Sooo this is what i was afraid would happen, gave my phone number out to a guy like an idiot and now he’s threatening to post everything. I’m not worried about it getting sent to my personal friends and family however i AM kinda worried about it possibly resulting in me getting fired what should i do here?

A few years ago, a guy randomly sent me a picture of his ass; he was bent over on the couch, and his ass was spread open. It had cysts and bumps on it and looked gross. I told him that's the grossest thing i ever saw in my life, and delete that.

Recently a guy messaged me, and he had very black, enlarged nipples/areola area. It freaked me out; I kindly told him I wasn't interested.

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My name isn't Matt and my face isn't visible so he didn't recognize me as looking like a Matt.

For reference, passable top tgirls here charge 1,000+ (Toronto) an hour.

My profile cheekily says "if you want a discrete encounter, I want a rog strix 5080" to convey that I don't do that stuff and no one can afford to make me strip away my morals.

Grindr seems to be locking received messages behind paywall now. This is a new low. Time to leave this (cr)app.

So i was messaging this dude on grindr and he asked for my phone number, because i’m stupid i gave it to him and he immediately blocked me, his profile wasn’t blank so his information seemed legit but i am worried about the information he could possibly get from me with just my phone number, should i be worried about this or am i overthinking this entirely. I’m planning on locking myself in the apartment when i get home and playing it safe the next couple weeks.

How is this kind in any way? To me, this is exactly the kind of attitude that makes parts of the gay scene feel so toxic. It’s frustrating how unrealistic and appearance-focused the standards have become, to the point where they often feel completely detached from reality.

I have absolutely no idea who this is, I’ve never talked to him before, yet I woke up to this message on Grindr. All I really gave him was a couple paragraphs of words of encouragement and a pic full of details of the LGBTQ/Suicide Hotlines info. It was very unexpected and grim, I don’t know why a stranger chose to message me something this serious, but I just very much hope my words made some kind of positive impact to him as he never replied back to me even when he’s been active online. And all I can say otherwise is to please seek professional help if you struggle with your mental health to such a serious extent, and to speak out to those you love and trust about what you’ve been struggling with as they’d much rather hear about your problems than hear about your death. Please take care of each other within our community. It already can be very difficult and stressful as is with so much going on in the world.

There is no argument that is worth having on grindr. It's a hookup app. You aren't going to hook up with someone you're fighting with on grindr. If it's someone who you are mad is not responding to you, arguing with them is absolutely pathetic. You're basically begging for sex from someone who thinks you are disgusting.

If you are the person taking the bait and arguing with someone you think is disgusting, you're just feeding their pathetic insecurity and wasting time.

Talking on grindr is supposed to serve one purpose. Planning a hookup.

If someone doesn't respond to your face pic, there is no need to send a question mark. There's no question lingering in the ether that hasn't already been answered by his silence. He thinks you're fucking ugly and his penis will not work if that face is in his presence. This is really simple stuff guys. Please accept reality and keep things professional and efficient.

Oggi stavo provando a fare il right now e mi dice che devo pagare

As time goes on my hookups are more rare, but often come in pairs (at least I hope, since the last one was sorta meh)

Anyone else experience this?

These are people who I have not tapped, messaged, never viewed, etc. Suddenly, they view me, even if I've been incognito for days.

Anyone know what could be going on, other than "Grindr is shit"?

Anybody else notice when they search different cities they all have profiles from Luca, Logan, Asher and some other profiles are consistently showing up? What gives? I assume these are all bot/fake profiles? Just wondering

I got a message from someone I was chatting with to see if I was interested in a party with multiple people, and they wanted to email me details. My suspicions were quickly up, so I sent my spam email that doesn’t have my real name attached to it. This whole thing rubs me the wrong way.

Now after reading it I am extremely suspicious but I am very new to this world, so I wanted to post it here to confirm. Certainly not opposed to verification, but everything about this screams scam to me

Ive been trying to create an account but when i do it says my account is banned. Ive tried multiple emails but no matter what i do it says “unable to create account” and this comes up. Ive never used Grindr before and only turned 18 this year in april. Ive been unable to get through to their support but i cant. Is there anything i can do or is it just time to give up.

this is the average interaction i get from anyone that doesn't post “hey” and a dick pic. im just kinda over it. 🙃

you like muscular guy with 50% chance of ai pics and a heap of crazy? i got that on deck.