r/Anxietyhelp Mar 25 '25

Mod Post FAQs about r/AnxietyHelp

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Hi guys,

One of the mods here suggested creating a FAQ page for our subreddit to help eliminate confusion.

Why was my post removed automatically?

It wasn't! It has been sent to our mod queue for manual approval.

Why?

We have minimum account karma and age requirements for our sub to prevent bots and spam. If your post is automatically filtered out please allow us a day or two to approve it. Normally we are able to approve faster than that but we all have commitments outside of moderating. Submitting the post multiple times will NOT expedite the posting of your content.

What does rule #1 mean?

Any posts regarding suicidal thoughts or intentions will be removed. Please contact 988, go to the emergency department, or try r/suicidewatch. These posts can be triggering and we are not equipped to respond appropriately.

What does rule #2 mean?

This is one of the most commonly broken rules. We. Are. Not. Doctors. No one can diagnose your medical condition(s) properly that is not a doctor. Asking whether other people experience similar symptoms is allowed but blatantly asking, "is this anxiety or __________?" is not allowed. Speak with your primary care doctor or try r/askdocs.

What does rule #3 mean?

We were at one point inundated by YouTube and Spotify links. We are not allowing them to be posted or shared anymore so please don't link to us about the awesome anxiety playlist you created.

What does rule #4 mean?

To keep things civil and inclusive we do NOT allow discussions regarding politics or religion. Should a time be deemed appropriate to discuss these topics we will create a megathread. Do not post political or religious content. Do not comment about religious or spiritual content. Both will be removed.

What does rule #5 mean?

NO TROLLING. Do not post or comment making fun of our users. Do not post trying to rage bait. Do not comment trying to manipulate people. Generally, don't be a dick.

What does rule #6 mean?

This is mainly intended for bots but we see it happen sometimes. Do not link anywhere to buy or sell drugs. Do not ask users where you can buy drugs. Do not offer to sell drugs.

What does rule #7 mean?

We have seen an influx of posts that have nothing to do with anxiety. There are other subreddits more appropriate for this content.

What does rule #8 mean?

No picking fights and that comments should revolve around helping each other. There is no reason to start arguments with other users. A disagreement of opinions is one thing. Turning a thread into a full blown argument is another. If you disagree with something simply scroll on.

What does rule #9 mean?

Stop posting your blog, shop, Etsy, etc. If you want to share stuff do it directly on Reddit. No external third party links should be used just to generate traffic.


r/Anxietyhelp May 09 '25

Mod Post As a new user, you need to comment on other posts before making your own post

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To reduce spam, this subreddit has settings for minimum karma requirements for posting.

If you‘re new here, please take a moment to engage with the community by commenting on a few posts first.

This let‘s you build up karma to become a confirmed user. Also we can help each other best by interacting more. :)

Thanks for understanding! Welcome on the sub!


r/Anxietyhelp 8h ago

Need Help Im scared of ww3 but I want to feel safe in my country

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Ive posted it in one other subreddit already but I wanted more people to help..Im 16yo. I've been having nightmares of missiles flying etc and it keeps me up at night all the time.

Russia-ukraine, Israel+Usa-Iran..and recently even Germany raised their safe levels to high-risk..I'm from Slovakia. But I'm very scared that one day there will be missiless flying. I really want not to worry.

Cause right now I'm very safe but I mean, what if usa will attack all europe? And China will get involved..in my country, we don't have any military base for them to even destroy, but they could still attack us, right? I just have a bad feeling that something horrible will happen. *I just want to feel safe in my country. Yes they dont have a reason to attack such a small country but..*


r/Anxietyhelp 6m ago

Need Advice Skin screening

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Going to the dermatologist tomorrow to get some odd freckles checked I’ve been putting it off for years because I’m so horrified on skin cancer I feel like throwing up right now and thinking of every reason I should cancel it I’ve been on google , Reddit, and TikTok all day just watching and reading everything I Can about it it’s fueling my anxiety but I can’t stop I can’t concentrate I can’t do anything but lay here and worry I’ve convinced myself I 100% have melanoma and I just don’t know how To Calm myself down


r/Anxietyhelp 4h ago

Discussion What is your health anxiety currently hyperfixated on?

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I had unprotected sex with someone new and ever since, I’ve been stuck in this cycle of convincing myself I have something. Every little thing feels like a sign.

Literally the other day I was deep in my own head, fully convincing myself I had it, and then out of nowhere a reel started playing on my dad’s phone and said the exact word I’m terrified of. It’s just fueling my anxiety.

I feel like I hear or see that word everywhere. Sometimes it’s not even there, but my brain thinks it is. If it is there, my eyes lock onto it instantly. I even catch myself avoiding saying certain things because my brain is convinced I’ll somehow manifest it.

I’m getting tested after the window period, but the waiting is honestly the hardest part. Just wondering if anyone else’s health anxiety is fixated on something right now too.


r/Anxietyhelp 4h ago

Need Advice Heart Attack VS Stroke VS Panic Attack

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r/Anxietyhelp 2h ago

Need Help Been in a state of anxiety for nearly three weeks- dunno what to do anymore

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I've always had terrible anxiety, for as long as I can remember, but this is some of the worst I've ever felt. I don't know why, or what started it, but about three weeks ago I couldn't sleep because I just kept thinking about the fact that one day, I'm going to die. My partner is going to die, so will my parents. And I got cold and shaky and overwhelmed in the way I always have in the past when I think about it all a little too hard. But it. Hasn't. Stopped. Normally I'm fine by the next morning. It's been nearly three weeks. I'm mostly okay during the day, mostly (except I'm scared of near everything giving me cancer, or being a sign that I already have cancer, more than normal), but it gets bad as soon as the sun starts to set. I can't sleep until the sun is up, so I've basically become nocturnal (shoutout being unemployed and not in school atm so. Not as bad as it could be) and that's... Not ideal. I can't really watch or read anything that has any sort of themes that are related to mortality like, at all, so I've literally been playing animal crossing and watching MLP until the sun rises and then sleeping until late afternoon. I'm on meds, I'm taking them, but nothing is really helping. Does anyone have any idea how to help, I'm getting desperate


r/Anxietyhelp 2h ago

Need Advice anxiety randomly making me feel like i ran a mile and the feeling lasts forever

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Been happening the most in the mornings but my anxiety makes me feel the feeling after running a mile after you’ve finally caught your breath but you can still feel it in your chest. my physically body also just feels exhausted just the same, like i’m struggling to put 1 foot in front of the other, bc my whole body just feels worn out.

dos anybody experience this and now how to deal with it?


r/Anxietyhelp 14h ago

Need Help Anxiety affecting my sleep

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I’m writing this as I am currently coming off of one of the worst sleeps I’ve had lol. The title is sort of what it is, is that when I have things that I know I need to get done or things that are just on mind, no matter how much I tell myself that I will get it done or that I don’t need to worry about it, my anxiety still goes through the roof. When I first go to sleep, I usually feel fine because I tell myself that everything is fine and that I don’t need to worry but then I guess my subconscious after a couple of hours tells me otherwise because I’ll wake up with my heart racing and head pounding, and sick feeling in my stomach that doesn’t allow me to sleep soundly again or sometimes even go back to sleep.

So I’m sort of just wondering if there is anything I can do to sort of help myself lower my anxiety or just reduce this from happening because it makes it so difficult to do anything in the day after with the way it leaves me feeling.


r/Anxietyhelp 13h ago

Need Advice What do you want to do so bad that absolutely terrifies you??

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I have chronic vestibular migraines with bad anxiety. I want to go on a beach vacation so bad. But it scares the living hell out of me to get through the airport to get an Uber to get to where I need to go. And all out spend my vacation by myself making all the decisions by myself.


r/Anxietyhelp 7h ago

Need Advice Is this GERD, or is my health anxiety creating it? A month-long journey and a strange thing that happened tonight

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r/Anxietyhelp 7h ago

Need Advice I feel completely discarded by everyone (and have been my whole life)

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r/Anxietyhelp 8h ago

Discussion Have you seen anyone in your life cured from excessive anxiety?

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r/Anxietyhelp 9h ago

Need Help Anxiety, panic and endoscopy?

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Has anyone with anxiety, panic, pvc, pac gone through an endoscopy (with sedation)?
Please share your experience and safety regarding that!


r/Anxietyhelp 9h ago

Need Advice Non-medication Tips/vent

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I recently left a toxic job that I think, over time, really wrecked my nervous system. For the last year ish I have had really bad anxiety/OCD thoughts and tendencies. Mine is specifically health related (heart palpations, overanalyzing every feeling), but I can remember a time where I did not feel like this. When I am distracted, I do not have the symptoms, which leads me to believe it is anxiety related. Has anyone else felt something similar to this? I know everyone's body reacts to stress differently but it is like I cannot just calm down. Coloring and relaxing helps, but I am looking for other recommendations to help calm me down when I feel the symptoms come up. I just want to feel like my old self again!


r/Anxietyhelp 11h ago

Need Advice Began experimenting in college and now my social anxiety is really bad

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Title is pretty self explanatory, i just started experimenting with different things like mdma, shrooms, that sort of thing this summer with a bunch of my friends that I’ve been raving with for years, but I’m about to go back this fall for my junior year at my SEC school that’s pretty conservative about this kind of stuff.

Before I began experimenting, I would hear of people doing cocaine here and when u heard of someone doing it, it was incredibly frowned upon and was “big news”. Granted I know of a bunch of people that do shrooms here, smoke a lot of weed, lots of people have drinking problems, but coming back to school after going to all of my raves this summer I have a lot of anxiety.

When I’m with my friends and in the rave scene, I’m pretty comfortable because people don’t judge u there, but going back to school for some reason I feel like everyone’s gonna be looking at me with a giant sign that says I do drugs on my back.

I guess this anxiety really is honestly ramping up because I just took a few friends from college who don’t really rave to a wooli show because they’ve been telling me they wanted to go to one of these things for a while, and I asked them if they wanted to try any of the things I had, and they said no, but the way they said it kind of threw me off, and then later in the night I asked if they wanted to go to afters and they again turned it down but they seemed kind of uncomfortable in the way they said it despite seeming like they had a super fun time throughout the night.

I’ve never dealt with this kind of anxiety before, because usually I don’t care what others think, I mean this is my life not theirs why would I limit my experiences because of a select few people’s judgement, but now that I’m actually going back knowing people from my school have been talking about my festival and rave goings (my Instagram stories always get 100+ reshares when I post me at them, but there’s never any suspicious behavior in the videos) I feel like everyone’s gonna think something bad of me or I’m gonna feel isolated from groups.


r/Anxietyhelp 12h ago

Need Help How do I help my boyfriend?

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r/Anxietyhelp 16h ago

Need Help Panic and Heartbeat

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r/Anxietyhelp 1d ago

Discussion Anyone been anxious their whole life and have a terrible appetite?

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r/Anxietyhelp 1d ago

Personal Experience Thinking of people around me as NPCs has helped my anxiety a LOT when I’m out in public.

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I have issues with thinking people are judging me in public, even for very minor things like getting gas, and lately I’ve been thinking of people as NPCs in a game and it’s helped shape them in my head as just people passing by…strange but very helpful to me.


r/Anxietyhelp 21h ago

Need Help Suffocating

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im still so anxious i dont know how to calm myself. i did everything i was told. my anxiety is because of my upcoming exam. im behind amd i made myself a new plan to prepare and i even went back to my parents home befause i felt lonely and i thought i would feel less anxious being woth my family, but im still so anxious, which is kinda distracting when studying. i just dont know what to do anymore


r/Anxietyhelp 23h ago

Need Advice I need advice if I should get a restraining order against my sister and dad

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r/Anxietyhelp 1d ago

Need Advice Anxiety

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Hi, this for all seniors and peers, I really need help. I have my unis in 10 days and i cannot stop being anxious. I know a lot of people date during med school and im one of them, have been dating since the past two years, the last year was ldr and this year he’s moved to a new college in mumbai and the class ratio of girls to boys is well 53 girls 7 guys, and 6 of those guys look and talk like shit. I hope you see where im getting with this. I keep spending my time trying to feel better and distract myself and i just cant study, i feel so bad because ive done well throughout the year and i dont want this to change anything. This is more emotional than related to studying to be honest but i need to learn how to be more secure or maybe i need to learn how to sit with it all and still continue working, i know this seems like a minor issue to a lot of you reading this but trust me its not, that guy is my only friend,ever. Hes been my backbone.


r/Anxietyhelp 1d ago

Need Help Anxiety

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r/Anxietyhelp 1d ago

Article How do people not worry about this

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I've been dealing with anxiety for the last five years. The world feels completely insane. A pandemic, multiple wars, old men fighting over who gets to run the world, new viruses popping up every other year... So this is what adulthood is supposed to be? You're expected to understand all this chaos while also planning a future, thinking about having a family and kids, and deciding where to go on vacation. Nothing feels stable yet you're still supposed to make life-changing decisions because if not now, then when? Sometimes I talk to people and realize they have no idea what's going on in the world. Honestly, I'm kind of jealous of that.