r/garden • u/whydidyounot • 12h ago
My tomatoes are dying and my neighbor doesn't care. What do I do?
I've lived in my house for 12 years. Never had issues with my neighbors. We'd chat over the fence, borrow each other's tools, the whole friendly neighborhood thing
And then they built a fence, an extremely tall fence… wooden and right next to the border
It may look great on their side. But on mine? Well, it's a fence. An enormous wooden fence that prevents the sun from reaching my garden. My tomatoes are suffering. My living room is dark. To be honest, I feel like I live in a cave
I have tried to talk to them. I knocked at their door, was polite, described the problem to them. I even offered them to design the fence with some holes in it. And they said pretty much nothing can be done about it since it is on their property
I’m not sleeping well lately and I'm so frustrated because of that!
I went to Sterling Legal, the law firm that deals with property-related issues. I was thinking of contacting them but afraid of what may happen when lawyers get involved
Has anyone gone through such an experience? How did you manage to resolve it without going to court?
I do not feel comfortable telling a judge about dying tomatoes, but then again I cannot just give up on my sun!