hi! im sophie, im 23, from hertfordshire england.

I am an eclectic pagan and witch i would love to have a community of fellow pagans to talk to about my practice and general life events.
But what I’m mostly looking for is a partner!!

I am also now making a digital grimoire on notion so any ideas on spreads etc. would be sooo appreciated !! I have just decided I need to start it again from scratch so i will be doing that soon

I love learning, i am a creative person (music and crafts!) i am proudly neurodivergent (AuDHD). My general interests range a lot - adhd at its finest. I love crochet, diy , cozy games, music and musical theatre!!

This post is a bit chaotic - i am just trying to get all the key points down. feel free to ask me any questions!

I am looking for a romantic partner as well as friends and community!

I’d like to rebuild an intentional community of likeminded creative, esoteric, bohemian, herbalist, and magical friends and collaborators in NYC.

Writers, painters, sculptors, tarot and oracle card readers.

Are you growing herbs and medicinal plants on your windowsill or balcony? I want to meet you.

Do you have an ancestral altar at home?

Do you make tinctures, teas, salves, and potions?

Do you know your way into and out of spell work, divination, and energy work? Step right up! Raise your hand high so I can see you.

Let’s go foraging on the weekends. Let’s hit up some or all of the botánicas in NYC.

This might be a long shot, however, here I am. Drop a line and say hello!

So, tl;dr version - autistic (very autistic, make that), bard mindset (witness/remembrancer rather than practitioner), paganacht bhandia devotee looking for friends on their own Autistically Specific© path that never seems to match up with anyone else's.

My relationship with the goddesses is through story, and song, and poetry; and as the kind of bard who'd have been kicked out of the bardic college for not following the rules, it's entirely framed in my own interpretation of What Is Written. My prayers, if thats what they are, are the new stories I write about them - or a mortal who reflects their aspect - in settings both old and new.

This gets me in a lot of trouble. I say the wrong thing. I accidentally cause offence when I am genuinely trying to engage in some discourse. I am constantly irreverant and make light of all things divine, because I reckon the gods like a good joke as much as we do - who doesn't love to laugh?

The Morrigan is the core of my praxis, and six other major goddesses. I am a little bit like her (very militant) sometimes; such is the way with Crow Gang. German/Norse figures form a smaller part of what I believe, as do Greek ones (especially Selene), but Gaelic is the core.

Crows, the moon and seeing patterns of goddess representations (e.g. how the Morrigan is a strategist like Athena, or how Brigid is a hearth goddess like Hestia) are my praxis bread and butter. It's patterns all the way down the road to Scythia.

Some thoughts off the top of my head that I am dying to get into a good theological tussle over how they relate to The Autistic Experience:

• Lugh Samildanach becoming high bard is an autism allegory, specifically that "magpie sees shiny thing" part of it that makes you interested in ALL OF THE THINGS

• The gods can, if not cure, at least help you control your neophobia-induced procrastination through the seven day Greco-Roman or German model

• If you have no Theory of Mind, as many of us don't, then Oscar Wilde was right that everyone should have their own mythos, and it shouldnt matter if any given two conflict each other (you telling me the gods cant maintain all those versions of themselves at once?)

• The difference between stories and what may actually be true about the gods is academic, specifically with regard to the above

• I'm not saying bards were entirely a class exclusively of autistic people, but I am saying that I think it'd be the role autistic people in ancient Ireland would've gravitated to ("My job is to just remember stuff, and kings have to feed and house me? By Brigid, I'm in!")

So, anyone with a similar experience, or if the above just sounds of interest, do pop yourself on the nearest crow and come round my grove for a wee chin wag, eh?

I'm an American living in Gothenburg, and I'm looking to meet a woman who is genuinely interested in becoming part of a long-term, family-oriented polygynous relationship.

To be upfront, I'm legally married. My wife and I have intentionally chosen this relationship structure, and she supports the idea of growing our family this way. While the legal marriage is between the two of us, our goal is that every long-term partner is treated with equal respect, and consideration in building our future together. This isn't about hierarchy for hierarchy's sake. It's about creating a cooperative family where everyone has a voice and everyone's well-being matters.

We're not looking for casual dating, hookups, unicorn hunting, or someone to "spice up" an existing relationship. We're looking for someone who genuinely wants a stable, committed partnership with me, as my wife will not be interested in any intimate connection. Our hopes are that eventually a family built on trust, communication, and shared responsibility develops.

A little about me:

• Academic background with a strong focus in anthropology, sociology, and psychology.
• Professionally working in the tech industry.
• I enjoy deep conversations, learning from different perspectives, and people who think for themselves rather than simply following social trends.
• Family-oriented and interested in creating a multigenerational support system where adults work together instead of trying to carry everything alone.
• I believe healthy relationships are built through honesty, accountability, emotional maturity, and the willingness to grow.
• Enjoy fantasy, scifi, boardgames (i.e TTRPGs) and other indoor settings to relax.

What I'm hoping to find:

• Emotionally mature and intellectually curious.
• Interested in long-term commitment rather than casual dating.
• Values communication and can navigate disagreements respectfully.
• Wants to build something lasting instead of constantly searching for "the next best thing."
• Open to children or already has children (not a requirement, just not a dealbreaker).

I understand this lifestyle isn't common, especially in the West, and I'm not trying to convince anyone it's the "right" way to live. I'm simply looking for someone who already feels that a cooperative family structure makes sense to them.

If any of this resonates with you, I'd enjoy hearing your story. Even if we ultimately decide we're not compatible, I'm always happy to have thoughtful conversations with people who are genuinely curious and open-minded.

Are you interested? Please click on the link https://www.reddit.com/r/paganism/application/

After reviewing your application, we will reach out to you via Reddit or Discord to let you know whether or not you were selected for an interview. Please be patient with us as we process all applications!

With kindness, The r/Paganism Mod Team 🌳

Heya!

I am looking for some friends who are Pagan. My anxiety is bad and I have always had trouble meeting people in real life so I wanted to try to find my people online.

A bit about me. My name is Lily. I am 36. Trans female. She/her pronouns. In Central New York. I love to draw, watch anime, play video games, go for walks and listen to music.

I have been interested in Wicca since I was 13 in 2003. Felt drawn to it and have done spells and rituals. The past 5 or 6 years, I have become interested in Druidry and Celtic Paganism. I am now interested in Norse Paganism but I know some groups are pretty racist and so I want to stay far from those. I keep trying to find a path that I can call my own. At this point, I just want to call myself an Animist and Pagan. I believe everything has a soul and should be respected and I believe that deity comes in many different forms. The other labels just make my head spin because there is so much misinformation or falsely labeled UPG as historical fact. It would be cool to have someone or a group of people to discuss, read together, be a small and safe community for each other.

I am still very much in the beginning steps of reading about Celtic and Norse Paganism and would love to talk to people about what I have been reading.

I have discord and can talk here too. Feel free to message me or comment!

Have a good day!

I am looking for genuine friendship. I want to form a deep bond and trust with someone. I'm looking for true friends with similar values and ways of seeing life. I don't mind long distance at all. I put everything I'm looking for in a friend to bullet points down below. After that I share more about myself so you get an idea of who I am. Comment down below if you connect with my post :)

- Emotionally and mentally mature. Often feels like she's surrounded by people less aware and mature. She wishes she'd meet someone on the same wave length. She's tired of immature, irresponsible and careless behavior and mindsets. She wants to meet someone safe, truly mature and easy to be around.

- Has done the work and actively reflects on herself.

- Spiritual, witchy, into manifestation, tarot, paganism, shamanism, anything like that. I'm very spiritual and I want a friend I can talk about that with.

- Speaks native level English or Finnish. I can't build a deep bond with someone who struggles with communication because of a language barrier. I wanna be able to communicate freely without simplifying my language.

- Doesn't smoke or get drunk. I prefer friends who don't use substances of any kind at all. But if you occasionally drink and it's just one glass or so I'm fine with that.

- Has a classy and respectful way of speaking. I don't wanna hang around someone who uses disrespectful and unconscious language.

- supports lgbt and other human rights

- Open to constructive criticism, even if she doesn't like hearing it. Takes responsibility for her mistakes and wants to be an active participant in solving a conflict.

- Strong self-esteem and sense of self.

- Considerate of other people's feelings and boundaries.

- Highly empathetic, warm and caring.

- Has self-love and her own boundaries she communicates clearly.

- Non-judgemental and open minded. Doesn't have those "people should be this, this, and this by this age" types of beliefs. Isn't impressed by people's status or achievements but by their character. Doesn't believe in following the norm blindly.

- Positive, balanced outlook on life. Someone who acknowledges the bad but focuses on the good. Someone who thinks beyond the boundaries of what we've been told is possible. Daring and bold that way.

- Someone who wants to spend her life enjoying it, honoring her own heart's desires and spending time with her loved ones.

- Wants us to be two separate individuals who enjoy each other's company. I don't wanna bond over venting or over constant negativity.

- Takes things slow. Not necessarily in how frequent the conversation is but rather how fast the connection progresses

- Wants a genuine close friend she can be emotionally vulnerable with and one she trusts deeply. She doesn't mind long distance, what matters to her is the depth and strength of the bond

Here's more about myself as well:

So, I'm a 28 year old masculine presenting woman. I live in nature and love it that way. I'm currently considering what I want to study in university and crafting my own unique path in life. I'm in no rush and I'm focused on my own fulfillment and peace.

At first glance I seem quite in my own bubble, calm or solemn. Because of that I'm often described as intimidating. But I'm actually very warm and empathetic. I just don't jump for joy or joke around with people when I first meet them, I don't work that way. I don't usually start conversations. But if someone talks to me I'm open to talking. I'm direct and blunt in the way I speak. I can be guarded to a degree because I don't trust people easily. But once I like and trust someone I show my more sensitive and warm side. I'm very devoted and loyal when I form a genuine bond with someone. I really value my different relationships.

I don't like cities and you'll never find me in a bar or a loud club. I enjoy staying at home, being creative, reading, I got a big thirst for knowledge and a big passion for spirituality.

When I wanna do something fun it can be having tea and some baked goods/snacks while watching a movie together, playing board games. We can go out to some fun event. For example I really enjoy Halloween or Christmas events.

So, if you saw my post and went like wow I think this person is similar to me and I'd really love to chat, comment and send me a message. I'd love to get to know you :)

Important: Don't bother contacting me if you're a scammer; I have experience with that and you'll only be wasting your time.

Hi! My name is Andrea, I’m 18 years old and I’m from Spain. I’m not looking for anything romantic, just friendships with girls 😊

I’m pretty shy at first and it can take me a bit to open up, but once I’m comfortable I talk more. I’d say I’m sweet, empathetic, and a calm person overall. I like listening to people, talking about random things, and just having someone to share everyday stuff with, even if it’s simple things.

I’m about to start studying psychology because I’m really interested in how people think, feel, and behave. I also like philosophy, especially when it comes to discussing different perspectives and ideas.

I’m more of a homebody. I like staying in, using my phone, watching things, or playing games. I don’t go out much, but I’m not against it if I trust the person. I just prefer to get to know someone well first.

When it comes to beliefs, I’m polytheistic and believe in gods from different religions. It’s something that matters to me, but I don’t expect others to believe the same. Although I would love to meet people with beliefs similar to mine.

I’m mainly looking for online friends, since that’s what I’m most comfortable with, but I’d like it to eventually become in-person friendships if things go well.

I’d like to find friends I can talk to regularly, send messages to, and build a real connection with over time. We don’t have to talk 24/7, but I do value consistency and mutual effort.

Some things I like:

Books ▸ Percy Jackson, Harry Potter, To Die Beautiful, The Book Thief, The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo.

Movies ▸ Harry Potter, The Princess Diaries, The Chronicles of Narnia.

Shows ▸ Percy Jackson, Gilmore Girls, Heartstopper, Anne of Green Gables (I also like anime).

Games ▸ Mario Kart, Minecraft and Valorant.

Music ▸ Taylor Swift, Sabrina Carpenter, Hatsune Miku, Aitana.

I’m looking for female friends only, up to 26 years old.

If we have things in common or you just feel like talking, feel free to message me 🙂

Hi,  I am a 45-year-old pagan man who lives in Washington State. I have a steady job, and feel like I have my life together enough to meet my partner in crime. I am pretty easygoing, loves to laugh and enjoy living life to the fullest. I’m tall, slender, in shape, currently have a short beard and glasses. I consider myself a Celtic Pagan for the most part, with some eclectic tendencies. I also practice a little hedge witchcraft from time to time.  

During this time of year, I like to be outside. Walking, hiking, outdoor concerts, or just exploring new places, I also like indoor activities like movies, board games, listening to records, or wandering through an old book store.

 If you live nearby that would be great to meet but I’m also open to something at least initially is primarily online.

If you are someone who enjoys a guy with a calm, steady vibe and likes a mix of outdoor plans and chill downtime, I would love to hear from you.

Hello I am Elizabeth I am looking for any friends that would like to grow spiritually, and learn from each other. I am into all paths right now for me I am in Norse, Greek, infernal and alien path. They've came to me in dreams but I wanted to make friends that are open minded and aren't rude or mean. Being patient since I do have disabilities from shaken baby syndrome, learning disability and auditory processing disorder, so it could take me a few minutes to catch onto things and if interested just comment on the post.

33F | Montana | Pagan

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Independent pagan looking to connect with like-minded people for friendship, community, and something more if it develops naturally. I enjoy tarot, crafting, learning the lyre, celebrating the seasons, and meaningful conversations about spirituality and life. Always happy to meet fellow pagans and hear about your path.

Merry meet,

I have been following a Pagan spiritual path for the last 15 years and it has been one of the most rewarding experiences of my life.

Put simply for the sake of this post (and vaguely), I am a believer in all of the pantheons of Gods as well as the God of the Christian faiths, but my personal chosen path is one of Hellenic Paganism.

My patron Gods/Goddesses are Persephone, Hecate, and Hades.

I would love to meet likeminded Pagans to share a connection with. I’ll leave the type of connection open-ended at this point since I believe that what is meant to be will inevitably happen regardless of what I intend being as the Fates weave the tapestry not I.

Blessed be!
💙🖤💙

Hello everyone! I am hoping to make some pagan friends close to my age! I am open to making friends of any gender. For the Americans, I live in Illinois! So if you are close, maybe we can meet up. Long distance friendship is welcome too 😊

I consider myself to be an Anglo-Saxon pagan, but I have prayed to the Greek goddesses Hestia and Aphrodite on and off for 2ish years as well. I would not say I am devoted to a god, but I do pray to Thunor almost daily for protection. Thunor and Hestia are the ones I pray to the most. I'd love to meet people who practice other types of Germanic paganism, but any pagans are welcome!

I am currently getting my bachelor's in history, my concentration is European history. I want to work in museums one day as a curator. In my free time I like to read and play video games. I am currently obsessed with Tomodachi Life. I have 2 cats that I will happily share pictures of! Feel free fo ask me anything 🫶🏻

Hi there! Searching for female pagan/witch friends locally to practice with. I’ve felt very disconnected from my practice and would really enjoy a new friend or 2 to practice with and grow with spiritually. I enjoy tarot, crystals, divination and working with herbs. Other interests are horror movies, tattoos, heavy metal and my dogs 🖤 please feel free to DM me!

Hi there! My name is Annie.

Right now, I'm going back to school to get my masters in social work. I ideally want to specialize in mood disorders and Substance Abuse. I currently work as a Behavioral Health Technician at a substance abuse clinic, and I LOVE it. I have two cats who are the only children I will ever need, and their names are Nooks and Noodle. (Can you tell I like alliteration? 😅)

Outside of work I like to swim, read, collect vinyl, go to however many concerts can fit into my schedule, and shoot film photography. I grew up around art and a perfect day for me is exploring an art museum followed by some Thai food. I have quite a few tattoos and want plenty more.

My music taste and style would lean more towards the punk/metalcore/pop-punk scene, and I'm always down to see a show. If you're into bands like Bad Omens, WITCHZ, President, Sleep Token, Blink-182, etc. Let's be friends :3

As far as politics and religion go, I identify as left leaning politically and am a practicing hellenic pagan. I also am Bisexual, so the LGBTQA+ community is very important to me.

If any of this sparks your interest please feel free to send me a message.

Happy to add on discord or Whatsapp.

Looking forward to chatting!

Hello~
I’ve lived in Japan the last decade, originally I’m from the US.

I’m an animist earth-worshipper and mostly solo practitioner. I’m into song circles, seasonal rituals, and journeying. If anyone else lives in Japan and would like to make a pagan friend, please reach out.

On the more sensual side, I’m curious if anyone is local who is also open to having a lover or someone with whom to practice sacred sexuality. I’m interested in sex as an offering to and embodiment of the holy. I’m bi, so it need not be specifically god-and-goddess worshipping types of rites, but I am into that kind of thing.

I’d say I’m very much a Mother Earth type. Long brown hair to my butt, European descent, round and ample everywhere, natural and grounded. I’m quite into fiber arts and love tending my big garden. I fit best with other leftists, generally.

Hi, I'm an Italian guy who's searching for someone special, either as a love interest or just as a good friend.

I really like going to the cinema, I watch anime and read mangas, I go to the gym and I also started doing yoga, I play videogames, mostly from Nintendo and Pokémon in particular, I also like studying languages and I'm a norse pagan.

I'm a bit shy, but I would say that I'm a good listener, if you ask me about my interests and hobbies I'll probably yap a lot.

It'd be nice to meet someone near me so that we can be partners/friends irl but I'm also open to something online.

I also don't look for partners/friends over 30 as to not have too big of an age gap.

I'm happy to answer any questions you may have.

Hello there 👋

I’m a bit of an introverted person who’s realized lately how hard it’s been to make real connections.

I’m looking for someone older than me to connect and make a friendship and letting it flow, someone to talk with, share random thoughts, laugh a bit, and build over time. No pressure, no expectations.

A little about me:

I enjoy anything that lets my brain slow down.

I’m also into games (Board, Video) when I have time, music, movies, and deep conversations.

I’m emotionally thoughtful and value honesty, empathy, and humor.

I tend to be more of a listener, but can be known to vent a bit too haha.

I am a single dad, so some evenings can be busy with dad life. That said, I really miss having someone to connect with, someone outside of daily responsibilities.

I’m introverted and don’t go out much, which makes meeting people the “normal” way pretty tough. If you’re similar, you’ll probably understand lol.

If you’re looking for low-pressure, thoughtful conversations, or just someone to talk to, feel free to reach out. Tell me a little about you or what you enjoy doing.

Thanks for reading and take care!  :)

Hey everyone. I’m a 35 year old guy from North Texas looking to meet people and see where things go. I’m open to friendship, getting to know someone naturally, and if there is chemistry and a real connection, potentially something more. I’d prefer someone nearby since spending time together in person matters to me, but I’m open to long distance if the connection is strong enough.

A little about me. I work in intelligence and risk analysis and tend to be more of an introverted, thoughtful person. I’m into history, mythology, gaming, reading, writing, gardening, and spending time outdoors. I’m also working on writing a fantasy novel, which has become a pretty big creative outlet for me.

Spiritually I lean toward Norse paganism and keep an altar to the gods. I value honesty, loyalty, kindness, and people who are genuine. I enjoy deeper conversations and tend to connect best with people who can appreciate both quiet nights and occasional adventures.

Physically, I’m currently working on improving myself and getting healthier. I’ve already made good progress and plan to keep going. I believe growth matters, whether spiritually, mentally, or physically.

If any of that sounds interesting, feel free to send me a message and introduce yourself.

hi! im sophie, im 23, from hertfordshire england.

I am an eclectic pagan and witch predomenantly worshipping Apollo, Hermes, Aphrodite and Hekate

I would love to have a community of fellow pagans to talk to about my practice and general life events.

I am also now making a digital grimoire on notion so any ideas on spreads etc. would be sooo appreciated !! I have just decided I need to start it again from scratch so i will be doing that soon

I love learning, i am a creative person (music and crafts!).I am a university student studying history and i am proudly neurodivergent (AuDHD). My general interests range a lot - adhd at its finest. I love crochet, diy , cozy games, music and musical theatre!!

This post is a bit chaotic - i am just trying to get all the key points down. feel free to ask me any questions!

I am looking for a romantic partner as well as friends and community!

Blessed be brothers, sisters, and everyone in between!
I am a pagan young lady (mostly follows the Norse path, but has researched other pantheons in some capacity) out in the Pacific Northwest looking for some connections and hopefully some love in my life. My hobbies do include educating myself on practices and beliefs, but I’m also a music lover (listening to it and writing it) and reader (when I can find time and sit still to do so)

Hope to hear from you all :)

Hi! I'm a bisexual trans man in Manitoba looking for friends (and perhaps love) anywhere. I like horror, videogames, sci-fi, metal, writing, arts, and crafts. New friends would preferably be between 20 and 35 but I'm down for older if you think we'll really vibe. Would be able to communicate through discord or insta.

I have to write 300 characters huh. Ummmm. I'm dedicated to Manannán Mac Lir and hope to one day become a priest of him. I also worship Brighid.

I'm down to be friends with pagans/witches of all stripes and if we vibe really well I might invite you to the coven I'm part of.

Oh I only speak English so thats important. I'm also in CST so if I get back to you late its because of that and not because I'm lazy.

Good humor, kindness, and curiosity are really important to me.