I’ve been sitting on this for years, and it genuinely disturbs me to the point where I just need to get it off my chest. I cannot comprehend how this is happening in a society that claims to be so strictly traditional and tribal.
I have a friend—he’s a Baloch guy. Physically, he’s nothing special. Not particularly handsome, doesn't have an elite background. But somehow, this guy has unlocked a level of access to high-society, ultra-rich circles in Quetta (and other major cities) that reads like a literal dark script.
It all started a few years ago when he hooked up on Instagram with this girl from a very prominent Achakzai family in Quetta. Her dad lives and works in Germany running high-end showrooms, so money is an absolute non-issue for them. She lives here with her mom and little sister.
And let me tell you, this girl is easily the most beautiful, stunning girl I have ever seen in Quetta. She looks like a model. But her mindset is completely wild, and she is entirely in control of this dynamic.
She gives him massive amounts of money completely on her own accord. She literally handed him her ATM card and funded his entire lifestyle, explicitly telling him: "Look, we are never getting married. I don't want to marry you. Eventually, I’m going to marry some ultra-rich guy from my own social class. Right now, I just want to have wild fun, and I want to do it with you."
Because there's zero pressure of commitment, they take things to the absolute extreme. They don't just stay behind closed doors—they do reckless, crazy stuff in cars, in public spaces, and wherever they can get away with it.
But it gets even crazier. She actively acts like his hookup manager. She genuinely does not care if he hooks up with others, so she finds and sets up other girls for him. Whenever he travels to Lahore, Islamabad, or Karachi, she coordinates things or connects him with people.
Once, when he was staying in Lahore, she traveled there just to see him. They booked a room at Avari, and she explicitly told him she wanted to try a threesome with another guy. He called up a friend, and they spent the weekend doing exactly that.
She also started looping in her rich friends from BUITEMS and other elite institutions back in Quetta. There was an instance where she told my friend to go to her classmate's house (a Sayed girl) because her family was away in Islamabad. My friend went over and literally lived in that house for a week or two, doing whatever he wanted with her—even though that girl had a serious boyfriend at the time.
The main Achakzai girl knows everything. She knows he takes her money and spends it on other women, and she’s the one fueling it because she just wants to live out this chaotic lifestyle before she settles down for an arranged luxury marriage. In fact, she and her wealthy friends from university have reportedly rented out a private flat in Quetta specifically to host parties—drinking, substance use, and bringing guys over.
Now, because of the networking and word of mouth, rich girls and even married women from prominent local tribes (Achakzai, Kasi, Hazara, and Baloch) are approaching him directly on Instagram. Just recently, this incredibly wealthy Kasi girl slid into his DMs. She told him, "I have a vacant flat in Jinnah Town you can use whenever you want, but you're coming over to my place when I call." Married women are literally risking their lives inviting this random guy into their homes while their husbands are away.
He has affairs running concurrently across Quetta, Lahore, Islamabad, and Karachi. He completely hit the jackpot with that first girl. She’s gorgeous, funds his life, rejects marriage, supplies him with other women, and treats the entire thing like a toxic, high-adrenaline game.
Quetta is supposed to be this hyper-conservative, traditional tribal area where people are strictly monitored. But behind closed doors, the elite tier is living a completely parallel, unhinged reality where wealthy women are calling the shots, paying the bills, and using guys for fun before marrying for status. It genuinely disturbs me how deep the hypocrisy goes.
Has anyone else witnessed this kind of hidden, transactional culture in seemingly conservative cities, or is my friend just living in a glitch in the matrix?