r/mentors • u/littlecocoabeans • 5h ago
Seeking 29 M4M Seattle WA - Seeking Mentorship!
Hey everyone,
I'm a 29-year-old guy who's been grinding through life with big dreams but keep hitting walls on actually achieving them. My main goal is to become a family medicine doctor one day. I love the idea of helping families, building long-term patient relationships, and making a real difference in communities. I've done a lot of research on the path — prereqs, MCAT, applications, etc. — but I keep stalling out. Whether it's motivation dips, life distractions, or just not knowing the smartest way to navigate this, I could really use some wisdom from someone who's been there.
I'm already in therapy working on my personal stuff (anxiety, executive dysfunction, the usual), but I'd love a positive male role model — an older, successful man who's built something meaningful and wouldn't mind sharing advice, maybe checking in occasionally, or offering perspective on balancing ambition with real life. I didn't have the best father figure growing up, so I know part of this is me seeking that stability and accountability. Laughing at myself a bit here, but it's honest.
If you're in medicine, business, finance, or just a high-achiever who's mentored people before, I'd be incredibly grateful for any time or insight. Bonus if you're willing to talk long-term helping me think through funding the journey (med school is no joke), smart investments, or strategies to actually make this dream sustainable. I'm hardworking, coachable, and ready to put in the effort if I have the right support.
Not looking for handouts, just real guidance from someone who's made it and wants to pay it forward. DM me if this resonates and we can chat more.
Thanks for reading — means a lot.