love deep conversations. The kind that starts with "how was your day?" and somehow ends up discussing childhood memories, life goals, why people are the way they are, or whether we would survive a zombie apocalypse.

I write quite a bit too. Sometimes stories, sometimes random thoughts, sometimes poems that I will never show anyone unless I really like you.

I also genuinely enjoy spending time together, whether that is gaming, watching something, talking for hours, sending voice notes, or just sitting in comfortable silence. Not every moment has to be exciting to be meaningful.

As for pictures, I am completely fine with exchanging them early on if that is something you would prefer. I know physical attraction matters to a lot of people, and that is perfectly understandable. At the same time, if you would rather get to know each other first and exchange pictures later, that is completely fine with me too. That's actually how I tend to do things myself. For me, looks matter, but personality, values, and how we connect matter much more.

Physically, I have been working on my fitness and trying to take better care of myself. Progress is not always perfect, but I am putting in the effort.

One thing that is probably worth mentioning: politically i am leftist and i am an atheist. I strongly support LGBTQ+ rights, womens rights, and treating people with respect regardless of who they are. Because of that i am probably not going to be compatible with someone who holds strongly conservative views on those topics. Likewise i am usually not the best match for someone who is very religious. No hate whatsoever i have just found our values tend to be too different for a relationship to work.

As for what I am looking for: just someone kind. Someone who can communicate. Someone who isn't afraid to get attached if we click. I tend to appreciate creative people, animal lovers, gamers, writers, overthinkers, and generally anyone who is passionate about something. If you're a bubbly person, enjoy calling, sending random voice notes, or just love talking throughout the day, we'll probably get along really well. And if you are a deep lover like me, well we will probably click immediately.

Distance does not bother me much if the connection is there and the effort is mutual.

Tell me something about yourself. A random fact, your favorite game, a weird hobby, your most controversial opinion, anything really.


r/MBTIDating 2d ago

29[M4F]#India/anywhere ( INTP ) - Me: handles the BBQ grill, You: classy host making sure everyone is comfortable, Our Dog: sneakily steals the chicken from the table

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Spent most of my life in Middle East, currently in India for a while.

Was the stereotypical topper , Badminton team captain and If you google my name, you can find me winning the best student award during high school.

Went through a long journey of self doubt, depression, anxiety and finding myself, but now I love my career and excited about my life. 

I wanted to find how to be happy on my own , otherwise it wouldn’t be fair to be with someone else. Unfortunately it took longer than expected 😅

Sooo, no previous girlfriends so far but the good news is all of my hoodies are available for the taking!

Now the next focus is finding the right partner in life!

Personality wise I alternate between serious gentleman who wears suits to work but is a happy excited golden retriever! 

I enjoy long walks, reading old books, watching funny foreign films , cooking dishes from all around the world and gymming at the end of the day to relieve stress. 

I do like doing side missions on the weekends ( learning pottery, going for the latest art exhibits, getting certified by Starbucks , learning first aid and CPR, going for Krav Maga, playing the Ukelele and gardening )

Weekends is when I help my parents run our small ice cream shop, where I take orders, make balloons for the customers kids and create elaborate ice cream sundaes!

Professionally: I help run a student entrepreneurship program across 4 continents and was invited to jury panels for judging startups 

Disclaimer : I do want the whole nine yards of marriage, including kids . ( I don’t particularly care for caste/religion/country, as long as you are kind person )

Also , I am allergic to cats but I still adopted two stray cats from the streets because my dumb heart couldn’t bear to leave them there. So now I can only spend 7 minutes in my living room before sneezing uncontrollably.


r/MBTIDating 2d ago

INFJ [M4F] YORKSHIRE UK

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35 [M4F][YORKSHIRE] Summer Adventures?

Hello, I have given up on dating apps, the mundane swiping and small talk conversations never seemed to lead anywhere.

I am now on a 7 week break from work due to working term time hours and I find myself wanting to find someone to enjoy the time with.

Online talks are fine but id love to meet irl if we click.

Some information about me:

Firstly, I have ADHD and I can be a bit full on, info dumping, talkative, flirty and overwhelming at times if im comfortable, but I am funny so..

I also have a young daughter who I have 50% of the time, so if you don't like or want kids then unfortunately I am not the person for you.

I have a lot of hobbies ranging from writing to cooking and god knows what in-between, ill not list them all here, do some work and ask me!

I am a massive geek, I have tattoos and I am kind of just sat here waiting for my person to arrive.

If looks are vital here are some stats:

5ft 11

Black hair, medium/long

No beard

White

Average build

Bluey/Green eyes

Happy to share pics, happy to send voice notes.

If you're looking for a new adventure, then reach out?


r/MBTIDating 3d ago

all types welcome 27M | INFJ | [M4F] Looking for someone to have actual conversations with

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The kind where you lose track of time talking about something neither of you planned to bring up.

I'm into philosophy, psychology, big-picture questions about where the world is going, and also completely random topics depending on the week. I think a lot about what a good life looks like, not in a self-help way, just genuinely curious about it.

Attractive to me: people with opinions they've actually thought through, who can be warm without being performative, and who find the world interesting rather than overwhelming.

Not rushing anything. If something here sounds like you, send a DM and tell me something you've been thinking about lately. Better opener than "hey" anyway.


r/MBTIDating 3d ago

all types welcome 28 [M4F] - #Europe/#Online - ISFJ Looking for a genuine connection that leads to more...

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Hello, I'm a 28-year-old guy from Malta. I consider myself to be an introvert, but once I get comfortable with someone, I’m easy going, friendly and honestly pretty fun to be around.

I have a curious mind and enjoy getting lost into history, documentaries, movies and a bit of gaming as well. Music is a big part of my life too and my Spotify playlist is all over the place, everything from classical and indie to rock, electronic, and vaporwave.

I'm hoping to get to know someone who is genuine, enjoys deep & meaningful conversations, kind, a little goofy and caring. I am looking to build a genuine connection that leads to a relationship. I am open to Long Distance and as I am from Europe, ideally you'd be living in Europe as well due same/close time zones. As for age, I'd prefer if you're between 25-30, but if you're slightly out of that range and think we'd get on well feel free to reach out as well.

If any of that resonates with you, I'd love to get to know you.


r/MBTIDating 3d ago

26 [M4F] #Beaumont Tx

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Hello there if you are reading this i hope that you are doing well and that your week is going good.

I'm 26, I just recently moved to Texas, I am 5'9 with an average build, I have been going to the gym 3-4 times a week. I have 4 tattoos planning more but my artists retired on me so now i need to find a new one. I am ENFJ

Im currently on track to buy my first house sometime next year and at the ripe age of 27 haha, I work as a systems specialist at a manufacturing facility and I have really good hours so it will be easy to plan a date or something.

Some of my hobbies include watching Movies, Reading, Cooking, Camping Hiking and going out with friends. I am a very avid gamer my go to game right now is Deadlock, Overwatch, Windrose, and Star Citizen. My music taste is everywhere if it's got a good beat, I'll listen to it, but country music is probably my favorite none of this new country I like my old school country. I love to cook, if you tell me something you want I would find away to make it.

I love going to Museums and Aquariums, I love the Ocean too one of the main reasons I moved to Beaumont Texas was the Ocean being 30mins away. The beach is always a great time to unless i start turning red then its a nightmare for the next week.

You can always reach out to me on my discord: acebird1e2, we can also talk else where if depending on comfort level,so let me know and I look forward to hearing from you and see where things can go


r/MBTIDating 3d ago

looking for ENFP INFJ 26m India, Looking for my ENFP/INFP/ENTP person

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Hey! I'm 26M from India, and an INFJ.

Not really sure how to start this, so I'll just be honest.

I'm the kind of person who's quiet in the beginning, but once I'm comfortable, you'll probably wonder if I ever stop talking. I enjoy conversations about almost anything—life, random thoughts, movies, food, tech, or just how your day went.

I work in IT, and outside of work I'm pretty low-key. I prefer meaningful conversations over small talk and I'd rather have one genuine person in my life than a hundred casual chats.

I've never been in a relationship, so I'm hoping to meet someone who's kind, emotionally mature, and willing to put in equal effort. I'm not expecting us to fall in love overnight—we can just start with a conversation and see where it goes.

I'd also prefer to exchange photos once we're both comfortable, and if we genuinely click, I'd love to meet in real life as well cause I can't maintain online for long time . I'm open to long-distance if there's real effort from both sides.

I'm originally from near Lucknow, and I spend a lot of time between Delhi and Hyderabad.

If any of this sounds like your kind of vibe, don't overthink it—just send me a message. I'd love to get to know you. 😊


r/MBTIDating 3d ago

all types welcome anyone out there who wanna be online friend?

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life sometimes feel lonely and boring, I am an INTP who have literally nothing else to do :p

If you wanna be friend, please tell me about your type, it may also help me understand typology even more, everyone is welcomed!


r/MBTIDating 4d ago

all types welcome 35 [M4F] EU/Anywhere - INTJ looking for someone unconventional

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35 y/o guy with a cute smile (have been told so) with a career in tech ( but not a tech bro ), a calm presence with a life that has been a wild adventure of extremes, I thrive on intellectual chaos. I like to read, anything everything from systems theory to modern french history, particularly clean energy and environment (it’s one of my passion). After taking a break from dating, I am giving it a one more shot, a last ditch effort before AI makes online dating extremely noisy.

What I’m Looking For:

A childfree, progressive partner ( how we define progressive might vary ) who sees life as a playground of possibilities, not a checklist. Someone unapologetically herself, sexually liberated, intellectually fearless, and allergic to societal scripts. Let’s skip the small talk and dissect the big questions: How do we live ethically in a burning world? Can love exist without ownership?

Why We Might Click:

  • Staunchly Childfree : I don’t want kids (ever), both for personal freedom and because bringing new life into an overburdened world feels tragically naive. Let’s channel that energy into activism, art, or adventure instead.
  • You crave depth : My attachment style is securely rooted. I’m here for mutual growth, not games. Whether we’re debating moral gray zones or testing new boundaries in the bedroom, I value curiosity over judgment.
  • You’re a shapeshifter : Artist, scientist, activist, hedonist.... you refuse to be boxed in. Bonus if you’ve got stories from living unconventionally or a passion project that keeps you up at night.
  • You laugh easily : My humor leans dry, my vibe is warm, and I’ll absolutely lean into the absurdity of dating via Reddit posts

The Vibe: Imagine slow mornings with coffee and conversations that feel endless, weekends volunteering or getting lost in a neon-lit bar, maybe just a cafe or beach? I’m driven but not ruthless, my version of “Machiavellian” is designing a life that’s sustainable, joyful, and defiantly ours. Let’s be catalysts, not conformists.( I don't have any societal morality )

TL;DR: Childfree, progressive, experimental and insatiably curious?

Edit : Have been Ethically non monogamous for years with previous partner, don’t mind the lifestyle. Also bisexual if its not explicit


r/MBTIDating 4d ago

looking for INTP 32 [F4A] #India/Online - INFJ/INFP looking for the ENTP/INTJ types who can handle a late-night shift in personality

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By day, I’m the textbook definition of a proper, introverted, well-behaved woman who completely has her life sorted. Very decent, very polite.

But it’s past midnight, it’s humid, I’m wide awake in a giant t-shirt, and that structured logic is fading fast. Honestly, nights like this make the apartment feel way too quiet, and I just want to drop the filters.

I’m looking for someone, guy or girl, who can skip the boring surface-level small talk and actually match my energy tonight. If you think you can handle a "decent" girl who is feeling a bit restless and completely unfiltered right now, my DMs are open.

Tell me your type, your gender, and the most non-boring thing on your mind right now.


r/MBTIDating 4d ago

all types welcome 35 [M4F] [INFJ/INTJ] [online/anywhere/USA] – Seeking vibrant sparks and soothing connections

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Hello! My name is Anthony. I’m a 35-year-old man (US, ET time zone) who thrives on introspection, curiosity, and passionate drives.

In regards to MBTI, I first tested as INTJ during my teens and continued to primarily test as it into my 30s. More recently, I sometimes get INFJ. I've also gotten INTP and ISTJ before.

I seek people who seek meaningful connection that plays out in several different ways, from daily casual chats to shared passions and endeavors. I appreciate the sudden whim of adventure and adore abstract minds and vibrant souls.

Rumination and contemplation are lifelong pursuits of mine. I’m an autodidact who’s been passionate about a variety of persuasions since I’ve been young.

Creativity and artistry are important to me. Personally, I write: about my observations, thoughts, and lived experiences. I also dabble in photography.

I love coffee, both simple and bitter and excessively frilly concoctions, burning incense, because I've always thought the smoke is cool, archiving and organizing, collecting (written texts, oddities and cool things), and time pieces.

If my signal created resonating vibes within you, send me a short message about yourself or the things that make your life up. Let’s see where our conversation takes us.


r/MBTIDating 4d ago

all types welcome 21 M4F INFP LOOKING FOR HIS LOVE OF LIFE IN EUROPE

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IMPORTANT: IM ONLY LOOKING FOR WOMEN IN EUROPE AROUND MY AGE.

(The last time I posted this there were tons of men replying to me, even though I had clearly mentioned M4F. Idk if I messed up something else in the post to trigger others to text me)

Hey guys, it's been a while since I've been trying to date someone and I've been unsuccessful so far. IRL I'm too scared to make a move or I'm afraid if the person I like has the same intentions that I have. While here it's nice to meet people that are actually open to dating and there won't be a problem with finding the kind of people you're into (despite the rare replies we men get). So I thought I'd give this a shot, I mean I have posted here before but this time I wanted to express more about myself and be completely open to it (idk what I'm going on about).

So I'm a South Indian who's been living in Berlin for the past 4 months due to studies. I'm 21 brown and around 175 cm tall and slim. My hobbies include playing both competitive games and story rich games. (If you are someone who plays Warzone, FC 26, don't hesitate to leave a message. If you are on ps do leave me some recommendations unless it is horror games ) I watch a ton of movies or series, nowadays I'm mostly looking for an underrated rom com movie, thriller series or something related to Marvel.(My fav movies would include Top Gun, Spiderman ITSV & ATSV, Jerry Maguire and Tenet). Another important hobby would be football, I enjoy both playing it and watching it (Even though watching sometimes is dreadful cos I supported Portugal on the world cup đŸ˜­đŸ™đŸœ and they got knocked out ffs ) when it's Champions League I tend to watch ever Real Madrid games and occasionally other important games.

I tend to stay inside the house and play video games or watch movies, but for the right person I would go out, take a walk and go to a restaurant. I would basically change my introverted side, if I like you. If you're worried about breaking the ice or if our conversations would go dry, I can always bring up something to avoid that. But if I get the feeling that you are not interested and starts going too dry, I would eventually stop trying. I rarely drink alcohol and have never smoked, which is pretty important that I'm looking for someone like that too. I would prefer if you are someone in Europe as well or if you are traveling to Europe soon and planning on staying for a long term basis. I wouldn't mind sharing pics of mine once we trust each other enough to be open. I also would prefer if you are someone around my age as well.

I don't know what I sound like with what I have written about myself so far, but if you find something interesting or want to inquire more about me, my private inbox is always free.


r/MBTIDating 5d ago

all types welcome 19 (F4M) #Braunschweig,Germany INFJ seeks long term Relationship

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Hallöchen lieber Leser :)

Heutzutage ist ja sehr schwierig jemanden im echten Leben kennenzulernen also habe ich es mit sĂ€mtlichen Dating Apps versucht jemanden kennenlernen. Das ist aber ein kompletter Reinfall gewesen, da die Personen meistens fake sind, dich nur nach deinem Äußerem beurteilen oder dich dann einfach nur ghosten. Ich fand schon immer das Thema MBTI interessant und finde es sehr schön, wenn sich Menschen fĂŒr ihre Persönlichkeit interessieren. Dementsprechend versuche ich es jetzt mal hier !

Nun ein wenig mehr zu mir: Ich bin 19 Jahre alt und mache aktuell mein FSJ. Mein grĂ¶ĂŸtes Hobby ist das Lesen. Von BĂŒchern ĂŒber Comics, finde ich alles toll ! Desweiteren gehe ich regelmĂ€ĂŸig ins Gym, um fit zu bleiben. Aber ich habe trotzdem ein kleines BĂ€uchlein :) Ich bin ĂŒbrigens 1,78m groß und habe lange braune Haare sowie blaue Augen. Ansonsten gehe ich gerne spazieren und unternehme gerne was mit der Familie und Freunden. Aber ich bin auch mal gerne nur zu Hause und schaue Filme. Also falls du sehr gerne Comedy Sachen schaust, dann bist du bei mir genau an der richtigen Adresse ! Mein Musik Geschmack ist dagegen komplett gemixt. Von 80s ĂŒber Rock und Pop ist bei mir alles vertreten. Im Moment höre ich die Ă€lteren Songs von The weeknd rauf und runter. So das mĂŒsste erstmal reichen, um dir einen groben Überblick zu verschaffen ;)

Falls du im Alter zwischen 19-29 bist, aus der Gegend von Braunschweig kommst (oder ca. 1:30 Stunden Fahrzeit) und Interesse an einer festen Beziehung hast, dann wĂŒrde ich mich sehr freuen wenn du mir eine Nachricht mit einer groben Vorstellung von dir senden wĂŒrdest â˜ș


r/MBTIDating 4d ago

all types welcome 26M4F ENFJ-A looking for long-term relationship #anywhere

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Hello everyone.

This is my first time doing this so hope I can get this message across. I am looking for a genuine long term relationship where I can embrace my partner to the fullest and same in return without it being frowned upon or get labeled as too much. If we click, iam someone who can literally do anything and everything to make this relationship your safe haven. Also, if we reach such a strong connection, iam willing to take the time, and put the effort to grow and contribute to my partner's growth.

As far as conversations go, I can make the most trivial convo interesting and funny. Can talk about literally anything if the convo is safe for doing so.

Hmu if you are interested (discord is : 3li_33), take care.