I wasn't even looking for a relationship, but then I met someone who wanted one. The effort was there, the consistency was there, the sweet words were there... so I thought, "Okay, let's give this a shot."

Then we got into a relationship and it was like he unlocked the achievement and put the controller down. 💀 Suddenly everything was on low-power mode.

My friend and I were talking about it because neither of us has ever believed in playing hard to get. If we like someone, we just like them. We enjoy good conversations, matching energy, and being intentional, it just feels natural.

Men, what actually changes once you're in a relationship?

I used to be able to get along with my batch mates but now they seem to look down on me and would like to have no business with me.

A couple of years ago, I decided to to focus on self improvement and even got to transfer schools but my decision to fix myself seem to only made me lonely. I no longer conform to my classmates who have no purpose, loves degenerate things like drowning themselves in stimulation from short form contents to hooking up.

I do try to be agreeable but sometimes I have to do something important for my craft that I would usually do the minimum in school works which probably made them think I am dumb or what but in reality I have red and experienced more than half of them combined.

Summary:
I am on my last year in highschool and I am worried if college would be worse so please help me in my situation where my classmates look doen on me because I don’t conform to their ideals because I am focused on my purpose.

edit: I also don’t look like the soft boy ticktok guy which many in my school likes, I look more rugged. Maybe I don’t look good to them that is why they dont like me more?

i dont mind dms tho :)

(im a gir)