For some context, I've known this girl since late last year. We started dating early this year, and when she came to visit, what was supposed to be a one week stay ended up turning into 2 months.

Before she came, I wasn't doing badly financially. I had a few income streams and some promising deals were in the works. However, about 2 weeks into her stay, everything started going downhill. One by one, my income sources began drying up, the deals I was expecting fell through and it felt like the universe was working against me. Things seemed to get worse with each passing day.

Now this idea 2st came around last week when I was away for 5 days. The same day I left home I got a pretty good deal, that was to run for a week but it started going south the same day I came back!

Then, the other day, I had another deal lined up with some guys. These are people I've successfully worked with before, but for some reason, the deal completely fell apart, despite it being a very simple thing.

Now I'm left wondering: is it really possible that some people come into your life and bring good fortune, while others somehow bring misfortune? Or am I just making connections where none exist because of everything that's been happening?

If people really can have that kind of effect, are they usually aware of it? Where would something like that even come from? Is it something they can control, or is it completely outside their awareness?

I'd really like to hear your thoughts or experiences.

For 7 years now, I’ve been conducting mini “experiments” with just music.

Maybe this is common knowledge for you all, but I find it very interested.

Instead of making this super long, here’s what I’ve realized.

Listening to high spirited, high energy, enthusiastic music brought about real shifts in not only the way people treated me in real life, but also seemed to affect the environment. What I am saying is, when high “vibration” or energy music is listened to, it creates a more open expanded aura, bringing in more people to your “auric” bubble.

Listening to hard rap/hip hop, etc…this brought more chaotic situations in my bubble

This one is interesting: listening to…sensual music. For example, certain songs by The Weeknd, particularly, had women come into my bubble and in some cases even approach me.

This is very random take and I may face backlash for this but I wanted to share it anyway.

This effect is far more profound when in fasted state because the vessel is clear of dense energetic residue after some days of not eating and clearing out the system, and its way more fun to experiment in this state.

Honestly dealing with years of repressed rage that I’ve swept under the rug for too long. How do I manage it work with it without letting it consume me and completely take me over? THANKS

I can embody archetypes like a Leo sun through basic understandings of energy for example, I’m wondering more so in general that once your astrology and numerology archetypes are identified, can’t you go beyond the “constraints” through use of free will and self-development?

I am in a busy city in an apartment with a shared bedroom, absorbing so much energy everyday. Help!!!

i’m in need of some advice from others that have gone through similar experiences so i can give myself the tools and resources to assist with what i’m experiencing atm.

BACKGROUND: i’ve moved across the country into a larger, busier city for the first time and it’s been a major adjustment.

ive lived in a quieter neighborhood all my life with my own space to come home to and cleanse/purify my energy, sometimes spending days/weeks alone with the exception of work, and spending time with my partner & friends occasionally. i am a psychic and a medium, and am extremely sensitive to my environment and others energy.

i have moved in with my partner into a one bedroom apartment right beside a major highway and i am strugglinggggg here. my savior of solitude and quiet (to keep me sane because i literally absorb and feel the emotions of everyone around me) is gone!

i feel like i can only do one thing a day outside of work (walk my dog, go grocery shopping) even though i want to explore where i live so badly. when i leave the house and go drive across town and back, my energy is completely depleted and i feel like i have mud or heavy sleeves on my legs and arms (which is others energy that i can physically feel). this sticky heavy feeling combined with exhaustion is sending me into a spiral. along with the highway noise i experience and the people i am running into all the time in my apartment building.

because i don’t have my own space to recharge, and i feel like i can’t exist like a literal normal human being without my energy plummeting, i am getting down in the dumps. i have a therapist. it’s fine. but i need some advice on how i can help myself energetically in a city, interacting with people all of the time.

my lease isn’t up for 3 months, so moving isn’t an option right now. i want more ways to feel like myself and energized despite the situation i am in. how do you protect and cleanse yourself in a large city? how do you purify your energy without your own space to retreat too? i would like to feel like myself again😊

I saw a psychic in June and he said I need to go through a death and rebirth and become more confident and step into my power. A month after the reading I developed diarrhea for two weeks (still going on). Obviously I am seeing a doctor but I feel I am purging a lot of old energy during my death and rebirth.

Has this happened to anyone else? I feel like I really am purging a lot of old energy and stepping into my more confident self.