This feels slightly awkward to post, but maybe/hopefully I’m not the only person in this situation.
I’m a German guy around 40 who has lived in Charlottesville for a few years. I work remotely, have a child, and recently went through a major life change. Somewhere between remote work, parenting, and being an adult in a place where many people already seem to have established circles, I never really built much of a local social life.
I’ve lived in the US for about 16 years, but I often find it easiest to connect with other Europeans, internationals, people who have lived abroad, or Americans with a more international outlook. That isn’t meant as a criticism of anyone, I just miss having people around who share some of that cultural context.
I’m into science/data/AI, photography/architecture/design, cars, fitness, food/wine, parenting, and conversations that go beyond small talk. I’m not looking for networking or dating, just actual friendships and people to occasionally grab coffee, have a drink or dinner, take a walk, or do something around town with.
Maybe there are a few people here in a similar position, and we could put together a very informal international hangout or Stammtisch. Comment or DM me if that sounds appealing.