r/DigitalMarketing • u/LeadershipKnown4618 • 19h ago
Discussion I’ve never had a manager impact my confidence like this. Is this a red flag?
Is this a bad manager fit or am I dealing with micromanagement?
I recently started a demand generation role at a startup. I have 11 years of marketing experience and was hired to own strategy and execution.
I’m struggling with my manager’s communication style. I feel like she constantly questions my expertise, corrects me before understanding context, and critiques small things. On calls, especially in front of leadership, she frequently talks over me, interrupts me, and takes over conversations when I’m presenting work I created.
Some examples:
• I was explaining a HubSpot lifecycle reporting issue and instead of discussing the problem, she questioned whether I understood lifecycle stages and said it was “basic marketing.”
• She has explained concepts like A/B testing to me despite my background.
• During an ABM discussion, she said she would build the list because she “knows more companies than me.”
I also feel like I have very little ownership. I’m expected to execute things exactly how she wants, but then my work is heavily critiqued afterward.
The workload has also been challenging. I was working 8am to 8pm and brought up feeling overwhelmed. The response was that I was context switching too much, and when I said I was still struggling, the solution was mainly to structure my days differently rather than address the overall workload.
During interviews, I specifically said I wanted to move away from marketing ops and was told this role would not involve much of it. Now, because an agency failed to deliver, about 40% of my time is spent on operations, and I’m also fully managing outbound sales.
The biggest concern is that I’m losing confidence. I’ve always been someone who feels confident in my work, but this is the first time I’ve had a manager make me question my judgment and hesitate to speak up.
Is this normal startup growing pains, or does this sound like a poor manager and role fit?