r/rollerderby • u/coloralchemy • 4h ago
Team mate intoxicated/substance abuse issues
I have a team mate in my league who I know has relapsed hard in their life, and has previously expressed to me that roller derby is meant for them to stay sober. Though I respect people’s privacy and would not want to expose this to other people, they are also severely mistreating me and several other people. In watching them skate from a distance, I realized their coordination is off and feel so uncomfortable with not only their mood swings and impulsive verbal attacks, but also the fact that they’re intoxicated while playing with us all in this contact sport.
I want to focus on the behavior and impact it has, not their personal issues but am unsure how to navigate this problem in my team. They’re also frequently bringing up substance abuse during practices, and triggering people around them who are there for recovery.
This is a slippery slope for confronting them, I do not want to expose their drug use and make them lose possibly their only thread back to reality, would citing this result in their expulsion?