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r/thegildedage • u/WillowSwarm • Aug 10 '25
Episode Discussion The Gilded Age Season 3 Episode 8 Discussion Thread Spoiler
Despite objections from Mrs. Astor, Bertha finalizes the quest list for the ball - and finally faces the fallout of her actions. Meanwhile, Dr. Kirkland makes a decision about his future with Peggy. Oscar reunites with a previous ally, and Marian struggles to move forward.
r/thegildedage • u/Candid-Ramoomo • 1d ago
Speculation Bridget and Jack Storyline
I really hope we get the storyline of Bridget and Jack getting together then the couple transitioning to becoming new money. I was kind of disappointed that we didn’t see that much of Backstory with Bertha and George’s story but if they decide to pick Jack and Bridget for this storyline then that would be so cool because we’ve seen the both of them start as servants then slowly became one of the important figures in society 😭
r/thegildedage • u/RedMeme262 • 2d ago
Season 3 Discussion Really missing this show this summer!
Season 3 was such a vibe last summer, I looked forward to my Sunday evenings all week with you fine people with unbelievable anticipation - speculating what was going to happen next, how the Duke would be as a husband, would Larian finally be officially together, what would happen to George, etc.
Nothing else is coming close this summer, though I did find The Hardacres scratched a bit of the itch. Looking forward to season 4, and getting back to the episode discussion threads with you all!
That's all, just nostalgic for last years "season"!
r/thegildedage • u/bmnntdd • 3d ago
Speculation Violet Crawley would 100% know Gladys (Duchess of Buckingham)
galleryI'm new to reddit so hopefully this hasn't been talked to death.
Julian Fellowes said the shows take place in the same universe.
Violet Crawley was born in the 1840's making her in the 1880's be in her mid 40's
In Downton the characters routinely say Lady Mary is practically a clone of her grandmother Violet. (I concede this may just be about her personality but with some good wig action we could sell it.)
Michelle Dockery who plays Mary is currently in her mid 40's.
Gladys married the Duke of Buckingham, becoming the Duchess of Buckingham.
Violet Crawley would've been far under her rank as Countess of Grantham.
There's no conceivable way they wouldn't know each other.
WHY hasn't Julian Fellowes given us young Violet in her feisty sharp-tongued prime???
Hoping Gladys' UK storyline is partially for this reason.
r/thegildedage • u/TheBlackRecord • 3d ago
IRL History The Direct Descendants Of Historic Black American Elite Dynasties Today: R.H. Boyd & The Boyd Family...
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R.H. Boyd & The Boyd Family Dynasty: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/R._H._Boyd
r/thegildedage • u/TheBlackRecord • 5d ago
BTS The Gilded Age On Set - Summer 2026. Photographs by Claire Sefcovic...
galleryr/thegildedage • u/JoanFromLegal • 5d ago
Meme AITA for trying to protect my son's reputation and that of our family?
My (F50-ish) son (25) is a doctor with a respectable practice in our community. His father/my husband (M50-ish) is a pastor.
My son recently began courting a young lady who I think is very unsuitable for him. She's a nice enough girl but she's one of those "modern" girls, more interested in suffrage than in fulfilling their God given duty to their homes and husbands. Too ambitious, reads for fun, that type.
Well, I recently found out from a good friend of mine in Philadelphia, where this young lady (if she can still be called that) lived that she had a son!? Possibly out of wedlock!? Our family is a pillar of our very small community, and my son simply can't be seen in the company of a loose and fallen woman.
So I did what any sensible mother does. I told my son and encouraged him to break things off. Cut her loose. There's no way she can possibly become part of our highly regarded, highly respectable family.
And do you know what that ungrateful child did? He proposed to that woman and now he won't speak to me! Says I slandered her reputation spreading falsities about her past. She was married when the child was born. Her father tricked her into believing the child was dead and made her former husband sign an annulment.
As if that changes anything. Annulment or no, that woman is simply not good enough for my boy.
AITA?
r/thegildedage • u/TheBlackRecord • 5d ago
Video Denee Benton Using Her Platform For Such Good!
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r/thegildedage • u/NotYetHun • 5d ago
Question Butler’s wages
How much do you think a butler of a large house like the Russell’s got paid?
r/thegildedage • u/Tyty-boo2011 • 5d ago
Rant I want to see Aunt Agnes petting Pumpkin too! Marian and Oscar get so much emotional support from him, Aunt Agnes needs some as well!
r/thegildedage • u/Totallovestrucksimp • 5d ago
Meme AITA for protecting my fiancée?
So last summer I(24?) proposed my girlfriend(23?) of a few months and she said yes (for the record, we knew each other for years before we started dating.) It’s was a wonderful, beautiful proposal and it couldn’t have gone better. The thing is though, I had plans that night to celebrate a friend’s engagement at a kind of sketchy establishment so we couldn’t celebrate together. I also had to leave for a month the next day for a work trip and couldn’t be contacted for a while.
Here’s where things get a little tricky; my fiancé has had some trust issues in the past with men, and I didn’t want to think I was cheating on her. So I told her we were just dining at a restaurant nearby (plus, her aunts were in the room, I didn’t exactly want to tell my future in-laws where I was going) and I figured that was that.
So imagine my surprise when I come back from my trip to find a letter from her calling the engagement off! No explanations, no reason why, just ending it out of nowhere. She wouldn’t respond to my messages and her family wouldn’t let me into her house. I eventually had to go to her job to talk to her, that’s when I found out the reason.
Apparently a mutual friend of ours that I invited to the party told her the truth, and she got furious and ended things. I tried to tell her that nothing happened but it didn’t believe me, and she ended it there.
And then things took a turn. There was an accident at my house (for personal reasons I won’t get into what it was) and my ex-finance came over to help. We ended up talking about the situation. She said our mutual friend explained the situation better and that she now believes that I didn’t cheat on her. But then I told her that I don’t want to be with a girl who doesn’t trust me.
Now I’m questioning whether or not we’re a good match. I don’t want to be with a girl who doesn’t trust me and just shuts me out when she’s upset with me. Should I end it for good, or should we patch things up?
AITA?
r/thegildedage • u/3headeddragn • 5d ago
Downton Abbey I would love to see a Violet Crawley/Bertha Russell interaction in Gilded Age
Like let’s say Gladys becomes friends with a young Cora leading to a Bertha/Violet confrontation when Bertha comes to visit Gladys in England.
Just feels like a goldmine for character conflict.
r/thegildedage • u/Willowy • 5d ago
IRL History The Breakers
They mention TGA filming here. I just recently ran across this guy, and he does a great job combining the grandeur and craft details of the home, but also the history of the Vanderbilt family and the area. It's probably the most comprehensive and the most impressive tour of The Breakers that I've seen.
Apologies if this kid is old news, since I just discovered him I wanted to share.
r/thegildedage • u/swimbikesewknit • 6d ago
Actor Fluff I was today years old when…
I learned that the actor who portrays Oscar is 48 years old. I’m sorry WHAT? He looks exactly the same in Emma (2009) as he does in the last season of the gilded age. I’ll have whatever he is having.
r/thegildedage • u/TheBlackRecord • 8d ago
IRL History Black American Dynasties: Robert Curry Owens - the grandson of Biddy Mason, known as the 'Grandmother Of Los Angeles'. This pioneer, land owning dynasty was the wealthiest Black family on the West Coast - establishing themselves in the 1860s - and owning and developing entire LA city blocks....
galleryr/thegildedage • u/getrealbabe • 8d ago
Question My ideal Gilded Age Larry and Marian story: who cares about a duke when you can groom a future president.. nursery wars
1. Marian & Larry's "Will They / Won't They" Marian and Larry need to just get married already; the endless back-and-forth is now tiresome.
- The Nursery Drama & "Who Needs a Duke?" The drama should move over to the nursery. A baby boy, .who needs a Duke when you can groom a future President?
3 . Agnes vs. Bertha: The Ultimate Baby Battle- Agnes and Bertha fight over how to raise this baby boy, and push Marian into charity work to keep her busy. Agnes wants strict, old-school Knickerbocker etiquette, classic values, and proper old-money modesty. Bertha wants the child draped in French silk, tutored by international scholars, and groomed for global dominance. With Marian sidelined into endless charity committee meetings, the grandmothers can duke it out is incredibly in-character for both of them.
- Grooming a potential President The baby has all the opportunities for a future president. the background, the drive, and the heart. By combining these two powerhouse families, this baby boy actually becomes the ultimate American hybrid. (Old Money Pedigree): Through Marian and Agnes, he traditional establishment can't look down on him because his roots trace back to the founding elite. The Drive (New Money Power): Through Bertha, he has the backing of the Russell empire, endless resources and the ruthless political maneuvering that Bertha thrives on. And he will have Marian and Larry’s compassion… a future FDR. The goal gives both Agnes and Bertha that ultimate power play.
r/thegildedage • u/Just_Lale • 10d ago
Season 3 Discussion I love Marian and Oscar siblingcore
galleryI think they are giving more brother/sister relationship than cousins and I love that.
Everybody obsess over which ship is their favorite meanwhile I'm excited to Marian and Oscar's siblingcore.
r/thegildedage • u/Swiftie13_22 • 11d ago
Spoiler Louisa’s Instagram Story Spoiler
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Louisa Posted this video on her story this morning from set. I want to know a release date for season 4 instead of coming fall 2026 😂
r/thegildedage • u/Cold-Ad5806 • 13d ago
Season 3 Discussion S3E6: Bertha & Gladys
Rewatching the series and while Bertha frustrated me in how she went about marrying off Gladys, I liked watching their dynamic when she visits Gladys. She seems to assert herself where needed but also gives space for Gladys to also assert herself and to exercise her role. She stays silent where needed in group conversations to allow Gladys to speak up for herself. I loved watching the dynamic of Bertha showing her how to do it and empowering Gladys to do the same. Maybe its something small but I feel like it demonstrates at the end of the day her intention as a mother. Idk! So complex and amazing! 😊
r/thegildedage • u/Fun_Worth_6543 • 13d ago
Season 3 Discussion Just finished the series for the first time! Thoughts + Will there be more ?!
I recently started watching TGA because it was on Delta Airlines in-flight service when I was flying US to UK. Oh my god, I was hooked! And have since binge watched the whole lot.
- Favourite storylines - Jack!! I love the scene where he and Marion are viewing a new house! And obviously any scene that has Bertha and or Gladys in 🤣
- Have to admit to not understanding much of the “George and railways business talks” scenes, but then I’m not American so don’t understand much of the history behind this.
- Major goosebumps in that last episode of S2 (I think??) with the contrasting opera house performances. The music and score in that scene was sooooo tense and brilliantly edited !
- OBVIOUSLY the costumes !!! Marion has the prettiest costumes for sure, but obviously Bertha is always a highlight too.
- I love how it’s very classic Fellowes style writing just as Downton was, in that there is no particular “one main character”. But I do think some of the downstairs characters could have their history fleshed out a bit more.
- Most importantly …. Is there going to be any more ?! They can’t leave it like that !!
r/thegildedage • u/tryin2immigrate • 14d ago
News Emmy list of nominees 8 nominations
The Gilded Age
OUTSTANDING PRODUCTION DESIGN FOR A NARRATIVE PERIOD OR FANTASY PROGRAM (ONE HOUR OR MORE)
Bob Shaw
Production Designer
Larry W. Brown
Supervising Art Director
Jennifer Alex Nickason
Set Decorator
OUTSTANDING PERIOD COSTUMES
Kasia Walicka Maimone
Costume Designer
Denise Andres
Costume Supervisor
Rebecca Levin
Costume Supervisor
Isabelle Simone
Associate Costume Designer
Rebecca Freund
Associate Costume Designer
Sue Bakula
Head of Workroom
OUTSTANDING DIRECTING FOR A DRAMA SERIES
Salli Richardson Whitfield for season finale
OUTSTANDING PERIOD OR FANTASY/SCI-FI HAIRSTYLING
Sean Flanigan
Department Head Hairstylist
Christine Fennell Harlan
Co-Department Head Hairstylist
Jonathan Zane-Sharpless
Key Hairstylist
Tim Harvey
Key Hairstylist
Aaron M. Kinchen
Key Hairstylist
Anika Seitu
Hairstylist
OUTSTANDING PERIOD OR FANTASY/SCI-FI MAKEUP (NON-PROSTHETIC)
Nicki Ledermann
Department Head Makeup Artist
Anette Lian-Williams
Key Makeup Artist
Jane DiPersio
Key Makeup Artist
Emily Maitland Marroquin
Key Makeup Artist
Mareike Mohmand
Key Makeup Artist
OUTSTANDING LEAD ACTRESS IN A DRAMA SERIES
Carrie Coon
OUTSTANDING GUEST ACTRESS IN A DRAMA SERIES
Merritt Wever
OUTSTANDING DRAMA SERIES Julian Fellowes, Executive Producer
Gareth Neame, Executive Producer
David Crockett, Executive Producer
Michael Engler, Executive Producer
Sonja Warfield, Executive Producer
Salli Richardson-Whitfield, Executive Producer
Robert Greenblatt, Executive Producer
Erica Armstrong Dunbar, Co-Executive Producer
Claire M. Shanley, Producer
Luke Harlan, Producer
Holly Rymon, Produced by
r/thegildedage • u/azeretez • 14d ago
Season 3 Discussion End of S3Ep3
I just finished watching Episode 3. How can anyone defend Bertha’s behavior after what she did to her daughter? When Gladys freezes upon seeing that Hector is back and the marriage is likely to happen, it's clear that everyone in the room is embarrassed or disgusted by the situation, including Hector. Only Bertha is pleased with her schemes. It's so messed up.
r/thegildedage • u/Worldliness_Fun • 13d ago
Rant Oh my god Ada is beyond annoying
OK, I know I’m super behind but I just started watching season one of the Gilded Age. I am so annoyed at cynthia Nixon and her portrayal of on Ada. Her meek, whiny, desperate disposition is so utterly hard to watch and it kind of reminds me of Miranda in sex in the city. Am I the only person who finds her so intolerable? I actually find her weak constitution bullshit to be insufferable and honestly laughable. Let me know your thoughts 😾😾😾😾😾😾
