I’m feeling really embarrassed and sooooooo fucking stupid, so please be kind. More than a week ago I met someone on on a chatting platform. We talked for around 3 days, then we moved to discord and chat for hours every day, and the connection honestly felt amazing. In just those 3 days
Over those few days:
We sexted. He sent me explicit photos (including genital photos). And his face even
I sent him 2 normal selfies.
I also sent a few explicit videos, but my face was never shown in any of the explicit videos.
I sent around 10 seconds of voice messages.
He knew my nickname, my birthday, my country, my degree (not specifically named) and my tiktok bio briefly mentioned the city I study in (I’ve now removed it) it was a alt acc btw.
I never knew his full name.
I got suspicious and reverse-image searched one of the face photos he had sent me. It was an exact match to a photo that had been posted on Reddit about a year ago by an account that has since been deleted.
I confronted him by sending him the evidence. He read my messages and immediately blocked my Discord account without saying anything.
Since then I’ve:
\- Changed my usernames and profile pictures.
\- Made my personal art account private.
\- Removed identifying information from my bios.
\- change my alt instagram to private. Nothing links to my main acc at all
He never threatened me, never asked me for money, and never said he would leak anything. He simply blocked me after I confronted him.
Has anyone else been in a similar situation where they exchanged intimate content before discovering the other person wasn’t who they claimed to be?
Realistically, how worried should I be about my privacy and safety? I know I should assume he may have saved what I sent, but since my face wasn’t visible in the explicit videos and he doesn’t know my full identity, I’m trying to understand the actual level of risk.
Is there anything else I should do, or have I already taken the right precautions?
I know sending intimate content was my decision, and I already regret it. I’m not looking for people to tell me I was stupid. I already feel awful. I’m just hoping for honest advice from anyone who’s been through something similar or has experience with situations like this.
Thank you.