r/CrochetHelp • u/Resident-Magician181 • 6h ago
I'm a beginner! Completely stumped on how to do crochet, getting increasingly frustrated at my failed attempts
I’m wanting to learn crochet so I have something to do with my art skills aside from just drawing. But no matter what I do, no matter how many tutorials I follow or videos I watch, I can’t even seem to get past the very basics. I’ve got like 3 books on crocheting, two beginner kits that come with videos & pdfs to follow, and access to all the tutorials on YouTube, but for some reason I can never get any of it to work.
I don’t know if my hands just aren’t dexterous enough, or if I’m holding something wrong, or if I’m just following instructions wrong, but I’m quite literally close to tears at the fact that this supposedly easy craft is so freaking impossible to do. I can’t get my hook to pull yarn through loops, I can’t get the yarn to stay still, I can’t get my loops and stitches to stay intact for longer than a few seconds before they come apart in my hands. The current one I’m trying is a kit meant to make a couple of axolotl plushies (maybe about the side of a hand) and every step is just more confusing than the last and the video linked in the kit is so infuriatingly slow that by the time I get to the next step in the video, my yarn has already unraveled and I have to start over.
I really just don’t know what to do, where to start, or anything like that. Everyone makes it look so simple and easy, and it’s making me really upset that I just can’t get it to work. I get that reading the guides will come with time, but how the heck am I supposed to follow them or even begin to do them when I can’t even get my yarn to stay together?
I really could use some advice on how to get all of this to work. Do you have any specific videos I should look at, or books to follow, or just any kits that teach it well? I really want to get this to work to have a new hobby, but it’s starting to feel like it’s just not meant for me.