r/SFr4r Mar 07 '25

META If you're going to report a post (please do), do it like this.

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46 Upvotes

r/SFr4r Feb 11 '23

META PSA: Don't be an idiot, if it seems suspicious, it is.

191 Upvotes

It is sad for several reasons that I have to write this, but, our community has been fraught with scammers as of recent. We play whack-a-mole, and knock down > 100 fraudulent posts a day but some still get through.

If someone is asking to communicate outside of reddit, ESPECIALLY IF THEY'RE ASKING FOR COMPROMISING PICTURES, just say no. We've had several instances where the scammer receives said photos, and then immediately adds all of your friends and family to a group chat on your social media and attempts to share the pictures if you don't pay them off.

Men: Understand that women in this society have disproportionate access to sex; and you're not god's gift to the 'fairer sex', ergo if someone is begging you to send them a photo of your shlong right out of the gate, you should treat that request with the healthy amount of skepticism that it deserves.

Or don't, feel free to be one of the horror stories in mod-mail of someone sending your friends and family a photo of your dick.

Use your head, and not the one in your pants.

Women: Have patience. We sort through a shit-show on a regular basis. In the off-chance you post something that smells suspiciously like the 1000 pieces of scam/spam we just cleared and we ask you for a bit of additional information; calling us 'sexist' in modmail just makes you the asshole and part of the problem. Sorry not sorry.

Everyone: do your part to flag obvious scam posts. Of 45k users, most scam posts don't get flagged at all.


r/SFr4r 4h ago

T4M 27 [T4M] #Concord - fem nonbinary looking for a masculine guy’s dick and balls to toy with and edge

4 Upvotes

hiii, i’m feminine and non-binary (male@birth if that matters to you) i’ve been having a tough time finding a guy to play with. i’ve been in craving a guy to strip naked and enjoy his dick, balls and body for as long as i feel like. i love having a guy lay back, letting me fondle, caress and play with him. i really want to try edging a guy, i get overly excited when a guy’s about to cum and i let him cum but i wanna practice my edging game ;3 you just have to promise that if i fail at first, you’ll let me try again right after hehe

i love cut & uncut, tall and masculine men, BWC is a +++++ YOU HOST!! Also, i’m

interested in finding a guy who i can see more than once, i need consistent dick please. If you’re only visiting or can’t commit to something more long term, be clear about that with me and i’m expecting an extra long session from you ;)

i’m 5’8, hispanic, avg body, long hair, long nails, adorable tbh. pls dont ask if i pass as a woman, because i am NOT a woman.


r/SFr4r 4h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 45 [M4F] #EastBay - Seeking intelligent woman for ongoing relationship

2 Upvotes

Hi there! I'm an ENM, married man with kids. My wife is fully aware and supportive of this post. I'm a 45 y/o, 5'8", slim/fit physique, mixed Asian/white, progressive, over-educated scientist dad with modest ear piercings. I love to read real books. I enjoy board games, travel, interesting conversations, dinosaurs, bugs, sports, history. In the bedroom I can take the lead.

I'm looking for an intelligent woman for fun, interesting dates. Hopefully you're also pretty busy or otherwise ok with 1-4 dates per month. Would love to do phone calls between dates too.

I'm very cautious when it comes to safety. I've always tested negative, including HSV. I have been vaccinated for HPV. Typically use condoms even for oral, initially.

Say hello and tell me about the best book you've read in the past year!


r/SFr4r 1h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - looking for a girl to eat out

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Hey! 32M from SF (very close to Daly City) looking for a girl to eat out. I’m 5’8, hwp, ddf, and white. This can be either a one time thing or recurring, depending on the vibes. Not looking for any reciprocation, just looking for pussy to devour while you lose your voice.

Lots of foreplay will be included. Please be ddf and shaved. I’m free the next few hours or late tonight and can host!


r/SFr4r 3h ago

M4F 38 [M4F] #Eastbay - Looking for a casual friend

1 Upvotes

Hey there Bay Area

Looking for a lady who has similar interests such as but hiking, sightseeing, watching new movies in theaters, traveling, food, sports, music, down for some SFW and NSFW fun.

I’m 38, in a LTR, 6’2, 175 athletic, brown hair, beard, blue eyes, bwc, discreet, good communication, drug and disease free (420 friendly)

Do you have a bf or husband that doesn’t give you the attention you desire?

I am not looking to change your situation or mine, would be great to add some positive and possibility physical energy we’re both lacking in and out of the house.

You: Born Female, 21+, discreet, drug and disease free, has similar interests I mentioned in my post, in the EB (or can be mobile to), can hold a conversation.


r/SFr4r 8h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #santaclara - handsome & fit, stuck in a hotel

2 Upvotes

I’ll get right to the point. I’m stuck in a hotel during the day today - in Santa Clara. Recently single, 5 11, handsome, fit. Mixed Asian. Would love somebody to keep me company if you’re in the area. Happy to meet for coffee first to see if we vibe but I can definitely host :) must be today. Please also be DDF, respectful. Happy to swap photos. Pls message me ASL and how far you are from SC! Even if you have work drop by during ur lunch break haha!


r/SFr4r 4h ago

M4F 41 [M4F] #Noe - Hookup with this fit dad…

1 Upvotes

Married, so this is probably not for everyone, but I’m looking for someone for a one time/ short term hook up.

I’m 5’8, south Asian, fit (workout regularly), 420 friendly, kink curious and love to please. Looking for someone who’s been craving some physical attention and likes to please as well.

Disease free, sane and willing to host if the timing works out.

You: all I ask is you be somewhat HWP & disease free.

My interests/ kinks include giving massages/ RAOMD, RAOBJ/ age gaps/ hotwives, vixens

If this interests you, DM me with a little about yourself and the name of one of your favorite nsfw subs on reddit. (I love me some [r/gonewild30plus](r/gonewild30plus) ;))

Let’s exchange sfw photos, meet for coffee and discuss sexual health and what you’re looking for before heading inside for some fun.


r/SFr4r 4h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 28 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Can I eat you out pls? No reciprocation needed!

1 Upvotes

Sooo eating pussy is one of my fav things ever, and I like to think I’m really good at it! I’ve given so many orgasms to girls (including giving some their first squirting orgasms) by eating them out. I’m a huge people pleaser and can go down for literally hours without stopping!

People have loved how good I eat them out that some have caught feelings for me! I also make sure to make each person orgasm 4-5 times on average and have never had a time when I've failed to make them cum! In the past few months, I’ve eaten out dozens of girls and given a countless number of orgasms but I’m always looking to give more!

I’m simply looking for someone who enjoys having their pussy ate or maybe just wants to experience cumming from oral for the first time; I promise I won’t quit til I make you cum! Age isn't an issue (18+ ofc) as I've been with girls ranging from 20-46!

I’m DDF, hwp, and can host in downtown! Feel free to send a message if you feel like this could be a fun time and I’d be happy to exchange pictures and all that :)


r/SFr4r 5h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Shy, Nerdy girls make the best FWBs! Will you be mine?

0 Upvotes

Hey! Looking for a local FWB for a casual, ongoing fun in SF!

I am into the shy, nerdy type with a petite figure. Someone I can nerd out over with as we cuddle. I play video games, watch some anime, and a movie geek. Super excited for Odyssey in IMAX! Trying to read more lately as well, so happy to take any recommendations if you have any. Also got into playing OPTcg if you want to play! Being a foodie or a boba/matcha girl is also always a good sign.

A bit more about me - I am Korean American. 5'9 in height, fit around 170 lbs with an uncircumcised 7" dick. STD/STI tested in 6/2026 with results as proof. Nsfw pics on my profile as well. Happy to share more pics and chat before meeting up in person.

If you're looking for a FWB who is friendly, respectful, has great hygiene, and can deliver you an out of world experience, send me a chat! Let's test our bedroom chemistry :)


r/SFr4r 6h ago

PLATONIC / FRIENDSHIP / ACTIVITY PARTNER 39 [M4F] #Oakland - Seeking Discrete BBW

1 Upvotes

A little about me, I stand about 58, and I weigh around 200 lbs. I have a very nice muscular.Build, and i'm very height, weight proportionate

I'm funny, laid back. Don't really have strong opinions on much. I just work and go home.

Hoping to find another attached, mature female out there, who's in the same type of situationship, that I am in and who is missing that sense of touch and feeling, I'm trying to find someone that I could send funny messages to during the day to make you laugh. And if we click well, we could do something else from there


r/SFr4r 6h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #Eastbay - Mature woman

1 Upvotes

This isn’t limited to the East Bay, but that’s where I’m currently based.

I’m a down-to-earth, active guy who enjoys staying fit, spending time outdoors, and exploring new places. I love traveling, trying new foods and experiences, and making the most of life.

Over the past few years, I’ve found myself increasingly drawn to older women. I really admire the confidence, maturity, life experience, and perspective that often come with age. I’ve come to appreciate meaningful conversations, emotional connection, and being with someone who genuinely knows who they are.

If you’re an older woman looking for companionship, great conversation, romance, someone to share new adventures with, or even just a relaxing massage, I’d love the chance to get to know you.

To break the ice: What would your idea of a perfect day together look like?


r/SFr4r 17h ago

M4M 31 [M4M] #SanFrancisco - JO bros

2 Upvotes

31m dl asian bro looking for chill JO bros in the city. Send me a DM if you’re in the same boat. We can chill, watch porn, jerk together, open to ideas!

5’9 165 if that matters.

#SanFrancisco
#SF
#BayArea


r/SFr4r 19h ago

M4F 37 [M4F] #San Ramon - Any Indian women interested in working out at 24 fitness?

2 Upvotes

I'll probably be heading to the gym within the next hour.

We could do a light workout like abs and body exercises and can chill in the parking lot afterwards.

We could do some chatting and foreplay. Or inside the gym we could hold hands and find excuses to touch each other.


r/SFr4r 19h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] # SanFrancisco -6'4" and handsome, naturally dominant, craving licking a pretty pink pussy

2 Upvotes

Hey there, I'm white, 35, 6'4" handsome and craving licking a pretty pink pussy. I'm told I am exceptionally gifted at licking pussy. I'm in sales, so naturally I am very good at reading people. My go to method is direct and consistent licking of your clit, but I I'm aware women like different styles, so happy to discover what makes you shudder in delight on the fly.

Ideally this will lead to more than just me licking until you cum, I love 69 and I'm hung, so would love to stretch you out with my cock if you are comfortable with it.

I'm not only STI and STD free, but I am very hygienic (take 2 showers a day) and I am very mindful of how I smell. I expect this to be reciprocated.

I live in SF and Im mobile, but can host for the right situation.


r/SFr4r 15h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 28 [M4F] #Berkeley - 7" Big thick middle-eastern cock looking for someone that can deepthroat it all and take it all the way deep

1 Upvotes

I am a tall slim guy with a really big, thick cock. I'm well groomed, clean, and I'm just looking for a no strings attached hook-up or maybe an ongoing fling. I am looking for a size queen who likes really big dick, honestly, a really tall and thick girl is the best case match for me. I love wide hips and big tits. I'm looking forward to meeting you + verify over chat first (please send a emoticon of a yellow heart so I know you read this thanks)


r/SFr4r 19h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Hung white guy looking for a casual friend for fun

2 Upvotes

I'd love to play soon. I have a few pics on my profile; if you'd like to see more just reach out. I'm hoping someone out there is interested in working a nice, uncut BWC. I'm DDF.

About me:

I'm white, 6'1, 170lbs. My large uncut cock is pretty straight, and reasonably thick. You can be the judge of just how nice it is.

I'm primarily interested in women or couples 18-45, DDF, but shoot your shot. I'm looking for a hottie that wants to be used, someone depraved with too much time on their hands, a giver who is feeling generous with their mouth and body. Let's figure out how to have a good time together,

No strings, stress relief.

I'm looking for casual fun, but open minded.


r/SFr4r 16h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] #DalyCity - Foggy city, your throne atop an eager face

1 Upvotes

The daze and warmth of a half-forgotten dream - nearly bucolic, pastoral - insatiable meets ravenous.

A cute face wants to be your occasional daytime plaything - bucket list is to be nestled between you as you sit very seriously in yet another all-hands call. Tousle my hair, pat me away when your concentration wavers - have me nearly purring with needing you more. I want to focus entirely on your pleasure in all the ways that you want it (and um, yes, even if that means you crave a tongue that...wanders).

Respectful, witty - and above all, want to make you feel amazing (both in the - damn I feel good, and the I'm gonna cum sorts of way). If you lean dominant (though not strictly necessary), have the flexibility to host, are funny, love a slow build - I'd love to have you mold me exactly as you see fit.

Banter, early (SFW) pics, and a very real playdate when you feel compelled. Be local, cheers!


r/SFr4r 16h ago

M4F 22 [m4f] #NorthBay - College student on summer break :)

1 Upvotes

Just finished my junior year of mechanical engineering down in SoCal and I’m back in the Bay Area for summer looking forward to taking somewhat of a break…

Ideally looking for a something like a summer fling/fwb but I am also looking for a tennis partner so if you are interested in one or even both of those things do let me know!

I’m 6’ tall, decent shape, mixed, with black curly hair and brown eyes. Would consider myself conventionally attractive. I have a plethora of hobbies and interests but the major ones are cars and cooking (: I do play a lot of different sports from time to time but at the moment tennis has been headlining since I’m recovering from acute injury from earlier this year.

I am staying with family here, so I’m unable to host if we get there but I’m more than happy to travel around the bay for the right person.

If any of that interests you, feel free to reach out. I promise I don’t bite unless you ask me to…

Have a great week! :)


r/SFr4r 1d ago

M4F 34 [M4F] #SanJose - The Art of the Tease

7 Upvotes

Back in college I made my girlfriend cum simply by massage her breast and teasing her nipples.

That single orgasm kicked off a lifelong kink for sensual massage and the “Art of the Tease”.

Drop me a message and you can see how much better I’ve gotten since that experience years ago…

About me: 35, white. In good shape and conventionally attractive. I’m very easy going with a calming personality (see user name)

You: all ages and body types welcome. The biggest requirement is that you be kind and confident enough to be able to fully relax around a stranger.

If your interested, send me a message with the name of a song you would like to have on the soundtrack during your massage :)