Hello designers of Reddit, please hear my plea and answer my prayers!! Unfortunately, I am a fully grown woman still living in her teenage bedroom (so owned, but by my parents). Well, kind of. I shared a room right up until adulthood when I was finally allowed my own space, so most of my furniture & decorations are either Ikea (lovingly), hand-me-downs, or stuff I bought at anime conventions when I was a youngin. It doesn't reflect me at all and feels very sterile, because I was trying to mimic the 2020 clean anime-nerd aesthetic on TikTok way back in the day, but I haven't touched an anime in at least 3 years.
Suffice it to say, this room is not me. And now that it's becoming more and more apparent that I am not moving out anytime soon, I want to redesign the whole thing and take some risks for the sake of comfort and clawing my way out of depression. Sadly, my perfectionism is holding me back from taking a real risk, so I really need advice and suggestions to bring my vision to life.
The first three photos are, obviously, of my sad, sad room. Please ignore the mess; the covered thing is just a box and some medical stuff. Literally everything but the TV and closet can be moved, changed, painted, etc, etc. Two of them are taken in .5 for brevity, so the actual measurements are provided (as best I could) in the floorplan model I made. I live in the USA and it is in both inches & meters. And the final photo is a collage of (hopefully) real inspiration photos I found. I am unsure of the exact name or wording, but I imagine it's a faux/modern 70s feel with lots of dark wood, furs, warm lights, and color pop/contrast. I am a huge fan of spooky/horror/Halloween, but still want some flexibility to just be cozy and adjust for the season (like being able to make it Christmas-y without doing too much).
Important things to note are (in no particular order):
• The only current source of light is the desk lamp and the window.
• The bed is a queen, and the frame is definitely going to be replaced (it being the annoying sort of broken is what inspired me to redo my room). I would like the long side pulled away from the wall to make cleaning & sheet changing easier, but it seems to take up too much space elsewhere.
• I live in the desert, so please do not suggest anything that produces or stores unnecessary heat (like blankets and lights are a must, but curtains would probably bake and blind me more than anything else), or anything that provides good hiding spaces for spiders & scorpions.
• The bed must stay on that side of the room, though it can be moved and rotated. My door opens to a hallway facing the entire house and a window to the outside, so it's bad feng shui.
• I really want a seating area (preferably a 'nook'), as I currently spend too much time in my bed and it's really messing with my mental health. Still, I can't figure out how to fit it into the relatively small space without getting in the way of the closet or facing the door problem again (tho I do crack the door for more privacy without locking my pets out, so it can, ultimately, be put there).
• It's not shown, but I would love advice for closet organization, too. Currently, I have a dresser and hangers, and my shoes are just loose-leaf, so I know the basics of, like, a shoe rack or organizer. If you have any ideas that worked better for you, please let me know! It's only about 28 inches deep, so it's not as much space as it appears in the floor plan.
• And finally, the desk is probably the sacrifice that leaves the room, as it's only for storage and my gaming laptop right now. the bookshelf, bed, and nook are all more important.
Some nice things I'd like included:
• A poster rack. I may not be a huge anime nerd anymore, but I bought a lot of art at cons that now take up space in my closet and aren't exactly resellable. I also don't want to throw it though, because it's a lot of money down the drain for something i don't hate looking at.
• On that note, I also have a lot of pins and keychains I would like to display in an unobtrusive way, if anyone has any suggestions.
• I want a rug that's nice to lie on because I keep getting carpet burn while playing with my cats, but again, reference the scorpion hiding fear. And my elderly boy tends to have hairballs on my carpet, as it is his safe space too, so ease of cleaning is a huge bonus.
• A new wall color would be amazing. I am okay sacrificing heat-comfort for a dark tone like shown in most of the inspo pics. Wallpaper is also welcome, but most patterns scare me.
• Any fun/helpful additions or decorations you'd like to advocate for are also very welcome here. I really want to romanticize my life, and this feels like a good starting point.
You may still be wondering why I need advice, if I have a good idea of what I want. And the answer is, I truly have never gotten the chance to decorate a room. What little I have done was for the sake of functionality and resulted in the sterile, lifeless room that has, unintentionally, led to a worsening mental state. Sure, my personality peaks out in little ways, but only with things I bought on a whim. Intentional purchasing feels so daunting, and I truly don't understand how to construct a space that is both functional and comfortable. I know it's supposed to be a living, evolving thing, but I struggle to shop with that in mind and really want to reach, at the very least, a base I am happy with. That's part of why the holiday decorating appeals to me: it's easy to remember and buy fun decorations, rather than treating furniture and decorations as anything more than a passing glance. I always fall into the pitfall of seeing things I like, but not wanting to 'waste' money or risk overconsumption (ironic, I know) for something I can't visualize in my space. Which is fair, but again, my sad, lifeless room speaks for itself.
All that to say, I need a change. But I don't know how to change. I get it in the abstract, but applying it to my actual space feels very daunting, and I can't seem to bring the wants and needs in my head to a solid idea to even attempt to mimic. In case you skimmed over that point, I sort of want to use this to romanticize my life and give me a zest for the everyday again.
TLDR: I need bedroom advice for a desert home to make it feel more personable, with a sort of sea shanty/faux 70s vibe that can be decorated for the seasons. The space is a tad cramped for everything I'd like to incorporate (books, bed, nook, storage), so any tips on zoning/spacing are more than welcome. As well as decoration advice for things like the walls, bed, decor, etc, etc.
Hopefully, this is enough information, but I will happily answer any questions in the comments or DMs! If you got through all this, thank you! :3