I will never understand how it is humanly possible for people to be so unbelievably stupid to a point where they think that it is okay to swerve in and out of lanes of traffic all while driving at a high speed.

I was on the highway today and out of no where, some black suv comes flying through traffic and cuts through 3 different lanes at once (while going at least 100mph). Anyways, the driver of the black suv almost caused a bad accident as I witnessed someone in the right lane have to swerve onto the shoulder just to avoid being hit by them.

I see this type of behavior quite frequently (especially on TikTok when ppl post themselves cutting up in traffic🥀) and it makes me sick to my stomach because this is how innocent people that are just minding their business on the road (probably just trying to get home to their family), end up being involved in a serious accident caused by a dumbass that drives like this, and ultimately end up losing their life.

It seems that many people forget that having a license is a privilege and that it shouldn’t be abused.

I've been thinking about my driving (and even my walking) habits lately, and I'm wondering if there's a psychological explanation for them. I'm not trying to justify speeding because I know it's irresponsible. I'm just trying to understand why it happens, because I don't think it comes from a lack of responsibility or an ego thing like most of my colleagues say.

I'm a part time professional driver or a chauffeur as some would call it. Whenever I'm on a clear regional road, I naturally end up around 10-20 km/h over the limit, and on highways I'll usually sit about 20-40 km/h over if the passing lane is open. I also hate having a car directly in front of me. If someone's doing the speed limit, I almost feel compelled to overtake them so I can get back to my own pace. I feel like they are slowing me down. The weird part is, if someone's already driving at the same speed as me or higher, I have no urge to pass or chase them. I don't care about being the fastest car on the road, I just feel the urge to maintain a certain pace.

It's almost like my brain gets tired if I'm stuck behind slower traffic for too long. I actually start feeling sleepy or less focused. On the other hand, I have no issue sticking to the speed limit in school zones or residential areas because somehow there I actually become conscious that my actions could hurt someone. It's mainly the long, open roads where I feel this constant need to go faster.

I've noticed I do the exact same thing when I'm walking. If people are walking slower than my natural pace, I'll instinctively weave through gaps or go around them just to keep moving at the speed that feels comfortable.

Has anyone else experienced this? Is it possible that it could be a psychological thing rather than just a bad habit and could it likely require professional help?

NB: I am not encouraging speeding or justifying it, just looking for maybe a reason as to why it happens. Also, my apologies if this is the wrong sub or flair.

You can't just drive like an asshole and commit traffic crimes without consequences, I don't care who you are. First I will memorize your car and license plate, then I will make sure you're not driving away (which is a hit and run with enhanced consequences), then I'm coming out video recording you, the damage to my car, and damage to your own (evidence you hit me). Then I'm getting your insurance information. Don't have it? Congratulations, that makes it worse for you. "Please dude, come on man, just let me go" no, driving like a dumbass has consequences. "Can't I just give you the $15 in my wallet?" Haha! Oh you're serious? Let me laugh even harder! If you damage my car, I will bring your entitled stupid ass back down to reality.

I live on a busy arterial road in South Burlington. I was always taught (in the UK) that one should never reverse out from a driveway or a minor road onto a major road. So with that in mind when I arrive home to park my car I reverse into my driveway so that my car will be pointing down the driveway towards the street; making my later exit much easier.

To undertake the reversing maneuver requires that I turn the car to be almost perpendicular with the sidewalk. That would then allow me to reverse directly into the driveway.

I always make sure I do this as quickly as possible to cause the least amount of inconvenience to other road users. It astounds me though that the vast majority of drivers using the lane nearest to my driveway find themselves unable to stop and allow me to make the maneuver. Sometimes I might get it a bit wrong and have to pull back into the street before reversing you again. The drivers I referred to do not stop. They just pull around in front of me. Why are they unable to stop for 5 seconds?

Like the past week I’ve had an Altima, a Camaro, a Tesla, a Corvette, AND a BMW all cruising and going slow asf in front of me when I know DAMN well those cars are pushing atleast 300 hp!!! I drive an Altima myself and Altimas are NOT slow cars!!!! uuggghh like IF U DONT FLOOR THAT MF!!!😡😡😡

I’ll honk after 2-3 seconds no matter how far back I am. A dozen cars or more to the beginning of the line? Absolutely, anytime, every-time.

I like when the person in front of me throws up their hands like there is nothing they can do. Yes there is, start honking so the people in front know it’s time to go. If you’re not also trying to get the line moving then you are a part of the problem.

Don’t accept complacency. Honk or be honked at. There is no middle ground for people sitting to long at a red light.

I was exiting a parking lot and needed to go right. I was waiting till oncoming traffic passed and it was okay to make my turn. Then I see the car (marked X) approaching with their right turn indicators on. I assumed that meant they were wanting to go into the same parking lot I was exiting from. So I made my turn. I got honked at and the lady gave me a stare down while passing. She had turned off her turning light, turned it on again and then made a right turn into another parking lot about 50 feet away (I’m guessing she turned on her turning lights prematurely). So was I wrong to have made that turn just based on the turning light from the approaching car? Should I have waited longer. To be honest there were no other cars behind me so it wasn’t like I was in a hurry to merge into traffic, I could have waited.

Edit: thanks guys. Looks like I was wrong to make my turn. I’ll be more patient and careful next time. I appreciate everyone’s input! :)

Edit2: I just checked on Google maps and my estimation of 50 feet seems wrong. There was a 3 way intersection with traffic lights and then another turn into a parking lot. This is where the lady ended up turning into. So definitely after a traffic light and more than 50 feet. She definitely signalled way too early. But I still realise I should have waited and not assumed anything. So it’s my fault here. Lesson learnt.

Edit3: I’m not defending myself with the previous edit. In conclusion, I was doubtful before when I put up this question but now I know for sure that I was wrong to assume and made a risky turn. I’m a new driver and really appreciate everyone’s experiences and advice. I’m happy to learn to be a better and more confident driver.

How do I stop doing this? no exaggeration I do this usually every single time I have to go more than one place. I go to the first place, but then instead of going to second place I just go home.. It's starting to actually piss me off. And today I actually said "okay, I'm done here, Now I need to go to the store and not fucking drive home again" and then I drove home.

I've had this problem since I got a car but I never used to make it ALL the way home. Like I would start going the wrong direction and be like oh shit. But now it seems like I'm just getting all the way home, sometimes walk all the way up to my apartment before I realize. My memory in general has been really bad lately.. but google said this is normal. so wondering what ya'll do if you had this issue.

The instructor wants me to accelerate by doing 1500 RPM and then clutch up. The problem is that I can't get it to 1500, its either 800 idling speed or 3000 RPM. Sorry, my foot is not yet any more precise than that.

So is it okay to accelerate with 3000 revs before moving the clutch up, or do I really need to master the gas pedal first?

For the purpose of my driving lessons and passing the exam.

I know I could do the bitepoint first, then gas method but the instructor doesn't want me to use that method.

So within the instructors method I got 2 options: 1. Focus much on the gas pedal and try to control the revs, which inevitably makes me lose focus on the clutch pedal and then the engine stalls. That already happened multiple times. 2. Accept that the engine revs hard and just focus on the clutch. That may work and prevent stalling. But the revs would be high.

So I don't really know what the best thing to do is here.

My 17 year old son is behind the ball with driving. All his own doing by delaying the necessary requirements. Finally did his Driver's Ed & got his permit. Won't be able to get his license until just after his 18th bday with state guidelines. Here's the problem - he's terrifyingly bad!!! I'm not talking little rookie mistakes. I mean a public safety hazard! I've had him drive around a mostly empty college campus a few times. Doesn't stop or yield at the end of parking lot lanes OR even so much as look in either direction for cars, bikers or pedestrians. Just goes. Fortunately, again, mostly empty campus, but he's been scolded & told to treat it as if it's not. No improvements. When making right hand turns, he goes into what would be oncoming traffic instead of staying in his/the right lane. Stops 2 car lengths back from stop signs at intersections. If he doesn't stop that far back, he's giving me whiplash with an abrupt stop at a low speed. Can't park the car to save his life. If there were cars parked in either spot surrounding, he'd run the front bumper into the side of the already parked car and/or run the side of my car along the bumper of the parked car. Let him drive on a low speed (35 mph) 2 lane road close to home. Almost put my car in the ditch twice bc he was afraid of oncoming traffic, eventhough everyone was well within their lane. Someone please tell me this gets better!!!! Any advice or tips? I stay as calm as any one person can. But my blood pressure is through the roof while I'm doing the best I can to teach him. Maybe I'm a different breed bc my parents had us driving as kids on backroads & such. Different times, I know. I just feel like many things should be common sense or easily learned in a few short drive sessions. But nothing seems to be registering or getting any better.

My driving instructor taught me this parallel parking method. Essentially, I'm supposed to drive up to the car on the side of the road until my mirror is at the middle of the car next to me, then turn the wheel all the way to the right. I back up until my mirror is aligned with their back light, then turn one to the right, back up until I can see a "triangle" in my right mirror, and then turn all the way to the right until I'm aligned with the curb.

I can't seem to always get the feel for it, and I'm not really sure what I'm supposed to be looking for in my mirrors. Everyone keeps telling me I'll just get the feel for it eventually, but something's not clicking for me.

I don't want to try a new method since this is the only one I've ever tried, but does anyone use this method that has any tips for me? Is there a video I could watch that uses this method? Help!

Other info: I'm in the USA, I've got my driving test coming up, and unfortunately I can't practice that much because I'm from NYC and no one I know owns a car, haha.

so, i recently got my learners license, nothing huge nothing crazy, but ive taken the bus for as long as i can remember, and whenever i had a phone and earbuds i would listen to music, but, i would always be able to freely change the song, playlist, whatnot, and i was thinking to myself, how do other people pick their music? do you guys make playlists? queue up a bunch of different genres? or do you just change the song while driving if you arent feeling it

It's the 2nd time after I was finishing crossing the street (a bit slower, simply felt like it, no reason cuz I can't move faster) and a guy at a normal speed (not fast, slow, normal), after leaving a circular intersection continues his normal speed while I finish the sidewalk... Is that a jerk move or it's normal for them to be like "this guy's finishing his crossing, why tf should I bother even slowing down", let alone stop a second and I start insulting his ass (probably didn't hear and wouldn't care)... Am I being a complete douchebag or is that an unwritten rule that the driver is kind of an inconsiderate POS?

Hello everyone. I know this question has been asked many times, but I just can't find something that helps me. Whenever I make a turn, whether it be wide, narrow, right, or left, I never know when to start turning or how much to steer. I've been told that I make turns too wide. I am fine with executing the end of a turn where I reverse the steering and get into proper position in the lane. It is just the initial steering into the lane that I struggle with heavily.

I have been learning to drive for the past month, and I have not improved at all. Friends have told me that I will develop better judgement with time, but I do not think that my judgement has improved at all. This is the only thing that I struggle with HEAVILY when driving. If anyone can give me any advice beyond learning this skill with time, I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you so much.

So Saturday night I was taken to a bar for my birthday. A lot of people were buying me shots and I stupidly wasn’t turning them down. By the time it was time to leave I was in a black out state and don’t remember walking out of the bar. I apparently got into my car and attempted to drive home. I woke up parked by my hometowns boat docks early in the morning. about 6 am. I 100% absolutely know i’m in the wrong for doing so. I don’t remember ever leaving. I remember being in the bar then waking up by the river. Do my friends that was with me care about me for letting it happen? I think at the very least I could have been followed because one friend mentioned I hopped in my car way too fast. I am just grateful I didn’t kill myself and more importantly anyone else in that situation. My friends seem to think they share no fault in letting me drive off or not following me to make sure I made it to wherever I was trying to go. What are your thoughts on this?

I decided on the SF Bay Area. I read on another subreddit that drivers are very polite and friendly there. So I have very high blood pressure due to the driving and drivers in my current location.

I want to say that i never had high blood pressure when I lived in Phoenix. It was so splendid and lovely there. I love and miss Phoenix and their lovely drivers.

I have health problems because I live in the most stressful metro area in the country and the meanest and most vile place too.

Moo la ah papa ya mama.

Cutting on the freeway as in coming up from behind you and getting in front of you in the same lane. Given, of course, that you are driving a reasonable speed for the roadway

The amount of time it happens is not a coincidence. Far to often Im driving and I am the last in a line of cars. There's a medium sized gap between me and the car ahead and someone squeezes right in. THERE IS NO ONE BEHIND ME! Why can't people wait one more car and then speed up to me. How often does this happen to other people?

Does anyone have knowledge of a past student receiving an email from the DVSA Counter Fraud Investigations team?
The email asks the student whether lessons were satisfactory, did they start/end on time?
Whether they would recommend me?Any issues with my behavior during lessons?
Has anyone else ever had a student receive something similar?
Any information or advice would be much appreciated.
Many thanks

Hi all I’m a new driver(still learning) and recently got a car, I’m hoping to get my license by the end of this month or mid next month. What is usually on the written exam for California? Also any tips or suggestions when driving? I have a lot of anxiety which is why I don’t have my license yet but I can’t afford to get Lyfts/ubers everywhere anymore.