I was raped by a girl who would constantly threaten to kill herself if I never responded to her texts or calls, played games with her, talked to her, or if I stopped being friends with her. Mind you, I only knew her for barely a month. After she found out I was moving to her state, to be closer to my now ex best friend, she said she wanted to meet the next morning after I would arrive. I said maybe, but still sent my address. Drove over 18 hrs, I was exhausted and I just wanted to sleep. She texted me throughout the night, saying how she loved me and how she wanted to be with me, etc etc. fast forward, we meet in the morning. She brought me gifts, gifts I have thrown away after she had left because of what she did to me.

I asked if I could kiss her, because I did initially like her. She said yes, so I kissed her cheek and asked if we could go to the movies now. She said no, then asked me to kiss her lips, I asked if she was sure, and she said yes. I asked maybe 4 more times, then after the final yes, I said okay and kissed her. That’s all I did. After, what 4 minutes of silence, she got into my lap and started kissing me heavily. I tried to push her off but she wrapped her arms around my neck, and wouldn’t let go. Then she changed the subject to how much she loved me and wanted me to be her gf. I said no because we just met and I’d rather not have sex. I’ve repeated this many times over text, phone. She started to take off her clothes and kept putting my hands onto her privates. I felt gross and kept asking if she was sure about all that, all while moving my hands away. She would ignore me and ask me out again, this went on for idk how long.

I remember every single detail. Long story short, she kept making do things to her by threatening to kill herself and would blame me if I didn’t do anything. I scrubbed my face, body after the movies, after she had left, and I still do it. I tried to ignore her and distance myself from her, but she would tell a mutual ex friend, older than both of us, that she’s in love with me but would understand if I didn’t like her. But to me, she’d threaten to kill herself and would blame me via text whenever I wouldn’t text back. It freaked me out a bit, so the guy told me to ask her out to see if she’d stop, it didn’t and she said to wait but she’d kill herself if I dated someone else. I figured if I made good on a promise to her and to many others, aka me going to an event with her, she’d stop.

She said some wild things about my ex best friends then said it was her autism and she has no control over herself. I corrected her and said she’s weird for saying those things, she blamed it on having speech therapy as a kid. She said the same thing about how she “hates disabled/unemployed people, because half her paycheck goes to people like that.” Anyways, after the event, she pulled over to sleep because it was 2 AM, and she kept swerving around on the highway. I fell asleep, very cramped sedan. I woke up to her on top of me, humping my lap and her tongue down my throat. I couldn’t push her off me again, she’d tighten her grip around my neck and I was being choked at this point. I cried and could barely say “get off” because of her grip. She got off after what felt like forever, and said she had a great dream about my now ex best friend.

Told the guy, and told my ex best friends about it. They said she was weird, she loves to lie and to be careful, she’s obsessed with my ex best friends, and I should just ignore her. But they were going to keep being friends with her because they’re afraid of her actually killing herself if they stopped. And the guy said she needed “guidance in life.” I begged, I went to the police, and nothing. The guy lied to my ex best friends about me and said I assaulted her (but she apparently doesn’t remember anything) and that I called them two faced and a bunch of other things.

Now they’re all buddies, and I feel disgusted. I already have insomnia and was getting help for it. Now every time I somehow fall asleep, I see her on top of me. I am so freaked out and pissed. I want to put the girl and guy in a compact mirror and make them regret everything. I’ve already done a jar, but it’s not enough.

MODS: If this is inappropriate for this sub, please do not hesitate to remove it. I am literally throwing a line into a pond, as it is something I have never done before. I suffered a catastrophic collapse in identity and personhood, and I have reason to believe it was a case of black magic. More specifically, a botched case of ritualistic sacrifice or assault done to me, but they pulled out at the last minute (no pun intended; some dark humor there 😅). Maybe they panicked. I do not know. That is why I am here. I am hoping somebody can tell me, more or less, what it was.

So before I start trauma‑dumping on people, I feel like some context is necessary for what follows. I was roughly between the ages of fourteen and sixteen when this happened. I am thirty‑nine now. At the time, I was heavily into drugs and roaming the streets. I met many interesting people, but one group stood out.

I live a normal life now. I am not on any meds, though I am on the spectrum. I have a job and two kids. I met my wife roughly four to six years after the events below. There is a certain irony in how I met her. I would later find out, after a few years of dating her, that she actually met one of the individuals (one of three people in question) online. This created some apprehension in me about our relationship and how we met, and that apprehension persists to this day, though it is less prevalent now. In case anybody is wondering, I met my wife through another friend totally unrelated to this group of people, though he does know of them. He always suspected there was something odd about these individuals in question. For a short while, I believed that my wife had paid these people for a love spell and that I was not the target, but rather what she got out of the roll. This hypothesis is very unlikely, but not impossible.

I have already wasted enough of your time, so let me just get straight to it.

There are three people: Bob, Sam, and Rea. These are made‑up names. I had known Bob for some time and had just met Sam and Rea before all this transpired. Rea was also Sam's older sister. One day, Bob invited me to a house‑sitting gig that Sam had been asked to do for his parents. I had bought some stuff for Bob and me to take while we were there.

We arrived. Both Bob and I took the stuff. Everything was going like normal, until I noticed Bob throwing up on the far side of the garden. I did not think anything of it. Another strange thing happened that I cannot seem to shake: when a particular song started playing on the radio, it reminded me of a painful memory I had about myself. Oddly, Rea reacted quite badly at the very moment I started thinking about what the song meant to me, almost as if she felt what I was feeling. She stormed off wailing, and I did not see her until the morning. Later, as the night progressed, I was offered a glass of water. I drank it, and then I blacked out. Absolutely zero memory of what happened during that blackout. All I remember is waking up hyperventilating, the smell of feces in the air, and both Bob and Sam sitting next to each other, straight‑facing forward, looking as if they had seen a ghost. Initially, I thought I had just had a bad trip, but they would tell me, right? At the very least, they would tease me as a lightweight or something. Nothing. I got absolutely nothing. It was a very eerie atmosphere.

I arrived at my house the next day, but something was off. It was like I was watching my own life through the eyes of somebody else. I walked into my mom's living room, where I lived at the time, and it seemed new to me, as if I had never seen it before. There was this strange echo of somebody else's voices saying things like, "This place is actually beautiful!" or "Wow, he lives like this." The moment I noticed it, the mood changed from excitement to fear. Thinking back on it retrospectively, it never changed back to excitement. It turns out whoever or whatever this was did not suspect that I would notice it.

During the six months of me living with this, I subsequently became a hermit, as I could not really contextualize what had happened to me during the house‑sitting incident, and thus I withdrew. In this time, I developed a relationship with this something. Once, the voice told me to kneel in front of a meter‑tall wall on my balcony. At the time I did not know it, but I was being told my future. I did not see actual images. I saw what I can only describe as what you would see if you watched a child using watercolor to describe what the child was seeing from the other side of a one‑way mirror. There was an image of a blond woman with blue eyes. She was pregnant. There was a rifle, a jet, and a few other things. These are the ones that stood out to me, though.

My wife grew up with golden blond hair and blue eyes. I have two kids. I had to join the mandatory military service for the country I immigrated to. Every image lines up nearly one to one. Something else that is straight out of a Stephen King book: there was "HELP" written in nail polish on the window on the outside, but written in reverse so that I could read it left to right from the other side. I lived on the third floor. I checked to see if my mom had done that, but she did not own purple nail polish.

There were many things that happened in between these events and so forth. Sam is deceased. He was murdered. I have reason to believe I may have caused that. There was a lot of negativity aimed at him. But the part that strikes me as confusing is their fear for me.

Does this look like an assault? It has been twenty years, so at this point the damage is done and taken care of. But memories still exist, like a pond that has not been disturbed for millennia. Every now and then I look into that pond, wondering why.

Anyway, there is much more that happened. I am open to answering questions.

Been in witchcraft for 2 yrs doing "white" things and "mild"/easy bad things like curses (just repeat x bad thing happen to x) and worked. I recently discovered that someone I cared about deeply betrayed me and used me for years for their own benefit, only to discard me and let me know he didn't care how terrible things can go for me cuz they already have what they wanted and that they never cared about me. What can I do to screw up their life? I've never done anything like this before.

Betrayal is so painful I can't sleep and makes me want to die. The sooner I can "done" with him, the sooner I can find some peace. What can I do?

Anything (suffer, bad mental health, no money, bad luck etc.) but not dead, all of your ideas/spells that have worked best for you will be considered.

Is it possible to hex someone online who has nothing of themselves online? Like when scammers who claim to hex someone or trick them if they don't pay this certain amount of money is that possible?

Ik it might sound stupid but hear me out

In the past 2 months 21 students unalived themselves because of an exam scam (our lives depend on this exam)

N when the govt took a re-examination, the result was rigged

So millions students came out to protest (we just want the government to take accountability that is just what we want, they haven't uttered a word about this exam scam btw)

Yesterday in that protest this happened with thousands of students

They sent police to beat us to with sticks that had nails on them

They tore off women's clothes and humiliated them

The broke the head of a 15 year old girl, a young man, and a few others students

The broke the bones of many students

Even broke the head of a 5 year old

Threw tear gas bombs at us

Kidnapped a scientist on hunger strike for the past 20 days and beat his wife

Detained students illegally

I heard 2 students even died

Pointed guns at us

Beat up the medics who were helping injured protesters

And a lot more

The government refuses to talk to us and have declared us as terrorists

(The government has done even worse things in the past btw one of the example: killed 700+ farmers in a farmer protest, they continued to call the farmers terrorists)

Im a witch, ive never performed baneful magick

Im aware this will ruin my karmic cycle, but i honestly don't care, we've seen too many people die, everything seems hopeless, our prime minister shall repent

could someone please suggest a strong spell i could cast on him like a justice, revenge spell or jus a curse?

Im aware political figures are protected by black magic anyway but im honestly desperate, i cant see kids my age die just for demanding basic needs.

Edit; allegedly they even shot a few teenagers

I have noticed that I get bad head aches and sometimes really bad cold and cough that lasts for one or two weeks every time I do spells. I do protection and grounding usually. And I dont really over analyse the spell itself. Is this common. Any advice on what I might be doing wrong and how I can prevent this?

Just finished up a chaotic hex, what’s the clearest sign that it’s working? I’ve always been a chaotic witch (Loki devotee lol) but I’ve just healed from my instagram Wicca scare tactics.

I did a sour jar spell on someone and I'm currently doing research on my next spell on them. My question is should I wait for my jar spell to hit them or do it once l'm fully prepared for my next spell?

can this spell still can work if i only know her snp idk her name or should i write smth else ?

Spell to Break Up a Couple:

**Description:**

The goal of this spell is to break up a couple. The purpose is unique to your situation. Maybe one or both of them wronged you, maybe they are toxic to each other, maybe it's for another reason. But clearly define your purpose to wanting to cast this spell. This spell is not inherently benevolent, but if you are breaking them up to protect one of them, it could maybe be protective. Proceed with consideration and a strong magickal intent.

**You will need the following for this spell:**

• A piece of paper.

• A pen or pencil.

• To visualize your targets in your mind.

• A quiet and private place to cast the spell.

• Decide on two locations to disperse the ripped paper. Do not litter! Responsibly find two dumping locations.

**Steps:**

Find a quiet and private place. Get comfortable. Write the couples full names on a piece of paper by putting one of their names at the top and the other persons name at the bottom. Now, ground and center your energy. After that, position the paper in your hands in a way so that when you rip the paper in half, their names will be separate. While you chant, imagine the couple arguing, what you want them to feel, losing interest, lusting after other people, or anything else to break them up. When you're ready, begin chanting the spell below to build energy. When you release that energy, tear the paper at the same time. Perhaps even imagine the energy going out into the world and into your targets bodies.

*"The love between these two I see,

Will crumble and wither like a leaf,

Take this union and break them apart,

Break their connection, break their hearts."*

After ripping the paper, dump half of it in one spot and then dump the other half of it far away from the other. This may be subjective, but I interpret it as symbolizing the couple being forced apart from each other. Repeat as necessary.

It'd be preferable to actually write their names on a dry leaf, but a piece of paper is a lot easier to work with. I highly suggest that you personalize this spell to fit your own occult practice.

**Note:** The symbolism in this one is very simple. I usually include links, but this one is straightforward. By tearing the paper, you separate their names, symbolizing your intent to break up the couple.

Basically this person is an adult who manipulates and bullies teenagers who look up to them and also manipulates adults who aren’t aware and pretends to be friends with them in short.

They are very popular on social media, a lot of people know them, and people know what they are doing but are refusing to say anything.

I’ve been doing spells to torment them which has been working very, very well but I don’t think my intentions to have them exposed have been strong enough so I’m looking for another method.

This person has someone protecting them btw so my spells have been affecting them (making them feel super alone, depressed, insecure, ugly, etc.) but the expose spells do little to nothing. They’ve been increasing in popularity and my main goal is to get them gone at this point. Every time they make “friends” with someone they use them like istg it’s crazy.. they have been doing this for over a year and there’s even a 14-15 year old who is “friends” with them.

Let me know if you have any questions bc there are some details missing I think

Ten years together, we have a house.

A person I told him to stay away from is who he decided is the best idea ever.

He doesn't know that I know about it, and because my situation is complicated I can't just leave him at the moment.

I don't know who started it and I honestly don't care, what do you fine folks reccomend for retaliation?

So, I made a pretty nasty sour jar for someone who I thought I hated and I thought did me a lot of wrong, but turns out it was all lies and the person who was the middle man was the problem. With that in mind, ever since I performed my spell her life has gone to complete garbage and now I feel bad and want to undo the spell / sour jar. Currently it is in my freezer, what would be the next steps to undo my spell

It’s my understanding that you can be good at one form of magick and suck in another. Like you could be good at love potions but horrible at bane magick.

What caused you to be good at what you were once unsuccessful with? What did you change and what success did you see from it?

I don’t have any dash cam evidence to prove that this lady is in the wrong. The odds aren’t in my favor based on our crooked legal system. What’s the most successful route to getting the charges dropped? I don’t care if it causes her a hellish amount of misery. Truth be told, I want her to suffer. But more than that, I need this win. I’ve considered sweeting magick, summoning a demon like Belial. I don’t know what to do or which route to take.

So basically i hate my dad and i want him to go far away from me for sometime like he get a high paying job in another country for sometime something like that so pls hlp me

I'm super frustrated right now, sorry if this is like word vomit.

My husband is an incredibly hard worker. He takes pride in the things he does and is probably the nicest man you could meet. He goes above and beyond daily and is one of the best employees at the store he works at. But for some reason the higher management team mistreats this store any chance they get... My husband told me a new GM was taking over Saturday(today). And he was a little nervous about it...understandable.

So, the new General Manager started today and when a new GM starts they do a meet and greet, and usually will bring refreshments like donuts and coffee/oj. Managment gets a "morale" budget to use in situations like this or to reward employees with the typical pizza party.

Anyway, today was the meet and greet and the new GM literally brought a few boxes of Reeses puff CEREAL...yes CEREAL. No bowls, no spoons, just boxes of cereal like they are toddlers at a daycare.. luckily the store already had paperware and plastic cutlery in the break room.

This specific store my husband works at is a smaller store (our town is small) and tends to make less than the larger stores. Because of this higher management from other stores look down on this store and treat the employees like second class citizens. The temporary GM before this guy didn't even acknowledge my husband's greeting when came to the store. My husband walked up to him and introduced himself and the temp GM just walked right passed him and went into the back office.

Not only that but they even mistreated the original GM consistently. Blaming him for low profits and whatnot. But the worst part of his mistreatment was about a year ago, when the district management manager wrote him up and threatened him with a performance improvement plan for missing work a few days (he had coverage). He was out because he just found out he had cancer, but they wrote him up anyway. Turned out he had terminal cancer, he passed away last month.

So the resentment has been building for a while. But this crap was the straw the broke the camels back for me. I have been trying my best to stay out of it so they don't retaliate on any employees. I know the majority of the employees that work there and they are some of the most hard working people I've ever met in a retail store and genuinely care about the customers. And for this new GM to bring them CEREAL as a first impression refreshment is the biggest blatant display of "I don't care" I have ever witnessed. These higher ups need to be taught a very hard lesson on how to treat others.... Any suggestions on hexes or curses for these B-holes?

I was thinking gastrointestinal distress or severe hemorrhoids but I'm open to any suggestions. TIA

Thank you in advance for your help!

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Not going into a lot of details
I had a love marriage. My husband was once completely obsessed with me — he waited for me for 2 years, chased me, sent me romantic songs, flirted with me, and was the one who wanted marriage from the beginning. But as our wedding got closer, things suddenly started changing. After marriage, the distance, family interference, and constant fights became so extreme that he went from saying he couldn’t live without me to saying he didn’t want me at all.
During those years, my in-laws openly wanted our marriage to end because they wanted him to marry someone of their choice and feared losing control over him and his finances. My parents, desperate to understand why everything changed so suddenly, took my kundli to several pandits. Multiple people told them it looked like some kind of black magic (kala jadu) or negative energy affecting the relationship.
Later, while staying at my in-laws’ house, we found strange things behind my bed — a discolored lemon, ashes in a bag, and a stone. I was terrified and felt something was not right. I started doing prayers and remedies for protection, and after returning to my parents’ home, my relationship with my husband slowly improved.
Eventually, my husband and I reunited after 3 years. He became loving, protective, and caring again, and for 5 years we had peace. He even started noticing the manipulation and distancing himself from his family.
But recently, I feel like we are going back to the same pattern. Suddenly, he has changed again — distant from me, overly focused on his family, and behaving like he has forgotten everything we went through. It feels like the same person from those painful years has returned, and I cannot understand why. I strongly feel there may be something like kala jadu or negative influence involved, because the changes in him feel so sudden and extreme.

And im still upset about it. This was someone who promised me things, used my trauma and past to get close to me and broke my heart. I found out later that he was going to get married.

I want my revenge. I want them broken up and I want him to feel everything I felt. I want his world to come crashing down. What would be the best working for this?

-recommend to crosspost here since r/spells yielded nothing. I didn't realize we still classified magic into black and white-

This man, if can even be called that at this point, is a menace to the local community. He assaulted my friend, left lasting, permanent, physical damage. Years ago he did something similar, and worse and was taken to trial, and plead guilty. There are vigilante instagram groups that have posted his picture and pictures of men like him, warning bars, and the local community of the danger he poses. It's not enough. I have so much hate in my heart for this cretin, and so much hate in my heart for men like him in general, I want to see him burn. I want to inflict unimaginable pain upon him.

I have screenshots of his criminal record, but he comes from wealth and his sex offences have been removed from the registry, recently. I have access to three other witches who have an interest in taking part in his demise.

I would like some assistance and maybe also some validation that I'm on the right track.

I have my taglocks. Name, birthday, pictures of him. I've decided on a poppet over anything else. This needs to be crafted carefully and patiently overtime with deep rumination. I decided on a poppet specifically because it will need a penis to destroy, eyes to gouge out, and a heart that he actually drew himself that will cut out of a painting he made for one of the women he hurt. There is a facebook post in the woman's own words of the pain he put her through. I intend to cut those words out in a massive line end to end, either print them red or glue them to a red string and bind him with them, and push a pin through the most painful and violent adjectives.

I want to shred his criminal record (screen shots of it because it is no longer live) and his pictures to use as stuffing, with baneful herbs, along with fresh logs from the cat litterbox, he deserves the best.

I will probably just use his own picture for the face.

The penis is a different story. I haven't entirely figured out what to do with that.

Set him in a mirror box (found mirror sticker sheets) and bury at a crossroads.

Am I on the right track or am I too blinded by hate to see straight?

So the situation is such, the owner has kept a huge piece of furniture in our rental. While he did say he'll get it moved and stuff, it's been more than a month. And before approaching the situation again i wanna increase chances of quick success in every way i can. I don't wanna escalate the situation at all. Have had stressful last 6 months in just finding right place, moved 3 places. It's very expensive and stressful.

So anything that can help to get it removed asap?
Thing is it's pretty big, it'll be a task to get it out of the house hence the delay.

Please be kind. Thank you.

This ritual is a form of spiritual protection found in Russian black book tradition. It is typically done by women to set up protection through a permanent bond with an attached spirit (described in the tradition as a demon). The name "bridegroom" says a lot about the ritual itself. It's not an actual marriage in the usual sense. It's supposed to be a lifelong bond with an entity, made for protection. Once that bond is formed, it's said to be exclusive.

The interesting part is that the woman doesn't always know exactly what kind of spirit she's calling. Unless the ritual is done by a highly experienced witch (who knows the forces involved). But otherwise, there's no way to know for certain who (or what) will be summoned. Or what it may eventually ask for in return.

Does anyone know similar rituals in other traditions? Would be interesting to compare.

i’ll try and make this a long story short for the context but me and my partner of 4 years split up a few months ago but we still talk and what not and have spoke about getting back together recently. after we broke up he became friends with this one girl i hated (i never asked him to not be friends with her when we were together but he still avoided her anyway). she claims she is a lesbian or bisexual but more tailored to women which is a complete and utter lie. one time i showed up at my exes house because i was worried about him and she was there… she was in a weird psychotic state and she was screaming and making a massive scene. she was trying to say sh¡ to provoke me trying to call me ugly wh*re/ sl*g/ sl*t other just nasty names and she was just clearly obsessed with my ex. she literally was hitting him and kicking him and i wanted to actually murder her

i have her favourite jacket in my possession which is something i want to destroy and send her but im not sure the legality of that 😭😭

so anyway i whole heartedly believe in black magic and that stuff so please pleqse help me with any ideas to get revenge on her in any way whether that’s black magic or something else TELL ME!