I'm an introverted, educated, decent looking, and presentable white male. Slim-fit. 5'11" 150lb. I'm seeking an adult partner who is somewhat dominant or switchy, and who can enjoy a very intense dynamic (both in kink and non kink) that centers around you being my complete priority. I need a high maintenance partner that craves and needs constant attention; to heavily encourage and grow my obsession of you; and encourage an intense addiction to you that is impossible to satisfy. I want everything to be about you, for you to become a. Complete priority over my life. That even in our "getting to know each other" stage, I should put you above all of my friends, hobbies, and any social activities. I seek to develop a lasting codependent relationship with someone desires to reciprocate and build upon intensity in a multi layered passionate dynamic.
It might seem weird, but I intensely desire an incredibly possessive partner. I want you to feel comfortable blowing up my phone ..to know where I am, or who im with, and what im doing. To go through my phone whenever you want and keep me from having any control over it when you are around me. I want you to actively crave attention and encourage me to give in to your needs as much and as often as possible. More than im even capable of giving. To enjoy convincing me to stop whatever i'm doing to give it to you: to develop a chemistry with playful demands and sexualized games between us.. to be as needy and as clingy as your heart desires, to the point that you become a complete priority over my social life. To even be so possessive that you keep me from spending my time or attention on anyone but you. To even encourage my hobbies to be centered on you, and be disappointed when my focus on you shifts or lingers too far away from you.
I actually do have a very intense isolation kink. For my partner to play a manipulative role in keeping all of my attention for herself.. To use and leverage emotional, sensual, and even sexually seductive advances to keep me from going out and to encourage me to be weak to my compulsive needs for you instead. If I have plans, you can convince me to blow them off or coerce me to stay home. Hold me, or even tie me down, and force me to cuddle you for hours. Sexual sabotage and being teased into ruining my plans to give you intimacy instead is a huge kink of mine. If im about to leave, just play dress up, strut around, or pose in something that you know will distract me and take my eyes away from anything else. Perhaps convince me to stay as you hold my crotch and show me how much better it would be if I stay with you. Make me prove love by giving you more attention and to have me look at and stare (or goon) at you, even as you do other things and ignore me. Encourage and train my compulsive male weakness to prioritize you and goon to you as you wish. Show me that the only friend I need is your pussy. Completely sabotage my plans by sitting on my face and bouncing on my lips for hours instead of letting me go out or do anything. We can develop little rituals of you wearing skimpy outfits around me and tease me into spending hours fondling and admiring you, or gooning to you for long periods of time. As I alleged to before, I'd enjoy it if you demanded amore and more attention, even as you ignore me and read a book, or watch a show, or doomscroll on your phone, or play games. Demand I pamper and passionately make out with your pussy as you go through my phone and see what I've been doing on it, any time you want. I am also a huge fan of the most prolonged softcore foreplay, teasing, edging, even long sessions of intense adoration for hours at a time, denying each other (or just denying me) while constantly intensifying our intimacy all the more.
There is something so intense about constantly engaging in multi hour long and seemingly endless foreplay, having the most sexually tense experiences regardless of how softcore our interactions actually are. Im not in a hurry for intercourse. I in fact find it to be even more intense with the longer we prolong it. We could have excessive soft core tease and deny sessions for each other: then as the sexual tension and frustration builds, a more rough and dominant side of us might reveal itself.
We can both be dominant and submissive to each other in our own ways. The only power I really want in our dynamic is to be able to choose and buy cute or sexy outfits and lingerie for you, to collect them for you to wear for me when we are at home, just for you to use as a tool to manipulate me with and keep me controlled. To be a complete cock tease as you let me spend hours admiring and adoring you, gooning to you in whatever canvass of fabric that I pick out for your beauty. I need you to be as possessive and as selfish as you want. Perhaps it could simply be a part of our dynamic, that i am able to dress you however i want, so you can keep me as maliable and weak to you as possible, to keep me from going out, to encourage my obsession and adoration of you, to keep me gooning for you even longer, to make you my priority... and you can control everything else.
You can always pick the music, the TV shows, the movies, etc. Refuse to let me watch porn, and only let me watch videos we make of you instead. Everything should always be about you and giving you the attention you need constantly. Dictate where I can go, who I can hang out with, or to just perpetually keep me home as you constantly encourage my ever growing addiction to you. You choose whatever tv show or movie you want, and I focus on you. I admit even having incredibly intense fantasies of a partner making me give up entertainment entirely for her, and replacing it with videos and audios of her instead. (I have so many intense ideas I'd like to share with the right person)
I do crave consistent playfully manipulative sabotage and control over my social life, so that you will be a priority over everything else. I crave codependency. I crave a relationship dynamic that others might consider unhealthy, but will actually be considered healthy for us. I would really want to become obsessed and desperate for you.... to have an absolute necessity to constantly adore you and be intimate with you, and for this to become the most important part of my life. I want to be the worst addict for you. Obsessed and hopeless without you. I'd want you to become my priority to the point that I'd give up time doing just about anything to be with you instead, but more importantly, that you want it, and need me to give up friends to make you feel more important. I crave a relationship so engulfed in obsessive passion and sexual intensity that both of us will be unable to escape our desirous addiction for more sensually intimate play, or to create more and more experiences for each other that cater to each of our most desirous needs. To be lost in this world of fantasy, and roleplay, and lust crazed love that we perpetually explore.
The ideal person is someone who craves constant attention.. who is never sexually satisfied... who is easily or even likes to manipulatively pretend to be easily jealous, which I feel can make our dynamic more intense; who enjoys mind games ; who craves control and enjoys the idea of molding a male to be weaker for her. Someone who would truly enjoy using love, sensuality, and the desire to cum, to pry away deeper into a male psyche and encourage intense obsession and weakness for her; to ever more increase my dependency, necessity, desire, and sexual addiction for you while also making it nearly impossible to function without you. To really enjoy becoming the center of my life and enjoy being the center of my entire world.
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