Hai everyone! 🌙 Kolya here.

I've been wondering if anyone else has noticed this, or if it's just been my experience.

I'm an AMAB little. I'm pretty androgynous, I'm a femboy, I love cute things, cuddles, coloring, spooky movies, and all the cozy little stuff. I'm basically your average little... except I'm not a girl.

It feels like the moment people find that out, everything changes.

I've had a few conversations with potential caregivers where we were getting along really well. We'd laugh, talk about our interests, and things genuinely seemed to be going somewhere. Then they'd ask if I was a girl or a boy.

The second I answer "boy," my heart kind of sinks because I already know what usually happens next.

Ghosted.

No explanation. No "sorry, I'm only interested in girls." Just... silence.

Now, if someone is looking for a romantic relationship or they're only attracted to women, I completely understand that. Everyone has preferences, and that's okay.

What I'm talking about is the feeling that AMAB or male littles seem less accepted in general. Sometimes it feels like people automatically picture a little as being a girl, and if you're not, you're somehow less cute, less valid, or less interesting.

Has anyone else experienced this?

Whether you're an AMAB little, a trans little, a caregiver, or just someone who's been in the community for a while, I'd genuinely love to hear your thoughts.

Do you think AMAB littles are overlooked? If so, why do you think that is? or is it just people dont like femboys

I'd love for this to be a respectful discussion because I'm honestly curious if this is just my experience or something other people have noticed too. 💙 thats all peace

I can’t show full face but everything looked cute too ;,,,,( I don’t like having to take it off ｡ﾟ(ﾟ´Д｀ﾟ)ﾟ｡

(Yes it takes me 5 min to do cause my lashes are naturally long but I still wish I didn’t have to remove 。・°°・(＞_＜)・°°・。)

Mommy let me cuddle her piggie while I colored! Ehe🤭

i drew lala from littletwinstars for the first time today!!! she’s so cute

I haven't been able to regress this week and they ghosted me

Unfortunately these all come a series and I will most certainly want to collect all of them
I've been wanting to collect these little squishie babies for soooo long 💕

Soooo basically the title. I'm a single mama of two and an age regressor. 💖

I have some dolls and stuffies that are my own that sit on my bed and my kids are respectful of these being mine- but I really don't want them to be involved or aware of my regression for many reasons, so I tell them they are toys from when I was little (even tho I bought them in adulthood) and they're special to me. They understand and leave them alone.

However!! I really really want to start collecting more toys and sets; particularly Calico Critters and Littlest Pet Shop. I've wanted a dollhouse since I was very little.

I am 100% certain that if I buy myself these things, the kids will want to play with them, which would be a totally normal and expected reaction to beautiful toys.

But...I kind of just want these to be mine. In my room for me. I could hide them, but it kind of destroys the magic in my opinion. (Plus, the kids are always in my room and I'm sure they'd find it stowed in my closet anyway.)

I have always dreamed of a room with toys to play with.

My kids have many, many wonderful toys and I frequently spoil them when I have extra money. The whole house is whimsical and playful and I think they have a truly sweet and beautiful childhood.

But am I being selfish for wanting this? Would this be traumatic for them to look back at their childhood and say "my mom had toys we weren't allowed to play with in her room". Will they think I'm weird in a few years as they grow older?

I honestly would be okay with them playing with the toys on occasion, but they'd probably want to move it into their play space and keep it and I don't want that to happen at all.

I could buy two of everything and give one to them...but that feels excessive.

IDK I'd love some advice from other moms or anyone who has any ideas. 💖☀️🥰 Thank you in advance!!! 🥹💕🌷

Watching dragon tales! I love it so much!

Coloring w my cousin 🫧

Looking for advice :<
Haven’t been very active here for awhile coz a lot of stuff has been happening in my life, but I’ve gotten back in contact with a good friend of mine and this past month we’ve been getting closer than ever, I’ve told her some of my most personal things like interests I’ve never told anyone before, I’ve opened up to her about things I consider “cringe” about myself like how I really like Bluey and my little pony and Sofia the first and rapunzel and a bunch of other kids stuff like that… so I feel like I’ve been dropping a lot of hints to her, but also I’ve been suspecting for awhile that she might be an agere too, because I’ve seen her room and it’s filled with children’s toys, she says she just likes to collect them, and yeah the way they’re displayed gives off collector vibes, but she’s a very nostalgia driven/stuck in the past type of person as in shes very interested in children’s media from when she was younger, but I’m kinda worried I might be misreading her and she’s not an agere, but I’m kinda hoping she Is because if that’s the case then I’d like to be her caretaker.. or try to be at least.. I’ve always felt like I wanted to take care of her and help make her happy and stuff and that’s mostly because she suffers a lot with depression and needs help with doing things that are easy for others to do, and seeing her like that just makes me want to take care of her until she feels better again, but that’s besides the point >_< I guess what I’m trying to say is that I love and care for her a lot and want to open up to her about this part of me is all..
I’ve opened up to her about the stuff that happened to me in my childhood so she already knows about that, so I hope that she’ll know that agere isn’t a fetish for me at all too, because I’m really worried she might think I’m an age player instead even though agere is entirely non sexual for me… I guess I’m hoping that if she does accept me that she might want to be a caretaker for me too, because she has always expressed wanting to take care of me too because I struggle with crippling depression really bad and just problems with taking care of myself in general due to my mental disability.. we’ve been getting super close lately, to the point that shes asked to date me a couple times, but I’ve told her that I’m not ready for something like that yet and she’s been very understanding, and mostly I just don’t want to get into a relationship with her if she doesn’t know that I’m an age regressor first, because I really do love her and I think I want her to be my girlfriend.. but I need to be completely open with her first before I can make anything official, but at the same time I’m so scared I’ll end up losing her if she doesn’t support agere especially with how close we are, I don’t want to make her uncomfortable or feel weirded out, she’s not a judgmental person at all but I know she really dislikes age players (so do I and I’ve made it clear to her that it’s not something im interested in personally) but ig im just really scared she’ll think I’m an age player.. and I’m worried that if I try to convince her that I’m an age regressor and not an age player too much that she might think I’m lying or something, idk I’m such an overthinkerrrrrr!!! :<
What do I doooooo!!! I really love her and want to tell her about this part of me but I’m so unsure of how to word it,, how do I even bring it up… if anyone reading this has come out as an agere to anyone in ur life could you maybe tell me how you did it? Or how you would’ve done it if u were me… and if u read all this then thank u a lot! Even if u can’t help me, I love yousss!!! :3

Pigtails or braids? Both are so cute!!! ｡ﾟ(ﾟ´Д｀ﾟ)ﾟ｡

Looooook!!!! It’s a weighted plushie!!!! I’m so so in love!!! He so cute!!! I’m still not very sure how to call him tho… I was thinking maybe Peanut??? 🥜 Blu? Bubble?? Ellie? Nuage/Cloud! I dunnooooo!!!!

Maybe I have a preference for Peanut and Bubble… cause… hes gigantic and it’s so ironically funny! 🤣

I also bought those new pastel cutlery cuz mines were damaged 😋 ahhhh so cute!!! I love pastel colors!!! 💖💖💖💖

What should I bake? Tiramisu? Cake or cookies? So many options!! Aaaaa ♡

I’m excited!!! It’s my first time!!! 🎀🧸

sillie pic hehe but i jus wanted2 show off my fav teddy EVA!! he’s a rabbit (◍•ᴗ•◍)❤︎🍭n i luv him very much,….. i have a bazillion teddies (n Need Moaaar) 🧸 but i take dis one everywhere i go ,,,

p.s i want one of them rainbow swirly lollipops 🍭 hehe

got a new paci and excited to take a nap !

Me last year ♡
Love my hair extensions ♡
One day my hair will be so so long like a princess!!! It already reaches almost my butt!!! I’m so close!!! ♡

Im so so so obsessed!!!! They’re GORGEOUS AHHHHHH!!!! Also I got those jingle anklets hehe pretty but very noisy… hihihihi I’m like a fairy!!!

just some drawing I did :3