It just genuinely confuses me.

Quite a lot of male celebrities are ripped. And most women seem attracted to them. Heck, I remember women going crazy over Taylor Lautner's six pack. Both younger and older.

However, it seems that everytime a man post online about working out to attract women, some women say that muscles don't matter that much. Which kind of confuses me.

I guess i just don't get why a man trying to work out have a body like Chris Evans or something is not considered an effective way to attract women.

Oh, and yeah, I know it's not all women, but there's definitely quite a few.

My toxic ex (we decided to stay as friends) sent me a video of himself lying in grass with a caption "now that I ruined everything, I'm free". When I asked him what does it mean, he's not saying anything properly. I didn't ask for this dramatic caption from him why would he send it out of nowhere at midnight? He ignored me next day and now he is being distant

I notice more and more often that a man just grabs his dick and rearranges it as if it's a super normal thing to do. I see it mostly when they are in sportswear or swimwear, but sometimes also just in regular pants out and about. Did this recently become a mainstream socially acceptable thing? I can't remember this being so openly normal when I was younger.

For context I'm from the Netherlands but I also on holiday see men of various Western European backgrounds do it.

Please excuse my male ignorance, just one of those random thoughts.

Seeing as y'all can have multiple orgasms during sex, what is the number and/or how long would a session woukd particularly last based on you're preference?

Again please excuse my male ignorance, im just curious.

im 18f, guy is 53M. matched on hinge, he asked to support me/be my “boyfriend”. i thought it was a joke so i matched for shits n gigs. he said he wanted a dl relationship, met with him in person. he said hed pay 1k a week, wanted to see me 2-3 times for about 2hrs each time. for 300-400 dollars. he doesnt care if i date other people/sleep with them as long as he knows. divorcee of 7 yrs w kids that i will not be meeting. im pretty sure this counts as being a sugar baby or something?? am i wrong to take him up?

tldr: 18f matched w 53m on hinge, got offered 1k weekly to see him 2-3 times. is this prostitution? am i wrong to accept?

this will be deleted after a few hours. please give your honest opinion.

Social media is rampant with extreme hatred and Anti British sentiment coming from Americans.

The things that Americans hate most about the British are

The accents (this seems to get them really angry and some Americans are obsessed with hating)

the people (who they seem to really really hate)

and of course the food but why the other two?

Je pose cette question parce que ma mère me disait que quand j'étais petit je pleurais sans faire de bruit et qu'elle se rendait pas compte de temps en temps

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They act so surprised when they know

Im an indian guy on vacation at an island resort for a few weeks in at a popular global destination

And a few foreign women have approached me and called me hot , they ask where im from and i say India and they always say "Really? Wow/Damn" and "You are good looking"

For refernece im north indian and pretty light skinned, i have abs ,athletic body and light brown eyes and im around 5'11

What do people assume indians look like? Black?

India has a lot of variety of skin tones and also skin tone doesnt matter in terms of how good you look but i feel like from their responses they definately thought so (them not me)

I have a male best friend, but I am usually a bit flaky, so people don't typically want to become very close friends with me. Whenever I go somewhere, I also invite him—partly out of respect, but also because it makes me feel comfortable. I do this because I don't want him to complain the next day that I didn't invite him to something.

However, two days ago, he went to another city with another friend of mine. This friend and I aren't very close, but we know each other. My best friend and I were talking the night before he left, yet he never mentioned it. The next evening, I casually texted him asking where he was, and he told me he was in another city because this other friend had invited him. He didn't ask me to come, nor did he tell me the day before that he was planning to go.

I was genuinely hurt. I haven't made a big deal out of it, but it still bothers me. Should I confront him honestly, or is it better to stay quiet? I just feel like if I confront him, I'll look pathetic since I don't really have any other friends."

Mine was an ass in school and still is an ass now. Had the most vivid and perfect dark emerald eyes though.

I just feel like I'm not overall strong in terms of making decisions and taking actions. I still feel like I'm living behind a curtain. So like I'm trying to figure out how do you become strong and face life. For some time now I have been thinking of moving whether it's Dallas or Chicago but umm I just can't makeup my mind. I also don't understand what are you supposed to look in a place where you move. How are you supposed to think long term

I've still been experimenting with walking around the house naked and doing stuff around the house naked whilst no one else is around, like my chores, cooking, cleaning. Before then I would just be naked in my room.

I am really enjoying being naked and I feel so free, so it got me wondering if anyone else like to do the same things?

Hi everyone,

I've been thinking about creating a separate account to document my fitness, muscle gain, health and lifestyle journey. My main goal is to track my progress, stay consistent, and maybe inspire myself and a few others along the way. The biggest thing holding me back is recording videos at the gym. I feel awkward whenever I set up my phone, and I keep thinking that someone I know might see me, or that friends might make fun of me for trying to create fitness content. That thought alone makes me hesitate to even start. I'm also not comfortable showing my face in my videos, at least for now. I'd prefer to make faceless content, but I'm not sure how to record it in a way that still looks good and engaging. For those of you who create content, did you have these fears when you started? How did you overcome them? Do you think I should just start anyway? And if you make faceless content, I'd love to know how you film your workouts and what camera angles or setup work best. I really appreciate any advice or personal experiences. Thanks!

Just curious how women perceive men in their 30s and 40s who like Marvel. Does it give you the ick? Do you like the hobby? Is he childish?

Just genuinely curious what it feels like and if it’s any different between genders

What do you feel all around? What’s the difference between like kinda in the mood and NEED TO FUCK haha. What sets you off into that mood?

26M here and it's been a burning question for years. Since I was a teen, I was into imagery like PlayBoy. Not in a "haha, boobs" only deal but I genuinely like the 80s/90s composition and style those centerfolds have. I have done photography work with models and recreated some of them myself so it's less of a porn thing (regular porn is meh to me) and really like an "I dig that look" thing. It's been a side-hobby.

I recently bought a house and had my parents move in with me last year since COVID got them into bankruptcy. I pay for all the bills, 70% of the mortgage, work a pretty high stable job and doing well for myself overall.

Lately, I've been in an "I don't give a fuck" phase where I just hang up those Playboy centerfolds in my room all over and I do have certain styled anime figures that look like those centerfolds as well. They're all in an organized, curated, display shelf. I don't let ANYONE come into my room other than relatives who know about my interests (cousins) or my folks (because they live in the house). Those who've seen my room don't care about the theme or dig it.

I don't talk or mention these interests to anyone. This is all solely compartmentalized to my home life. If I ever go out on a date, this wouldn't even a be thought to bring up.

As for relationships, I stopped caring. Genuinely. I really like where I'm at and just want to promotions and move up in life. I don't really want what they come with. Anyone who wants someone to change is setting up for failure imo.

My questions now are:

1) Is it really fucked up to have my room set-up like that, given I limit access?

2) Do people perceive certain body types as more appropriate/inappropriate for display? (Body proportions, features, etc)

3) Parents: How would you feel if your only son, of similar age, pulled the same thing?

4) Women: What are your thoughts on guys in a similar setting?

I'm really interested to hear your thoughts, everyone.

I’m new to having sex and every time I’ve had it with my girlfriend I can never finish, it’s weird because I am really attracted to her but every time we have sex she ends up finishing before me and then she won’t want to keep going, we can end up going for up to 30 mins and I still won’t be close, it offends her aswell because she thinks I’m not attracted to her, I think it probably has something to do with me always thinking about it, but I’ve also always had a specific way of masterbating which isn’t the same motion as having sex, it’s just weird becuase it’s usually the other way round that girls can’t finish so I’m confused why I can’t, is there something medically wrong with me or is it just because I’m new to sex

hi guys! facial tattoos are a huge part of my culture.
the placements are usually on your forehead, chin, or cheeks with the design being pretty minimalist (lines and dots).
i know a lot of people think face tattoos are unattractive and i agree (to an extent).
but do people view cultural/tribal tattoos differently?
id love to get a cultural tattoo since they have a deep meaning, and ofc because they’re part of my culture but i am scared of it making me unattractive.
what are your opinions on cultural/tribal facial tattoos?

edit:
for all the people worrying about me finding a job i can reassure you that i currently have a stable job and that my line of work doesn’t care about appearance especially because we don’t work with customers! and no this will definitely not be my first tattoo :)