r/Veterans 26m ago

Question/Advice 100% moving oversea for work with family

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How does it work when I am working oversea as a 100%? Anyone have any experience like this?

I work for dept of state. I recently got my 100%. I would not be able to go to VA. how do I make sure VA still know I still have the medical problem/ disabilities while working oversea? Aka not reduce my rating?

Thank you in advance.


r/Veterans 1h ago

Question/Advice Can I wear my grampa's dogtags?

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I have very few items of my grandfather's (my aunt stole and pawned most of his stuff) but I recently recovered his dogtags. Posts I've read seem to suggest that it's okay to wear them; but the thing is I've been mistaken for a vet a couple of times, so I think people will assume they're mine. Is it still okay to wear them?

Edit: So the consensus is it's okay. Out of an abundance of caution and not wanting to steal valor: can I wear them over my shirt?


r/Veterans 2h ago

GI Bill/Education Any programs for veterans going into trade school to help purchase tools for college?

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So, I’ve been out for a year now and I’m enrolled to begin an Associates program in Air Conditioning Technology (HVAC) next month. It’s not a requirement but the college offers a tool package to use during school and for work. Is there any thing you are aware of that could help pay as in a grant? I live in GA and I’m 100% if that makes a difference. Not using VRE, I’ve had a horrible experience with that. I’m willing to pay out of pocket but I’d really rather not if there’s other resources out there. I’ve been trying to connect with my states veterans resources to no avail. I’m working part time while I go to school and I’m using my BHA and Pell to help support my family so it’s spoken for. Any suggestions or advice would be great.


r/Veterans 3h ago

GI Bill/Education AD Montgomery GI Bill

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I am currently serving on active duty and have completed two years of my four-year enlistment contract. I recently learned about the Active Duty Montgomery GI Bill (MGIB-AD) and would like more information about whether I am eligible to use it while I am still on active duty.
At the moment, I am pursuing a bachelor’s degree, and my tuition is fully covered through Walmart’s education benefit program. Since my education expenses are already being paid, I would like to understand whether there are any additional benefits available through the MGIB-AD that I could use while remaining on active duty, or if it would be more advantageous to save those benefits for after I separate from the Army.
I would appreciate any guidance on eligibility, how the benefit works while on active duty, and the advantages and disadvantages of using it now versus waiting until after my military service.


r/Veterans 3h ago

Question/Advice DD214 Clarification

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I recieved my DD214 worksheet today.. I had 2 enlistments (continuous), so I’m only receiving one dd214. I am getting out with a General discharge and was told that the remarks would mention my first enlistment as honorable for GI Bill purposes. However, on the worksheet it only says “Member has completed first full term of service.” Is this the same? Or should it say something else?


r/Veterans 5h ago

Question/Advice Swallowing My Pride - Does Anyone Know Of Any Place To Do A $2,500 Loan With Bad Credit?

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Good Afternoon. I am trying to find a place to borrow from the catch up on my bills. In April I was awarded full custody of my son and have been struggling without help from his mother. My car broke down the day before I got him full time and had to buy a new vehicle. Thats where all my savings went. I have fallen way behind on my bills and at risk of being evicted. I am struggling but trying to keep my composure to push through. I have applied at all of the unsecured places with zero luck and just submitted a request from Service CU. Any info will be incredible and I thank you all for taking the time to read it!


r/Veterans 5h ago

Question/Advice Warrior Pathh - recommendations / advice

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I'm an Army vet that got out after 25 yrs in 2017. Did the Iraq/Afghan tours. Had a shitty childhood and life up to 30.

I'm 51 now and feel like life has crept up on me. I had a breakdown this year. Bad bout of depression. Feel like my mindset is changing.

Anyway, I've been going the the VA for years for MH. I couldn't get into a provider as I thought I just need to talk to someone. Ended up finding the Vet Center and it has been great and a different approach vs the typical VA. The typical VA is medicate....if needed....medicate even more.

The counselor at the Vet Center recommended the Sheep Dog IA - Warrior Pathh in Missouri/Arkansas. We have determined I am in Post Traumatic Growth now. It seems like a cumulation of years of issues and baggage unloading.

I applied and just waiting to hear from them.

Any advice or experience with the program? thanks.


r/Veterans 6h ago

Question/Advice Anyone here got their CDL license with a VA disability?

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I’m SC for sleep apnea, but I don’t use the CPAP machine I’ve been prescribed. Wondering if anyone here has been through the process.


r/Veterans 7h ago

Question/Advice I cant get my DD214 for some reason

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Hi I'm trying to get my DD214 on National Archive sent in on day 29 and till this day have not got it so is there a different way for me to get it (until I get it, I can move on with me recruiter)

so should i start this form and mail it to National Archive? or wait for more time

(got out at basic training at marine bootcamp now trying to apply to air force)


r/Veterans 8h ago

Question/Advice Struggling to move forward

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I've been out of the Navy for about a month and a half now, and I'm having a hard time moving on with my life. I was in for 16 years, didn't plan on getting out yet, but was forced to separate for being trans.

Part of the problem is it still doesn't quite feel real, especially given my last 10 months in were spent on administrative absence. I guess I just need something to do to convince my brain things are actually different now, I just don't know what.


r/Veterans 10h ago

GI Bill/Education Medically withdrawing midterm

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Going to school online using post 9/11 MGIB (sorry for confusion I’m using post 9/11. GI bill, not MGIB ) Attempting to withdraw midterm after my cataract developed during VA documented care. VA saying they can’t evaluate my mitigating circumstances until after withdrawal. I’ve already provided MGIB VA people with my VA medical documentation. Online school refuses to help midterm.

Does my documented cataract count as mitigating, and if not what will I owe back VA? The TA , TA and housing allowance, or just housing?


r/Veterans 10h ago

Discussion My letters from Desert Storm….

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There was a post on Reddit that inspired me to not just read through the letters that I got 35 years ago from family and friends, but to send them back to them.

My mom, 93 years old now, has started to read through her stack of about 30 she sent to me, for the short time I was deployed.

My father even sent some, he was a decorated Vietnam Veteran, (F-105 Wild Weasel) who has since passed. He was a man a few words, and had some PTSD issues, but his letters were extremely valuable and she can read those now too.

Several of my siblings, my aunt and a high school friend also have received their’s back and have enjoyed reading through them immensely.

If you have letters sitting in a box somewhere, I would encourage you to do the same !


r/Veterans 11h ago

Call for Help Home security

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For the past 2-3 months I’ve had an even harder time falling asleep than what I did before. I hear all these noises and the house cracking and settling and it just keeps me up all night thinking someone is breaking into the house.

What a great problem to have 😐

I have blink cameras but they are just junk. Don’t pick up shit and batteries die to often.

Does anyone know of any great camera systems / security systems that don’t break the bank or give us veterans a discount?

That way just maybe I can sleep a little better

I already use a sound machine


r/Veterans 12h ago

Discussion Anyone still use 24hr clock?

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My friends saw it was were a little confused. Had to explain it to them hahah!


r/Veterans 16h ago

Question/Advice Why should I join a Legion or VFW post? I don't want a sales pitch, give it to me raw, and wriggling.

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40 year old male, 6 yr Active Duty AF vet here. Separated in 2016. As I have served in a combat zone, I'm eligible to join both.

I've often thought about getting involved, at least as a form of community involvement and socialization, but I just haven't been able to bring myself to it due to the optics.

I've been to them before, and although I'm sure there's more going on than what you see, what I see is a watering hole for mostly Vietnam-era vets that basically functions as an event hosting location for people to have parties. I get that hosting parties is probably how these places stay alive, but it just feels like it gets in the way of what those places should be. To me, it makes it seem inauthentic and underwhelming as a place for veterans to go be among other veterans.

I understand all the advocating, community service, and veteran supports that these organizations offer - and that's great. I'm not here to throw shade. But, with so many posts around the country it also feels like each community is so small that it's unlikely to even meet some people close to my age with similar experiences.

To be honest, I don't think I want to play that game where we act like we still have ranks and function in some sort of self-contained bureaucracy. I'm not showy about my service, and I'm not interested in wearing hats or uniforms. No disrespect to those that do like that sort of thing. I get it, and I respect the good work they do.

Besides a bar that provides event hosting. What else is there really?


r/Veterans 23h ago

Question/Advice Wanting to rejoin the military

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I keep having this thought in the back of my head of "maybe this time would be different from before" and the feeling of just being wronged on how my army career ended. I think I shouldn't go back and now I just have been having the same thought for the past 7 years of what if we give it a second try?. Any one ever had this feelings?


r/Veterans 1d ago

Question/Advice Temporary assistance?

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So I've been putting off a couple surgeries that are service related because I live alone with my young daughter. They won't schedule me because I don't have transportation home from the hospital.

My question is, is there any no or low cost program that can help me out with a ride home and maybe check in on me and my daughter for like the first day or two?


r/Veterans 1d ago

Question/Advice Community Care Request Disappears?

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I moved and I am now about 2 hours about 120 miles from the nearest VA. I have tried 3 times now through the community care portal to get something scheduled with a provider local to me on the network and the same thing happens. They acknowledge the request it sits for a few days then just disappears. Tried calling the help line and using the online help and they both gave the same answer “we don’t see where there ever was a request”. Just looking for some insight on how people typically navigate this. Thanks in advance!


r/Veterans 1d ago

Question/Advice Does TDIU's Earning Limit Take Into Consideration Household Size?

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From my understanding, one can earn under the federal poverty level and still maintain TDIU; however, does that amount vary depending on the size of your household? Or does the VA view earning under the poverty level as a single person for TDIU purposes?


r/Veterans 1d ago

Question/Advice Va dental help

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Hey guys, I was recently awarded 100% p&t and this is the first time trying to use va dental. Im having a dental emergency however they can’t see me until December and they said it takes 2 weeks for community care to get back to me. Anyone experience something similar? Any other options?


r/Veterans 1d ago

Article/News Songwriting Retreats Bring Healing and Connection to Veterans in Rural Illinois

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With artistry, honesty, and a lot of courage, veterans and Grammy-nominated musicians transform personal stories into powerful songs. In Heyworth, Illinois, healing is happening through music.


r/Veterans 1d ago

Question/Advice Accommodation and civilian life. Why so judgmental?

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I’ve been doing everything in my power the last two months since I filed for an increase and TIDU to find a job and some form of stability and just stick it through so I could keep a routine and try to be part of society. Fast forward, I’ve now been looked over by dozens of people hiring who when I tell them I’ll need accommodation look at me funny and then tell me they’ll get back to me. Then my application is denied. I was on boarding and when I asked for accommodation the next day they let me go citing they “over hired”. The craziest part is all I’m asking for is the ability to sit down once and awhile on my shift and access to a stool. I haven’t had the best job stability since my discharge and I’ve burned through seven jobs. I even turned to the community asking for help and was kind of just shunned? I never mentioned my %, i never mentioned what my injuries were, yet people insisted on telling me i’m leeching off the government, i’m a loser, cheating the system, etc. So i’ve kind of just lost hope. I mean what else do I do?


r/Veterans 1d ago

Question/Advice Has anyone currently in college dealt with a "30-hour excess credit charge" while using Post-9/11 GI Bill?

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Hey everyone, I'm hoping someone here may have experience with this or if they can point me in the right direction...I already emailed my academic advisor today and set up an appointment with them.

I have a remaining tuition balance because of the 30-hour excess credit limitation charge. I didn't realize this type of charge was not going to be covered by VA education benefits, so I'm trying to figure out my options before it turns into a bigger issue.

Has anyone here dealt with this before while using specifically the ch 33 VA benefits? (If anyone is going to UTSA) Were you able to get it resolved through a Contract to Graduate, 30/45 SCH Excess Fee Waiver, or another process? Or did you end up having to set up a payment plan?

Any advice or shared experience would be appreciated. Thank you.


r/Veterans 1d ago

Question/Advice Docket number status.

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Good afternoon everyone, I hope all is well with everyone. I have a questions regarding a discharge upgrade? Is there anything I can do to expedite the process?
I currently live in the VA shelter and I’m about to move into my new apartment soon. I just don’t want any paperwork to get messed up in transitioning to my new place. I have had my docket number for about 3-4 months. It was only up to last month when my case got move to “under review”. I would like to switch it to honorable ASAP so I can get other paperwork going? Any advice on this potentially processing faster?

Thanks again!


r/Veterans 1d ago

Question/Advice How to officially determine if I'm TRICARE Group A or B?

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Hi all! I'm about to be medically retired and am trying to figure out if I'm Group A or B for TRICARE. The resources I'm looking at say it is based on "if your initial enlistment or appointment or that of your uniformed services sponsor began before/after Jan. 1, 2018." I was initially appointed into USNA in 2016, and commissioned in 2020. Does anyone have any insight into whether my service academy entrance date counts (making me Group A) or if it's based on my commissioning date (making me Group B)?

If there's a better place to ask or resources that are more clear on this, please let me know!