This is my first post. I don't know how these things work

I'm 27F, financially stable. I don't have much free time, but when I do, I go hiking. I can't say I'm a great cook lol , but I enjoy cooking a good hearty meal, especially on weekends.

I'm cheerful and warm, but most importantly honest and I expect you to be. I hate guessing and mind games. If something is bothering me or I need you to do something, I will just tell you. I don't expect you to read my mind, nor will I be reading yours. I don't have time for games.

Looking for a man who is:

\* around my age, or older

\* You don't have to be 6' tall haha, but it would be nice if you were taller than me (I'm 5'4)

\* mature

\* someone who knows what he wants and say it plainly

\* emotionally stable

\* honest

\* not threatened by a woman who thinks for herself

Will leave the rest for later, so if you think we might have a chance to build something real drop a comment or DM me Edit: I thought new accounts were allowed to post here 😅 Well, the oldest account I have is only one month old, and I don't want risk getting it banned too. If you're still interested drop your profile in a comment and I'll reach out. Sorry for the inconvenience

Since it's the first relationship Wednesday, let me leave this here.

So, when people talk about long-term plans or relationships, they talk about a wedding, marriage, having children, and just living happily ever after, but my happily ever after looks a little different.

I never want to get married or have children. I do want a long-term exclusive relationship, though. Just shake hands on it, I guess..lol. I don't see myself sharing my space with anyone, let alone a man or child.

It also seems easier. I don't want to spend my days worrying about why my man is not yet back home at 12.. let everyone live their life. We just continue happily dating, have sleepovers, travel, and just chill.

Some might say why not just have a fwb, but I need the emotional connection and exclusivity. And I'm honestly not willing to compromise because I feel like I'm okay with staying alone and keeping my peace and freedom rather than doing something I never wanted in the first place and forever regretting it.

Please tell me it's not just me who wants this.

Make your post on the sub and you may just find someone to navigate this rocky world with.
Don't be shy to also forward the posts to someone not on Reddit you think might be what that person is looking for or vice versa.

Post guidelines:

1. State your age and sex

2. Description of yourself (upto you what you talk about e.g physical, hobbies)

3. What you're looking for.

4. Use the flair used in this post(suggestions for other flair is welcome)

That's it and you're good to go.

Now, me am exactly the opposite of every other good thing. Short, nerdy, yappy, but I do have a good Rolex guy and maybe if you won't fall in love with me you will fall for him 🤷. M23

28f, created this account just for this😂

I wouldn’t say my dating experience has been horrible but I do run a strict program and definitely not settling in this lifetime. I’m also not in the business of ‘teaching’ someone how to be a good partner.

Anyway the older I get I realise I want a wife too. Not necessarily a woman but whenever I hear a man describe a woman they want I find myself thinking ‘I want that too’ but like in a man lol. I’m looking for a man that is emotionally intelligent, a man who I will look forward to talk to at the end of the day because he is my peace, a good listener, a considerate man, believes in feminism, has his own place where he cooks, cleans and does his laundry himself, healthy relationship with parents, good conversation, open to therapy, good communication skills, family oriented, goal oriented. Preferably fit/healthy weight, above 5’6.

I posses all these qualities among others, I’m 5’3 though. If you have ALL these qualities too then we can get to talking about hobbies and if we can connect.

Hey guys

Recently started a remote role paying 1k USD/month from a company abroad, wired directly into my local bank account.

I'm trying to figure out how people here actually navigate this without running into trouble down the road.

A couple of specific questions for anyone doing remote/freelance work in UG:

Bank Access & Flagging: If you don't file with URA, do local banks (Stanbic, Equity, Absa, Centenary) actually flag regular foreign transfers around $1k and demand a TIN or source of funds, or do they only care about much larger sums? How much access does URA really have to personal accounts?

My main long-term goal is applying for international master's scholarships (Chevening, Mastercard Foundation, DAAD, etc.) and study visas. Do scholarship panels or embassy visa officers ever ask for a URA Tax Clearance Certificate, or do they only look at bank statements to see that funds are there and don't care much about tax compliance?

Would really appreciate any real-life experiences or advice from folks who've been doing this for a while. Thanks!

Take note of the above. Involve counsel. (Here at your service)

I’m 21 male, funny.
I’m into IT, my hobbies are learning new things, and taking walks.
I’m really just looking for someone(female ofcourse 😂) who aligns with me. Individuals interested can dm to see what I look like.

Hi guys, would you go back home in the village or rather hang on in the city right after job loss? By home I mean you parent's place.

M31. I made this account just for this.

I'm not desperately looking for a relationship coz I'm at a point in life where I'm happy with what I have, but I'd love to have more female friends in my circle. Someone to hang out with, grab a drink, smoke some shisha once in a while, or just explore Kampala together.

If we end up becoming close friends, great. If there's an instant connection and it turns into something more, I'm open to that too. But there's zero pressure and expectations.

On the bright side, if nothing else, we'll probably have a lot of fun discovering Kampala together.

EDIT: Forgot to mention - M4F. Also, Telegram user name is the same as here

I am trying ,I pray it works. 29/M doctor by profession,am looking for a lady for intentional dating. Someone who is having their life together, feel free to reach out, thank you

So, I was looking through some recent demographic data from UBOS and the UN Population Division, and this stat hit me hard.

Around 85% to 86% of Uganda's entire current population was born after January 29, 1986. That means roughly 9 out of every 10 people walking around in Uganda today have literally never seen or known any other President or head of state in their entire lives.

When you break down the population numbers, it’s actually wild:

Median Age: 17.1 years old (second youngest population in the whole world!)
0–14 years: ~48%
15–24 years: ~20%
25–34 years: ~13%
35–39 years: ~4.5%

Total under 40 (born 1986 or later): ~85.5%

Nearly 80% of the country is under 35. For the vast majority of us, M7 isn't just a political figure, he's literally the only system, regime, and president we’ve ever existed under. Anyone who actually remembers life before 1986 is now part of a small ~14% minority in this country.

Just thought I’d drop this here because let that sink in for a second... what does it even mean for a country's mindset when almost the entire population has only known one leader for four decades?

What are your thoughts on this?

Stop looking for the right person and start becoming the right person

This is probably going to sound confusing to most of you but I’d rather say it in its rawest form than pretend to be looking for something I’m not.

I’m 29M I have good things going on in my life,Im often busy Monday to Friday.So over the past few months I’ve been making some significant changes in my life. One of those has been choosing a celibate lifestyle and intentionally recovering from patterns of sexual behavior that I no longer want to define me.

What I’ve come to realize is that while I’m intentionally stepping away from physical intimacy, I still have a need for emotional connection so this isn’t exactly a dating post but rather It’s me looking for genuine confidant.

I’m more of an introvert than an extrovert. I love anime, cartoons, movies and the occasional lunch, dinner, coffee or activities like zip lining and all that stuff.Most of the time I’m perfectly happy staying home but I don’t mind coming out,just not to bars.

I’m hoping to meet a beautiful woman who is well spoken and would be open to building a friendship without any expectation of physical intimacy which would aid my recovery journey.

I do want to be upfront that this is an unconventional request, and there are boundaries that come with it. Rather than making this post unnecessarily long, I’ll explain those in more detail if you decide to DM me. I believe it’s only fair that you know exactly what you’re signing up for before we invest time in getting to know each other.

I know this won’t make sense to everyone, and that’s okay but if you’re someone who values meaningful conversation, healthy boundaries, and simply enjoying another person’s company without needing it to become something more, I’d genuinely love to hear from you.

If you think we’d get along, feel free to send me a DM.

Good morning
Hi stranger some liqour(waragi)

Some days can feel a little too quiet, and I’d love to meet someone special to share good moments with.

I’m looking for a genuine, intentional man who enjoys spending quality time together, exploring new places, enjoying nightlife, having deep conversations, and creating beautiful memories. Someone romantic, thoughtful, and who believes in showing care through actions the little things like surprises, flowers, and making someone feel valued.

I appreciate a man who is responsible, supportive, and ready to build a balanced partnership where both people bring their best.

No games, no hidden motives just a genuine connection with someone who knows what he wants. 22f

Like the title says, i'm hoping to find a walking community in busabala or create one if anyone is willing to join.

I feel like life has been too peaceful, I'm even gaining weight. Should I start dating again and get some relationship stress? Cry a bit and fail to eat because of someone's son😆

Any married people or those in serious relationships to "encourage" me

I am m28 but it is hard to find anyone that cares about what I care about.

I don’t care about nationality, tribe, looks or if she has a job. I don’t even care about having sex.

I just want someone that is interested in history and geopolitics. Does she know about the causes of World War 2?

Is she passionate about understanding the history of African Revolutionary Ideology and the impacts of neo-colonialism on Africa?

I have muted all the big socialites in Uganda on Twitter and I don’t care about Kampala Bar culture?

I would just like to spend time discussing how the US-Belgium Led Assassination of Patrice Lumumba led to the problems we have in the DRC today and how we can solve them.

I will never ask you for nudes because I believe the most beautiful part of a woman is her mind. I am 100% straight male but I don’t like seeing nude people it turns me off.

I tried posting this on tinder but it was futile.

Ok if you don’t like any of the above mentioned and you would like to chat are you interested in studying human psychology? Do you watch random documentaries on varying topics? What are you reading now?

Are you a writer?

We can exchange book and documentary recommendations, occasionally a tv series or two.

Caught in between medicine and dental surgery

Would use some advice from people who have done any of the two

It will be a great help

People are often traumatized by past relationships. If someone broke their leg, you wouldn’t expect them to run the next day. In the same way, a heart wounded by past relationships needs time to heal before it can build a healthy relationship.

Is there any one that has been at Vanuatu , I would to know more abiut the country from a fellow Ugandan on what to expect.

Earlybird 120,000

Come and learn more about how to handle your mental health. It matters more than it is addressed.

Are people that join online dating platforms just too lonely, toxic irl or just explorers?

Like I've already seen people with everything and still can't get along with. Why would I be interested in a stranger whose character I have no idea about