Hey, I’m newer at tarot (been doing it for around 2-3 months) and I wanted some help interpreting a spread I did on myself about my partner. He kinda blind-sighted me last weekend and it ended up very ambiguous on if we are broken up or on a break or if he needs time to work on himself etc.
To get some clarification I did a romantic feeling spread on him and our relationship.
"Romantic feelings" spread:
Cards 1-3, what does “my partners name” feel about me
Cards 4-5, how do “my partners name” sees me
Card 6, advice, what should I do
1: reversed 8 of cups, I interpreted this to mean that they are unsure about the future and they have a lack of wanting to fully commit
2: the star, he hopes we could rediscover each other maybe later (?) to start fresh
3: justice, he’s trying to find his truth and be impartial in his assessment of our relationship
4: the emperor, he sees me as someone very conservative (in this context, ready for the societal next step of our relationships - marriage, kids)
5: the tower reversed, this one confused me : sees me as unstable, trying to maintain the relationship but eventually failing
6: reversed queen of cups, my advice would be that I’m acting too codependent in the relationship/situation, I should prioritize myself and grow before anything
Overall I take it as he’s emotionally conflicted, still has some hope in the relationship but trying to assess it very logical and fairly. He sees me as someone who wants commitment and that’s trying hard to make it happen. My advice is to not forget myself in this relationship, reel it in and take care of my own emotional needs.
Like I said I’m new to tarot and it’s the first time I do a spread that’s very emotional/close to me so I wanted to have some perspective and see if I interpreted this good